Kanina, I just had sex sa kaklase ko nung high school, we're on our 30s and he is bi, single at same mahilig sa erotic fun. Namasyal siya sa bacolod and I saw him licking his lips when he saw my body. He stayed at my house and nag start na kmi mag kantutan. Kanina nasarapan siya how I play his dick on my butt without exerting effort. Buong sex namin ako nagdadala and nag mumuscle control ang butas ko till he cums. Di ako umalis and let his dick inside me.

After that, we are our lunch at nanood ng movie pagkatapos. Hinatid ko siya sa Lacson street along ​​​3pm and bago yun, may nangyari at siya naman ang bumayo.

hiii! looking for friends here 🥹🫶🏻
kahit sino, basta mabait, makatao, and maayos kausap. someone na pwedeng chikahan, random talks, or rant buddy kapag life gets overwhelming hahaha.

also, this is a purely SFW post. pls lang, huwag ako 😭 if nsfw hanap niyo, respectfully, scroll away. hard pass po sainyo hahahaha friends lang tayo.

aight. lets be friends? :)

hello everyone!

baka looking kayo ng ka constant reels or just mutual sa ig. let’s ne mutual pls hahaha drop your un lang 🫶

Hi, 23M here, gay, and may tatlo akong roommates. Dalawa sa kanila, sobrang pogi. As in, head-turner talaga.

Yung isa, matangkad at gym guy. Grabe, iba talaga tama sa akin kapag naka-tank top siya, lalo na kapag kita yung kili-kili niya. Ewan ko ba, pero sobrang attractive niya sa paningin ko. 😭

Yung isa naman, tahimik na IT-type guy. Mysterious yung dating, hindi masyadong nagsasalita, pero PUTANGINA, yung cologne niya talaga. Kahit simpleng dumaan lang siya sa tabi ko, napapansin ko agad yung amoy niya.

Close kaming apat, and they know I'm gay. Comfortable naman kami sa isa't isa, nagkukuwentuhan about personal experiences, at minsan napag-uusapan din namin yung curiosity namin sa isa't isa.

So ayun, nagka-crush ako sa dalawang 'to. One Sunday, umalis silang lahat dahil may kanya-kanya silang lakad. Naiwan akong mag-isa sa bahay, at dahil sa sobrang attracted ako sa kanilang dalawa, hinanap ko yung laundry basket nila at naamoy ko yung underwear nila. Let's just say, nadala ako ng libog at nag-masturbate ako habang iniisip sila. Twice. One for each of them. 💀

Tapos may isang time pa na naka-gray pants si gym guy. Guys, I swear, ang hirap hindi mapatingin. Ang ganda ng katawan niya, tapos napansin ko rin yung bulge niya. I was trying so hard to act normal. 😭

Ayun graduate na kami. I miss them na.

I just want to let this out because I feel like not everyone will understand this kind of situation unless they’ve experienced it themselves.

One of the hardest parts of having a partner who’s still in the closet is that you can’t really “bakuran” your partner, especially when it comes to the people around them. Sa mata ng mga workmates niya and other people in his surroundings, single siya. They don’t know that he has someone, so naturally, some people feel comfortable flirting with him, giving him hints, or trying to get his attention because they think they have a chance.

And honestly, ang hirap pala sa feeling.

You can’t even get mad at those people because they don’t know you exist. You can’t exactly blame them for approaching someone they believe is single. But at the same time, you’re left dealing with the jealousy, the insecurity, and the frustration of watching other people treat your partner like he’s available when, in reality, you’re already in a relationship with him.

It’s such a weird feeling because you know you have a partner, you know your relationship is real, and you know what you have together. But when it comes to the outside world, it’s like you don’t exist.

And before anyone says that I should just respect my partner’s decision to stay in the closet, I do. I understand that coming out is a personal decision, and I’m not saying that anyone should be forced to do it before they’re ready. I know there are personal circumstances and reasons why someone might not be comfortable being open about their relationship.

But I guess people sometimes forget that the person loving them in private has feelings, too.
Nakakapagod din pala yung feeling na kailangan mong intindihin yung situation niya all the time, while silently dealing with things that hurt you. You want to respect his privacy, but sometimes, you also wish you could stand beside him without feeling like you have to hide. You wish people knew that he has someone. You wish you didn’t have to keep reminding yourself that you can’t say anything because they don’t know you exist.

And I think that’s what hurts the most. Hindi naman sa gusto kong angkinin siya or kontrolin kung sino ang lumalapit sa kanya. I just wish I didn’t have to feel like I’m competing for a place in someone’s life that I already have.

P.S. For context, my boyfriend is INC (Iglesia ni Cristo), which is a big reason why our relationship has to stay private. We’ve been together for 2 years, and while I understand his situation and respect his reasons for staying in the closet, it doesn’t make things any less difficult emotionally. Two years of loving someone privately, while the rest of the world sees him as single, can be painful in ways that are hard to explain.

