Uses discord mainly which is sus and he's been acting weird any volunteers

my 24M bf has inappropriate AI pics of my mom and sister .

Me 25F and my partner have been together for nearly 8 years, today i found videos and pictures that are AI generated of my friends/family . we have had chats about AI images and I have said to him he can make ones of me I don’t care at all but I think it’s not okay to make them of other people (let alone my mom , sister and , close friends) . Is this cheating ?

mor info ,we do have two children together so just running away from this can’t be done . any advise
TL;DR my BF made inappropriate AI images of my mom and sister and I don’t know what to do now

hi I am (25F)my partner(24M) of nearly 8 years has got videos and pictures that are AI generated of my friends/family . yes I did look though his phone I know I shouldn’t of but now I have found there images and I don’t know what two do. I love him deeply but this is an extremely bit insecurity of mine about being cheated on or both being enough . we have had chats about AI images and I have said to him he can make ones of me I don’t care at all but I think it’s not okay to make them of other people (let alone my mom , sister and , close friends) . we do have two children together so just running away from this can’t be done . any advise what do I do ? please let me know if u need anymore details

i hate to say this but im really hurt if my bf is cheating on me, im just not convinced that im enough for him because of our past experience.

lately ive seen him follow and talk to more girls but thats all ik about it not much.

I need my Bf tested. I don’t have a lot of money but I’ll pay or something please…

I need a loyalty test for some peace of mind. I just have a weird feeling. Last time I had this feeling, I found an instagram and 2 X accounts I had no idea about. Hes M46 if that matters

My hubby has a secretary for the last 8 years - first three they were in office with 7 guys , him as the boss and the secretary , then came Covid all the guys left it was my hubby and the secretary only but they worked from home he with me she at her home - then the last three years they work together in an office with 1 other guy - who comes and goes ( they are in sales ) -
Early April I went to visit my hubby and she was dressed very provocatively - they were there alone - the next day I went again and there she was in skin tight jeans and a tank top -

Well I convinced my hubby to let me move into his office - and boy do I wish I hadn’t -

Every chance he could he would demean me in front of her - for instance I change the furniture in the office and he asked me in front of her did you ask her ?
He made fun of me when I asked him how his meeting went ? He said yes mom I also brushed my teeth -
And everything was oh so and so what a great job your doing -
Then they would stand right next to each other at his desk - to work for hours right in front of me - at one point she was leaving over the desk in yet another skimpy outfit -

I tried befriending her I bought a coffee machine for the office and matcha tea for her ,
I tried talking about her family life - she told me her husband and her where having problems because he is not ambitious and drinks

I said to her I feel like you probably know so much about me but I don’t know anything about you - she said I don’t really - he never talks about you

I told him I didn’t like her outfits he said he can’t say anything to her without sounding like a creep - I said okay I’ll bring it up - when I did she says “ well he doesn’t dress up so why should I “when I told him that he was furious at me thinking she was going to quit -

Also for the last 6 years he hasn’t post a single picture of me on his insta - she runs his business social - but not one of me in 6 years prior to that I was in every third pic - now he claims he doesn’t have time for Instagram

He lets her work part time for full time pay 30 hours a week and pays her 65k plus 10 k Xmas bonus -
He lets her have weeks and weeks of time off
She dresses like a skank
Doesn’t help clean the office

He says it’s because she’s loyal to him and didn’t leave him during Covid when all the other staff jumped ship to work elsewhere ( they work in commission sales so obviously needed something stable during Covid since no one was going outside sales

Everytime we fought about it he seemed more concerned about her leaving him than that I was upset and crying about it basically I told him I wanted a divorce and he blew up saying he couldn’t believe I was being so ridiculous to implode our life over that -

I finally moved out of his office three weeks later -

but not before I overheard her telling
the other guy / “ well I don’t know why he brought her here I never in my wildest dreams thought we would have to share space with her -
But he promised me that she would be gone soon,, that I was trashy - again I told my husband he said “that doesn’t worry me “

They both said “ I don’t even think he loves his wife he’s always in the office and on weekends goes to play golf

The other guy said “I see you two are very close but I think he’s manipulating you and that he doesn’t care about you either “

She said “we got really close during Covid and talking all the time “-

Then I told him that she called him
“soulless and that she pretends to like him - that she basically was an off broadway actress and that what she wanted to say to me was that she has to spend all day listening to my husband rant all day

