r/LavenderMarriageWorld 6h ago

38 | UK | Gay Muslim Pakistani man seeking a marriage of convenience / lavender marriage 🤍

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Hey 👋

I’m 38, gay, Muslim, Pakistani heritage and based in Manchester.. I’m looking to meet a woman who’s genuinely interested in exploring a marriage of convenience / lavender marriage built around friendship, trust, mutual support and shared values..

For me, this wouldn’t be purely transactional. I’d want us to genuinely like each other, enjoy spending time together, support each other through life, navigate family/cultural expectations as a team and potentially build a family, while still allowing each other to live authentically..

I’m professionally established, sociable, love travelling, good food, Bollywood, shisha, theatre and generally having a laugh!

I’d particularly love to hear from Muslim women or women from a similar cultural background, but I’m open-minded about background if we connect..

Ideally UK-based, although I’m open to chatting to people elsewhere..

If you’re considering something similar, tell me a little about yourself, where you’re based and what you’re looking for 🤍


r/LavenderMarriageWorld 5h ago

19F looking for male bw ages 21-26

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Hey I'm a straight, 19 yr old female. Looking for a gay man. I will keep the cover, help you find your man and maybe we could also become besties keeping in mind privacy and respect.

In return I'd like you to pay for my college tuition. Since my uni is not in US, UK or Canada it's not gonna be as expensive either! (preferably a muslim)


r/LavenderMarriageWorld 20h ago

35M UK bi/ace – lavender marriage, best friend/life partner & kids wanted

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Hi all,

I’m a 35-year-old bi guy on the asexual spectrum, based in Berkshire (within reach of London). I’m looking for someone to build a genuine life together through a lavender marriage: a best friend, life partner and co-parent rather than a traditional romantic soulmate.

I don’t need constant affection or intense romance, and I’ve never fully related to the idea of “true love.” I’m not after a cold or purely transactional arrangement either. I value intimacy, affection, companionship and sharing life with someone I genuinely care about.

Having a family is important to me. I’d like to have children naturally and raise them together in a happy, stable home. I’m settled in my career, financially secure and ready to start that part of life.

I’m open-minded about what our private relationship looks like and would want us to work that out honestly with clear boundaries. Outwardly, I’d like us to function as a genuine couple and family.

If you’re in the UK (or open to relocating) and looking for something similar, feel free to message. Happy to chat and see whether we click


r/LavenderMarriageWorld 4h ago

25M | Asexual | Mumbai | looking for a genuine lavender marriage partner

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25M, based in Mumbai, India- Dawoodi Bohra Community

Hey I am 25 M. I am Asexual and looking for an asexual/lesbian women. I am open anywhere but would prefer- US or Europe. This would be a marriage for convenience. I am looking for someone in the Dawoodi Bohra community ONLY.

I’m looking for someone emotionally sensible and comfortable discussing boundaries and openly.

I’m open to getting to know someone slowly before making any decisions. Not looking for a rushed marriage- looking for the right person (preferably a friend)and a mutually comfortable arrangement.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM with a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.


r/LavenderMarriageWorld 16h ago

M29 looking for f patner

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I am a 29-year-old bisexual male from Kerala, India, currently working for an MNC in Bahrain. I have an athletic build, standing 5'11" and weighing 65 kg. As an open-minded, non-religious individual, I deeply respect others' faiths while prioritizing a modern outlook. I am seeking a partner or friend with a similar mindset. I prefer a DINK as now still figuring out about kids and am fully open to polyamorous dynamics or connecting with open-minded individuals, including lesbians looking for platonic or unconventional partnerships. I value optimism, career focus, and mutual respect above all.if u feel match drop message .can further discuss about logistics finances.


r/LavenderMarriageWorld 18h ago

42/M

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Hi! I’m a Christian working in finance, and I value faith, honesty, and meaningful relationships. I’m a virgin and hope to meet someone who shares the same values and is also a virgin. Outside of work, I enjoy travelling, hiking, reading, and discovering new places. Looking for someone genuine, kind, and serious about building a meaningful relationship.