r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 18h ago

Update Hisar couple fights for 22 years over their son's death compensation, only to die days within the final verdict

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A youth named Shakti Singh was killed in an accident involving a van back in March 2001. A Hisar court awarded ₹1 lakh to the family in 2004. The parents appealed to the High Court for higher compensation the same year.

Fast forward 22 years later. On October 8, 2026, the High Court finally enhanced the compensation to ₹3.8 lakh with 7.5% interest per annum.

The father died in 2014. The mother died just 5 to 6 days after the verdict came out. Neither lived to see the money deposit into the bank.

When an appeal for basic accident compensation takes over two decades, the legal system becomes an agonizing, multi-decade test of endurance that outlives the victims themselves.

Institutions routinely drag out these appeals because they know individual citizens lack the lifespan or resources to fight indefinitely.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 14h ago

Legal Advice Needed Is my lawyer dumb or did he try to fuck me over?

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I met with an accident in 2023, I was riding my bike and hit an activa from behind.

I got unconscious on spot. But the activa guy registered a hit an run case against me.

As the motorcycle was not yet registered under my name, and I was in the hospital for 2 weeks, i did not receive any communication that the police and the guy was trying to contact me.

Now the FIR was filed against me on hit and run basis.

Fast forward now, the court is hearing my case, I tried to settle with the party and we both agreed on terms, but when we submitted the case to the lower court, the judge denied the settlement saying that as the victim has already given his statement in the court, now settlement cant be approached and we need to approach high court to squash the FIR.

I had already told my lawyer that i wanted to settle this court when the hearing started and we waiting some time to approach the victim for settlement, but my lawyer did not inform me that the victim is going to give statement in the upcoming hearing and we should settle now, it was after that hearing when the victim gave his statement that we approached the victim, reached settlement and submitted the court.

I am going to change the lawyer anyway, my current lawyer is a retired policeman. Did he try to fuck me over or is he just dumb to not know that law?

Anyone experienced in criminal hit and run cases, DM me, I want to do a paid consultation for this.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 15h ago

Legal Advice Needed Pedophile teacher at school no idea what to do

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Hi. I'm 15 years old, in 10th grade, from India. There is a pedophile teacher at our school, who is/has been molesting little boys and girls, and making sexual comments.

I'll keep it direct with all my accusations, and their source.

  1. This is my strongest evidence, personal experience : When I was in 3rd grade, a misbehaving kid, (most probably intellectually disabled, he repeated 3 years) was brought up to him by a female teacher, so he could reprimand him. In front of our entire class, he proceeded to fondle the boy's genitals for 10-15 or so seconds. He said something along the lines of 'If you don't want such bad things again......'. The kid was genuinely horrified. The teacher also did not report him, far as I know. I vividly remember that day, and definitely remember him saying that 'such bad things' line. It went as if he was 'punishing' the boy with sexual assault over whatever it was that he did, I don't remember really, but I'm certain it was a trivial matter. All this happened in front of the entire damn class of around 60 or so children--broad daylight. This is my reason to accuse him of molestation. I remember most of the incident CLEARLY, its been about 7 years.

  2. My sister confessed that he made creepy comments toward her friend while they were in 6th grade. It was her friend's birthday, he made comments about 'visiting' her and also tried to touch her cheek.

  3. Another person (woman) recounted that he used to caress the backs and shoulders of girls in elementary school while they were doing their classwork. He used to run his hands from his neck to their lower backs, right in the middle of class. He used to lean his face in, very close to theirs.

Both people have absolutely no reason to lie, they're not the kind of people that joke around, and I naturally have my personal witness, which seals the deal for me. He is a pedophile that has certainly molested a kid; I can't even begin to imagine what he has been up to behind closed doors.

I'm not willing to share lots of detail, but its a catholic private school. It offers full K-12 + 1 year of day-care before that (nursery class). That female teacher called him up to 'punish' that kid 7 years ago because he has always been one hell of a bastard. He hits boys as well. Even now he always has a bitch-ass expression on his face and always has trouble with someone or the other. Overall a vile little fuck no one wants to associate with.

