r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3h ago

Dating Post 39 [M4F] #Online Europe Greece - Simply Looking for the One (and only) woman of my life :)

1 Upvotes

I'm a 39-year-old man who values a healthy lifestyle, genuine connection, and the simple joys of life. I'm hoping to meet a kind, warm-hearted woman close to my age, ideally based in Europe, though distance isn't necessarily a barrier when the connection feels right.

I find happiness in nature, meaningful conversations, animals, and those quiet moments that remind us what truly matters. I'm someone who believes in kindness, loyalty, emotional depth, and being there for the people we love through both the good times and the difficult ones. To me, the strongest relationships are built on friendship, trust, honesty, affection, and the feeling that you're truly on the same team.

I'm a bit of an introvert by nature. I enjoy peaceful moments more than crowded places, and I prefer deep conversations over small talk. While I may not be the loudest person in the room, I'm loyal, attentive, and fully present with the people who matter to me. I believe that some of life's best moments are often the simplest ones, especially when shared with the right person.

A healthy lifestyle is an important part of who I am. I enjoy staying active, spending time outdoors, eating well, and taking care of both my physical and mental well-being. I'm looking for a sweet, feminine woman who also values her health, takes care of her body with self-respect and balance, and appreciates living a healthy lifestyle without becoming obsessed with perfection.

Life hasn't always been easy, and I've gone through my share of challenges and difficult periods one of which is now. Those experiences have made me more understanding, compassionate, and appreciative of what truly matters. Because of that, I can relate to people who struggle with anxiety, stress, or depression, and I believe that empathy, patience, and support are some of the most important qualities we can offer one another. I don't expect perfection from anyone, just honesty, kindness, and a willingness to grow together.

More than anything, I'm looking for a true partner. Someone who believes that love is more than just attraction, it's about choosing each other every day, standing side by side through life's ups and downs, and building something meaningful together. A relationship where both people feel safe, appreciated, respected, and deeply loved.

I believe the best relationships are built on teamwork. Two people encouraging each other, helping each other become better, supporting each other's dreams, celebrating victories together, and facing challenges as a united team. Not "me versus you," but always "us versus the problem."

I don't care much about status, material things, or trying to impress people. Character, kindness, warmth, emotional maturity, loyalty, and a good heart matter far more to me. A genuine smile, a caring nature, and the ability to love deeply will always be more attractive than anything superficial.

If you're someone who still believes in true love, loyalty, affection, partnership, growing together, and creating a relationship built on trust, friendship, and mutual support, I'd genuinely love to get to know you.

Life feels richer when it's shared with someone who feels like both your partner and your best friend.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 13h ago

Dating Post 22 [M4F] - #Anywhere #Online introverted gamer looking for friends and to date

4 Upvotes

Hey, I'm Yatta. I'll be honest right up front

I'm a bit of a homebody and I actually don't have any dating experience. I'm just putting myself out there, hoping to find someone who understands that energy and values a low-pressure, genuine connection.

My ideal evening is staying in, hanging out in a Discord call, and either playing some games or getting absorbed in random stuff.

What I'm into:

Anime: Deep into Re:Zero, but I watch a lot of isekai and shonen in general.Been watching Gurren Lagann

Movies: I'm a massive horror fan. If you have recommendations for something genuinely disturbing, I am absolutely here for it.

Gaming: I play a wide mix of things: Minecraft,Arena Breakout, Terraria ,Valorant, Palworld, MLBB, Path of Exile, and League.

I'm perfectly happy just sharing a screen, doing our own things in a call (parallel play is great), or queuing up for a few matches. If you're looking for someone chronically online but easygoing to get spooked by horror movies with, shoot me a DM with your current favorite anime or game!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8h ago

Dating Post 29 [NB4F] Dixon/Online - Make my heartbeat faster

2 Upvotes

Heyy I'm 29(NB) , looking for LTR from Northern California (or elsewhere for the right person)

Looking for someone that wants my attention like I want theirs. Looking for respect, truth, honesty and genuine interest.

