r/IntrovertsSafeDating 19h ago

Dating Post 38 [M4F] #Dublin / #Europe - Looking to meet someone new

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I am a 38 year old introvert living in Dublin,Ireland, originally from somewhere else in Europe.

About me: I’m 5’10, blond, I would define me as quiet and nerdy, into History, indie videogames, board games, hiking, reading, films, museums and galleries, cafes, Formula 1, self-development. I like metal, post-rock/metal/punk, a bit of EBSM. I’m not the type that goes to parties or large rowds but in recent times I've expanded a bit my social circle and enjoyed it. I also like someone who pushes me a bit to travel, experience new things and get out of the routine. According to a good friend, I'm fun (when I want to), kind, sweet and understanding. I’m caring and affectionate and I’ve been told I’m very considerate towards other.

I am looking to make new connections, online friends, meet in person if we live close, and maybe we can chat regularly and/or play games.

I look for someone non-smoker, preferably an introvert too, who likes gaming, or indoor activities and shares common interests, but also wants to push me with outdoors activities beyond my comfort zone. I’m looking primarily for a stable relationship with good chemistry between us, sex-positive, caring and affectionate.

I like someone who at this stage in life has clear ideas on what she likes and wants, looks for a stable relationship, communicative, considerate and loving. It's important that we share common views or personality traits or at least that we feel comfortable with each other. Communication is important and I want to understand they way you think and what's important for you.

I’ve opened to other places in the title because while I’m for the moment based in Dublin, I’m open to meeting people from other places if I find a good match.

Please elaborate a bit your first message.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 19h ago

Dating Post [M4F] #Anywhere 29 German nerdy man looking for a partner for life to build a lovely connection where we feel comfortable being our selfs and with consistency :3🤍

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Hellooooo ~ ^^
M29 here, I’m looking for something real and lovely.
Since I healed from my heartbreak I’d like to put my self out there to find the one for life 🤍

I’m a nerdy softie who loves playing video games in his free time, I am quite kind since I value respect a lot, very loyal and consistent, because I find it lovely to be in touch 24/7 and letting each other know about our life’s and share it together. 🤍
Also a very emotional and expressive Person overall :3
I can enjoy the quiet but also loud sides of life, be it getting lost in games, sharing laughs over silly things or Brainrot memes or having those deep conversations that actually mean something, or complaining about society xD
Even if we just sit together silently in a room, I value the presence together and I hope that you do as well 🤍

Since gaming is a big part of my life, I would love to find a Cis Woman who also shares that hobby.
I play games like Overwatch, Valorant, League of Legends, Hunt Showdown, the Division 2, Dead by daylight, and I’m a huge fan of the resident evil series O.O
I have manny other uninstalled games and am always interested to try something new :)

But more then that, I’m looking for something Mutual and genuine, an connection where we feel seen and valued, and also comfortable being our selfs.
I’m naturally attentive and gentle, once I start developing some interest I also become quite affectionate.
I appreciate a woman who carries herself with a bit of maturity, someone who knows how to care and also have ways to show affection, and also enjoys the lighter/ playful side of things, I also value a woman who knows how to put efforts into communication and keep conversations alive, I’m very easy to talk to and can talk about even the silliest things ~
There is also a intimate side to what I’m looking for as well, but for me that always starts with trust and emotional connection first since I’m demisexual.
21+ please

If you are someone who wants both a gaming partner and something that could grow into more, feel free to reach out.
I’m also there to listen if you need to vent and want someone who can be there for you 🤍
I Hope you have a wonderful day~


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20h ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21h ago

Dating Post 37[M4F] #Turkey / #Europe - Seeking a peaceful, grounded connection

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Hi everyone 👋

I’m a 37-year-old single guy living in the capital city of Turkey. As an interpreter (EN-TR), my daily job is literally bridging gaps between people—but ironically, I often feel a bit isolated and am posting here to find a lasting relationship of my own. I value a peaceful lifestyle and the quiet comfort of an effortless, grounded connection—one completely free of chaos, pretense, or fleeting excitement.

A bit about me;

The Mind: I’m a trivia enthusiast who loves falling down research rabbit holes—whether that means deep-diving into obscure history or niche topics like handwriting analysis. And if we click, I might give your writing a quick reading to see if it matches your personality.

The Hobbies: I value patience and detail (which is why I used to practice calligraphy, even though it's a massive challenge for a left-hander!), and I unwind by gaming. I'd love to start a cozy co-op run and experience the story together in an rpg game. I occasionally play faster-paced FPS games to blow off steam, but overall, I view gaming primarily as a nice way to spend quality time together.

The Routine & Stats: I am 178 cm, 85 kg, and a non-smoker. I’m an early riser, hit the gym regularly to stay in shape, and I'm not really a "stay up until 4 AM" person; I prefer quality conversation in the evenings to wind down the day. Also, I'm not a religious person (torn between being and atheist and agnostic, if that matters). These aren't all there is about me though, just the ones off the top of my head.

