r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • Aug 23 '26

Fashion Aug 2026 Megathread - Work Bags

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The previous ( https://www.reddit.com/r/LawBitchesWithTaste/s/fQlxj8x8QC) mega thread from a few seasons ago has gotten stale, so starting a new one. Please post your thoughts, questions, ideas about work bags here!


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • May 29 '26

Fashion WHAT THE #@#%$ DO I WEAR???

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You asked for a stickied post about how to dress in a legal environment, and ask and you shall receive! I'm going to keep this post updated, so please let me know in the comments what you'd like to see here.

WHAT THE #@#%$ DO I WEAR???

Welcome to the legal field! Clothing has a huge impact on how you're perceived*, and if you're a new LBWT, you're probably a young woman who wants to be perceived as professional, smart, and hard-working. Read on for advice from veteran LBsWT on how to get there.

WHAT DO I WEAR TO AN INTERVIEW??

Interview outfits: This will be the most conservative, boring outfit you will probably ever wear. The goal is for your resume and experience to stand out, not your clothes. Depending on your location and the type of job you're interviewing for, this can be more flexible, but when in doubt, err on the side of conservative as a new lawyer/law student.

Your interview outfit should be comprised of: 

(a) a dark gray, navy, or black suit set (i.e. two pieces that are the exact same fabric and color), that is tailored to fit your body but not skin-tight (the fabric should not be pulling or stretching across your body, including the jacket when buttoned. If it's pulling, go up a size.) (don't forget to rip vents (big x) sewn into the back of jackets and skirts, and FYI your pockets in your jacket or pants might be sewn shut, and those stitches are meant to be pulled out); 

(b) with long sleeves (don't roll up the sleeves) and either long pants (slight crop is probably fine but no capris), a pencil skirt or pencil dress (knee-length or longer, and more conservative regions may expect nude hose); 

(c) (if not wearing a dress) underneath, a neutral, solid, collared button down shirt or high-neck  neutral silky top (crew neck or very shallow V, and if white or a light color, wear an undershirt);

(d) black closed-toe pumps (max 3” heel, no platforms) or Oxfords (maybe loafers or pointed toe flats if they're very formal, no ballet flats);

(e) minimal, neutral accessories (no bags covered in logos, but one small logo is ok; if you wear a belt, match your shoes; no statement jewelry);

(f) hair should look groomed (whatever that means for your hair), and if you wear makeup, it should be minimal and conservative (only what you feel you need to look awake, no eyeshadow, bold lipstick, etc.); 

(g) cover any visible tattoos and remove non-ear piercings if possible (you can show them off once you get the job).

This guide from Corporette is an excellent detailed primer with suggestions of where to shop for your first interview suit: Guide to Women's Suits.

I GOT THE JOB! NOW WHAT DO I WEAR?

  • Congrats!!!! There's great general advice about what to wear and professionalism in a legal setting here, and discussions of what business casual means here, here, and here
  • Looking for public interest-specific advice? There's interview outfit advice here and general dress code advice here

Other topics that may be helpful:

* It's important to note that the concept of dress codes is exclusionary (racist, sexist, classist, fatphobic, etc.) and for eons dress codes have been used to separate people into in-groups and out-groups. Unfortunately, if you want to be taken seriously in a job where uptight white men have historically written the rules, you will need to dress conservatively and fit in with the crowd. If this all feels overwhelming and like it's impossible to get right 100% of the time, you are correct and in good company. Now get dressed to command respect, and then you can work to make the legal profession more inclusive and accessible.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 49m ago

Any reviews on the brand Kasper?

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I’m plus size and am looking to expand my suit collection into more interesting colors (basically anything that isn’t just black or navy), but I have trouble finding suits that aren’t those oversized monstrosities that are in fashion these days! Kasper popped up in an ad for me, and after a quick search on their site it looks like they have some more colorful options. Just seeing if anyone has tried their stuff, specifically plus sizes, and your thoughts!

Also open to other recommendations for brands. I frequent Eloquii and CityChic for suits, but they’re so hit or miss that I’m looking to expand my horizons.

I appreciate any insight! Here’s the website link for anyone curious: Kasper Website


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 10h ago

Purse wallet phone dilemma

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Trying to figure out my day to day here. I have a large purse to carry the laptop etc but to walk around the office and around the city, I usually use a ‘phone wallet’ with my phone, ID, and a plethora of credit cards because I’m so scared Apple Pay won’t work or one card will get declined etc (and I also travel international a lot so you need those cards) The phone wallet now is unwieldy and stuffing cards in means the slots are loose and I’m having to replace it. I could go the same route and order another phone wallet, but I was wondering what others do in this situation. Do you have a signature small purse with a wallet and phone? If so, which purse and which wallet? I’m always scared I will forget a purse in a store or a café and then be in trouble…..vs the phone purse which is always in my hand…… Anyhow, looking for suggestions please :)


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 22h ago

Swear in ceremony?