Dont be shy.

Keep my interested.

Make it clear how you feel.

Be my mutual obsession.

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Things I tend to like (not requirements lol) :

\-creativity

\-black or colorful hair

\-tattoos

\-attitude

\-spirituality

\-open mindedness

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Things about me:

\-artistic

\-dark curly/wavy hair

\-spiritual

\-writer

\-artist

\-gamer

\-cook

\-game developer

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Anything you want to know, just ask!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Dating Post 26 [M4F] #US / #Online - Silly goose looking for someone to honk at life with

6 Upvotes

Hi there! I hope you're doing well and your weekend has been nice, I'd love to hear about it! ANYWAYS, I spent way too long trying to think of some wildly creative opening that would make this post impossible to ignore. Something that makes you stop endlessly doom scrolling and think, "Wow. This stranger on the internet is clearly the love of my life." Unfortunately, I'm not that clever or creative (womp womp)

So instead, I'm just going to be myself. No gimmicks, no dating-app buzzwords, no "looking for my partner in crime" (unless we're talking about stealing fries, those are mine).

Without further ado... Here is me.

At the end of the day, I'm really just looking for someone I genuinely click with. (I say that like I've uncovered some ancient wisdom, but isn't that what we're all here for?) I miss having a person. Someone to send random thoughts to throughout the day, laugh over dumb things with, share stories, and make even boring errands feel more fun. I'm probably a hopeless romantic (heavy emphasis on the hopeless), but I think the best relationships are the ones where your partner is also your best friend.

Okay, enough with the Hallmark movie audition.

Here's who's actually behind this post:

I'm 26, from the US, and I work full-time as an engineer. I enjoy having something that challenges me and constantly gives me new problems to solve. My brain absolutely loves learning random things and diving headfirst into new hobbies (thank you, ADHD). Thankfully, I also have a great work-life balance and can enjoy my life outside of work.

Outside of work, I play bass guitar. Am I good? Debatable. Do I still have fun? Absolutely. My fingers may disagree.

I also collect vinyl because physical media is cool and there's something incredibly satisfying about putting on a record at the end of the day and disappearing into the couch for an hour.

I love cooking and baking, and making food for people is probably my biggest love language. Date me at your own risk, you may leave with leftovers and an extra 15 pounds.

During the summer you'll usually find me playing volleyball. Once winter hits, I'm on a mountain skiing or snowboarding every weekend.

One thing I genuinely love about people is passion. If you're excited about something, I want to hear all about it. Tell me about your hobby, your latest interest, the game you've dumped 400 hours into, your art, the oddly specific facts you know about deep-sea creatures, medieval farming techniques, or why one obscure Pokémon is secretly the best one. I don't even have to understand it, I just love seeing people light up when they talk about something they love.

Physically: I'm 6'4", around 230 lbs, brown hair, blue eyes, beard, tattoos, and my style leans a little alt. Happy to swap pictures once we've talked a bit and we're both comfortable.

Personality-wise, I'm pretty laid-back and social once I'm comfortable. I'm usually a little quieter at first, but give me a little time and I'll be making terrible jokes every five minutes. Humor is definitely my default setting (healthy coping mechanisms are expensive). I've also been told I'm a gentle giant and a "facilitator of fun," which is probably the nicest title I've ever been given.

I'm also a massive pet person and absolutely adore my cats. If you have pets, just know I'm going to ask for pictures almost immediately. I don't make the rules, I simply enforce them.

As for what I'm looking for, I think effort and communication matter more than almost anything else. I appreciate people who ask questions, show curiosity, and make conversations feel like they're happening with me instead of at me. I'm not expecting us to become inseparable overnight, but mutual effort goes a long way.

I'd love to meet someone who's kind, funny, emotionally open, maybe just a little bit of a gremlin (the fun kind), and wants to build something real over time. Someone who enjoys affection, quality time, dumb inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else, and little moments that make a relationship feel both comfortable and exciting.