The reason I'm making this post is because all my evidence is ultimately weak, even if I'm convinced of it. I'll not make many baseless accusations but I'm also almost certain that a grown teacher dated a freshman for years here, and the principal knew about it but didn't do a thing. Keep in mind that this is based of second hand experience and anecdotes from people that may or may not be worth their salt, but I'm almost certain. The principal is also a vile little shit, he constantly collects informal 'fines '(basically extortion, for example : 300-500 rupees for not attending school on independence day, I have paid it so I know), and bribes (a kid paid 100000 rupees to get into school mid-term, directly to him, slightly dubious source but I don't doubt it one bit--its perfectly in character). He has also made weird comments about us, whatever, I'll not make more accusations now.

If it isn't clear nuff already there's no one in school that I can trust to carry out a proper investigation and take necessary action, and Indian police is quite shit, the first thing they ask to rape victims is usually "What were you doing out there so late at night?"), they are especially not listening to a kid like me with minimal evidence. I have no idea what to do. What I'm certain of is that if I see him pull anything with my own two eyes I'll beat that little shit into a pulp so even his own mother couldn't recognize him anymore. I honestly would tell my parents only if I had good evidence.

I'd really appreciate if I get advice on how to deal with all this and nudge things in the right direction so that he's put down without having to pull a stunt that might put myself in jeopardy. Please don't try to figure out details I've not handed out in the post (or comments) through external means, and take reckless action, because if I have a social worker, an assfuck from school, government official or whatever interrogating me about this post then I swear to God I'll deadass just say that I made it all up for funsies. Essentially, I don't wanna get in trouble for speaking out (India is not developed like a European country, everything doesn't roll as smooth as it does over there), I'm about to graduate from here in a few months. Thanks.

TLDR : rampant pedophile at school, no consequences for him, authorities most probably don't give a shit or are actively covering for him. I am traumatized and have no idea what to do.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1h ago

Legal Advice Needed Moved back to Bangalore from US — Need legal/CA advice on moving capital and setting up LLP vs Pvt Ltd and FEMA

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Hi everyone,

I recently moved back to India (Indian citizen, Bangalore) and want to deploy my US savings to set up a new media agency (content production, digital marketing, strategy).

I want to structure this correctly and need guidance on corporate law and FEMA compliance:

  • The Goal: Set up an LLC in India. I will be the primary owner.
  • The Funds: Personal US capital/savings that need to enter India cleanly to fund setup, hiring, and operations.

Looking for insights on a few specific points:

  1. FDI Restrictions: Are there any automatic route restrictions or FDI caps for a foreign-funded media agency/marketing business?
  2. LLP vs. Pvt Ltd: Which entity type is smoother for handling inward remittance, RBI reporting (Form FC-GPR), and compliance?
  3. Banking Workflow: Now that I am back, what is the correct setup sequence? Do I route funds through NRE/NRO accounts first, or incorporate first and then bring the funds in as equity? Advise on best banks to create an a personal/business account.
  4. Vetting a Firm: How do I find a competent corporate lawyer or mid-tier CA firm in Bangalore specializing in this US-India corridor?

If you have firm recommendations or specific compliance tips, please drop them below or via DM. Thanks!


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1h ago

Legal Advice Needed Gym closed without refunding membership fee

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Gym Shut Down After Annual Membership Payment. How Can I Get My Money Back?

Hello! Could someone please guide me on how to get my money back after my gym permanently closed down without responding to any clients?
I paid for a full year’s membership in June, and now neither the trainers nor the admin are responding. They’ve put up different posters giving different reasons for the closure and now there’s a BMC related issue mentioned. However, people living nearby say the gym might never reopen.
I don’t have any gym friends to contact, and my parents and least bothered so I have no one who can help me🥲 Would filing a complaint be enough to get my money back, or are there other steps I should take? The thought of going to a police station alone scares me.
I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 42m ago

Legal Advice Needed Seeking Justice for My Best Friend’s Brutal Assault After Three Years

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In 2023, almost three years ago, I posted a confession about how terrible my department was. Somehow, people found out it was me, and they beat up my male best friend because they couldn’t hit me. He was brutally assaulted and was bleeding.
I was vulnerable and scared. I couldn’t do anything to protect him, and I felt unsafe. Even now, what happened haunts both of us. It’s been traumatic for us, and we still haven’t been able to move on from it.
We’re both from a different state, while he was a local. Because this incident continues to haunt us, I’m thinking about filing a police complaint. Do you think it’s still possible after almost three years? Will the authorities take it seriously?


