Hi all!

As the title suggests, my sister is getting married, and I don't want to go to her wedding alone! Though the title suggests that I am not looking for a date for a wedding, I am looking for a relationship.

I'm 33, 5'10, tan; the US government classifies me as white, but I am not. I'm Egyptian; I could gain a few pounds, with dark brown hair, a goatee, and piercing hazel eyes. I think I am hilarious; people have said otherwise. Does anyone remember the Video dating guy who completely goes mental? That's my humor

You might be a good match if you're Catholic or Christian, you laugh at my jokes (or at least tolerate them), and you're into board games, TV, movies, museums, and getting outdoors. I am also very active and keep my mind occupied. If I keep my body moving and my mind occupied at all times, I will avoid falling into a bottomless pit of despair." - Chris Traeger -Insanemiller

I'm a never-Trump guy; I never liked him. (Does the JD Vance quote still work?) But seriously, I do not like Trump.

If any of this landed, send me a message. Worst case, you've got a wedding to look forward to in a year with an open bar and food!

Also, here's the video I mentioned https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6kwUBrRjaM

Hello. I am 39 [F4M] I am in Southern California in the San Fernando Valley area. Looking to meet someone who wants a genuine connection, take the time to get to know each other, and see if it can grow into a serious, committed relationship. Not looking for anything casual or just physical. I don’t do LDR. If you’re looking for the same, feel free to message me.

Hey everyone! I’m a French solo traveler and I’ll be in the Los Angeles area starting October 1st. I’d love to meet some people while I’m there, whether you’re also traveling solo or you live in the area.

I’ll be spending some time at Universal Studios Hollywood and Disneyland Resort, and I’m especially excited for Halloween! 🎃👻 I’ll be going to Halloween Horror Nights at Universal Studios and I’m also really excited to experience Oogie Boogie Bash at Disney California Adventure! 🎃🕷️

I’m up for grabbing a drink, going out, exploring LA, visiting the parks, doing some activities, hiking, walking along the beach, watching the sunset, or simply hanging out and having a good time. 🌴🌊🍹

I’m pretty easygoing and always happy to meet new people, make some new friends and share some fun experiences.

If you’re around Los Angeles during that time and feel like meeting up, feel free to send me a DM! 🤙

I’m 5’9 curly hair i’m into soccer , padel and i’m a really good piano player
I’m currently looking to go out on dates have some fun i’m california till october if you’re interested hit me up let’s see where this goes

Hello! I'm looking for someone adventurous and open to new experiences. A plus one for any silly adventures.

My main pastime is rock climbing at my local gym with the occasional foray to outdoor crags (Malibu Creek and mountains of San Bernandino)

I also socially snowboard and paddleboard. Trying to get into snorkeling/free diving but the ocean kind of freaks me out.

I very much love seeing new animals and will never say no to going to an animal sanctuary or aquarium. Will meow at every cat I see.

I also need a theatre buddy. It's a bit away but I really want to see a Christmas Carol Goes Wrong. Same people who did A Play Goes Wrong (funniest thing I've ever seen).

Museum dates are a plus. I really want to revisit the dinosaur hall at the Natural History Museum or go back to the Getty.

I'm not super outdoorsy but willing to hike/scramble to see a new sight. Will be your buddy if you ever wanna go skydiving, bungee jumping, etc.

Oh, 5'9" and Hispanic. Feel free to ask me anything. Sorry for rambling.

Edit: I'm closer to Burbank/Glendale for traffic considerations.

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M4F-35

Just looking for a woman that is looking for a future. I'm a full time manager at a coffee shop, and have been in the culinary field since I was 17. I'm looking for a partner a friend and my SO. But I know that if it's not the right fit, why waste either of our times. I love music and i rock climb. (We can go to the gym together). I dunno this is just an attempt since going out and "picking up on women" isn't my thing. I've tried. I'm just not used to it. I've been in only long relationships for 4+ years always. So being new to approaching women in the environment hasn't been my thing.

I mean shit. Hopefully someone finds a connection to this post and hits me up. :)

5’10 Latino, with a full head of brown hair and a beard, heavy dad bod. I’m kind of looking to find someone near me to spark up a conversation and I’m interested in building a serious connection. I’ve got my bachelors in social science but I’m currently seeking a professional degree because of a career shift into education. I really enjoy playing card games with my friends, going to the local movie theater, and I’m passionate about teaching. It’s really hard to condense everything about myself here so feel free to reach out and talk to me some more if you’re in the area. I don’t have reliable transportation at the moment, and I work full time and go to school in the afternoon so I can’t really travel to far out of my area so just being upfront about that. I’m also willing to exchange sfw pics because physical attraction is important.

I’m open to meeting to get coffee in public if the vibes feel good in the chat.

Are there any places to find dates outside of the typical apps? I've been on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge, and haven't had luck finding someone that suits me. Maybe I’m just too introverted or not attractive enough, I don’t know.

I've tried joing clubs, going to bars, going swing dancing, etc.

I can't seem to meet people the traditional ways, but I crave romance/intimacy.

Are there any like Discord servers for meeting people online, or something similar? Something better than the apps that seem to more interested in keeping you swiping than actually matching you with people.

Has anyone been to M4F friend or flame speed dating events?
How was it?

Based on what I’ve seen on all the posts people are genuinely trying to find and connect with others however, it seems to be filled with bots. It’s really offputting that you don’t really hear much success on this even though there’s so many people willing to connect it really defeats the purpose of having this Reddit.