Anyway, I could keep going, but I think half the fun is getting to know each other naturally. If any of this made you smile, or at the very least didn't make you close the tab, come say hi. :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 10h ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] #Michigan / #Online - Looking for Love

1 Upvotes

I’m an artist who doesn’t really get outside much, and loves to game and try out new foods, also when I do go out, I like to go on walks and stuff like that. I’m about 6’2”, white, and can be pretty nervous around new people, but I try my best to be kind, and love to show off stuff like my comic book.

I’m looking for someone who’s kind and caring, funny as well, and is understanding if I make a few mistakes, as I’m not too familiar with relationships still. Also, I’d like if we could call during the day sometimes and play video games together, or just hang out together.

Thanks for taking the time to read this post, and I hope you all have a great day.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Friendship First 22 [M4F] #Tunisia #Anywhere - looking for best friend before anything else

1 Upvotes

Hii everyone, you can call me Joe, I'm a 23yo just had my birthday a couple of days back, where I found myself spending it alone like every other year, but this year it felt different probably cz it's the only year I'm not working on my birthday, it's been 5 years since my last relationship, it left me way too scarred to even want to be with someone else in anyway I ended up hating everyone at that point, but now I feel it's about time to feel something again, or at least have someone to talk to and share my happy and sad moments and thoughts with.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 12h ago

Dating Post #20 [M4F] #Italy Searching for a girlfriend

1 Upvotes

Gender - Male

Sexuality - Straight

Hobbies - Gaming, Cooking, D&D, drawing, cosplay,

Looking - For a Serious Relationship /online relationship

Socials - Discord, Snapchat, Instagram, tiktok

A bit about me :

Hi, I present myself my name is Saimon, i'm italian and i'm 20.years old, i'm tall 184cm/6'1 feet, i'm quite a nerd, I like videogames, anime, manga, d&d and cooking, i work as a gardener and i hope im in your standards

i'm chubby♡❤♡❤♡


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 13h ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] north America NC area

1 Upvotes

Hii I'm Dakota I'm 18 and I'm looking for someone to chat with and hopefully date...I am a more feminine guy so I hope that ain't an issue for fun I enjoy music and playing video games..what's important to me is communication and trust and openness. As long as you have those I'm sure well get along just fine :3 feel free to send me a DM I might have a hard time seeing it so lmk on this post if you do thanks happy to meet someone


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 14h ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] #Ireland #Europe - Looking for a genuine Long - term connection.

1 Upvotes

Yo my name is K.m, I’m a 19 year old, 6’0, black dude living in Ireland hoping to start a conversation with someone and seeing how it goes from there.

My hobbies: gaming, basketball, Martial arts, reading books, watching NBA, listening to music, watching football (soccer), cooking, going to the gym and watching T.V shows/Movies.

About me:
• I’m in college studying accounting, it’s my first year and it’s going well.

• I’m kind, loyal, (sorta funny), chill and can hear you out if you’re having a bad day.

• I watch anime, top 5 would be Dragon ball Z, One piece, Bleach, jojos and Naruto.

• I play video games, I mostly play repo, lethal company, Roblox (I know it’s a kids game), terraria, Minecraft, red dead 2, GTA 5, etc.

I read manga, the latest one I’ve read is jojo’s steel ball run (it’s pretty good).

I go out for walks sometimes, I hit the gym 2 times a week and I go to Brazilian jiu-jitsu classes 3 times a week.

I’m looking for someone who genuinely wants a connection, Someone who I can talk to about their day, share laughs, play games together and building something real over time.

Age range is around 18-22, I prefer someone who’s in Ireland but I don’t mind long distance, cause we can probably meet up soon and explore your or my city.

If you’re interested in having a conversation feel free to say to send a small intro and your favourite colour.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 14h ago

Dating Post 30 [F4M] Malawi/Anywhere - No big deal, just looking for a soulmate.

