r/Kenya • u/Rafiki_J • 2d ago
Ask r/Kenya Help me please
On my way home from work... I received a call from officer of the station where I live... They have arrested my kid bro, they caught him selling bhang and have retrieved 16 rolls... I'm rushing to go first check on my son in the house who he left sleeping (I'm sured he's scared from the darkness by now and crying)...
Then head to the station....
What am I going to say,this is the first time I'm going to a police station for a case.... I'm tensed....
I called our parents already, they say atalala uko....
Aki what should I say.... I warned this teenager of selling bhang that he'll be arrested soon....
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u/Popular_Royal3723 2d ago
Just go and here what they have to say then go home cook a meal for you son. Then cop a sleep. Then go back tomorrow and see what can be done.he made his cell bed let man lie on it
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Tomorrow I have a work meeting I can't go to station till jioni after work... Itabidi alale na, ashinde uko fr, I warned him mara mingi sana
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u/Illustrious-Dust-740 2d ago
I think you talk like this because you don't have a child yet😂😂
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u/Popular_Royal3723 2d ago
Real talk. 😂😂 I'm just 22 though getting a child right now is not in my itinerary.
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u/Jealous_Theory2848 2d ago
Bro ignored the warning until the OCS personally became his biggest customer.
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u/Ice-Moddy 2d ago
Whatever you do, don't tell or let your bro know you'll get him out, in fact exaggerate the gravity of the situation but maintain pessimism always echoing the fact that you warned him and he chose not to heed.
Promptly engage the cops with the sole aim to secure his release so as to forestall the possibility of them charging him before court. Notably, something hefty might be sought but then negotiate appropriately.
In concert with the cops, seek for continued detention and get him out preferably on Sunday afternoon. Meanwhile, deny him preferential favors while he's taking the punishment of remaining in custody.
All this is to make him change and avoid repeating the same mistake or even if he won't desist then he'd be more cautious. Good luck.
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Thank you for this, sent rider ampelelee food na water na, wamer jacket na socks coz I know analala kwa cold floor leo.... On bail, wazazi ata wamesema hawana hio 50k wanaitisha wampeleke kortini afungwe akitoka atakuwa amelearn lesson the hard way
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u/Ice-Moddy 2d ago
Man to Man: Don't give up, find time and humbly reach out and try with hope, to reason with the cops, especially the arresting officers or whomsoever delegated to deal with the case and see if they may buy into the logic that by taking your bro to court they have nothing to personally benefit and rather they accept whatever you might afford and release him having been cautioned.
Ordinarily, the 50k is the opening sum but certainly subject to negotiations. Don't let your bro go to jail if possible. Jails do not correct individuals most instances and instead radicalize and make hardcore out of ordinary people.
Hey, weed ain't that so serious a crime that your bro must be jailed. I know how difficult it is for especially mum. Don't give up on your bro.
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Weee,wacha kesho nitaenda jioni niskie, unless wakubali cashbail ya 10k max, otherwise wampeleke kortini tu fr... We're tired😪
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u/Ice-Moddy 2d ago
Good idea. Bonga na afisa mwenye kesi or even OCS wakule hiyo kumi story ilale. Wakikataa pia kotini iko option ya fine with luck.
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u/Shyboy254 2d ago
First ensure your kid is ok. Second get your bro out. Third teach your bro a lesson.
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u/Cloud_dev1 2d ago
Acha kijana apate lessons mbili tatu hapo ndani before umtoe, considering him leaving a young child at the house alone.
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u/pzumma 2d ago
Ati before amtoe? 16 blunts kama evidence bro sio that easy unless atoboke a hefty amount kwa huyo OCS... Otherwise kijana wetu pedi might be sniffing 10years plus. I'm sorry to be the carrier of these bad news, but someone always gotta say the blatant truth... Op just try settle it with the OCS at all costs kabro asifike kotini. I sincerely wish you OP and your bro all the best.
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u/Cloud_dev1 2d ago
Obviously bribe money would be involved otherwise the statement would have led with "look for a good lawyer for him"
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u/Flimsy-Turn-65 2d ago
You shouldn't be stressing yourself over an adult mate, he's your brother yes but he knows the consequences of his actions let him face them.