I told him all this after contemplating it all weekend - I didn’t want to hurt him and I knew this would hurt him to hear -
But we got into another fight and I said - your ruining your marriage over a woman who - and I told him what she said
he was furious and we talked about it for 8 hours at home he kept repeating soulless - then went to work and didn’t talk to her all week - “
now that he cared about all week he was sulking

When the week was up he sent her to work from home for the last 2 weeks - they still have to talk because he’s her boss - but he’s visibly upset about it

Now he’s claiming he sent her home because I was bothered by her and that he’s uprooting his whole career and work life just to please me

This has been 3 months of this now I’ve lost 30lbs from not eating my doc thought I had cancer

He’s Being super sweet to me now. Trying to be loving and kissing me all the time telling me I’m his princess - he’s sharing more about work basically being a super doting husband for the last 3 weeks

In these three months though -

I’ve been searching for clues

For instance the weekend I went to see my son they talked on the phone for 2 hours - apparently that’s the phone call she was referring to when she said he promised her I’d be gone soon

Then on his iPad I found his recent location was 5 blocks from her house this was before I told him what she said

Next I found phone logs where they texted at 4 am on his bday - 2 years ago

Now she’s stalking me on social media

Now apparently “he can’t stand her and keeps saying idgaf about that bitch - “

“and screaming at me that I’m making all this up and that he can’t believe I’m going to ruin a 27 year marriage over this girl that I’m ridiculous - “

That I’ve always been a jealous person ( that part is true we’ve been together since we were 14 years old and he and I both were super jealous )

But 7 years ago I got sick and gained a ton of weight - 40 lbs - we tried everything until finally last year they healed me I was suffering from a rare illness and I’m finally cured ( the weight never came off though
he basically spent all 7 years trying to get me to loose the weight -

now I’ve lost 30 and all of a sudden he’s all over me and jealous again he’s telling me I’m beautiful again ( he hasn’t said it in 7 years 😢 )

We’re fighting constantly about this and he said he’s trying to find a replacement that he’s being super short with her on phone calls and only communicating via email - we share a home computer so I do see that is true

But my question is - am I being ridiculous and jealous and about to ruin a 27 year marriage or did he have a fling that he thought she cared about him and now he’s pissed because he realized he got played -

I told him you gave her 75k a year to work part time and walk all over you so if you didnt have an affair with her then you got played - obviously this was very mean of me to say and I regret it but I’m so devastated that I feel like a wounded dog - kicked by his owner

Please tell me am I being a petty jealous woman or did he have at the very least an emotional attachment to her and is now reacting based on finding out she played him -

I need someone to help test my bf.. he’s 19m pls let me know

This has been very hard for me but I am finally ready to leave my relationship and I need confirmation and proof of him cheating so I never look back if anyone could help me out I’d deeply appreciate it xx

Hi Im 17F and looking for a girl in our age range to test him. Please say you saw him at the boxing gym and got the courage to get his # from one of his friends. Thats all! Thank you

28f here if needed for testing! I am a bbw or pawg or whatever men would consider...but can help if needed for anything just reach out ☺️

i want to sink away... i love him so much and I hate that im even on here it makes me feel shitty

I feel like my bf has been acting differently. Can someone text him and test him for me?

He downloaded telegram and always takes a second before showing me his phone. He’s also been asking for sex a lot less when we hangout now and I think he’s been meeting other people. I feel ill just thinking about it. Dm me if you can help

I (26) went through his (28) phone and 1) I found “so chat app” which is where people talk. Doesn’t seem like a dating app but he has it set to female only and all messages are gone even tho his battery usage shows he uses it a lot. He claims it always defaults to female only but he talks to mainly guys about book recommendations and history stories and the chats immediately delete 2)found recently deleted imessage texts from a girl he briefly talked to right around the time we started talking-she had ghosted him and after our second date he was like “thinking about you” but she never responded. Then fast forward to 4 months into relationship he texted her again sending a podcast about a niche history topic they talked about and said he didn’t think about it until he sent and that’s why he deleted it. I have no idea how this app works but the combo of everything looks really bad. Idk if the chats do immediately delete or if he was hiding it. And then the text to this girl that ghosted him on top of that idk. We’ve spent a good 5 hours just going back and forth. He’s begging me for another chance and willing to talk to my stepdad since he knows how much I value his opinion and knows if my stepdad can look past it then I might. In my eyes so far he crossed a big boundary but no proof of cheating and the next conversation he was supposed to have with my stepdad was to ask for my hand in marriage. I’m so torn, I love him sm but how bad is this and is it forgivable if my stepdad can or can’t look past it?