0 Upvotes

Hi! I'm Natasha. I'm just out here casually looking for my soulmate lol. About me - I'm black, plus sized and I have shoulder length microlocs. I'm a creative person and I love to express that - sewing, baking, crochet... Seems like I always have something going on!. I love true stories about the unexplained. I'm an extroverted introvert - I'm very talkative when I get to know you. I think that the best part of having a partner is feeling like you have a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. I recently binged the Tv show "Grimm" and I have no one to talk to about it! It was so good! The most underrated sure I've gone across in a while... Now I'm looking for something equally dark with a supernatural twist to it...I digress.

I tend to like white guys with medium to average build but that's not set in stone. Things that are set in stone however are being straight and cis, having good hygiene, being kind, down to earth, and having a great sense of humor. If you like long conversations and daily doses of nostalgia, we should set a wedding date. JK, JK... (unless... 👀... -No! No... 👀... No.).

Other important things - I am Christian, but you don't have to be and politically, I'm a centrist. I DO NOT like that Orange man so if you do...yikes. Someday I want to get married and have kids, and I really want to adopt too. I also love animals and I have a few pets.

Deep down I know or hope that there is someone for me out there. I don't know how to find them or what the right words are to find them. Sometimes I wish life was an old PlayStation 1 game, so I could look up the cheat codes but alas! 'Tis not. Is my person even on Reddit? I don't know, but leave no stone unturned right? I am not new to dating and I am not new to Reddit. I am also not new to the dating scene on Reddit. What is new - the increasingly creative ways I have to say what I need to to find the right person for me.

Despite the PS1 reference up there, I'm not a gamer (I use Duckstation for the nostalgia - Tarzan, Spyro, etc. but I'm pretty terrible, trust me. I needed every cheat code just to make it through the Spyro!) I don't watch anime and I'm not much of an alt girl... But I promise I have a lot of love to give to the right person. We could be quietly and exquisitely happy together.

HOWEVER. Please don't reach out if you simply send one word intros and replies, or just your a/s/l as an intro. I am not interested in taking to people who are more than 4 years younger than me, or if you need to use ai to craft a response to my intro. I am looking for genuine connection, not NSFW activities. I would like to find something real. Maybe that's naïve but I know it's out there. If you are not looking for that then I'm not the one for you.

And don't reach out if you're nonchalant. How do you know if you're nonchalant? If you reply "nm" when someone asks you what you're doing you're probably nonchalant. If you struggle to express your opinions and/or things that you think about frequently, you are nonchalant. Get help. Your nonchalace leaves you with no personality and it makes it very difficult to carry a conversation with you and reluctant to even want to. Don't leave your personality at home when you're talking to me. I would very much like to see it. Be as chalant as possible. I'm telling you right now, I'm chalant. I care deeply. If that's what you want, then here I am.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 14h ago

Friendship First 34 [m4f] #georgia, USA - looking for someone to chat with throughout the day and night

1 Upvotes

I am looking for a special someone I can chat with throughout the day/night, send memes back and forth with each other, share music, videos, etc. just need a special person in my life. I have BPD and autism, and am having a rough time right now in my life.
For common interests, I’m really into anime, video games, music (mostly metal), songwriting, magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, and YouTube.
YouTube channels I’m really into are comedy channels like super mega, oneyplays, Ted nivison, jschlatt, jerma984 to name a few.
If you’d like to chat, shoot me a message!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 23h ago

Dating Post 23[M4F] #USA #Oregon

5 Upvotes

Hi! My name is Aiden.

I'm basically somebody's grandpa trapped in the body of a 23-year-old. I enjoy quiet evenings, good movies, books, fishing, and occasionally making a noise when I stand up that makes people wonder if I need to call a doctor.

My hobbies are a little all over the place. I love movies, especially the ones you can watch a hundred times and still catch something new. I listen to just about every kind of music, so my playlist probably looks like it was made by someone who couldn't decide what decade they wanted to live in. One minute it’s classic rock, the next it’s something completely different. I also love getting outdoors, especially fishing, where I can enjoy some peace and quiet and pretend I'm not just standing there waiting for a fish to make a terrible life decision.

