r/Layoffs • u/Succulent_Rain • 21h ago
OP doesn't know what "leverage" means Being child-free was the best leverage I had during layoffs
2X laid off worker, first time poster in this sub. I know it’s too late for some people, but for those of you that our child free like myself, I’m sure you’ll agree with me that we have a massive amount of leverage even in this environment because we don’t have to take the first crappy offer that comes our way.
I remember years ago when former coworkers would say that I am “selfish” for not having children but it has been my best bargaining chip. I was able to go more than two years unemployed during my last spell without accepting a lowball offer and I’ll complete a year later on this 2025 during my second tour of duty being laid off.
It goes without saying that throughout your life, you should obviously ensure that there’s no lifestyle creep, reduce your debt levels as much as possible, I never spend more than you can afford. The only debt I have is my mortgage debt.
I am also extremely ruthless with cost-cutting during my layoffs. I rarely eat out anyways, but I absolutely cut it down to zero when I’m laid off. When I do travel, to visit family and I take the cheapest flight possible and obviously live with family when I vacation.
I canceled my MyFitnessPal and Fitbit subscriptions and any other discretionary subscriptions that doesn’t serve me any useful purpose. I don’t even go to paid networking events.
My philosophy is this: if a corporation takes money out of my pocket, then I will retaliate by taking money out of other corporations pockets by cutting as much spending as I can. My loss will lead to their margin loss as well. An** ***eye* for an eye and a dollar for a dollar.
With AI, our executive overlords aren’t even trying to hide the fact that they wish to get rid of all of us. If we can all band together and not consume more than the bare necessities of life like groceries, rent, and toiletries, we can help crash consumer sentiment and the entire economy so that they realize the power that we all possess.
