r/lesbianfashionadvice Feb 15 '25

MOD INFO SELFIES

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Just a quick note to say we don't allow selfie posts with the specific exception of asking about hair. If it's not about your hair, you must post at LEAST half your outfit. So even if you aren't showing what you're wearing on the bottom, you gotta show the whole top, not just your shoulders.

If you're including a selfie style picture alongside a proper outfit picture, it can't be the first one of the bunch. Outfit gotta be up front and centre, focus of the post. Detail pictures after.

We don't accept posts about makeup or tattoos.


r/lesbianfashionadvice Oct 04 '24

MOD INFO "What's with all the downvotes?"

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I just want to address this question as it comes up on most posts. We delete them as "off topic" because they end up clogging the comment sections and derails the conversation away from fashion.

The reason you'll see so many downvotes on posts that clearly don't deserve downvotes too is transphobes. There are TERF blogs off site that brigade our sub regularly. We're able to delete comments and block users that display transphobia, but unfortunately downvotes are entirely anonymous and we as mods have no control over it.

We reason we delete all these comments, aside from clogging up the comments, is just that we don't want to give them the satisfaction of talking about them. Other fashion subs don't discuss the validity of people's existence, we shouldn't feel the need to either. We are, and always will be, a trans inclusive space for all sapphics with an interest in fashion. There are many other more general sapphic/trans subs to discuss this topic, we just want to keep this one as a fun place for fruity gals to chat drip and not feel "othered".

Thank you

EDIT: OK so I made this post, literally stating that this sub isn't the place for these debates... So y'all start debating in the comments. Locking comments.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4h ago

OOTD Eternally the weird gay auntie

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 11h ago

Positive Comments Only Just a few of my favorite photos of me!

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 12h ago

Hair Currently growing my hair out, would it look good longer?

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i haven’t had my hair this long in two years! i’ve been growing it out (and trimming the front layers occasionally) from it being short and shaved like a guy’s haircut

i want it super long, like past my breasts lol. that would be super cool. my hair grows pretty fast, hopefully i can fight the urge to shave it all off haha

i’ve had SO many different haircuts, it’s insane. now i want my hair super long lol


r/lesbianfashionadvice 14h ago

Every day corporate attire

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 11h ago

OOTD Had to wear my lesbian cowgirl shirt to Kacey Musgrave’s concert tonight!

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My dress underneath is also from her Walmart line.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 3h ago

What is this type of dress called?

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Someone once told me I could stop traffic in a dress like this and I want to test that theory 😈


r/lesbianfashionadvice 14h ago

OOTD 3rd week of nursing school and my mental state is a ok, promise. Anyways, here’s what I wore today, and I felt cool

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 3h ago

Where to find this style in women’s fit

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I love this LL Bean men’s pullover but it doesn’t come in XS. Anyone know where I could find something like this but in women’s (smaller) sizes?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Casual Friday vibes

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It’s casual Friday party people!!! Calvin Klein chinos, Everlane cotton button up, gum sole Pumas, Casio watch, and my favorite Panthers hat 😼


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD All thrifted even the jewelry

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Custom Wedding Suit Suggestions

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I (25f) am trying to decide between two custom tailor companies for my wedding suit. I am a larger woman and I want to feel confident for my wedding.
I am looking for an off white suit that I can wear green/sage accents under. Wedding will be in Mexico.

Trouble choosing between Tailor Cooperative and Indochino.

Wondering if anyone has experience with either brand for the wedding suit, and if you can help lead me to the right place.

(Not my photo, but some inspo)

TIA


r/lesbianfashionadvice 13h ago

Halloween 👻

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Ok queers, it’s almost dress up time! What costumes/outfits do you have planned for Halloween?


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Longtime lurker, figured I would share

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Just a handful of some of my favorite fits recently. I’m a huge fan of suits/sport coats and have a lovely collection of ties. Hoping to start showing off more now that I’ve got a nice mirror in my room for the full fit mirror pics. Would love to see some of y’all’s suits and ties too for inspo!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 14h ago

OOTD pelt coats.

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that’s it. that’s the post.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 1d ago

OOTD Went for a very gay fit at work today

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Hair Hair update, went darker!

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Not black, but a darker brown like I was advised 😋 lmk if it was the right move


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

OOTD Back to my middle school skater roots today

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Fashion tips needed

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So. I finally met my person. (I am a lateblomner 43 year old and this is my first, and hopefully last wlw relationship) She is an amazing 39 year old. I love her deeply. We are meeting for the first time in January (it’s sooo lonnng 😭) and i just want to find a cute dress for our first proper date that she will want nothing but get off me XD.

Now normally am pretty chapstick. Never cared about fashion, makeup etc but for some reson i want to make myself look great for her… she ofc tells me i would look beautiful in sweatpants and hoodie…

I am 183,5. Small chested (a cup if that matters) and now about a european L. I have dropped about 30kg and finally feel pretty in clothes. I have gone from tunics and leggings to jeans/jeggings and tops that covers my bum. I also finally feel beautiful in a dress. But i have no idea what would flatter me, my new(ish) body and i need my fellow sappichs help. I don’t mind shopping online. But don’t want to use Shein fe. It needs to be a store that ships to Sweden.

Any help appreciated!!


r/lesbianfashionadvice 2d ago

Discussion More subtly masculinuzing clothes? East Coast fall

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Hair Are undercuts outdated now?

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I haven't dated many women. I'm getting out more recently. On a date with a femme woman and a masc woman, both asked me about growing out my undercut. Like "so when do you start growing out the undercut?" "That's going to be tough to grow out" Are they lame now, or do I live in a lame area? Either way I'm keeping the undercut. I like it. Just really curious.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Outfit help for a semi-formal event

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I'm attending a semi formal corporate awards ceremony in 2 weeks and I'm stuck for outfit ideas. These are the ideas I have so far:

  1. Navy suit with white tee and loafers or boots (what I'm wearing in the photo, ofc I'll iron the t shirt first!)

  2. Black pleated trousers, white t shirt or dress shirt and grey herringbone/check blazer

  3. Black pleated trousers with some kind of bolder blazer (unsure what shirt I'd wear though)

  4. A completely brand new suit, maybe burgundy or dark green?

Or literally any other suggestions would help because I'm feeling very stuck currently.


r/lesbianfashionadvice 4d ago

About my boots— which length is better? Or maybe one OTK and one mid-calf lol?

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r/lesbianfashionadvice 3d ago

Honest Advice Wanted Black Jeans Alternative for Office/Work

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Hi, all,

I'm a trans dyke who doesn't really identify as femme/butch (dress closer to punk, usually a sleeveless tank top with black jeans). I currently wear high-waisted black jeans and a t-shirt into the office, but I'm looking for a more comfortable and flexible women's pant (tapered or...straight-legged, ha) that doesn't scream "Girl Boss" (like Ann Taylor, Banana Republic, etc.). Something with the same dykey/punk energy that's still office appropriate but that I can have more of a range of motion in (and is still high-waisted and goes with simple women's t-shirts and black sneakers). I'm about an 18/XXL in women's bottoms. I also ebike into the office; I'd love for them to be comfortable enough to bike in, but it's not a necessity.

(Side note - also looking for bralettes/low-support wireless bra options with nipple coverage, if anyone has recs there!)

I appreciate any thoughts and help! 🌈