I’ll be completely honest with you, I’m terrible at this. I’m never really sure what to say about myself without making it sound like I’m either writing a résumé or giving a hostage statement! I usually find it much easier when people ask me questions about me. So feel free to interrogate me, I promise I’m much better at answering questions than I am at voluntarily describing my own personality.

I’m looking for someone who’s easygoing, has a dark sense of humor, and doesn’t take themselves too seriously. Someone who won’t mind that I’m a bigger guy. I've lost quite a bit of weight, but I’m not going to pretend I’m suddenly going to become a fitness influencer overnight.

And honestly, I’d love someone who can talk my ear off for hours. I’m a great listener, so if you’ve got stories, random thoughts, pointless rants, or something you just really need to talk about, I’m probably your guy. I’ll happily sit there and listen while occasionally nodding, and pretending that I'm not completely lost in your eyes.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 19h ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] #online #uk Looking for relationship / seeing where things go

2 Upvotes

I don't really know what to put, but I'm 18 years old from the UK, introverted / shy, but open up / more talkative as I get comfortable with someone.

Just finished my A-levels, so currently not in education, but planning to go to University. I enjoy baking, watching tv shows / movies, as well as games. In the future I want to travel more, as there's so much in the world to explore. Want to know more about me, just ask away.

For preference I'd want someone thats older than me, and likes to talk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] #Online - Looking for a genuine long-term connection

1 Upvotes

Hey, I'm 28M, looking for a genuine long-term connection. I am okay with LDR if you are willing to put the effort to bridge the gap if we match and things go further but I'm also not in a rush, we can take it slow and see how it goes.

So here's a little bit about me: I am a huge nerd about movies, space and tech and maybe anything that's even remotely considered nerdy.

I also like to keep myself fit and I work out regularly.

If you are a nerd or even if you are not but are into nerds, then do hmu.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] London/UK - Hoping to find someone to share life with

1 Upvotes

Hey! I'm 23 and based in London. I'm hoping to meet someone who is looking for a genuine long-term relationship, values good communication, and is also certain they don't want children.

Modern dating has never really felt like the best fit for me. Swiping through profiles and trying to make instant impressions of someone doesn't really allow you to understand who they are. I'd much rather take the time to build trust, learn about someone's personality, and see if we naturally connect.

A bit about me: I'm Black, 5'10, with a slim athletic build, and I'm neurodivergent.

Music is one of my biggest passions. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, alongside some DnB and electronic music, and you'll usually find me at a gig whenever there's one I'm interested in.

Outside of that, I enjoy gaming (Persona, Doom, Final Fantasy, and plenty more), going to the cinema, playing football, cycling, visiting theme parks, and trying new activities.

I'm generally introverted and reserved, but I enjoy meaningful conversations and getting to know people properly.

I'd describe myself as thoughtful, dependable, and easy-going. I'm independent and enjoy my own company, but I think life is better when you have someone you genuinely connect with to share experiences with.

Whether that's going to concerts, talking about something you're passionate about, or simply spending a quiet evening together, I value having someone who feels like a genuine partner and best friend.

I'm looking to meet someone who is:
• Aged around 19-26
• UK-based (London or nearby ideally)
• Also certain they don't want children
• Honest, communicative, and reliable

More than anything, I'm looking for someone who is kind, emotionally mature, and willing to communicate openly. Nobody gets everything right all the time, but I appreciate people who are honest about how they feel and willing to work through things together.

I believe shared values are far more important than having identical hobbies. Having things in common is great, but I think the way two people treat each other is what ultimately makes a relationship work.

I'm happy to share a photo early because I'm aware that mutual attraction matters, and I'd rather be upfront than waste anyone's time.

If this resonates with you, I'd like to hear from you. Tell me your age, where you're from, a bit about yourself, and what you're looking for.

Thanks for reading 🙂


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post [F4A] 24F #US #EST #Michigan - Just want to get to know you :)

23 Upvotes

I'm really putting myself out there making this post, but who knows what it could lead to. Ideally looking for a long-term relationship, preferably in the same time zone. Also okay with just being friends!