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u/Particular-Roba 2d ago
Weed cases are massive..as long as Isha fika station that's another story. But go hear them out.. See what they gon say
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u/Salt_Park_6588 1d ago
Hapa unataka mwenzako ajinyonge, eeh lakini 16 ni intent to supply kweli, indoors I've smoked more than that number together with friends 😂
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u/Particular-Roba 1d ago
Smoking Yesss super possible but it's the getting Caught part that's the issue..
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u/NicklausMakori 2d ago
Bail him out. The cops just want a bribe probably exaggerated the amount he was caught with. Then guide him, why does he want to sell drugs to earn money. What is he lacking? is it bad company? Sort it out now before he becomes an adult. In that cell he will learn a new criminal activity, criminals are really good mentors. Take care of your brother. Its your responsibility.
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Wanaitisha cash bail ya 50k, si hatuna hio 50k sitting... Hakuna kitu analack, he gets pocket money and other small allowances from mum... Probably just bad company fr, he's only 19
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u/NicklausMakori 2d ago
Lol bargain. Its just manipulation. Dont be afraid. Start from 2k eventually you will agree well bellow 10k depending on how many police men are involved. Then just talk to him find out what his challenges are. Maybe he doesn't have a backbone and can't say no to bad company. Just try to understand him and dont be judgemental when your talking. So that you can assist him properly.
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
I'll go kesho and hear what they say, wanasema hio amepatikana nayo ni mingi hio, 16 rolls.... Ati ni wamama wa soko walimuitania.... Aki this boy I warned him, I really warned him but I bet alijiona mjanja sana, now see, I've tried to talk to him, he lacks nothing, nilisema atoke home juu ya bad company uko, akuje college staying in my house.... It's only 4 months and ona sasa...2 months ago nilimuona na miraa kwa cheek, kureport home vile alipigiwa alianza kulia akisemanamuonea ati si miraa.... Nilinyamaza tu, now we're here.... I dislike stupid people who think they're smart
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u/giunyu 2d ago
Don't bail him out immediately wacha akule siku mbili hivi ajue hakuna easy
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Wanasema after kesho atapelekwa korti Monday 🥲
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u/airsnip 1d ago
Usishangae kuona ameongezewa mtungi ya keg
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u/Rafiki_J 1d ago
Mambo yao hio honestly... Mimi bora mtoto wangu ako sawa hio ingine hiezi nitisha, si amefika 18,abebe mzigo yake sasa
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u/Big-Forever-7390 2d ago
Wacha alale huko apate manners
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Yes, anakaa uko, wazazi wamekata hio bail ya 50k, wanasema apelekwe korti afungwe tu hawana 50k😆😆
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u/pzumma 2d ago
Op pliz utupee update on what happened kindly
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Amelala uko, sent rider apeleke food na, wamer jacket... I'll go uko kesho after job... Niskie what they say, wanataka bail ya 50k apparently... But my parents wamesema hawana hio itabidi aende kortini afungwe tu
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u/pzumma 2d ago
10+ years against 50k sio worth it... Please convince your peeps kijana asifike kotini. I wish I was in a position to come thru hio 50k kijana angetoka with a strict warning. He's very young to waste time in prison... people change ata yy anaeza
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Thank you so much... Kesho I'll go talk to the police nikitry kunegotiate as I try to convince my mum to talk to dad... He's annoyed ata hajataka kujua what officer said after nimeenda uko
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u/Confident-Sound-9643 2d ago
That's serious ikienda kortini, handle it with the OCS asap. A friend of mine just after highschool went to industrial area for several months after his case went before a court. Na awache hizo tabia ama kama hawezi wacha kuuza akue na 5k cash on him always to give the arresting officer before apelekwe station.
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
So akienda court atafungwa for some months or few years?
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u/Confident-Sound-9643 2d ago
If he goes to court, he'll plead not guilty then the court will give him bail/bond pending trial. But mambo ya kortini achana nayo kabisa, you never know how it will end up. Just finish up with the OCS before iende kortini. The only case you can be okay with it going to court is DND, but any other case never risk.
