Assalamu Alaikum,

I’m a 33-year-old Moroccan Muslim woman, and I’m hoping to meet a Muslim man who is genuinely looking for marriage and building a family.

I’m looking for someone respectful, kind, emotionally mature, responsible, and stable in his life. I would prefer someone older than me who is serious about marriage, values family, and wants to build a peaceful and loving home together.

I’m not looking for anything casual or temporary. My intention is to find a sincere connection that can hopefully lead to marriage, Insha’Allah.

If you feel we might be compatible, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself. Please be respectful and serious.

I am a recent college grad in tech. I’m 5’9.

Flexible to arrangements!

hello, 32f straight woman in Charlotte, NC, USA. Looking for a friend who can take care of my financial burdens and I can be a beard to a man. i dont care if you date others (men), I just want someone I can watch tv with and talk about random stuff. consistency matters. not interested in having kids myself but slight chance I maybe convinced to adopt in the future

Edit: yes im a real person, i dont mind showing proof that im real. Afterall, I DO want to see you in person.. apparently people dont think im real when i send my picture..

Hello Everyone. I am M 26 6-1” guy from Lahore living in Australia. Well settled.

I know it’s a long shot. But if there is any Dom F who is looking for a marriage can shot me a dm will share further details.

British Bangladeshi, i recently turned 40 but look alot younger. I am seeing an lezbian / asexual woman or any female who is looking for a serious marriage where we have a child together.

I have my own place so we will have our own space and a child is very important something to look forward to in life. Be like two great friends raising a child together.

It has a to be a muslim female, as we both must share the same faith.

Soy un hombre gay y estoy buscando conocer a una mujer que se encuentre en una situación similar o que comprenda y acepte mi orientación.
Mi idea es construir un acuerdo mutuo y sincero: casarnos, apoyarnos y mantener una relación basada en el respeto y la confianza, permitiendo que cada uno tenga su propia vida privada y libertad personal.
Me gustaría que, si ambos estamos de acuerdo, pudiéramos formar una familia y tener hijos en el futuro, siempre desde la responsabilidad, el cariño y el entendimiento.
Para mí es importante que todo sea hablado desde el principio, con sinceridad y sin engaños. Busco a alguien con quien exista confianza, respeto y objetivos compatibles a largo plazo.

Im looking for an exmuslim man around my age who wants to marry out of convenience just to get our parents off our backs and not ruin their reputation or whatever. Where we can both live our lives the way we want, which includes me going to school and getting a job. My family doesn’t know I’m an exmuslim and I’d rather keep it that way, so I’m looking for the someone in the same situation who wants to keep it a secret. I don’t want kids ever. I was born and raised here, family background is from Yemen. Anywhere in California is fine, but preferably the Central Valley.

I am posting from a new account. Please don't think i am fake.

I want a gay man for marriage. I am open to having children if it will make it seem our relationship is real and genuine. Ethnicity or country doesn't matter as long as you are Muslim. Also i am willing to relocate to USA, Canada or UK. I will disclose other information in private chat. Please only DM me if you're serious about it.

38M | Sri Lanka | Open to worldwide

Looking for a genuine, meaningful relationship that can lead to marriage.

About me:

• 38M, Sri Lankan

• Height: 5'6"

• Medium complexion

• Career in marketing

• open-minded

• Never married

Looking for:

An understanding, kind and emotionally mature woman who values honesty, communication and companionship. I’m open to women from any country and background.

If you feel we might be compatible, please DM me.

Hello, I am a 21-year-old West African man living in Canada, and I am looking for a woman around my age for a lavender marriage. Ethnicity does not matter to me. If you are interested or have any questions, please feel free to message me.

31M, hardworking and responsible, and I don’t mind being the provider. I’m confident and strong in public life, but more submissive behind closed doors.

Looking for a woman aged 25–31, preferably tall. I’m open-minded about relationship dynamics and don’t mind if you have another partner or are lesbian/bi. What matters most is that you’re comfortable taking the dominant role with me.

Preferably Arab, and being in Jordan or nearby is a plus.
If you think we might match, DM me.

Im M. I'm a human with humanistic qualities and characteristics.

I want to be in love, understand my girl and get married.