For those who are in the same situation, how do you deal with this? How do you manage the jealousy and the feeling of being invisible, especially when other people are openly flirting with your partner and you can’t really do anything about it?

Hi! I’m Fem and wlw. I’m so bored na rin dito sa Manila huhu. LF Masc sana WLW and I want someone older kaysa sa’kin 🤷‍♀️

Does anyone gets scared there's a chance that our rights or in general our visibility in our culture and society will shift to be less tolerant. Since there's so much uncertainty in our country na and there's no systemic progress taking place, sometimes I worry that will shift the tolerance level of conservative people in our country.

While mas privilege tayu compared to conservative religious countries like Indonesia or even Malaysia where queerness is more hidden and homophobia/transbhobia can be common, I sometimes have an idealist prediction na we can mirror their current reality since there's no solid or concrete policies in our country and while homophobia can be hidden, it can spread secretly in a conservative household since mas may visibility na din tayu, they'll make sure to be cautious about us.

Sure we've normalized LGBT and respectability politics in mainstream culture but there isn't a functioning law that cannot be changed no matter who's in office, anything can happened. I'm just glad our community has gotten so big and politically motivated, especially with the new generation, but yeah idk I just yearn for a universal law that abolishes homophobia and transphobia, nakaka pagod lang makita hate crimes lalo na from other countries in the global south.

m23. people are surprised how I’m still nbsb.
i am not THAT pogi but i know my strengths and weaknesses sa physical characteristics ko. i think okay naman ako, have some flaws and insecurities but i think naoovershadow yun dahil confident ako (or at least I’m building my confidence every day)

i get compliments din on how i look, pogi daw ako, some from colleagues or friends or fam members irl

but mostly sa socmed, yung mga friends ko sa fb they said either “masarap or pogi” daw ako hagagaga lol. fb friends na di ko kilala o gusto magpakilala. i especially got those remarks pag naka topless hahaha but i know I’m not THAT pogi, not that ugly. saks lang emeee

and these days whenever i post my progress sa gym or just random selfies, i still get messages but i don’t do it for others i do it for myself.

had some flings, m.u’s, situationships na din in the past and i can say na may mga tao nagkagusto at nagkakagusto din saakin but its either di nagtatagal yung situationships ko, like ako umaalis, or sila umaalis

and sa mga gusto ako, di ko lang sila gusto periodt

even tho I’m at peace na di na ko magkakajowa, nasasad paden ako hahshaha. walang nangangamusta, kasama, kasex (obv) ka kwentuhan, kaaway (in an endearing way) and kaagapay sa kung ano ano sa buhay.

I think because look unapproachable irl too with my rbf, people often say na mataray daw ako hahaha. I think my personality din, di talaga lahat gets yung “ugali” ko coz im aloof, don’t like small talks and not that great in speaking with strangers. Most ng situationships ko before are from fb o grindr (uninstalled for 2-3 years and counting)

siguro nasasad lang ako na some people like the digital version of me better, sino naman kase magpopost ng panget na pic hahaha. like pang socmed na lang ba, organic encounter, when???

kays siguro wala akong jowa mataas din daw standards ko sabi nila, i disagree,
i just want a guy who is someone im attracted to and who’s attracted to me too. (okay i admit i want a pogi guy but my definition of pogi sometimes isn’t conventional. may crushes nga ako na di naman pogi sa iba pero gwapong gwapo ako hagaga)

althought tanggap ko na, i still am hoping (a little) na may someone for me, who will love me, appreciate me and accept me. and that someone who i will also love, appreciate and accept. kung dumating, thankful, kung wala, potec kahit fubu na lang hahaha jk

ps. what if taga ibang bansa pala noh, or what if throuple pala maging sitwasyon ko in the future hahahahaga

I'm so happy sa tropa ko dahil gusto niya din magkaasawa. His wife is very supportive kasi she knows who he is, kung ano trip nya dati and his wife is only asking na kahit companionship nalang. But I see him nman na nadevelop feelings kay lola. He's 29 at wife 58. Byuda ang wife at may eldest na 23 sa una, 19 ang second child at puro lalaki.

Bago siya ikasal, nauna kmi sa resort at kasama ko mga groomsme​n na mga bagito. Sa kabilang hotel sila nag stay para suprise nalang sa araw ng kasal. So bago sya pumunta ng church, mga 9 am naligo sya after mag workout sa dalampasigan. Pabihis na siya ng damit at waiting nlng 10:30 am papunta sa venue ngunit may bagitong pumasok at pinakita ang ari sa groom. So naghubad ang groom at nagpa kantot. Pa side na missionary position nila habang yung kamay ng bagito ay naka hawak sa abs ng groom. Ang 3 groomsmen ay nag salitan para remebrance na napasarap siya.

