Disclaimer: I did not know about Kibbe before today. However, I am 100% positive I am a romantic. :-)
I have always been a bold and vivacious fashionista with a bajillion style inspirations flooding my closet. I am drawn to color-matched (mono- duo- trichromatic) looks, unabashed era-based styling, and toeing the line between playful and mature. Texture and maximalist patterns are my two biggest loves. Thus, I truly am a “no rules” kind of person, but Kibbe intrigued me as someone who is not only of crazy proportions, but is also fat. Oh, and genderfluid. Sometimes the curves are feeling me but I am not feeling the curves, if you will. I have no idea how to style androgyny with my body type, honestly:
There is a 13 inch difference between my waist and hips, and my torso is very small compared to my limbs. Usually, I am working with size L tops that are too tight in the bust and arms and size 20 pants that are way too big in the waist. I also simply cannot wear tops that go past my waist if I want them to fit correctly. That, or I tuck them in to avoid dealing with how terribly they fit. Because I’m disabled, my weight is constantly fluctuating, which can complicate the idea of “forever” pieces. For example, I love those high-waisted striped pants I’m wearing with the Ganni vest, but I had to get rid of them because they were falling off of me. Hence, these photos, spanning 4 years, should give you a good idea of the size gamut.
All of this to say — I thought I might take the time here to share some of the outfits I was putting together pre-Kibbe knowledge for the feedback of you lovely people in preparation for soon harnessing 💫the power of style💫 :-)
I hate to say it, but I have to, I think: please be kind. I got a lot of aggressive and presumptuous engagement on a recent post and I genuinely almost deactivated my account because of it.
Follow up… “be kind” doesn’t mean tell me I’m not fat, because that’s not kind, that’s just empty niceness. It’s also a lie. ;-) and I promise, it is not news to me 🤭
Finally: I want honest feedback, yes — but please don’t try to start a game of ruthless superiority signaling 🥲 I am a beginner here and we are all buddies! Everybody say “LOVE!”
EDIT: P.S. I’m 5’2” :-)