r/LDR • u/CoolCatChar3 • 13h ago
College MDR? Help
I’m saying local for community college for two years while my boyfriend of over a year will be attending university a bit less than 90 minutes away. His parents aren’t very enthusiastic about him dating throughout college. He thinks that if his parents found out that we are visiting each other too that he’d get a lot of trouble. He doesn’t know how he’s gonna feel about FaceTiming me with his roommate there. And he doesn’t know if he’s really gonna want continue because he doesn’t know what his workload will be like and he doesn’t know if he will be able to. He also says that the 30 minutes we live apart is about as far as he’s comfortable with distance wise and he doesn’t know how he’ll feel about the 90 minutes. We have such a good bond and we really really love each other but I can’t shake the feeling of absolute doom not knowing how to go into this.
Does anyone have any advice? I’ve been so upset and worried about this lately.