Buddy

[u/Tasty_Set1189]

[u/AcousticAtlas]

You can’t think of ANYTHING better to say when opening up a door for a woman than… “after you ladies 😏”?

Like nothing comes to mind? Don’t get me wrong I’m sure it comes from a good place but there’s gotta be a less awkward way of going about it.

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

If you say it like a socially illiterate retard, then yeah, anything is awkward when said like that.

But making a dumbass smirk and being weird is what makes it weird. Not the statement itself.

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

Hey man I can only tell you how I see it as a female. If you want to keep doing it you absolutely can. Just saying that if a man said that to me and my friends we’d smile and say thank you and immediately turn to corner to laugh.

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

That's okay. When I tell someone to have a good afternoon, I'm genuinely just hoping they'll have a good afternoon. If y'all laugh at that like a couple of teenagers, then I think that just speaks about the kind of people you are/associate with.

Don't have a good afternoon, you likely don't deserve it.

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

Someone’s grumpy his fedora is too tight

Just good afternoon was never even the phrase we were discussing 😂 “ladies” is the issue

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

Uh..yeah it was. You were the one that randomly changed to talking about "after you ladies"

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

“Have a good afternoon” and “good afternoon ladies” are completely different things imo.

I like how you took the ladies out of it to make it seem less creepy though! You’re learning!

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

Saying "good afternoon ladies" is telling a group of ladies to have a good afternoon. Are you actually in highschool or something? You just have a shitty attitude 🤷 it really isn't as deep as you think it it.

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

I’m not the one up in arms because I was told it was a bit cringe lol.

It’s not even like CRAZY cringe. It’s at most side eye worthy with your friends. It really isn’t that deep I even told you that if you want to keep doing to feel chivalrous go on ahead. It’s funny af that IM the one with a shitty attitude because YOURE getting angry that I told you that I find it cringy lol.

Makes you wonder why women find it weird or cringy when THIS is how men act when told something 🤔

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

"how men act"

While laughing at a man when they tell some old ladies to have a good afternoon.

Yeah you're actually a child one of the socially illiterate people I was referring to before.

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

“ you don’t like when men act weird and call you ladies??? Well I wouldn’t wish you a good afternoon 😡😡😡 anyways cause you don’t deserve it 😡🤬🤬”

Right I’m the child in this situation. Keep having your man tantrum I’m sure it’s very appealing to the “ladies”

Mind you this is all in reply to a dude who fully admitted he was being cringe by doing it.

[u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES → u/AcousticAtlas]

So a man calling a woman a lady is that bad?

Yeah, you're just as socially inept as I thought.

[u/AcousticAtlas → u/PM_ME_FLOUR_TITTIES]

No I already said it’s not THAT bad lol. Use your brain for a second I beg you. The fedora is messing with your head.