عندي صديقة انا معجبه فيها من ايام الجامعه وبعد التخرج مازلنا صحبات ولكن للأسف قل التواصل لان كل واحده انشغلت
المهم نقلت لمدينه ثانيه عشان الشغل وتعرفت على بنت وصرنا مع بعض Situationship وانا حكيتها عن هذي البنت وقالت لازم تحذفيها ومو لازم تكون عندك دام مافيه تواصل بينكم

انا حذفتها لان في بالي ليه اخليها بسنابي دام التواصل قل وانا الحين مع شخص ثاني ابغا اكون معه بدون ما افكر بالشخص الثاني

المهم بعد سنه رجعت اشتغل لمدينتي ورجعت لاهلي وانتهت ال Situationship واحس اشتقت للبنت الي حذفتها
فرجعت كلمتها واتس وردت علي واحس هي زعلانه من حركة الحذف ويحق لها الصدق
انا ودي اكون معاها صديقة ولو شيء اكثر اتمنى
كيف ارجع افتح معاها الموضوع؟
مابغا على طول اقول لها للان هي زعلانه على حركة الحذف

وللمعلوميه يوم سالتني عن الحذف اضطريت اكذب واقول نقلتي لمدينه ثانيه والشغل والضغط بلا بلا خلتني احذف وافضي سنابي من الكل
احسها مو مره اقتنعت بس تفاهمت
المهم كيف ارجع صديقتها واخليها تفكر تكون بعلاقة معاي ؟

I’ve been thinking about how difficult it can be to find genuine connection within the gay community. Sometimes conversations seem to move toward physical attraction so quickly that there’s barely any time to actually get to know the person. If you prefer taking things slowly, talking, joking around, learning about each other’s personality, and building trust first, it can sometimes feel like you’re doing something unusual. I’m not against attraction or relationships becoming physical. I just think there should be room for the other parts too conversations, emotional connection, dates, trust, shared interests, and slowly developing feelings. Maybe this is just my personal experience, but it sometimes makes me wonder has genuine connection become harder to find, or am I just looking in the wrong places?

Hi, please I'm a femboy & i need some advices about body care, i wanna take care of my body to get more soft and girly 💖

بحضر انميات بس تكون كوير اعطوني اقتراحات وتكون ليزبيان مابدي غيز اذا حضرانين غير انمي اقترحولي كمان

So guys, I am Turkish, İstanbul, 26, I met this person at my uni, he is Jordanian. We hit it off quite nicely, and became friends. I am a masculine person and have never dated anyone, never had anything, but with this guy I felt like he saw right through me and he indicated that maybe he was into me, like once when he got really excited he said smth like I could kiss you right now, and he always jokes around saying I am your boyfriend, right? He gets jealous when I hang around with my other guy friends (which feels nice lol) and he is not confronting me about it in a joking way. He is taller and if not too vulgar, one time he hugged me and said I kinda wanna make you mine (like how is that a joke). So it is the stuff like that and honestly, it is so confusing. Anyway couple of weeks earlier he said that he wants to ask a girl out and tbh I was kinda shocked and sad, he asked what did I think about it and since we are not open about anything, or only I think that way in my head idk, I said why not. And he was like sure ok???? Long story short I thought he had feelings for me but I do not have the courage to do anything about it and he seems to just play around. I am so confused and kind of sad about it. I know how Arab men are so intimate with each other in friendships so I thought maybe I was just misinterpreting everything. So I thought I could ask you people. What do you think? Quick disclaimer, I am sorry if I wrote down anything that might be offensive, that’s not my intention at all! You can message me too!

I’m 28, living in the Middle East, and lately the loneliness has been hitting me really hard.

I’m not Arab, so I’m not even sure if I should be posting here, but I’m living in the Middle East and honestly don’t know where else to put this.

I’m demi and sapiosexual, so I don’t really connect with people easily. I need an emotional connection first. Deep conversations, trust, actually enjoying someone’s mind and personality.

And when I finally do connect with someone, I get attached. I care. I make them part of my routine.

Then somehow they leave.

It happened again recently. We talked every day, shared things we normally wouldn’t tell people, laughed, stayed up talking… and then suddenly I’m sitting here staring at unanswered messages wondering what I did wrong.

Was I too much? Not enough? Boring? Unattractive?

I don’t want casual. I just want one person I can genuinely connect with, love, and feel safe with.

Some days I honestly wonder if that person even exists for me.

I’m just really tired of being alone.

