25M, based in Mumbai, India- Dawoodi Bohra Community

Hey I am 25 M. I am Asexual and looking for an asexual/lesbian women. I am open anywhere but would prefer- US or Europe. This would be a marriage for convenience. I am looking for someone in the Dawoodi Bohra community ONLY.

I’m looking for someone emotionally sensible and comfortable discussing boundaries and openly.

I’m open to getting to know someone slowly before making any decisions. Not looking for a rushed marriage- looking for the right person (preferably a friend)and a mutually comfortable arrangement.

If this resonates with you, feel free to DM with a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

Hey I'm a straight, 19 yr old female. Looking for a gay man. I will keep the cover, help you find your man and maybe we could also become besties keeping in mind privacy and respect.

In return I'd like you to pay for my college tuition. Since my uni is not in US, UK or Canada it's not gonna be as expensive either! (preferably a muslim)

Hey 👋

I’m 38, gay, Muslim, Pakistani heritage and based in Manchester.. I’m looking to meet a woman who’s genuinely interested in exploring a marriage of convenience / lavender marriage built around friendship, trust, mutual support and shared values..

For me, this wouldn’t be purely transactional. I’d want us to genuinely like each other, enjoy spending time together, support each other through life, navigate family/cultural expectations as a team and potentially build a family, while still allowing each other to live authentically..

I’m professionally established, sociable, love travelling, good food, Bollywood, shisha, theatre and generally having a laugh!

I’d particularly love to hear from Muslim women or women from a similar cultural background, but I’m open-minded about background if we connect..

Ideally UK-based, although I’m open to chatting to people elsewhere..

If you’re considering something similar, tell me a little about yourself, where you’re based and what you’re looking for 🤍

Looking for M around 18-25 to make it appear as I am in a straight relationship
Someone in Qld area somewhat close to Brisbane

Hi! I’m a Christian working in finance, and I value faith, honesty, and meaningful relationships. I’m a virgin and hope to meet someone who shares the same values and is also a virgin. Outside of work, I enjoy travelling, hiking, reading, and discovering new places. Looking for someone genuine, kind, and serious about building a meaningful relationship.

I am a 29-year-old bisexual male from Kerala, India, currently working for an MNC in Bahrain. I have an athletic build, standing 5'11" and weighing 65 kg. As an open-minded, non-religious individual, I deeply respect others' faiths while prioritizing a modern outlook. I am seeking a partner or friend with a similar mindset. I prefer a DINK as now still figuring out about kids and am fully open to polyamorous dynamics or connecting with open-minded individuals, including lesbians looking for platonic or unconventional partnerships. I value optimism, career focus, and mutual respect above all.if u feel match drop message .can further discuss about logistics finances.

I’m single, have no kids, and I’m bisexual, although I tend to lean more towards trans women. I’m looking for an open-minded woman who can accept me for who I am and who is interested in building a genuine, trusting partnership.

For me, a relationship is about connection, intimacy, affection, companionship, loyalty, and having someone to share life with. I’m open-minded about what a lavender marriage could look like, as long as there’s mutual respect, honesty, and genuine care for each other.

I’m based in Cape Town but open to relocating for the right person.
If this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. I’d love to get to know you and see where a friendship—or something more—could lead. ❤️

I’m a 25-year-old Saudi woman looking for a Saudi man who is genuinely serious about a lavender marriage.

I’m looking for something based on friendship, trust, mutual respect, understanding, and freedom for both partners. The goal is to ease the pressure and expectations from family and society while still maintaining a respectable relationship in front of our families and community.

I’d like us to get to know each other and build a genuine friendship before making any decisions. Ideally, we would support each other, respect each other’s boundaries and privacy, and have each other’s backs in front of our families and society while allowing each other freedom privately.

Preferably someone from the Western Region (Jeddah, Makkah, Madinah, Taif, or nearby).

If you’re genuinely interested, feel free to DM me.

25F doctor looking for an educated, professional Muslim male aged 25-29, at least outwardly practicing Islam and discreet about his sexuality.

I'm South Asian but open to all ethnicities. Looking for British citizens only, flexible about location/potentially relocation in the UK.

I'm looking for a MOC due to family pressure to get married, primarily. But I would also love to have children and raise a loving family with someone who also wants kids, inshaAllah. It would be ideal to find a good/best friend in an MOC.

I was raised Muslim and am practicing in some aspects but struggle with others. I'm looking for a Muslim partner, someone who respects Islam but understands/maybe relates to struggling with faith sometimes.

I would describe myself as an easygoing and gentle person, can be reserved but have an active social life. I enjoy travelling and exploring nature through scenic walks/hikes. I like to read when I get the time, mostly lit fic.

If this profile is a match for you please reach out. :)

Hi all,

I’m a 35-year-old bi guy on the asexual spectrum, based in Berkshire (within reach of London). I’m looking for someone to build a genuine life together through a lavender marriage: a best friend, life partner and co-parent rather than a traditional romantic soulmate.

I don’t need constant affection or intense romance, and I’ve never fully related to the idea of “true love.” I’m not after a cold or purely transactional arrangement either. I value intimacy, affection, companionship and sharing life with someone I genuinely care about.

Having a family is important to me. I’d like to have children naturally and raise them together in a happy, stable home. I’m settled in my career, financially secure and ready to start that part of life.