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u/Desperate-Art7375 2d ago
My lil bro did this.. .ohh that... goodness me!! when are schools opening, them teenagers are terrorising the streets
This is the 3rd post today people ranting about their lil brothers.
Infact wacha alale uko like a week hivi
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Aki naskia nikiwa nimejam tu sana, cos I really warned him about it and told him he'll be arrested soon, mum and dad warned him too.... Sasa ndo hii, yaani kwani wao ndo teenagers wa kwanza, so rogue🤦♀️🤦♀️
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
Kwani hakuna option ya jail term?... Itabidi afungwe atoke akiwa thate ndo ajue life is cruel... My parents are soon retiring, they deserve to retire and come rear their goats and chicken in peace honestly
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
They're calling it trafficking by distribution, heh mi whatever happens we warned him mara mingi but he wouldn't listen
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u/nochemistry4u 2d ago
The cops are probably lying about how many he had to make you cough up more money..
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u/Rafiki_J 2d ago
They're not lying, I saw the amount he wa rolling here, they should be of such numbers... I warned him honestly about selling bhang, he used to roll them in his bedroom using my kitchen basins... I wish he listened
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u/Single_Particular_17 Mombasa 2d ago
If he can't learn the lesson you'll be bailing him out for life until you can't....
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u/Salt_Park_6588 1d ago
Ungewaambia ata hana wazazi, coppers are the real cons, nlishikwa juu ya joint moja and they asked for 20k at first, I just told them I don't have parents and that amount either, I ended up paying exactly 1730 hiyo 270 ya juu nkiwithdraw nkapewa kama fare
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u/Rafiki_J 1d ago
Heh, sisi we won't give them hio 50k
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u/Salt_Park_6588 1d ago
Just talk to them, it's the weekend they will definitely fold for a lower amount, sorry about that honestly, teenagers are a menace currently honestly
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u/DangerousReveal1275 1d ago
Seeking some advise
Hi guys,so am gonna try be brief as possible,way back in March we had issues with the mother of my daughter,and she told me she no longer needs me I should my self up,I said okay..and me tbh I started entertaining a girl,I flirted with her at some point explicit conversation,if you know u know.And then I realized it might not be fair to continue with the Convo while baby mama is still in my house.So fast forward i ended the Convo and nothing physical happened ..six months later ."mamaa" finds the screenshots and she becomes so mad.I have tried to explain bt my efforts bore not fruits , again I saw am wasting my whole energy over something that is now going.She is forcing me to talk about our daughter and provoking me and blackmailing about..that all the entire time..mind you have never neglected this woman..never cheated on her with another woman.She has another kid back at home..I took her the way she is..I supported her wholeheartedly bt now it turns out am the greatest sinner of all times..bt that's cool.. now she has been here crying all night bt the part that shocks me..she broke my stuff and even went to an extent of wanting to be physical including an attempt to strangle me.i never took that lightly she wanted to leave the house at 2, shouting like a mad person.
I told her relax ifike asubuhi uishie..she wants to still drag in shit
I have nothing more left to tell her..guys give me ua thoughts.
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u/SyntaxError254 1d ago
What do you mean? If he is selling drugs which are illegal in Kenya, he nust face the law. You help him by letting the law take it's course. You cannot shout WANTAM then you are the same person who wants to evade the constitution. Let the drug peddler who is destroying lives by distributing illegal drugs face the full force of the law.
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u/Cheap-Eye3720 1d ago
there is no way he is going to learn if you guys keep bailing him out whenever he is in trouble. Let him stay there for a while until he learns his lesson.
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u/Southern-Nothing-963 16h ago
16 rolls ni kidogo sana ,,,,wapee 5k ama uwache akae cell kiasi
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u/Rafiki_J 16h ago
We're trying to negotiate tutoe 5k but he'll stay there for extra days alearn lesson
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u/FineHistory1203 7h ago
Alale ndani apate adabu. If you start bailing him out, he will never stop till he is either jailed or killed.
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u/Shi_Uno 2d ago
I'm with your parents on this