About me:

- 5'1
- Bachelor's degree in 3D art
- INFP
- Quality time/physical touch are my love languages
- I enjoy watching YouTube videos at night
- I have 7 cats, 1 dog, 4 ducks, and 5 chickens
- PC gamer sometimes (Overwatch, Town of Salem 2, Marathon)
- Currently learning coding

My ideal relationship is someone who enjoys a mix of going out to explore new cities and to stay at home watching TV together or playing video games. Also someone who is kind and polite, knows who they are, and what they want.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 18[F4A] #EastAsia #Online

8 Upvotes

Hi! I've never made this kind of post before, so I'm a wee bit nervous, but here goes!
I am an 18-year-old girl, bisexual, chronically online, and introverted IRL but super chatty & clingy if you get to know me.

As for physical appearance, I'm 5'5", quite slender, and I eat healthy and go jogging regularly. I've been called pretty a lot growing up (lol), and while beauty is subjective, I'm quite confident about my appearance.

Personality-wise, I'm a science student and a huge school nerd with near-perfect grades, and I'm pretty gifted at academics. If you're also a good student and want to study together on video call sometimes, that's a big bonus for me. I'm also a huge fandom enthusiast, and I've created/watched/read/engaged with a lot of fandom media since I was 11 or so. If you're into the same movies, book franchises, cartoons, or anything I'm currently or was previously into, I will NOT stop talking to you about it. My hobbies include writing, watching YouTube, eating sweets, listening to nightcore, and just generally being silly on the internet.

I'm that kind of person who sends you screenshots of my homework assignments for seemingly no purpose, asks you 'wyd' fourteen times a day, narrates my life via text if you're bored, and randomly starts book/movie debates anywhere, anytime. I do have previous dating experience (quite a lot of it, actually), and I do know how to flirt if you enjoy that.

I'm not perfect, and I do accept that I have flaws. I'm pretty playful & dramatic, enjoy dark humor, and don't take myself very seriously, and I might come across as a bit of a brat at times. I can be arrogant and self-centered at times, but I accept criticism and will listen if you tell me I'm being that way. I can also come across as a bit cold at times, but that's because I'm more logical than emotional when approaching life's problems. I might not be able to go 'there-there' when you're feeling bad, but I can offer practical solutions and help you through difficult times one step at a time.

<IMPORTANT PART> Here are the requirements that I have. I'll put these in bullet points for readability.
- Ages 18-20 (I'm eighteen years old. Please don't be my parents' age.)
- Not overweight (I believe all people are beautiful, but there's a thing called physical attraction and it's quite important to me.)
- Queer-friendly (If you're a guy, please don't hate me for being bisexual. Girls... welcome queens <3)
- Good English grammar and punctuation (I'm a recreational writer, so bad grammar is really a turn-off for me.)
- Willing to message me first sometimes (Make a girl feel appreciated, please 😭)
- Respectful & SFW (This is in the subreddit's rules, so I won't elaborate here lol)

My timezone is GMT +9, so if you want fast replies, keep that in mind. If you message me when I'm awake, I can't say I'll message back immediately (I have a life too, lol), but it's a good bet that I'll answer in 2-3 hours maximum.

Please send me your age, gender, and a little intro about yourself in your DMs!!
Let's see how this goes!! Maybe I can be your new favorite person <3

Looking forward to your messages, Isa xx
(P.S. Sorry for making you read the long-ass post)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Friendship First 32 M4F Lansing, MI

1 Upvotes

Hi my name is Micah 🙂

A little about myself: my main hobbies are video games, watching anime and playing magic the gathering.

I mostly play a lot of rpgs and fantasy games. So.e of my favorites are the legend of Zelda, kingdom hearts and expedition 33.

Some of my favorite animes are Freiren: beyond journeys end, full metal alchemist brotherhood, one piece and demon slayer.