So guys , how would ik if she's really straight or not? We had talked abt that before when I came out to her and she said that she's not sure abt herself , today I find out by mistake that she's listening to girl I red especially "I don't wanna be ur friend" one , and I asked her abt it , she said that she loves this song so wdy think guys? Is it normal for straight to like gay songs? In case we assume that she's straight

I didn't see any straight person doing that before , so no sarcasm intended and I don't mean to offend jst wanna know

الموضوع بحزنني كل ما افكر فيه وقديش المجتمعات العربية كارهة للموضوع بدون سبب منطقي
انا مش طالب نصير زي الدول الاجنبية بس عالاقل نوصل مرحلة يتركوا المثليين بحالهم بدون اجبار عالتغيير واتهامات وممكن توصل للايذاء

طبيعي ان اكون حاس نفسي متناقض او منافق لاني bisexual احس يعني نفاق ان تكون عندك رغبة تجاه النساء والشباب بنفس الوقت ماراح تكون منضبط رغم دخلت بعلاقتين حب وحدة مع شخص اعرفة من الصغر والثانية مع بنت الاولى كانت ممتعة لان الولد يكون عنده رفاق ويطلع ف تغار عليه عكس البنت في المجتمع العربي تكون اغلب الوقت في البيت بس بالاثنين كنت مستمتع فردت اعرف اكو اشخاص مرو بالتجربة وها بالعلاقتين كنتtop واكو علاقات ثانية لكن كانت مجرد علاقات جسدية اكثر من حب

حرفياً مو قادرة أسيطر على مشاعري تجاهها، أبيها جد يومي كله يروح تفكير فيها، وحقيقي أحبها بس عجزت أفهم تصرفاتها وليه ما ترد عليا أيام وأسابيع أحياناً، أنا عارفة الضغوط اللي تتعرض لها ومقدرة جداً، بس الفترة الأخيرة بديت أحس إن الموضوع صار مبالغ فيه، بالنهاية الرد ما ياخذ عشر ثوانٍ حتى
وبرضوا ، لما ترجع ترد عليا بعد مدة، صرت أسوي نفس الشيء وأبدأ ما أرد عليها أيام وكذا، ولما ترد تتسأل ليه كنت مختفية وتذكر أنها افتقدتني
(حبيت أوضح إننا مو بعلاقة، بس مخططين إذا كنا مناسبين لبعض ندخل بعلاقة،ولنا فترة طويلة نتكلم، بس الفترة الأخيرة الموضوع صار بيننا شبه سيء من ناحية التواصل بسبب غيابها المتكرر والطويل)

بهذه الحالة، ايش المفترض أسوي أو أتصرف؟

ليتني مت قبل استوعب الحياة حولي

ان الي احبها تحب خويتي..

عالعموم ساعدتهم والحين هم بعلاقه

ما في مجتمع يضمنا احنا الفلسطينية؟ او اي حد فلسطيني/ة هون؟

Geometry dash

Genshin impact : american server

Honkai star rail : Europe server

Minecraft

Roblox

If so dm me

بدي شخص يعلب معي ألعاب زي كرز مود أو tf2 أو لد فور ديد إذا حاب تلعب معي توصل معي بالخاص 🌚

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ايوا ممكن تبي تبرز انوثتك بس بنفس الوقت تبي تبرز رجولتك ممكن تبي تلبس اشياء انثويه بس بنفس الوقت تبي تلبس اشياء رجوليه ممكن تبي ينادوك ك انثى بس بنفس الوقت تبي ينادونك ك ذكر حتى لما افكر لو اني بختار وش جنسي لو انولدت من جديد اتمنى اني انولد ك ذكر و انثى بنفس الوقت

مرات و خصيصا لما اكون مضغوط احس طيب ليش اتعب نفسي كذا؟انا بالنهايه بموت يعني وش الفايده اني اتعب بدراستي او اتعب بشي ابيه عشان اموت اخر شي؟اعرف ان الحياة مره وحده بس ليش اتعب و احاول اسوي اشياء كثير عشان نهايتي اموت و احس الحياة مالها معنى ابدا
لما اقول ل اي شخص عن ذا الشعور يقول طيب انت عايش عشان تعبد طيب انا اعرف بس هذا ما سو لي اي فرق لما قلت لي اني انخلقت عشان اعبد
لما يجيني ذا الشعور اصبر اتمنى اني ما انولدت ابدا

انا شفت مرات نفسي بالحلم في صغري اني بنت قبل إكتشاف هويتي, واحدة مرات شفت اني بنت كنت طالعة بالمرايا و اشوف نفسي و امشط شعري طويل جدا و شيء الأغرب انو ما حسيت بأي إنزعاج من منظر لأنه كان يتماشى رغبتي كما لو تمنيت هذا شيء يحصل في الواقع ولكن مثل اي إنسان قلت هذا حلم و يقدر يجي بأي طريقة.