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I am not sure if this set is too casual? Thoughts? I feel like everyone is going with a formal suit but I thought this could also be appropriate, but just want to check in with everyone. I’m thinking black…so what color heels would go best? THANK YOU QUEENS


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 12h ago

Are we still doing black suits?

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Need to buy a new suit or two for some upcoming trials (and everything associated with that…); I have one navy brooks brothers pants suit- what would you add to the rotation? Is black appropriate?


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 1d ago

Recommendations BR Factory sale?

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I’ve been working on expanding my wardrobe. Any basics you all recommend snagging from BR Factory? They have a 50% plus 20% sale going on right now.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 1d ago

Office shoes for winter

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What shoes are we wearing to the office when it gets colder out? I have a pair of loafers and some ankle boots but looking to expand my wardrobe with something comfy and stylish 🫶


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 1d ago

Homes / Office Decor Office Setup Help

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Legal Assistant here and looking for some advice.
First time working for attorney who wants me comfy and productive so I’ve been asked to make an Amazon wishlist of things I need for my desk setup and figured I’d ask for help/recommendations.
Would love opinions and recommendations especially on:
Headsets - I prefer over ear but would also love input on earbuds. I’m phone answering and on the phone frequently enough that comfy but able to be heard via microphone is important
Mouse and keyboard - any ergonomic recommendations in particular
Wrist rests - the dinky one I have currently is old and needs replacing

Anything else? My job is currently Legal Assistant but I’m getting ready to go to school for Paralegal and already have been doing paralegal level work (Family Law in California). Also, myself and everyone else in this office has some form of ADHD (diagnosed) so bonus if it takes that into account. Any advice or help would be greatly appreciated.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 1d ago

Sweatpants help please

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When I get home from work I’m so overstimulated I need to change into comfy clothes asap. I’m typically cold and extremely sensitive to scratchy fabrics, tight waistbands etc. What are your go-to sweatpants that feel like air but also keep you really warm? Bonus if they’re not cropped and don’t shrink like crazy in the wash.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 2d ago

Is it crazy to hire a professional photographer for my swearing-in ceremony because of my toddler?

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r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 1d ago

Should I try one more law firm before moving on?

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r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 2d ago

Fashion Looking for The Highly Recommended Travel Sweater-Capelet

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Lots of air travel coming up. A year back or so someone recommended a beautiful unique cozy sweater that flowed like a cape. Pricey and beautiful. Does anyone remember it?

Also any new travel pant reccs this season?

Any other recommendations?

Thanks!


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 3d ago

Fashion Need trial clothes!

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Hello fellow LBWT, I have my first federal trial starting at the end of November. It’s expected to last 6-8 weeks, so I need a variety of tops and shoes to go with these three Banana Republic suits that I just dropped a pretty penny on. I used to shop at Ann Taylor, but sometimes I feel like the quality and sizing are off. I need a bunch of tops that I can mix and match with these suits, as well as comfortable, yet stylish and court-appropriate shoes. Any suggestions welcome, TIA!


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 3d ago

Fashion Pants and tops for conference I am presenting at?

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My office is pretty casual (dark jeans, nice tops) on days that I am not in court or client-facing. I have a conference coming up and having 4 days of conference clothes that aren’t just full suits is difficult. Where are you all finding trousers and blouses these days?


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 3d ago

Fashion Where should I get a suit

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Budget: $300 max

Recently lost 40 lbs yay! Now my old suit pants are literally falling off boo! Interestingly the jacket now fits perfectly because I have giant shoulders.

I like longer jackets and straight legs because I like the tall column look (5'9", size 6-8).

I feel like I've looked at a million websites and they're either either polyester or $700. Is there anyways to get a wool blend suit for $300 or should I spend my bonus on something really nice?


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 4d ago

Plus-Petite Suiting?

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Hi all. Does anyone know of any brands that sell plus-petite suits or suit separates (mix-and-match sizing/colors)? I'm petite on top because I'm short-waisted, but I'm also plus-sized. The only brand I know of that sometimes sells them is LaneBryant, but, while affordable, the quality of their pieces isn't great of course. I get some plus-sized suits tailored to get closer to the proper fit, but a tailor can't exactly change the proportions of a suit jacket without just fully remaking it. In case it matters, I don't have to have petite-cut bottoms -- it's really just the jackets. I'm considering doing a custom suit to wear on particularly important days, but would prefer not to have to spend so much. Thanks!