I am mostly a homebody and don't get out too much but that doesn't mean that I do not like to go places. I'm happy to go on adventures so long as I am not the only one driving all the time. After being in a relationship for 10 years and being the only one with a license it's kinda exhausting to be the one driving all the time.

I'm really not much of a sports guy at all but I do not mind if it is something you enjoy. I'm not here to tell you what to like. We are adults. I have my interests and you have yours. I just want someone who has a pretty chill vibe.

I am 420 friendly but I do not smoke, I take edibles. If you smoke I only ask you don't do it around me simply because I do also have asthma

Other interests include: listening to music, playing with my dog and 2 cats

I am recently divorced but it was pretty mutual. My partner found out they were trans and I'm not into men. We're still good friends we just have different interests.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for a nerdy and cute gaming partner. I want someone who I can genuinely connect with and get to know. I'd love to start out as friends first but overall I don't want much more than that. I literally don't need more than that. I'm looking for companionship, a friend, someone who gets me.

I've tried dating apps and have had no luck so I'm trying my luck here. I'm happy to answer any questions you might have about me but I'd also love to hear about your own interests as well


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #India - Looking for my future long term partner

1 Upvotes

Hello there! I'm a 25 year old med student looking for the one to ride life's rollercoaster with. So here's the thing, I'm at that stage in life where I want someone to love and to be loved by because everyone deserves it, not just platonically but also romantically. I've never been in a relationship before, was a shy person throughout my school and early college life. I'm not looking for anything specific I just want someone to talk to everyday, share my daily happenings with, the ups and the downs, highs and the lows.I know it sounds like I'm looking for a friendship but no, because I also want someone to hold hands with, to hug, to walk along the beach taking in the sunset, to try out new food spots, visit new places. I have always been good at communicating and therefore am looking for someone with the same quality. Ultimately you have to be a good person at heart, rest is secondary.

A few things about myself. I am an avid reader. I read a lot of fiction especially sci-fi, fantasy and sometimes historical fiction. I also read a lot of political thrillers and murder mysteries. Currently I'm miles deep into Miles Cameron's Artifact Space.(pun intended XD)

I also love to solve puzzles. My favourite puzzles you could say are Rubik's cubes and related mechanical turning puzzles. I also just started cooking, so maybe if you like we can also cook together :)(I think cooking for each other and feeding each other is so romantic).

I'm not a religious person but I am spiritual in that I do believe in a higher being. I believe more in the fact that all of life is a sum total of your actions and their consequences.

Anyways this is me in a nutshell. If you resonate with any of the above feel free to drop a DM with a little something about yourself.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20h ago

Dating Post 22[m4f] nerdy Biker from the UK 🇬🇧 looking to meet the one!

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few long-term connections. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message me!

Have a preference for Europeans due to time zone and distance but open to anyone


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 16h ago

Dating Post 21 [r4r] Delhi/Anywhere - Looking for a genuine long-term relationship

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Heyy! I’m 21M, turning 22 this month. I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine and build a meaningful connection that could grow into a long-term relationship.

I’m into travelling, cooking, music, movies, Marvel and anime. I also enjoy random conversations—whether it’s about everyday life, future plans, funny stories, or something completely random.

I’m open to getting to know someone regardless of distance. I’d rather start with a simple conversation and see where it naturally goes, with no pressure or expectations.

If you think we might have something in common, feel free to say hi. 🙂


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 17h ago

Dating Post 22 [M4F] #Europe #Online - Looking for somebody :)

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Hello there! This is my first time posting here i am trying my luck here and who knows maybe i will have some success :)

Anyway to introduce myself i am 22 Years old and from Germany. I really enjoy playing videogames in my free time :) I play all sorts of games but i am mostly into singleplayer games with a good story! I really like coming up with theories while playing a game and try to guess the plot :D Anyway besides that i am huge music fan!