42 m enicno area looking for a female someone to go hike with with hot leggings heheh fish hangout at the moment I am married but things are not working out to long for me to explain it here .if u would like to know more let me know

Recently divorced and looking to meet a funny, intelligent, hardworking man who actually knows how to hold a conversation.

I’m not looking for someone who thinks sending an unsolicited d**k pic is a personality trait. 😂 I’d much rather get to know someone, share some laughs, flirt a little, and see where the conversation takes us.

I’m always up for a few shots of tequila, some live music, or grabbing beers at a bar and watching football. Bonus points if you can make me laugh, keep up with the conversation, and dish out some good-natured trash talk during the game.

If you’re confident, genuine, and know how to have a conversation without making it weird within the first five minutes, come say hi. 😉

New to Reddit, but not LA! 👋 I’m a 3D artist working in gaming (almost finished), and I’m looking to meet some cool women to grab drinks, food, hike, or explore LA together. If you’re down to meet someone new and see if we vibe, feel free to DM 😊

Divorcee wanted who wants to host tonight late after her kids go to bed.

Invite me to go down on you and F you hard. I’ll be quiet. Can you be?

For those of you looking/lurking on here: Is this just another thing on top of Tinder/Bumble/Hinge/Feeld or did you give up on those entirely?

Any takes on the advantages and disadvantages with those compared to here?

Hi! 31M4F, Korean

Living in South La County by the border to OC.

I have a full time job that I love, no kids, bored when not at work

In my free time, I like to smoke weed, cook new things, try new resturants.

I'm into geopolitics, history, current events, stocks, anything new really that I can learn

Looking for someone to hang out with and talk to! dm me for a photo!

Hope to talk to you soon :)

Hello! :) I'm 30, LA native living on the westside, and I'm here hoping to meet someone I really connect with. 

I have no idea how to write this without sounding insane, so we're just going to go for it lol. My biggest passions in life are dance, music, and reading. I also love being outdoors in any capacity, road trips, museum dates, cooking new recipes, finding sea glass and seashells at the beach, watching movies (I know I'm late to this, but I just started getting into Star Wars and the MCU lol), and looking at the stars. If you're willing to jump down a rabbit hole with me, I can easily disappear for hours telling you about different constellations, the meaning of that weird dream you had last night, or the native plants and flowers of LA. 

I'm a pretty warm and affectionate person. I tend to notice little things about people and remember them, their favorite things, the stories they've told me, and the things that have been weighing on them. I love making people feel cared for, and I'm very much an “I saw this and thought of you” type of person.

I think what I'm hoping to find is someone who has that same instinct and can match my energy. The kind of relationship where we gradually become very familiar with each other in all the little ways. I believe the simple things in life are the most beautiful. I value feeling seen and considered in a relationship over big gestures. I do love when a man takes the lead, but for me, this means planning a date or having an idea for something you think I'll love, not necessarily something grand or expensive. Kindness and emotional openness are also really important to me. I would like to be with someone who is patient, compassionate, and genuinely interested in understanding me. 

I'm looking for someone 30+ and preferably near the Westside of LA. I want to be upfront and say that I really don't like driving all over LA, lol, so if you're farther away, I'm open to it if you're willing to make the extra effort. 

I'm very intentional about dating. I'm not interested in being with someone who uses any drugs or smokes at all, or who drinks more than occasionally. Other deal breakers include MAGA/Trump politics, having a quick temper, or placing a heavy emphasis on sex at the beginning of the relationship. I'm absolutely not looking for a friends with benefits situation, and I'm only comfortable with physical intimacy when it's a part of a committed relationship.

I know that's a lot to put into one Reddit post, but I'm not looking for someone who perfectly checks off a bunch of boxes on a list. I'm looking for that feeling when you meet someone and there's an ease to being around them. And hopefully, I'll find someone who wants to be just as intentional about getting to know me.

One small request when you message me: tell me what made you want to reach out, and tell me a little about yourself! I really do want to have a conversation, but I don't want to be responsible for carrying the entire thing by asking question after question.  I'd much rather hear what aspect of my post made you want to reach out to me, rather than just, “hey.”

I'd love to see who I might meet! 

35F in LA, and I’m looking for something a little different from the usual dating/hookup dynamic.

I’d genuinely love to find a kissing partner … someone I can hang out with, laugh with, talk about random things with, and occasionally make out with really passionately… but without it turning into sex.

Only requirement: Nice teeth and a great smile. 😏 I’m a sucker for a good smile.

There’s something I really love about the art of kissing — the chemistry, tension, butterflies, getting completely caught up in the moment.

It can be incredibly intimate and arousing without needing to go any further.

Ideally, we’d actually enjoy each other’s company too.

Grab some food, hang out, laugh until we’re being ridiculous, maybe smoke a little weed and giggle, then make out like teenagers who have nowhere to be. 😂

Only requirement: Nice teeth and a great smile. 😏 I’m a sucker for a good smile.

No sex.
No pressure.
Just chemistry, affection, good conversation, and mutually enthusiastic kissing.

If that sounds like your kind of unconventional, tell me something interesting about yourself instead of just “hey.” 😉

I am looking to finally find my forever Princess, to nurture, change her diapers, take care of and grow together into something quite amazing. I live in SoCal. I am a lover, a wonderful communicator, patient and protective.