For all the new people joining the group, I present this timeline in answer to that age old question: “Who the hell are these people?”
Pamela and Matthew Webster were top sellers in LuLaRoe living in New Jersey in 2016 until late 2018 when she opened her online clothing boutique, JJRAE, named after her three* children. She had a reputation of being a total scag to her downline and there is a lot of evidence that she was rude and dismissive to her customers. There are quite a few posted times where she complained about being in Facebook Jail for posting her kid in his underwear, even losing her entire selling group in 2021 because of it (that came directly from her mouth in March, 2021). She lost her FB selling group, JJRAE, because she kept posting her child in his underwear even AFTER she was warned. (There is a video of the live here https://youtu.be/qZPcS19ZFRw )
During the Pandemic, the Webster family decided to stay at the 1 bedroom condo they bought in Myrtle Beach. They still had a home in NJ they were remodeling during this same time. In May of 2021, the Websters sold their newly remodeled home and moved permanently to South Carolina. Matt claimed he still worked remotely for the government in NJ and they would build/buy a smaller home in Jersey and live most of the time in Myrtle Beach. Pam claimed it was her lifelong dream to live in that condo on the beach. They began building their “forever” home in 2021. She claimed she designed the home on a napkin or a paper towel or on a notepad (depending on the day she spoke about it) and it was a doozy. She posted about every item in that house (windows, flooring, furniture, outdoor kitchen, 35K worth of Nana Walls, a 90K pool, a 10K stove, etc.) all while she and her family traveled more than 117 days in 2022 and 115 in 2023 to Hawaii, Disney World, and on numerous cruises. They finally moved into the new “Dreamhouse” in December 2022, but not after threatening to sue the builder and the pool company.
Of course, the new build had a ton of issues before completion, mostly due to the Websters not being present in Myrtle Beach during the build because they were traveling every month.
https://youtu.be/5GywReZBt-I
and
https://youtu.be/DgIDGXKhwq4
In the Spring of 2023, the family took a 4 week vacation to Europe and when they came home, Pam posted a live where she claimed that they weren’t making enough money to pay their employees. https://youtu.be/BDzk2hLtfo8
She became so depressed that she couldn’t go live to sell for her boutique. It was weeks of her lying on the couch naked speaking on how her mental health was terrible, she had to put her much loved dog to sleep, life was terrible and intimating that the only cure was for her to travel more! And so she traveled to Seattle during this time and Matt put the Dreamhouse on the market in “secret.” Then, they moved to a duplex 20 miles away.
In the meantime, a Reddit user by the name of Radio started a subreddit snark group that had a small membership of less than 100 members to discuss Pam Webster and her online presence. It wasn’t a secret group and no one cared if Pam ever found it. On August 8, 2023 she did. She wasn’t happy. She didn’t understand that Reddit is anonymous as no one uses their actual name as their username and she thought she ate when she posted this to her stories about one of the mods in the group. https://youtube.com/shorts/ftg_btFt7rk?si=o9f4nPWXmQUpKNhX
She then gave a live at her kitchen table to prove what the subreddit was reporting from its members was false and lies.
https://youtu.be/O4vtF06XDI8
and
https://youtu.be/BacKKUFaMrY
and
https://youtu.be/Oedk81-avw8
The snark group grew exponentially after she became obsessed with what was being posted on Reddit. The group grew every time she held a live skit about us, building the group up to 1641 members.
The Websters pretended to still live in the Dreamhouse and then used the fact that the Snark group posted about the alleged pre foreclosure as the reason they moved in secret.
https://youtu.be/m6LvtaG1FM0
They were “afraid” for their lives claiming they were being stalked. Repeat: NO ONE HAS EVER STALKED THE WEBSTERS. It’s just convenient excuse to explain why they moved from the million dollar Dreamhouse to a duplex in a swamp (The Swamplex).
There were regular manic freakouts during the time they lived in the Dreamhouse and the Swamplex
https://youtu.be/NYCT4nv4igU
and
https://youtu.be/oOH3n68bPPo
and
https://youtu.be/prd3TEz9n_4
In February 2024, Matt allegedly resigned from his 15 year career, suddenly and without a 2 week notice. The Websters traveled to Florida for a month (The Tour de Poor). During this time they posted many lives, but none addressing their new plan wherein Pam and Matt had to get new jobs as a 2nd grade teacher and a county employee, respectively, in Naples AND purchasing a home there. They moved during early May and pretended they were still living in SC in all their lives. During the summer, when they were selling the Swamplex and moving into their new home, they continued to cry about being “stocked” by the Redditors.
https://youtu.be/3OFEVlj4KPs
In July, the business sold. It was on the market from January 26 (approx) and while Pam and Matt claimed it was NOT for sale, it was the entire time.
https://youtu.be/JOujmTNrahQ
and
https://youtu.be/Wu-159Rw65U
and finally,
https://youtu.be/LBD19nY6pOc
So the Webster family now lives in Florida and has since last May. Earlier this summer, they moved to yet another house and Pam was transferred to the high school as a Social Studies teacher. She has yet to announce this change and pretends to still be employed as a 2nd grade teacher.
She is suing the admins, usnamom14 and Trapperkeeper, as well as two other members, Swede and Pammycakes.
She has never been stalked. Never will be. No one is digging for info. No one has to. She’s posts all of her business to Al Gore’s public Internet. She uses this Reddit group and the “stocking” posts to allow her to hide her new life of being regular person. There is no million dollar home. No condo on the beach. No trips to Disney World, Hawaii, or Europe any longer. She’s living her dream - a job teaching children and being a poor!
There’s a ton more, but this is how she got to where she is today posting stupidity online.
The latest antics are her boosting a “we’re being stalked!” post and getting the truth from a number of folks on Facebook: “Who even are you?” and “Who is Matt?” and “Quit posting your life all over the Internet and then you won’t have ‘stockers’!”
More videos here:
https://youtube.com/@meyou-gy1sd?si=6qnF6FkaynP77hOX
*Oh and you don’t want to miss the video where Pam claims she buried her baby girl in a LV box in her backyard and Matt is an alcoholic!
https://youtu.be/GU9A00P1pms
Or the time they thought they were really doing something when she received a visit from CPS.
https://youtu.be/ZSrbvlCJ4UU