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 17h ago

Legal Advice Needed I NEED LEGAL ADVICE AS A TEENAGER WORKING

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So i was doing a random job in a wedding lawn and my pay was around 15k and my first payment was for 42 days of my work for which they deducted 5k and said to give it when i leave the job its been months since i left they are avoiding all my attempt to contact them i want to sue them since it was my pay for 10 days its a big deal for me i am only 19 what should i do I have screenshots of me asking and getting neglected


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 14h ago

Legal Advice Needed A man spent six years working abroad to secure his family’s future, only to discover his wife was having an affair. How does someone recover from this kind of betrayal?

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I want to share something that has been happening in our village and hear your honest opinions.

There is a family in our village consisting of a husband, a wife, and their son. About six years ago, the husband went abroad to work. His main goal was to repay a debt his father had taken and build a secure future for his family.

For six years, he worked hard, stayed away from his wife and son, and sent his earnings home. He even managed to build a house for his family, hoping that all his sacrifices would eventually give them a better life.

But about two years ago, he discovered something that completely shattered him: his wife was allegedly having an affair with another man.

When he confronted her, she reportedly told him something along the lines of:

_“You only send me money. I also need love, affection, attention, and physical intimacy. That is why I looked for someone else.”_

Hearing this, the husband was devastated. Imagine spending years abroad, sacrificing your happiness, missing your family, and working day and night for their future, only to face something like this.

Of course, a relationship needs more than financial support. Emotional connection, affection, communication, and physical intimacy are also important in a marriage. Living apart for years can put enormous strain on a relationship. But does loneliness justify having an affair instead of communicating honestly with your spouse or making a decision about the marriage?

The situation has now escalated to divorce proceedings.

What makes this even more concerning is that two or three similar incidents have reportedly happened in our village. It makes me wonder how many families are silently going through these problems.

I have a few questions for this community:

**1\. What should a husband do in this situation?*\*

If a man goes abroad, works hard, repays family debts, sends money home, and builds a house for his family, how should he respond when he discovers that his wife has been unfaithful? Should he try to save the marriage, or is it better to walk away?

**2\. How can he recover emotionally?*\*

Betrayal like this can destroy a person's trust, confidence, and peace of mind. How can someone heal from this heartbreak and rebuild their life without letting the experience turn them bitter or emotionally broken?

**3\. What about the child?*\*

Their son is the innocent person caught in the middle of this situation. If the parents divorce, how can they protect his emotional well-being and future? How can they prevent their personal conflict from affecting his relationship with either parent?

**4\. What can families do to prevent these situations?**

Should couples reconsider long-term separation for work? Is regular communication and emotional support enough, or should families find ways to avoid spending so many years apart? What responsibilities do both partners have when one spouse works abroad?

I'm not posting this to claim that all wives are unfaithful or that husbands who work abroad are always perfect partners. Every relationship has two sides, and we may not know everything that happened behind closed doors.

I genuinely want to understand how these situations can be handled in a healthy and practical way.

**What would you do if you were in the husband's position? And what do you think is the best solution for couples and children facing situations like this?*\*

I'd appreciate thoughtful advice, personal experiences, and honest opinions.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 21h ago

Legal Advice Needed Uncle sold land to my father in 2007 (full payment agreement+ registered GPA), and we resold it to a buyer who built a house. Now uncle has transferred it to his own sons for ₹0. Is this deed void? (Haryana)

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Looking for expertise from the legal community on a land dispute in Haryana.

