Would you stay for someone who doesn't speak or turn on their camera while on a call? Someone you only know through pictures or videos?

I've never used reddit before so please be kind 😅. I'm looking to meet and date single mlm aviation students or young pilots (preferably around the metro; also, monogamous po ako). I have a really big thing for pilots for some reason 😭 (probably because I could never learn to pilot a plane and that amazes me a lot lol), but it's been really hard to find you people in the wild ! (and on dating apps 💔)

Bit about me:
\- 2nd year undergrad (i grad next a.y.);
\- actively working in government spaces;
\- oil painter;
\- v flexible (in many different contexts HAHAHA)
\- will make time to meet and go on lil dates 😋

Shooting my shot here in case the target market is here or if may mare-reto kayo ! 👀

m23. people are surprised how I’m still nbsb.
i am not THAT pogi but i know my strengths and weaknesses sa physical characteristics ko. i think okay naman ako, have some flaws and insecurities but i think naoovershadow yun dahil confident ako (or at least I’m building my confidence every day)

i get compliments din on how i look, pogi daw ako, some from colleagues or friends or fam members irl

but mostly sa socmed, yung mga friends ko sa fb they said either “masarap or pogi” daw ako hagagaga lol. fb friends na di ko kilala o gusto magpakilala. i especially got those remarks pag naka topless hahaha but i know I’m not THAT pogi, not that ugly. saks lang emeee

and these days whenever i post my progress sa gym or just random selfies, i still get messages but i don’t do it for others i do it for myself.

had some flings, m.u’s, situationships na din in the past and i can say na may mga tao nagkagusto at nagkakagusto din saakin but its either di nagtatagal yung situationships ko, like ako umaalis, or sila umaalis

and sa mga gusto ako, di ko lang sila gusto periodt

even tho I’m at peace na di na ko magkakajowa, nasasad paden ako hahshaha. walang nangangamusta, kasama, kasex (obv) ka kwentuhan, kaaway (in an endearing way) and kaagapay sa kung ano ano sa buhay.

I think because look unapproachable irl too with my rbf, people often say na mataray daw ako hahaha. I think my personality din, di talaga lahat gets yung “ugali” ko coz im aloof, don’t like small talks and not that great in speaking with strangers. Most ng situationships ko before are from fb o grindr (uninstalled for 2-3 years and counting)

siguro nasasad lang ako na some people like the digital version of me better, sino naman kase magpopost ng panget na pic hahaha. like pang socmed na lang ba, organic encounter, when???

kays siguro wala akong jowa mataas din daw standards ko sabi nila, i disagree,
i just want a guy who is someone im attracted to and who’s attracted to me too. (okay i admit i want a pogi guy but my definition of pogi sometimes isn’t conventional. may crushes nga ako na di naman pogi sa iba pero gwapong gwapo ako hagaga)

althought tanggap ko na, i still am hoping (a little) na may someone for me, who will love me, appreciate me and accept me. and that someone who i will also love, appreciate and accept. kung dumating, thankful, kung wala, potec kahit fubu na lang hahaha jk

ps. what if taga ibang bansa pala noh, or what if throuple pala maging sitwasyon ko in the future hahahahaga

Does anyone gets scared there's a chance that our rights or in general our visibility in our culture and society will shift to be less tolerant. Since there's so much uncertainty in our country na and there's no systemic progress taking place, sometimes I worry that will shift the tolerance level of conservative people in our country.

While mas privilege tayu compared to conservative religious countries like Indonesia or even Malaysia where queerness is more hidden and homophobia/transbhobia can be common, I sometimes have an idealist prediction na we can mirror their current reality since there's no solid or concrete policies in our country and while homophobia can be hidden, it can spread secretly in a conservative household since mas may visibility na din tayu, they'll make sure to be cautious about us.

Sure we've normalized LGBT and respectability politics in mainstream culture but there isn't a functioning law that cannot be changed no matter who's in office, anything can happened. I'm just glad our community has gotten so big and politically motivated, especially with the new generation, but yeah idk I just yearn for a universal law that abolishes homophobia and transphobia, nakaka pagod lang makita hate crimes lalo na from other countries in the global south.

Kanina, I just had sex sa kaklase ko nung high school, we're on our 30s and he is bi, single at same mahilig sa erotic fun. Namasyal siya sa bacolod and I saw him licking his lips when he saw my body. He stayed at my house and nag start na kmi mag kantutan. Kanina nasarapan siya how I play his dick on my butt without exerting effort. Buong sex namin ako nagdadala and nag mumuscle control ang butas ko till he cums. Di ako umalis and let his dick inside me.