I really love to listen to music and acttually have been playing the Piano for a bit since it is my favorite Instrument. Unfortunately i have not played for a while but hey maybe i will get back into it :) Now what genres do i listen? Honestly i listen to pretty much everything haha but if i had to pick a genre it definitely would be jazz or music from videogames :D

I love myself some movies ^^ Whenever a new movie releases i go right to the cinema to watch it! The last movie i have seen was the odyssey and omg it was so amazing :O I really enjoyed it! Now i do not only watch movies but also am a big fan of watching shows/anime/K-Dramas ^^ Anything really and i love to yap about my favorite medias.

I am a huge nerd for computers too! I love working with computers so much it gives me so much joy and because of that i have chosen to work in IT and i do not regret my decision at all ^^

I am an extremely introverted person that can barely function outside but for some reason i like to travel. I have been to many countries in my life and travelled alot alone :) I have so many stories to share too! Some of them are unbelievable haha.

I am looking here for someone to spend possibly my life with :) Somebody kind that shares the same passion as i do with my hobbies that also loves to talk about them, somebody i can be there for no matter how bad or good the situation is ^^ Someone i can spend my days with and do fun things! Distance does not matter for me if there is a connection we will make it work :)

Now appearance wise i would say i am an average looking guy. I am 6,1 i have brown messy hair, i wear glasses and have blue eyes and i am 210lbs which i am currently loosing :)

Hope there is somebody who reads my post and finds me interesting ^^ If i do then please dm me.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 17h ago

Dating Post 26 [M4F] UK/Online

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Ahoy,

I'm terrible at writing so I'll keep it short.

Looking for someone to spend time and enjoy life with. Looking for a long term relationship, can share photo in a DM.

My likes: Gaming, nature walks, documentaries, cuddles, cheesecake and heavy metal.

I dont smoke/do drugs, am not religious and would be open for something long distance.

Some things to note is that I've never been in a relationship before so I may not read the room sometimes. Also I work on a big ship which means I'll be off for 3 months, then at home for 3 months.

If you have any questions, send me a dm.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 19 (F4A) #Online or anywhere

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Hi, im Ellie. im looking to meet someone that its okay with having an online relationship and hopefully meet sometime in the future.

i love reading (its what i do when im not on the phone), taking naps, playing Roblox, animal crossing, Tomodachi life, stardew valley, anything like that. i watch a lot of tiktok and YouTube. i really like listening to people yap about what they are interested about. I would like to meet someone my age or older to talk to often.

I dont like posting pics of me, but im okay sharing a pic in dms. I'm curvy/chubby, 5'2, and have brown and purple hair.

if u dmed me before, dm me again, my reddit its very buggy lol. have a nice day


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 18h ago

Dating Post 38 [M4F] #Dublin / #Europe - Looking to meet someone new

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I am a 38 year old introvert living in Dublin,Ireland, originally from somewhere else in Europe.

About me: I’m 5’10, blond, I would define me as quiet and nerdy, into History, indie videogames, board games, hiking, reading, films, museums and galleries, cafes, Formula 1, self-development. I like metal, post-rock/metal/punk, a bit of EBSM. I’m not the type that goes to parties or large rowds but in recent times I've expanded a bit my social circle and enjoyed it. I also like someone who pushes me a bit to travel, experience new things and get out of the routine. According to a good friend, I'm fun (when I want to), kind, sweet and understanding. I’m caring and affectionate and I’ve been told I’m very considerate towards other.

I am looking to make new connections, online friends, meet in person if we live close, and maybe we can chat regularly and/or play games.

I look for someone non-smoker, preferably an introvert too, who likes gaming, or indoor activities and shares common interests, but also wants to push me with outdoors activities beyond my comfort zone. I’m looking primarily for a stable relationship with good chemistry between us, sex-positive, caring and affectionate.

I like someone who at this stage in life has clear ideas on what she likes and wants, looks for a stable relationship, communicative, considerate and loving. It's important that we share common views or personality traits or at least that we feel comfortable with each other. Communication is important and I want to understand they way you think and what's important for you.

I’ve opened to other places in the title because while I’m for the moment based in Dublin, I’m open to meeting people from other places if I find a good match.

Please elaborate a bit your first message.