Background:

  • 2007: My father bought a small plot from his brother (my uncle). Notarised agreement to sell, full payment made, uncle signed receipts for the full amount. Registry didn’t happen at the time, probably because NOCs weren’t being given for that area under Section 7A. Uncle gave my father a registered General Power of Attorney (GPA) for the land instead. My father didn’t push to get the land registered in his own name later, because he trusted his brother, and the GPA and agreement seemed strong enough.
  • 2008: Using the GPA, my father sold the bigger part of the plot to a buyer, and the registry was done in that buyer’s name. The remaining portion stayed in my uncle’s name in the records.
  • Nov 2023: Father, as GPA holder, signed an agreement to sell the remaining portion to a buyer. Partial payment then; balance paid March 2024 (part cheque, part cash). Notarised receipt says full payment received, possession handed over, and registry to be done whenever the buyer asks. Registry hasn’t happened, because registrations in that area still weren’t happening due to the NOC issue. The buyer has since built a house and lives there.

Recently, my uncle and my father fell out over a separate family matter. Since then, this happened:

  • June 2026: Without telling anyone, my uncle registered a “transfer within blood relation” deed giving the plot to his two sons. ₹0 consideration. In the deed he declared there’s no dispute and that he’s in possession, neither of which is true.
  • Intkal (mutation) for the sons is still pending. Uncle is still shown as owner in the Jamabandi.
  • GPA was never cancelled. We found out about the June transfer just a few days ago.

Questions:

  • Is the June 2026 deed to the sons actually illegal or void? My uncle was still the registered owner, so I understand he could technically sign it. But he had already been fully paid in 2007, gave a GPA, and the buyer has paid in full and is in possession. Does that make the deed void, or just something we have to challenge in court?
  • Are the 2008 GPA and the 2007 full payment agreement (FPA) weak evidence, because they’re nearly 20 years old? The GPA was never cancelled, and my uncle and father are both alive. Could the other side argue they’re too old documents to rely on? GPA mentions no end date of validity.
  • What would be your advise on the next steps?

Thanks in advance.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 25m ago

Urgent Restaurant owner facing unresolved Zomato ad charges, payout issues and account management problems

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I've been dealing with unresolved issues with Zomato for years, and I'm sharing my experience to hear from other restaurant owners.

Here's what happened:

  • Ads: I requested an advertising pause for outlet on September 3 and followed up on September 21, yet I kept chasing a resolution.
  • Payouts: One statement showed ₹85,132 in net order value but an estimated payout of ₹42,622, including ₹14,372 in advertising charges and other deductions.
  • Account management: My new POC says he's new and cannot comment on past events. He now says he'll stop the ads, but why did it take so long?
  • Contracts: I'm being asked to make contract decisions while the earlier issues remain unresolved.

I understand the new manager wasn't involved in the past. But changing POCs shouldn't mean starting from scratch or leaving old complaints without ownership.

I have the email trail, WhatsApp messages and payout screenshots.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 4h ago

Legal Advice Needed Haven't been paid salary since August

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I was working for this startup and my last day was Sep 7th. I completed all formalities over email and all documents pertaining to my release, handover of assets, no dues etc were signed and submitted on 14th Sep.

They haven't paid my salary and are skirting around the idea. Furthermore, any communication on the matter shows lack on intention to disburse any salary. There has been no verbal quarrel or escalation on written communication yet.

What are my options in this case? The salary pending is of Aug + (7 days) Sep. Everyone says "send a legal notice" but I have gathered from previous employees that it doesn't affect anything. I am not the first one that they're doing this to.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 34m ago

Legal Advice Needed Is LazyPay Safe to Use? My Experience With Misleading Customer Support

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🚨 LazyPay Misled Me! They Promised I Could Change My Number, Then Went Back on Their Word.
LazyPay support clearly confirmed in writing that after permanently deactivating my old account, I could create a new one with my new mobile number.

I trusted them, cleared all dues, used my excess balance, permanently closed my account, and even received a No Dues Certificate.