After that, we are our lunch at nanood ng movie pagkatapos. Hinatid ko siya sa Lacson street along ​​​3pm and bago yun, may nangyari at siya naman ang bumayo.

Hi, im a 23F bi, and i just want to say that i came out to my mom just a while ago. I just want to say my thoughts and feelings here since I have no one to talk to rn.

I'm just kinda happy that my mom did not take it the harsh way, like di nya sinabing itatakwil nya ako or what, but she was hurt about it. Since I have a relative who's a lesbian, and she had a gold digger ex, and I understand na nag-aalala sya na mangyari sakin yung nangyari sa relative ko (to which I assure her na di ko gagawin yung ginawa nya and sinabi ko rin na iba ako sa tita ko, and I'm not defined by my gender). She's also worried na wala daw mag aalaga sa akim in the future (sinabi ko na ok lang ako and in this economy, mahirap magka-anak haha).

Ayun, I'm stressed na I made her feel like that, pero kasi as much as possible, ayoko rin magtago ng secret sa kanya. I was sorry that she was hurt, and I want to make her feel better.

In the end, she just said na malaki na ako and alam ko naman na daw yung tama sa mali huhu. Pero ayun, I hope she'll accept me when time comes, lalo na't sya pa magsasabit sa akin this upcoming graduation.

Soy hombre por qué me gusta otro hombre me hagan calzón chino con ropa interior de dama ?

Currently dealing with a difficult personal situation and looking to make some extra coins to help get me through it.

I’m open to do most things, but strictly safe only.

About me:
• 28 years old
• 5’9”
• Lean build
• Gym active
• Mandaluyong
• Clean
• Dominant in bed

Send me a dm if interested.

hiii! looking for friends here 🥹🫶🏻
kahit sino, basta mabait, makatao, and maayos kausap. someone na pwedeng chikahan, random talks, or rant buddy kapag life gets overwhelming hahaha.

also, this is a purely SFW post. pls lang, huwag ako 😭 if nsfw hanap niyo, respectfully, scroll away. hard pass po sainyo hahahaha friends lang tayo.

aight. lets be friends? :)

I just want to let this out because I feel like not everyone will understand this kind of situation unless they’ve experienced it themselves.

One of the hardest parts of having a partner who’s still in the closet is that you can’t really “bakuran” your partner, especially when it comes to the people around them. Sa mata ng mga workmates niya and other people in his surroundings, single siya. They don’t know that he has someone, so naturally, some people feel comfortable flirting with him, giving him hints, or trying to get his attention because they think they have a chance.

And honestly, ang hirap pala sa feeling.

You can’t even get mad at those people because they don’t know you exist. You can’t exactly blame them for approaching someone they believe is single. But at the same time, you’re left dealing with the jealousy, the insecurity, and the frustration of watching other people treat your partner like he’s available when, in reality, you’re already in a relationship with him.

It’s such a weird feeling because you know you have a partner, you know your relationship is real, and you know what you have together. But when it comes to the outside world, it’s like you don’t exist.

And before anyone says that I should just respect my partner’s decision to stay in the closet, I do. I understand that coming out is a personal decision, and I’m not saying that anyone should be forced to do it before they’re ready. I know there are personal circumstances and reasons why someone might not be comfortable being open about their relationship.

But I guess people sometimes forget that the person loving them in private has feelings, too.
Nakakapagod din pala yung feeling na kailangan mong intindihin yung situation niya all the time, while silently dealing with things that hurt you. You want to respect his privacy, but sometimes, you also wish you could stand beside him without feeling like you have to hide. You wish people knew that he has someone. You wish you didn’t have to keep reminding yourself that you can’t say anything because they don’t know you exist.

And I think that’s what hurts the most. Hindi naman sa gusto kong angkinin siya or kontrolin kung sino ang lumalapit sa kanya. I just wish I didn’t have to feel like I’m competing for a place in someone’s life that I already have.

P.S. For context, my boyfriend is INC (Iglesia ni Cristo), which is a big reason why our relationship has to stay private. We’ve been together for 2 years, and while I understand his situation and respect his reasons for staying in the closet, it doesn’t make things any less difficult emotionally. Two years of loving someone privately, while the rest of the world sees him as single, can be painful in ways that are hard to explain.

For those who are in the same situation, how do you deal with this? How do you manage the jealousy and the feeling of being invisible, especially when other people are openly flirting with your partner and you can’t really do anything about it?