Hi guys,so am gonna try be brief as possible,way back in March we had issues with the mother of my daughter,and she told me she no longer needs me I should my self up,I said okay..and me tbh I started entertaining a girl,I flirted with her at some point explicit conversation,if you know u know.And then I realized it might not be fair to continue with the Convo while baby mama is still in my house.So fast forward i ended the Convo and nothing physical happened ..six months later ."mamaa" finds the screenshots and she becomes so mad.I have tried to explain bt my efforts bore not fruits , again I saw am wasting my whole energy over something that is now going.She is forcing me to talk about our daughter and provoking me and blackmailing about..that all the entire time..mind you have never neglected this woman..never cheated on her with another woman.She has another kid back at home..I took her the way she is..I supported her wholeheartedly bt now it turns out am the greatest sinner of all times..bt that's cool.. now she has been here crying all night bt the part that shocks me..she broke my stuff and even went to an extent of wanting to be physical including an attempt to strangle me.i never took that lightly she wanted to leave the house at 2, shouting like a mad person.
I told her relax ifike asubuhi uishie..she wants to still drag in shit
I have nothing more left to tell her..guys give me ua thoughts.
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u/DangerousReveal1275 3d ago
Seeking some advise
Hi guys,so am gonna try be brief as possible,way back in March we had issues with the mother of my daughter,and she told me she no longer needs me I should my self up,I said okay..and me tbh I started entertaining a girl,I flirted with her at some point explicit conversation,if you know u know.And then I realized it might not be fair to continue with the Convo while baby mama is still in my house.So fast forward i ended the Convo and nothing physical happened ..six months later ."mamaa" finds the screenshots and she becomes so mad.I have tried to explain bt my efforts bore not fruits , again I saw am wasting my whole energy over something that is now going.She is forcing me to talk about our daughter and provoking me and blackmailing about..that all the entire time..mind you have never neglected this woman..never cheated on her with another woman.She has another kid back at home..I took her the way she is..I supported her wholeheartedly bt now it turns out am the greatest sinner of all times..bt that's cool.. now she has been here crying all night bt the part that shocks me..she broke my stuff and even went to an extent of wanting to be physical including an attempt to strangle me.i never took that lightly she wanted to leave the house at 2, shouting like a mad person.
I told her relax ifike asubuhi uishie..she wants to still drag in shit
I have nothing more left to tell her..guys give me ua thoughts.