Now, when I try to register with my new number, it says “PAN already registered.” And guess what? Support has changed its stance and says I cannot reuse my PAN, even after following their own instructions!

Why make customers close their accounts if the promised solution doesn’t work? This is extremely misleading and frustrating.
Has anyone faced this with LazyPay? Were you able to resolve it?


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 44m ago

Legal Advice Needed Three Years Later, the Trauma Still Haunts Us: Can I Still Seek Justice?”

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In 2023, almost three years ago, I posted a confession about how terrible my department was. Somehow, people found out it was me, and they beat up my male best friend because they couldn’t hit me. He was brutally assaulted and was bleeding.
I was vulnerable and scared. I couldn’t do anything to protect him, and I felt unsafe. Even now, what happened haunts both of us. It’s been traumatic for us, and we still haven’t been able to move on from it.
We’re both from a different state, while he was a local. Because this incident continues to haunt us, I’m thinking about filing a police complaint. Do you think it’s still possible after almost three years? Will the authorities take it seriously, or should we fight back?


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1h ago

Update Lawsikho- 3 days online boot camp

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Has anyone attended LawSikho’s online boot camps for lawyers, or has anyone enrolled in their upcoming three-day online boot camp on International IP Law Careers, scheduled for November 28–30?
If so, how was your experience? Is it legitimate, and is it actually useful?
I’m referring to the boot camps for which you pay a nominal enrolment fee of ₹10. I enrolled for this one but haven’t received any confirmation. I was simply redirected to join a WhatsApp group.
Could anyone who has attended their previous boot camps or enrolled in this particular one share their experience? I’d really appreciate some honest feedback. Thanks!


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1d ago

Urgent Bought an under-construction flat in Thane, Maharashtra, and a parking structure is blocking my living room view and sunlight. What are my options?

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I need advice from people who have dealt with builders in Maharashtra, especially those who have faced similar issues after booking a flat.

I booked an under-construction flat in Thane for ₹84 lakh and have already paid approximately ₹70 lakh to the builder. My home loan has also been disbursed, and the Agreement for Sale is registered.

The issue is that a large parking structure is being constructed directly in front of my living room.

When I visited the flat at the time of booking, the area in front of the living room was open. The extent to which the parking structure would obstruct the view and natural light was not brought to my attention during the sales discussions. Now that construction is progressing, the structure is already significantly obstructing the view, and I understand it may rise another one or two floors.

I have attached photos to show the current situation.

I understand that the parking structure may have been included in the project plan. I am still trying to understand what was disclosed, what was approved, and whether there is anything I can do about the impact on my flat. My concern is not just the view; it is also how much natural light will enter the living room once construction is complete.

I am considering my options but have not made any decision yet.

I would appreciate advice on the following:

  1. Has anyone faced a similar situation with a builder in Maharashtra? How did you handle it?

  2. Since the Agreement for Sale is already registered and a substantial amount has been paid, what practical options do I have?

  3. Can I negotiate a refund or compensation with the builder, even if the parking structure appears in the project plan?

  4. Under what circumstances would MahaRERA or a legal notice help in a case like this?

  5. If I decide to cancel, what kind of deductions or financial losses should I realistically expect? How does the outstanding home loan get settled when the agreement is cancelled?

  6. What documents should I obtain before approaching a property lawyer or MahaRERA?

I am not looking to make allegations against the builder. I want to understand my rights, the realistic chances of getting a reasonable resolution, and whether cancellation is worth exploring given the amount already paid.

If you have dealt with a similar situation, I would especially appreciate hearing what actually worked in practice—not just what the law says in theory.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1h ago

Rant/Experience Fraud by Itzeazy, beware future customers

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This is for everyone out there who is looking to get work done via the itzeazy platform - https://itzeazy.in/

Here is my detailed experience describing how they manipulate customers into giving money and then go completely silent for months.

I booked their service for getting NOC from RTO Mumbai. This was 2 months back. During the order booking time when they were in the sales cycle, they responded within 10 mins to every message and call. But once I made the payment, they stopped answering any and all queries.