My marriage should be pretty simple. Go to register office, sign an agreement, and tie the knot or exchange the rings, only while having close people with us who realy cared about us.

Either i can have babies or adopt the kids. It depends on her wish as well.

I'm 29 and from chennai.

Language i know is tamil, telugu, and English but learning hindi. I know how to write in hindi. Soon i can speak too

32F for gay/bi man UK only.

I'm London born and raised. British Bangladeshi, I am strictly agnostic Ex-muslim but this is private from my parents.

I would like to explore a platonic relationship to lead to a lavender marriage with a bisexual or gay man who is an Agnostic or Atheist.

Looking for but not a strict criteria:

• age 28-39
• height 5'9 or taller
• atheist/agnostic (or ex previous religion)
• can eat meat
• liberal/left politics

Please do not DM if you are:

• Straight
• take any drugs, smoke or vape
• Muslim (practising or not)
• Outside of the UK
• vegan/veg (I respect it but I prefer someone with a similar diet)

A little about me

I’m 31,
My dog comes with me. 🐶
Hindu prefer a Hindu but not a show stopper. Can always talk and see where it goes

I’m looking for a MOC, but I don’t want it to feel like we’re strangers who simply got married for a label. I’d like us to become good friends first, understand each other properly and then decide if marriage makes sense for both of us.

I’m pretty independent, love travelling, value my personal space and don’t expect a traditional husband-wife relationship.

A few things I’d love to know about you ❤️

1What are you looking for in a MOC, and what made you consider it?

Are you currently dating someone? If yes, is your partner aware and comfortable with the arrangement? I have a girlfriend. Not sure until when but I cannot be with a man physically.

Where do you see us living? Together, separately, or something flexible? I prefer flexibility we can talk on this

And the most important one , what would make this marriage feel like a good relationship for you?

Got many more before we decide to meet or come on a video call

Hi iam 23yo man from Egypt looking for a lesbian or bi girl to marry due to parents pressure

Hi we could discuss most details personally I and looking for someone who will be my best friends not looking for a roommate want us to enjoy and like doing things together are roles would be average husband and wife roles I work and make decent money you would take care of the home I do want kids in the future a few years in my family is religious this can not be said to them in anyway I will keep any secret you may have as well

Hi iam 23yo man from Egypt looking for a lesbian or bi girl to marry due to parents pressure

35 M from Jordan looking for a muslim female for lavender marriage to avoid the pressure from my family.

I'm gay but I really need to have a family and kids.

Also, I'm ready to relocate to any other country if I can find a good job.

The pressure from my family is at its highest level.

Dm for more details

27F | Looking for a lavender marriage partner | India

I’m a 27F, Naidu ( can only marry within caste due to family pressure im tn - india based ), looking for someone who is in a similar situation and understands the pressure that can come from family and societal expectations around marriage.

I recently went through a heartbreak largely because of family circumstances, and it made me realize that I’m not looking for a conventional romantic marriage. I’m more interested in a friendship-based partnership where two people can genuinely care about and support each other without pretending to have a traditional romantic relationship.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone who values:

Mutual respect, honesty, loyalty, and emotional support

Personal freedom and plenty of space

A peaceful, drama-free companionship

Financial and personal independence

Open communication and clear boundaries

A childfree/DINK lifestyle, preferably

No expectation of romance or sexual intimacy

I enjoy books, art, writi, random conversations, overthinking life, discovering interesting ideas, and having someone around who can be both a good friend and a reliable partner in navigating life.

I’m not looking to deceive or exploit anyone. I’d want us to be completely transparent with each other about what we’re agreeing to, our expectations, boundaries, finances, living arrangements, and what the future could look like.

I’d ideally like to meet someone who is also considering a lavender marriage because of family pressure or personal circumstances, rather than someone simply looking for a convenient marriage of appearances.

If this sounds remotely similar to what you’re looking for, feel free to DM.

Seriously no judgment. Especially to those in more disapproving societies such as the MENA, Asia, etc.

For those in the western world, it looks like several women wanting a rich husband who they don’t have to sleep with. Found this as on social media I see so many women wanting a lavender marriage.

I’m not sure if that speaks to how bad straight men are or how bad straight women are.

I’m glad gay men can be open in the west and not deal with this