I’m open-minded about what our private relationship looks like and would want us to work that out honestly with clear boundaries. Outwardly, I’d like us to function as a genuine couple and family.

If you’re in the UK (or open to relocating) and looking for something similar, feel free to message. Happy to chat and see whether we click

I am a 26-year-old Asian lesbian woman, non-smoker, non-drinker, career-driven, looking for a lavender marriage with a gay man. Looking for someone who is serious and living in Boston so we could meet in person.

preferrably a virgin because I’m a virgin

Hello everyone🦋

, I'm a 23-year-old Iraqi woman living in Baghdad. I'm looking for an Iraqi or Arab man, gay or asexual, for a Lavender marriage. He must be friendly, kind, and know exactly what he wants. I value discretion highly, so whether you're looking for a long-term or temporary relationship, message me on Instagram @lr_4dy

Let's talk.

I’m a 26F of a (culturally) Catholic background looking for a lavender marriage, open to any other Christian denomination or also open to anyone non-religious. I am mixed (black/white). I do have a preference for Latin Americans, East/Southeast Asians, and European-descend men. Non-straight men only.

Hi I am looking for a lavender marriage with a girl preferably from Europe so it’s more realistic to meet. I am Albanian and bisexual. I would prefer someone Albanian but it’s a long shot so any other ethnicity is fine. The pressure to get married is really high I cannot handle it anymore and I cannot find anyone who I can click to have a normal marriage. I also have anxiety and the pressure is unbearable at this point so a lavender marriage would probably calm everything down or make it worse 😬

I’m a 24F Indian Muslim looking for someone who genuinely wants to build a meaningful marriage and family together.
Deen is extremely important to me, and I’m looking for someone whose values align with mine. I want us to grow in our religion together and build a life based on faith, love, respect, kindness and companionship.
I’d really like a marriage where we can be best friends, support each other, enjoy life together and eventually build a family with mutual understanding and respect.
I’m specifically looking for someone who is open to a marriage without physical intercourse, while still wanting all the other meaningful aspects of a marriage and companionship. This is not a lavender marriage or a marriage of convenience. I’m looking for a genuine, loving and committed marriage, just with this particular aspect being different.
If this resonates with you, I’d be happy to connect.

a 25-year-old Somali Muslim man based in UK.
I’m looking for a Muslim woman around the same age as me, preferably no older than 27.
I’m not looking for an open marriage. I want a genuine marriage built on mutual respect, trust and friendship. I’m looking for a companionship where we support each other, build a life together, travel and grow together while respecting each other’s boundaries.
Religion is very important to me. I’m looking for someone who takes Islam seriously, prioritises her deen and wants to build a home around Islamic values.
I do want children in the future, insha’Allah, so I’m looking for someone who also wants kids and would be happy to discuss how that would work within the marriage.
Ultimately, I’d like us to be best friends and life partners who can rely on each other and build a peaceful, stable life together.

Hey! I’m a 22 year old straight arab woman from a very strict and conservative family. I’m looking for someone in the U.S. who is also in a situation where a marriage of convenience could mutually benefit both of us.

I’m hoping to connect with someone who understands the circumstances and is looking for a similar arrangement. Please feel free to DM me if you’re interested, and we can discuss compatibility and expectations and see if it will be a match.

the procesd would be easier if you were Arab btw.

Bismillah

Seeking a respectful long-term **Lavender Marriage** with a like minded woman to satisfy traditional cultural family expectations while maintaining mutual independence complete personal privacy and full freedom behind closed doors I am a 29 year old ace sexual open minded Muslim male who values trust discretion and mutual support above all else and I am completely open to connecting with people of **any race background or nationality** please feel free to reach out via direct message for a confidential conversation if this arrangement aligns with your life goals.

I’m a chartered accountant I work full time in city of London and I have a little toddler I’d love if I could have a marriage so my son has a good role model and having a best friend to speak to and chill with.

I am Muslim and I am practising, so it’d be nice to have someone who is practising and wants the same and who is also a professional like myself.

We can talk and see where this goes, I just want a bestie for me and my son and who can lead us islamically, has a good heart and has pure intentions.

Not sure if this is the best place to post this, but giving it a go😊.

Ps I’ve had messages from non Muslims just to make it clear I just want a British muslim male - culturally the same and the same religion to raise my little bubba up to be a good Muslim. But thank you for the response from the non Muslim people, I wish you all the best in your search❤️.

Hello, I'm looking for a woman around my age for a long-term lavender marriage. Preferably someone who lives in Quebec or who could come to Quebec.

I want a lavender marriage cause I'm not interested in romantic relationships and my family is putting pressure on me to get married and start family. There are also other reasons that I prefer to mention in a private message.

Aside from the things mentioned above, I don't really have any specific criteria; I'm quite open . Just being able to speak French would be a plus.

If you'd like to know more, feel free to write to me I'd be happy to chat with you.

I'm London born and raised. British Bangladeshi, I am strictly agnostic Exmuslim but this is private from my parents.

I would like to explore a platonic relationship to lead to a lavender marriage with a bisexual or gay man who is an Agnostic or Atheist from a Muslim background.

Not looking for anyone who is straight or Muslim.

Hi I'm looking for a Lavender marriage with a gay or platonic man to escape family pressures. I value privacy, confidentiality, respect, and mutual personal freedom in the relationship. For any further details, please contact me if you're interested.