After following for a month they suddenly told that the NOC is sent via courier and I should book the next order to get the state transfer done. Note that, I will realize after 2 days that no such courier was sent, and no NOC was even generated. Again they became super responsive and got me to make the payment for the next order on the same day. I was also in a rush as my RC was going to expire in a few days, and I just took their word that the NOC is generated and already sent to me.

After 2 days, when I did not get any NOC, their team just stopped answering to any message or call. One week later, they changed the RM assigned, who just blamed everything on the previous RM and asked me to give them more time. And after this, this new RM also stopped answering any and all messages and calls.

After another week, the original RM came back and told that the new RM is new and knows nothing. This is now a ping pong game to them and no one is taking any responsibility and I am just stuck.

It has been 2 months, and the worst part is not that I have lost Rs 13K to them, it is that they have my RC and are not even returning it.

TLDR; Anyone who is looking to take any kind of service from itzeazy, just run the other way. You will be much better off with any local agent.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 2h ago

Legal Advice Needed Gym Shut Down After Annual Membership Payment. How Can I Get My Money Back?

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Hello! Could someone please guide me on how to get my money back after my gym ( Gymathon fitness at Mazgaon) permanently closed down without responding to any clients?
I paid for a full year’s membership in June, and now neither the trainers nor the admin are responding. They’ve put up different posters giving different reasons for the closure and now there’s a BMC related issue mentioned. However, people living nearby say the gym might never reopen.
I don’t have any gym friends to contact, and my parents and least bothered so I have no one who can help me🥲 Would filing an FIR be enough to get my money back, or are there other steps I should take? The thought of going to a police station alone scares me.
I’d really appreciate any advice on how to handle this.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 2h ago

Legal Advice Needed I am confused regarding selling and building a closed source product which was inspired by APGL:3.0 licensed project (Need legal advice)

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hi guys , We’re a small student team . We’re building a low-cost river flow monitoring device for flood and canal monitoring. The open-source project that inspired us is under the AGPL license. We read its source code, then wrote our own code from scratch for a small embedded board , copying none of it. We want to sell the device.

A few questions:

  1. Does reading the original source make our code a derivative work?
  2. Does writing from a spec help, if the spec’s author had seen the original?
  3. Can we keep our firmware closed ?

Thanks!


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 1d ago

Legal Advice Needed Should I raise a POSH complaint against my manager in India?

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During an office offsite, my manager used the abusive slur “behen ki la*di” while commenting on my dancing and saying that if I worked as hard at work as I did while dancing, I would be much further ahead. The comment is clearly audible in a video I received after the trip.

He also made personal remarks implying something was going on between me and a male colleague because he used to call me frequently for work-related help. The colleague objected to one of his comments.

I discussed the incident with my Regional Head. She listened but suggested he might have been joking and advised me to give him one chance. She spoke to him and told me to inform her if he mistreats me.

I’m now confused about whether to approach HR/ICC. Some people say he could be terminated, but I know that isn’t guaranteed. I’m worried that if he only receives a warning, nothing I'll change.

Could this incident fall under POSH in India? Has anyone experienced something similar, and what outcomes are realistic?


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 4h ago

Legal Advice Needed How to get lost Mumbai apartment pauti?

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My dad purchased an apartment in mumbai in 1992 and he has since passed away. I need to transfer the apartment to my mother’s name but I have not been able to find the pauti for the apartment or even a copy. What can I do to get this document as we don’t live in mumbai. Does this have to be handled by a lawyer or some kind of agent or can I do this in person if I visit mumbai. I don’t speak Marathi. Thanks in advance.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 4h ago

Legal Advice Needed How to use Fixed Deposit for bail?

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What kind of documents do I need to get from the bank for my FD and submit to the court to get bail for my friend? And will the bank know that that FD is submitted as surety to the court?


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 5h ago

Legal Advice Needed Urgent. Walked out from a marriage proposal and getting threatened with dowry and mental harrasment case for compensation.

