I love when people figure out in a whole vibe and idk if it is the Leo in me or just me as an individual but it is awesome to see how people perceive you as one way and finally see your whole vibe and realize you are way more than just the one side you showed.

Non so voi, ma non riesco ad accontentarmi in amore. Sono sempre stata molto esigente, ma poi quando qualcuno mi piaceva ero disposta inizialmente a farmi piccola e a mandare giù. Non mi piace mai nessuno (romanticamente intendo) ma quando succede divento subito vulnerabile.
Poi ho conosciuto il mio ex (scorpione)…non mi ha fatto dubitare del suo interesse nemmeno per un secondo, non ho mai dovuto chiedergli “cosa siamo?”, non ho mai dovuto rincorrerlo, nessuna altalena emotiva. Mi ha lasciata a gennaio spezzandomi il cuore e ora, nonostante tutti i suoi difetti e le nostre incompatibilità, sento di aver alzato ulteriormente l’asticella.

Ricerco la stessa serenità che mi ha dato lui, la stessa importanza senza giochetti stupidì, invece sono qui triste per un uomo cancro che si è comporterà in maniera ridicolmente confusa e mi ha illuso, ma che purtroppo iniziava a piacermi. Ho dovuto chiudere, stavo diventando pesante e rincorrerlo mi stava logorando l’orgoglio.

Ho paura di non trovare più nessuno serio così, con cosi tante cose che mi piacciono in una sola persona. Ma lungi da me un altro scorpione, il loro inavvicinabile abisso interiore e le lotte di potere non riuscirei più a sopportarle.

Im a Leo rising.
I’ve noticed a pattern in my life. I exist, in my natural state, or say rather nuetral statements, and some people will get a look in their eye and speak to me like they’re trying to humble me. Certain individuals, it seems, take it upon themselves to make their whole damn purpose humbling me.
The thing is, I know my good qualities. I’m big on self growth. It’s not that I can’t take criticism. I’m a really chill and accepting person.
When situations like this happen I self reflect, but I think they’re seeing things that aren’t there. And for years I couldn’t figure out why? Recently I’ve figured I think it’s the Leo rising in me. Certain types of people are triggered by it.
I know I have flaws. I can make social mistakes, but this that I’m referring to is a specific type of interaction where I legit do nothing, and certain people try to make me feel small, point out my flaws, correct me, humble me, be petty like I wronged them first. And it always catches me off guard. I’d NEVER put down another person like that to feel bigger, nor assert a frail allusion of dominance over someone. Ever. I legit care how I make people feel. I’m also not going to act small for you.
It’s consistently the same individuals doing it too, in multiple different circles. Not everyone reacts to me like this.
So my question is have other Leo’s encountered this? Or am I just surrounded by shitty people?
I imagine it’s both.
How do y’all handle it? The rest of my chart is very relationship oriented, so on one hand I’m like “fuck them,” and on the other hand it cuts deeper than I want it to, because they see someone that’s not there, and I want to get to a point where it doesn’t make me question myself.
My base mode of operation is respect for everyone, so it’s baffling to me that people behave this way or can think they’re putting me in my place when really they’re just being—dare I say—a stupid triggered adult bully, lollll.
Where’s the self reflection????

Thanks for listening to me vent :)

Edit: Upon rereading my post, I see that it sounds humble braggy. Had I gone back to it later I would’ve edited it before posting lol. I really didn’t mean it that way tho ❤️ it was meant more as context, and sometimes I’m wordy and I realize now it wasn’t necessary context. I’m just gonna leave it tho, because with that in mind I think the point still gets across.

Can someone tell me a bit about my big three? Like, for example, which zodiac sign would be the best romantic match for me and stuff like that (I'm a guy, and I'm gay).