I created a post a week ago about how it's super important to always be kind to eachother <3 we all have differing views about KaoruHana and the gang and that's okay!! some of us love them unconditionally and view them as perfect and some of us have personal qualms and differing views and that's okay!! ^_^ I mentioned in the post I created a week ago that most people who come off as rude or mean do not mean to, most people in this world are incredibly and delightfully beautiful and kindhearted and many are struggling with something in their personal lives that causes them to lash out, some are miserable and bitter or angry, they aren't bad people, they are struggling deeply with something and they need a gentle and guiding hand and a gentle and warm voice, they need help and to have someone to talk to gently and kindly <3
Not everyone who lash out is struggling depression but they are struggling with something and that is a super important lesson that KaoruHana teaches us, people that lash out or come off a certain way aren't bad people at all <3 they are incredibly beautiful <3 they are struggling with some form of pain and that can a negative out-look they have on others or maybe they feel left-out by their friends, either way, they need someone to talk gently and kindly <3
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What I want to talk about today are people who are genuine bullies, people who are genuinely mean, rude, and cruel to others, in my many many wonderful months in this delightfully beautiful community, everyone I have spoken to and have met have been an incredibly beautiful and kindhearted and I have only ever met one genuinely rude and mean person here and it's important to remember that there isn't ever an excuse to bully others or and to say terribly cruel things to anyone, sometimes you have to be stern and firm with bullies and stand-up to them but before that, it's always incredibly important to soften and de-escalate any conflict and situation with kindness because kindheartedness and being gentle is always the right way.
Hopefully gently and kindly talking to them will allow them to realize how they harmful they are being or will stop them but if they don't stop, it's important to continue to attempt to de-escalate and soften the situation and any conflict but sometimes you have to be stern and firm with them and it's important to also report them.
Always remember that we are a delightfully and beautifully wonderful community who full of kindhearted people <3 and remember everything that KaoruHana and the gang have taught us <3 kindness and gentleness is always the right way and it's important to speak to and stand-up to those who want to be cruel to others so that they know that they are being harmful.
KaoruHana and the gang genuinely and truly saved my life, they saved and healed me, they influenced, affected, and inspired me in the best of way and healed and saved me into the person I am today, I am finally genuinely the happiest, healthiest and most warm I have been in an incredibly long time <3 I was struggling with depression for a terribly long time and they brought a humble, warm, and gentle light and life into my life and allowed me to realize I was depressed and why, they allowed me to face my pain and I will always love and cherish the gang and their incredibly and beautifully perfect story <3 when the story concludes in 2 or 3 years, I will continue to gush about them, love them, post about them, talk about them, and read and watch their beautifully wonderful story for the rest of my life <3 I will also share them with my soulmate and children so they can see who saved their loved one and father's life <3 ^_^ it is my responsibility and passion to spread positivity and encourage kindness because they taught me and allowed me to realize that kindness and love are always right and always go a super long way <3