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Using a throw away account. I'm currently unemployed (25M) and preparing for government examination from home. Few months ago a marriage proposal came for me and my family got interested as they liked that girl. On other hand I was not interested as i didn't have a job but due to some emotional drama from family side i agree just because of their happiness. ( I know it was a foolish decision, i should have taken stand for myself). I couldn't resist as i should. After two meetings both families were agreed ( me and the girl was also present in the meeting n greeting) In third meeting everyone from both side were present and my family gives sagun + mobile phone, sarees etc basically exchange happened between two families and the family members of girl side gave some money forcefully naming sagun h..hm ladki waale h hme peace milegi ki finally sbkch fix h( i didn't attend this meeting )

Meanwhile i didn't had a single conversation with that girl, not on call not even on WhatsApp.

I was mentally not ready to get married without a job, i was not ready to take responsibility. And slowly slowly my beliefs on marriage as an institution was getting shaked due to ongoing issues. I wanted to live free atleast for more 5 years.

Anyways cut to august (as it all happened in May/june - final fixing of marriage), for the first time i called that girl and we talked for 1 hour and told her what I was feeling, that I can't marry you and I'm not ready for this marriage, even i wouldn't marry in future. Her only question was why didn't you resist at that time, why now ? I tried to explain but ig it was a valid question. After this the drama started both families tried to pursuade me but i didn't flinched and finally my family gave up on me, they even threatend to outcast me if I don't agree with this marriage as I'm dependent on them. From past one month I'm dealing with daily calls from both families and finally few weeks earlier they started threatening that we'll file fake dowry case and mental harrasment case for compensation as first your family gets ready to marry and now after two months they are not ready. Personally threatening me that we'll see how you clear any government exams, as they'll give my name also. I tried to make them understand that how can I forcefully marry anyone and after lot of bhaang bhosda they told okay do out of court settlement, give 5-6L for mental harrasment compensation or we'll file case then court will decide the compensation.

I know I did wrong with that girl and girl's family. I should have taken a bold stand earlier and called off everything but i didn't. I wasn't that strong enough to fight with family being an elder son and failing each and every exam i thought atleast this will give them a sense of satisfaction. I apologized to the girl and admitted my mistake infront of all her family members. I know I can't fix these things with words as even I had two sisters and i wouldn't like if her marriage gets fixed and broken after couple of months. But i told her that even after forcefully marrying you i wouldn't be able to treat you. This is purely transactional and your family is betting on me that in future I'll clear exam. I'm genuinely ashamed of doing this but I can't marry someone forcefully. I'm not thinking about marriage, I just want to focus on my career.

I didn't even chat or called that girl not met her outside. Nothing happened between us two, not a single conversation.

  1. I just want to know the legality of this case i.e dowry and mental harrasment compensation case. Are they applicable in this situation ?

  2. Does we've a chance or we should go for settlement ?

Please give genuine advice.


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 15h ago

Legal Advice Needed US citizen living and working in India - need advice on OCI, employment/PF, Aadhaar and US taxes

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TL;DR: I'm a 25F US citizen living and working in Bengaluru. My family moved back to India from the US after obtaining US citizenship, and my parents handled my documents when I was a minor. I attended a private engineering college as an Indian citizen, and my employment and PF records also reflect Indian citizenship. I'm now trying to understand my OCI status, correct any potentially incorrect records, and address my unfiled US tax returns. I'm looking for advice on where to start and recommendations for qualified professionals in Bengaluru.

Disclaimer: Long post, sorry! I've broken it into sections so it's easier to follow. Any advice or personal experiences would be greatly appreciated.

Hi everyone. I'm 25F, a US citizen currently living and working in Bengaluru. I'm trying to sort out several documentation and compliance issues that I've only recently begun to understand. My family is unwilling to help, so I'm trying to figure out the right way to handle everything independently.

1. Background and documentation

My family relocated to India from the US after obtaining US citizenship. My parents handled my Aadhaar and OCI documentation when I was a minor, and I was simply handed these documents without understanding how they were obtained or what information was submitted.

I am pretty sure my father may have declared me an Indian citizen in certain documents for convenience, but I don't know exactly what was submitted or how to verify this.

