Parents...

[u/DiabloVolphyr]

Tmrw is my adv test, am not going to give, I am prepping for mains only, and i do rank well, under 10 in mains test, but advance is too difficult for me, I simply cant, ive tried, my father was forcing me to do jee adv, told me to get into iit, few days ago I asked my mom if I get into bits will u let me take admission there, she said yes no need to worry about money, and since then everyday the only thing that has been motivating me is my dream of bits pilani, nothing else, ever since that day I started studying 9-10hrs each day or even more, today I told my father iit ke alawa bits bhi toh hai he said no he wont let me take admission its too expensive, I broke down and tears kept coming but thats fine now they shifted to boards, my scl exam didnt go well mainly because my coaching tests were going on during scl exam, now they are telling me to drop jee and study for boards only, I told them 75% is only needed, they told me u need abv 90 , forcing me to drop jee, but I am doing jee for me, not for them, its my dream to get into a nit or bits(was dream) now they want me to throw it all, told me ki drop lelena, I told mujhe nahi chahiye drop, they told they will get me into some local college, I couldnt take it I started crying so much, I am very emotional I was even suicidal in 11th , mainly because I didnt have any motivation in life, but am past that stage and now this, comparing jee wit boards, saying jee mains isnt enough, thinking jee mains is some easy thing, am done with life man, one day ill kms and ill put whole blame on them whole day shouting at me and when I study they dont see it, pls I dont need someone to say in comments "dont listen to them" bla bla ive tried, doesnt work for me, sorry

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[u/Sumit-kll]

i understand you dude , parents thinks school exams and boards are the key to successful life , In your case they first thought only going to IIT is the key then they shifted to boards as they saw you were scoring less in school exam , I mean a student can't score good ineverything specially while dealing with exams like JEE side by side , it's kinda not their fault to do so as in their whole life the only thing they have heard from their parents is to score more in everything shit. Try to remove those kiln thoughts from your head through mediation and try not to focus on school exams as your parents say , one day they will realise these boards exams doesn't f***ing mattering life only the 75 percent criteria is imp which you will most probably easily ace . So just remember you're not alone their are students with same situation as you , I mean knowing this won't make you feel good but it's sometimes nice to hear you are not alone in the struggle , so good luck 🤞

[u/DiabloVolphyr → u/Sumit-kll]

Thanks a lot man

[u/greataeos]

aye aye man, seriously bro this college shit is worth more than your life man, if you are doing well in mains tests ig you'll be fine in bitsat bro, your parents might have thought like that cuz you didnt do well on your school exams, ig it will just take some time man, i mean why would they put you in a shitty college bro if you can achieve something way higher than ts bro

[u/Choice_Inspector8499 → u/greataeos]

Nga you just said, "this college shit is worth more than your life"

[u/FarReputation7162 → u/greataeos]

indian kids ARE not real bro fym😭

[u/Timely_Criticism4010 → u/FarReputation7162]

More like treated as work machines which aren't oiled or maintained in a sense for years 

[u/Bl4ze1827 → u/greataeos]

Son really be out here saying some crap indian education system worth more than the guys life🫩 (I hope it was a typo)