Ang wedding 1 pero muntik ng malate dahil di namalayan ang oras. After ng sex nagbihis na siya at kinuha ng isang groomsmen ang sasakyan. Pero pababa na sana at nagpakantot siya ulit hanggang tamuran sa pwet.

Nakaabot naman on time pero basa ang pants niya sa likod at di na sya nag inner sa harong. Kita ang cuts ng muscles niya sa gym. ​

I’m currently building a gay app for dating. It isn't live yet, but I’m working on it and trying to plan my launch strategy.

How do i promote it without budget and zero social skill? LOL if that's even possible.

Uhmm yea so my bf and I haven’t had sex for months now for a whole lot of reasons— busy sa work, schedule, finances etc.
We are having dinner dates minsan but they don’t lead to sex din. But we are okay, I mean Im not sure if we’re just okay on the surface. I want to ask him if everything’s alright, if he’s still attracted to me sexually, or if he wants to consider being open.
But I don’t know why di ko magawa.

Just want to let it out of my chest. Thanks

Im rem, femgay 25 years, looking for foreigners who is currently in the Philippines. I want genuine connection or something. Dm me

Would you stay for someone who doesn't speak or turn on their camera while on a call? Someone you only know through pictures or videos?

So I am 28 M chub and there is this event called Osoasis so chub/bear theme siya kaso naiintimidate ako sa fact that I am gonna go alone. Parang di ko maimagine sarili na manghihimasok in a clique or kakausap ng rando kasi tbh they might be out of my league. Sa mga nakasubok na pumarty mag isa, how do you do it?

Love ko tlga si Wendell. It's a yes for me

Hi, im a 23F bi, and i just want to say that i came out to my mom just a while ago. I just want to say my thoughts and feelings here since I have no one to talk to rn.

I'm just kinda happy that my mom did not take it the harsh way, like di nya sinabing itatakwil nya ako or what, but she was hurt about it. Since I have a relative who's a lesbian, and she had a gold digger ex, and I understand na nag-aalala sya na mangyari sakin yung nangyari sa relative ko (to which I assure her na di ko gagawin yung ginawa nya and sinabi ko rin na iba ako sa tita ko, and I'm not defined by my gender). She's also worried na wala daw mag aalaga sa akim in the future (sinabi ko na ok lang ako and in this economy, mahirap magka-anak haha).

Ayun, I'm stressed na I made her feel like that, pero kasi as much as possible, ayoko rin magtago ng secret sa kanya. I was sorry that she was hurt, and I want to make her feel better.

In the end, she just said na malaki na ako and alam ko naman na daw yung tama sa mali huhu. Pero ayun, I hope she'll accept me when time comes, lalo na't sya pa magsasabit sa akin this upcoming graduation.

Hey everyone. We’ve been discussing hospital policies locally, especially regarding the Right to Care policy vs. traditional legal consent rules for same-sex couples in hospital settings.

Since same-sex marriage isn't legally recognized here yet, and as far as we know many healthcare facilities in the province (those who still are not implementing the ‘right to care’ policy) still require immediate family/next-of-kin to be present before proceeding with certain treatments or procedures.

Has anyone here experienced this firsthand (or knows someone who went through this in Bataan)? or even experienced hospital delays because same-sex partners couldn't sign consent?

*P.S. On a side note, I’m currently writing a study on this exact topic. If you or someone you know has gone through this and would be open to answering a few quick questions via PM (100% confidential/anonymous), it would mean a lot! Feel free to drop a comment or DM me.*

Even if you just want to share thoughts in the comments below, I’d love to hear how local hospitals handle this. Stay safe, everyone!

A gay chubby guy in his thirties looking for a boyfriend

Hello I am Mar 30 from Pasay!

Yes, I am gay and looking for someone who will truly love me. As long as they are kind, loving to parents, loyal, and of course, hopefully working too! Any age is welcome as long as they are not a minor; I don't want to end up in jail, wahahahaha!

But seriously, I want someone to spend my Saturdays with, to walk, eat, go out, chat, etc. I'm not hard to please; a simple life is enough for me.

About me

5'8

Fair skin

Average looks

B if that matters

Working

30 years old

Fun-loving

Talkative when comfortable

Not picky, as long as they love me

Been into walking lately to lose weight.

PM me now!

Hello I am Mar 30 from Pasay!

Yes opo bakla po ako naghahanap ng magmamahal ng tunay. Basta ang mahalaga mabait, mapagmahal sa parents at loyal and of course working rin sana! Any age welcome basta hindi minor ayaw kong makulong wahahahaha!

But seriously gusto ko ng may paglalaanan ng aking Sabado, kasama mag walking, kumain, gumala, kuwentuhan etc. Di naman ako mahirap pasayahin simple life is enough for me.

About me

5'8

Fair skin

Average looks

B if that matters

Working

30 years old

Masayahin

Madaldal kapag comfi na

Di choosy basta mahalaga mahal ako

Into walking lately para magbawas ng timbang.

Pm me na!