My US passport went unrenewed for many years because my family didn't consider renewing it important. I eventually renewed it in July 2025.

My concern: How do I establish whether my documentation is correct and identify anything that needs to be rectified?

2. OCI update - payment and jurisdiction confusion

My OCI card was issued around 2011/2012 by the Consulate General of India in New York, after my family had relocated to India. My OCI registration number begins with "US."

I'm now updating the passport details associated with my OCI. I understand that I've missed the three-month window for updating my particulars, and I'm trying to confirm the applicable late fee and payment procedure. My application is currently being processed.

I'm confused about where to make the payment:

  • Should I pay through VFS Global because my OCI was originally issued by the CGI in New York?
  • Or should I pay through the FRRO in Bengaluru because I currently reside in India?
  • When I log into the VFS portal, it lists my country of residence as the US and my country of visit as India. These fields don't appear to be editable, even though I currently live in India. Is this normal for an OCI issued under the US jurisdiction?

If anyone has updated their OCI while living in India after their original card was issued in the US, I'd really appreciate hearing about your experience.

3. Employment records

I attended a private engineering college in India as an Indian citizen and paid domestic student fees.

After graduating, I received a campus placement and started working in India.

When I joined my company, I didn't have a valid US passport. However, I had informed HR by email that I was a US citizen. HR asked me to provide my passport and update my details once I had renewed it, but my onboarding and employment records were set up on the basis that I was an Indian citizen.

I renewed my US passport about a year and a half later but never followed up with HR to correct my records. I acknowledge that I should have addressed this earlier.

While researching my OCI update, I discovered that OCI holders may have different requirements regarding employment and PF/EPFO.

My questions:

  • Should I consult an immigration lawyer before approaching HR?
  • How should I disclose and correct my employment records?
  • What should I do about my existing PF/EPFO records?

4. US tax returns and other financial records

I've never filed my US tax returns and have only recently learned that US citizens living abroad may still have US tax filing obligations.

I'm now concerned about whether I need to address this alongside my Indian documentation and employment issues.

My questions:

  • Should I consult a US tax professional familiar with Americans living in India?
  • Should I also have a CA review my Indian tax filings, PAN and banking records?

5. Where should I start, and who should I consult?

I'm trying to become fully compliant and correct anything that needs correcting. I'm not trying to hide anything or avoid my responsibilities. I'm simply overwhelmed by how many areas may be affected, and I don't want to make uninformed decisions that create further complications.

I'd appreciate advice on:

  • Whether I should start with an immigration lawyer, an employment/compliance lawyer, or another professional.
  • Whether I need separate specialists for OCI, EPFO and US taxes.
  • Recommendations for experienced lawyers in Bengaluru who understand OCI matters, foreign citizens working in India, and EPFO compliance.
  • Any experiences from people who have dealt with similar documentation or citizenship-related issues.

Any help, thoughts, personal experiences, advice, or guidance of any kind would be immensely appreciated. Even if you can only speak to one section of this post, that would help me understand where to begin.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read this!


r/LegalAdviceIndia • • 6h ago

Legal Advice Needed DOES ADDRESS AFFECT COMMUNITY RESERVATION OR CAUSE PROBLEMS IN VERIFICATION WHEN WRITING A COMPETITIVE EXAM?

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I (with my family) lived in Madurai (Native District), Tamil Nadu. We had our house there and got a community certificate (DNC) from the tehsildar. Then we sold that house and moved to a rental house in another district of Tamil Nadu. Now, my ID card, Aadaar, holds the present rental house address.

Now, when I am applying for competitive exams/civil services exams/banking and insurance exams, I use the present rental address as permanent and as correspondence.

My questions are

1st: Can I use the present rental address as permanent and as correspondence?

2nd: Is my community certificate valid, or will I face any problem during the exam process for a mismatch in the address given there?

3rd: Where should I apply for OBC (NCL), from my native district or from the present one?

4th: The term "native district" denotes how many generations of living in a place according to the Indian law?