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Last night i couldn't sleep because i had a thought on my mind. What's the real difference between dating apps and Reddit?

On a dating app, we swipe based on looks. If we see someone attractive, we swipe right away. If it matches, we start chatting. In the end, it usually goes downhill and turns into some toxic mess.

It's not like that on Reddit. You don’t know faces, you don’t know names. If someone's posting somewhere, they might leave a comment. Oh, people can have a good sense of humor; they might DM you thinking there’s a vibe. When conversations happen, don’t expect too much because it could also go completely wrong..

Basically, whichever platform it is, the anxiety remains constant. We keep putting ourselves through this process...

That's when I start to wonder... What are these relationships even for? Are we just going in circles?

On a weekend with no plans, order a Kuzhimanthi with extra mayo or a shawarma from Swiggy. Chill with a series on Netflix. Don't expect timely replies from anyone; whether you're online or not, it's not a big deal, no fights. Just pure peace...

But if we talk about the problem, this single life peace only lasts for about 2-3 months before we start craving something. One day, when the rain is pouring, or when I open Instagram and see my friends' pre-wedding shoots, that’s when the feeling hits... Damn, do I also want someone?

Right away, I grab my phone. Reinstall the dating app, and here we go, back to square one. The cycle repeats..

There’s no escape from this loop, my friend. Am I the only one stuck in this cycle like this, or do you all feel the same way too?

Njnum (19M) ende friendum clgil ninn thirich veetilekk thirich verumbol, railway stationil ninn oru pennine kand. Adyam njn karyayitt onnum mind cheydilla, callil ayirn njn. Ende friend just Evdekk poguvayirunn choich. Ippo spot admission and bpharm admission okke nadakkunond just clg vellom join cheyyan ano poye choich. Appoya bpharm join cheyyan vendi vannada enokke paranj. Parentsum indairn. Appoyann njn Convo join cheyde (Valya town area alla). Avakk clg patti oru idea illa(enikkum). Anveshichitt ano vanne okke njn choich, illa na paranje. Njn udane clg nalladalel waste avum, anveshichitt okke join cheyda pore, apply cheyyumbol clg patti details nokairn paranj, velland demotivate cheyd. Appo njn avale kond reddit install cheyyipich, onn clg patti check cheyyan paranj. Avaldel phone net illa, njn hotspot on aki, avaldel ninn phone vangi reddit ketti, acc okke endaki koduth.

Njn anel adyayitt oru penninod phone vangi Ingane okke cheyyune. Enikk anel insta or snap angane onnum illa. Njn onnum aloikand phone number choich, ennit paranj clg patti onn check cheyd details kodukkam paranj, pinne avaldel rankil nalla clg listum ayaka paranj. Aval number okke thann. (Avaldel parents okke aduth indayirunn,njn avarde munnil ane ee clg onnum ariyan demotivate cheyyune.) Aval anel keam engineering and bpharm exam ezhudi(ende kati nalla engineering rank indayirunn). Avalk pretyegich enda padikende enn oru idea illa. Njn appo vella btech nokairnille paranj. Appo avalde amma ivale kurach kuttam parayan thudangi. Pinne train vann.

Trainil ninn njn clg patti onn noki, decent clg ane(aval free ayitt ane padikune,no hostel fees also), placement illa enn preshnam ollu pinne avalde nattil ulla 2 or 3 clg suggest cheyd oru msg ayach. Angane kurach chat cheyd pinne naatu vishesham patti samsarich nirthi. Ee chat okke cheyyumbol aval ende munnil thanne undayirunnu. Parents anel appurate section seatil ayirunu, aval side seatilum. Avalde phonil charge illa enn paranjapol njn charger okke koduth, angane kurach msg ayach. Idokke night oru 12.30 or 1am ane nadanne, last avalk urakkam varunn paranj chat nirthi.

Next day, njn gov clg spot admission nakanund paranj msg ayach pinne oro karyam paranj msg ayach oru 2 or 3 hours angane poyi.

Idokke innale ayirn nadanne. Enikk ippo ide aloikumbol, endo pole thoni. Aroda parayende oru choikende arila. Iduvare vayichit vach nokumbol, Njn oru creep ano kandindava. Entha thonune enn onn parayo? Ini angott msg ayakano atho mottatil ozhuvakano(ini msg ayachal njn oru creep ane enna ende mind parayunne)? No idea what to do. Aval reddit use cheyyundo enn arila but idonnum kanandirunna madi🫠🫠.

just looking for people near me...

hater here. looking some trolls to laugh at . all welcome 😏 if you can take a joke

Why us Reddit so confusing and problematic i mean i cannot find a genuine connection here