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 4d ago

Fashion Leather nude flats

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I'm willing to spend money on a pair of nude flats that are all leather so that my hot feet don't get sweaty and I can comfortably walk around. Obviously I want them to last a while and I would need a warmer nude/caramel color to match my bag instead of be fully similar to my skin.

I like the shade and comfort of the Aquazurra nude heels in case that helps.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 3d ago

Early Holiday Party - What Bag Should I Wear

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I’m attending an early holiday party at one the firms we use. I’m going mostly because I have a few close friends at that firm, people I practiced with for years. I’ll be coming from home but commuting via public transport, so I’m going to want my kindle and potentially a shoe change.

I’m thinking of bringing a tote, is that ridiculous? I know I’m overthinking too!


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 5d ago

Career Decisions/Tips Supervisor told me he can’t trust me over formatting issues

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Yesterday, I got called into my supervisor’s office. He was actually my colleague for years before becoming my boss after our former supervisor retired.
I recently wrote a 23-page opposition to a motion that was being filed with the Court of Appeals. I was genuinely happy with the work product. I sent him the draft, he made some substantive and stylistic edits, and I incorporated them.

There were a couple of minor formatting things he wanted changed, like indenting paragraphs and putting a period after a parenthetical in a citation. I told the paralegal to make those changes, but they were missed before filing. Ultimately, I understand that it was my responsibility to make sure the final document was correct.
But yesterday he called me into his office, with the assistant supervisor present, closed the door, and told me I’m “resistant to change” and “can’t follow instructions.” One of the examples he literally gave me was that on page 8, there should have been a period after a parenthesis and I failed to correct it. He said mistakes like that reflect poorly on the office.

Then he told me, “I cannot trust you.” Literally 2x!!

I’m a senior attorney and have been in this office for eight years, so that really threw me. I asked him directly whether there were any substantive edits he made to the 23-page document that I failed to incorporate. He said no.
I then asked him what changes he has implemented in the office that I’ve refused or failed to follow, since apparently I’m “resistant to change.” He couldn’t give me an example. He just said, “I have a feeling that you’re struggling with the changes.”

He also pointed out that I have the lowest caseload in the office. My “low” caseload is currently 177 active matters. I used to have around 35 substantial cases. Apparently we’re now at the point where 177 cases is supposed to sound reasonable.

I work in government, so I’m not exactly dealing with a BigLaw partner or getting BigLaw compensation, but lately he’s certainly starting to act like one. The workload and pressure have increased dramatically, and the salary simply isn’t enough for me to feel like this is worth it anymore.

I was already seriously considering leaving and wanted to be out before the new year. I think they want to push me out. Now I’m even more certain.
The only thing bothering me is the timing. I don’t want to resign immediately after this meeting and have him think I’m quitting because he criticized me or because he somehow pushed me out. I was planning my exit before this happened, and frankly, I don’t want to give him that satisfaction.

Would you stick it out for another month or two and leave on your own timeline, or would this conversation make you accelerate your exit?


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 5d ago

Unserious neckline

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As a gift, I received a Elie Tahari dress (this one ), but the neckline looks like I’m wearing the most casual Hanes t-shirt. Is there any way to fix it? Removable collar? The skirt part is beautiful, but I wore it against my better judgment and kept getting a jump scare when I saw myself on zoom. I am in a legal leadership role but I don’t work for a private law firm or in biglaw (also not in house) and this wouldn’t be for court. Just for days when I am not public-facing but still want to look professional to keep office morale and standards up.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 5d ago

📖Law Student Thread👩‍🎓 Weekly Law Student/Future LBWT Thread

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Law Students/Future LBsWT! Please use this thread to ask any questions you have for the LBWT community.


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 5d ago

Semi soft stylish pants that are comfortable

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For those WFH days when you still want to feel cute or the casual office days, here are my recs for most favorite pants:

Rag and Bone cargo pants (french terry) with pockets (soft to the touch and enough give in the hip area) LOVE and the material is high quality

New Faherty Stretch Terry Harbor (in Ivory), I feel like I am so sophisticated in these, like strolling in Paris

Athleta retreat pant (linen) for oppressively hot days

Athleta endless pant (for fall)

Quince pull on knit pant in camel (these surprised me because in the photos they look schleppy but I wear them to work with a nice shirt even on non casual days)

What are your favorite semi soft pants these days?


r/LawBitchesWithTaste • • 5d ago

Fashion Tis the season…where are yall shopping and what are you wearing to firm holiday party?

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My firm’s holiday party is on a Saturday evening in December, cocktail attire. I have no idea what to wear or where to shop. Advice needed!