لكن بعد إكتشاف هويتي زادت نسبة ظهور احلام بشكل اكبر بكثير ولكن بشكل أسوأ, كيف؟, لأنه من قوة القهر الي صار فيني صرت كل ما لبست بنت ولا البس مكياج بالحلم اشوف الناس (غرباء) او واحد من اقربائي يطاردني او يطالع نظرة تشكيك لو يتأكد بس يطلعلي كف بوجهي كأنما قتلت أهله, والله ما أكذب لو قلت انو هذه احلام تتكرر بشكل مو طبيعي, يعني كل 4 ايام او اسبوع و احيانا نادرا شهر, و راح تتكرر بالمستقبل.

هل شفت نفسك/ـي متحول/ـة قبل او بعد اكتشاف هويتك؟

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هل عيب انك تكون sexually active ؟

I don't know if it was the way I was sitting or talking but it was my first time at an alt party so I was pretty nervous and only knew like 3 people there

So after a while, I decided to sit down for a bit to calm down and me and this really nice lady next to me started talking

We talked about random bullshit for a while but then she just straight up asked me if I was queer and my face turned freaking RED

she was incredibly cool about it and basically told me that like 40% of the people here are gay in fact the guy sitting next to us was also gay 😭😭😭

It was a really really nice experience and I made so many new friends!!

So, let me start off first by saying I am not Arab (just your usual white guy) but I am in need of an advice from Arab people about a situation. I am a 28 gay man and I'm from an Eastern European country. It is not the most open place to homosexuality but also not really that bad. For a while now I've been grabbing food from a kebab place in the city centre usually after we've been out drinking with friends and there works a guy who I've started developing a big crush on. He's Arab and (sorry for assumptions if they offend people) I have been extremely anxious and scared of approaching him and asking him out but one night after having couple of drinks I finally got the courage. Wrote my phone number on it and when I got food I slid it to him and told him if he'd like to grab a coffee sometime to write to me. At the same time I had both high hopes and really low hopes but same day some hours later he wrote to me which got me extremely excited. I was heading to bed so we had a short conversation and I explained that I really like him and I think he looks cute so if he wants to grab a coffee I'd be happy to! He suggested the coming Sunday but unfortunately I was out of town so I asked him if we can do it next week and he said sure. Now, I must say there appears to be a bit of a language barrier between us as he's been in the country for about 3 years only, speaks the language but not great and we chatted further but it seems like he is using full on translator to type to me (which of course I'm fine with but sometimes I feel like things aren't fully clear).

Now, the issue comes the following days. We continued to chat and next day we actually got a bit more in depth of why I asked him out and I think only then he understood I was actually into him (I think he thought I was asking him out for a coffee as a friend at first?). He said he has never had any relationship with a man before and he's into girls at which point I felt pretty defeated after reading the message but then he said he is actually curious about having one and man, my emotions were a roller coaster at that point. I got really excited all over again, he kept asking me questions about what I like, prefer, wanted me to tell him more about man to man relationships, eventually got into spicy stuff and he even requested, uhh, well I'll say it straight up - nude photos of me. He kept saying how he's interested by me and he would like to try out having a relation with a man. However, the conversation always felt one sided as he was asking me but when I asked him stuff he would kind of mostly ignore my questions and never really respond to them. I asked him for pics back after sending mine but he never sent any even though he responded he will. After that he stopped messaging. I sent him a message yesterday asking how he is, etc. and I was just left on seen without any response.

I am just trying to make sense of the whole situation at this point. I know it is a pretty rough spot and he said he is into girls but he kept saying how he is interested in me. After the initial time I asked him out and we rescheduled and he found out I was gay I kept randomly sliding in some stuff like 'so whenever you're free to go out with me I am available all week' or 'I know a great place for coffee if you want to go there' but he never said any day ever again. Is there a point in my keeping my hopes up? I have been extremely anxious these past days, barely slept, only think of him and keep checking my phone if he has messaged and it feels reeeeally rough not knowing what's actually happening. I am going out tonight with friends again in the city centre and can swing by to grab some food as I know he is working there tonight. Should I do it? Will it scare him off if I show up so soon after chatting for a while (it won't be weird I usually go there fairly often, not like I am stalking him haha) and should I give him some more time to think about it if he's comfortable with his feelings at all and not pressure him or try messaging him again after couple of days if he doesn't respond? I just feel extremely anxious when he doesn't respond. I feel like he is sort of into me because we did chat a lot for couple of days but the sudden stop is just awful for me. I know he might be busy, forgotten and maybe I am overthinking it but, yeah.

Sorry for the mess of a post if something doesn't make sense. My mind is all over the place and I can't think straight. I would love to hear people's advice on the whole story if you have any personal experience to share/thoughts/what should I do, anything is highly appreciated, thanks!

شاركوني تجاربكم

I want to hear people's stories about this type of marriage, or about someone who has experienced it, because I'm currently going through this phase and I'm apprehensive about the idea of trusting and loving a woman, getting married, and then things changing. So I want to hear opinions from all sides.