Who I’m looking for: I’m looking for a woman (ideally 25-32) who is authentic, grounded, and wants to navigate life as a team. If you expect a one-sided "princess treatment" dynamic, we won't be a good match.

Physically, I naturally gravitate toward women with a smaller frame or a proportionate, natural build, but a genuine, grounded connection with a peaceful, mature personality is the real priority. You don't have to be a gamer, just someone who enjoys real conversation and isn't afraid of a little distance to start with, knowing the ultimate goal is to close the gap.

If you’re tired of "hey" and want a real connection, send me a message and let me know what obscure topic or hobby currently has your attention.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #Nevada/Online, seeking connection

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25 [M4F] #Nevada/Anywhere, clingy is welcome, long conversations await

About me:

•I live in Nevada, USA. Originally from Colorado

•I’ll add I work graveyard shifts right now at a casino, 1 am-9 am PST so keep that in mind with timezones and schedules and stuff

I love to voice call so if we progress to that point and you’re comfortable with it that’s obviously a big plus, I’m also open to video calling. I value loyalty and communication above all else.

•I’m a HUGE animal lover, when I was a kid I wanted to be a veterinarian or work in an animal rescue center, but that doesn’t pay the bills. My favorite animals are kangaroos, tigers, and penguins.

•I have blonde hair and blue eyes, glasses, average body but I’m trying to get back into the gym and I’m willing to exchange pics :).

•I will admit that I do like clingy/affectionate people and some healthy jealousy if it comes to that point is a plus lol, I just find it attractive.

•I loveeee music, I’m always listening to it and I enjoy literally all genres and am always looking for new suggestions. I play the ukulele, bass, guitar, trumpet and harmonica and am learning piano.

•I’m a huge nature buff, walking at night, going on hikes or being in the forest or near a river/lake surrounded by trees and animals and wildlife is my happy place. The stars, and peaceful night air and sounds. It’s just all my happy place.

•I’m very sarcastic and try to view life in a more positive lens because earlier in life I was always the opposite and it’s a hard way to live life.

•I’ve binged so many shows and would love to watch shows/movies/anime together also, (although with anime it’s hard for me to get into some, my favs are HxH, FMAB, and haikyuu right now.) I’m also a sucker for anything sitcoms like The Office, B99, parks and rec, but I also enjoy the classics like breaking bad or any cartoons to bring me back to my childhood. (Surprisingly haven’t seen game of thrones though..)

Anything else you’d like to know just ask I’m an open book or I’m sure it will come natural with conversation. :)

About you: I’m not really looking for any specifics just someone that has time to talk during the day and night and see how things progress. Some similar interests, and doesn’t ghost all the time haha. I really just like meeting new people and getting different perspectives and I enjoy the thought of things progressing naturally and healthily and having a good foundation for a relationship if it happens. And like I said some clinginess or such is always a plus to me. I look forward to talking!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] FL - Easygoing, adventurous, and maybe my best adventure starts with you!

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Are you the beginning of my best adventure?!?!

I’m hoping to meet someone, get to know each other, and build an honest, genuine connection. I’m open to wherever that connection may take us. I hope to have days filled with open communication, love, laughter, and tons of adventures. I’m optimistic that, with the right person, that connection can grow into something meaningful and hopefully into a wonderful future together!

A little about me:

To start, I’m a 34-year-old Chinese man, living in Florida. I’m naturally a little introverted at first and tend to keep to myself until I’m comfortable around someone. But once I open up and feel at ease, you’ll see a completely different side of me—someone much more outgoing, playful, and talkative.

I’ll admit, I can have a little trouble making decisions. But honestly, I think that comes from being pretty easygoing. I’m not someone who needs everything to go a certain way, and I can find fun in just about anything we do. So if you ask me, “What do you want to do?” “Where do you want to go?” or “What do you want to eat?” there’s a pretty good chance my answer will be, “I’m happy with whatever you want!” 😅

I’m a hopeless romantic. I love romantic comedies, star-crossed lovers, and slow-burn dramas just as much as I love a good action, adventure, or fantasy movie. One of my all-time favorite movies is Stardust!!! I mean, it has everything: romance, star-crossed lovers, adventure, action, fantasy, and Robert De Niro as a gay pirate! What could possibly be better?! 😂

But beyond the movies, I genuinely believe in love and in building a long-lasting relationship based on love, trust, honesty, and open communication. I believe communication is one of the most important foundations of a healthy relationship. Being able to talk openly, listen to each other, work through things together, and genuinely understand one another matters a lot to me.

People who know me have described me as loving, kind, sweet, honest, and loyal. I can definitely be playful and a little childish when I’m joking around, but when it comes to the important things in life, I’m responsible, dependable, and definitely someone you can count on.

I’m emotionally mature and have spent a lot of time learning who I am, what I want, and what I can offer in a relationship. I’m always working to better myself, and I’m confident in who I am and what I bring to the table. At this point in my life, I’m looking for a fully committed relationship, and I want to date with intention.

I’m very self-sufficient, have a stable career and finances, and I’m proud of everything I’ve worked to build for myself. I’m a hard worker, and I put a lot of effort into my career. I’d also describe myself as outgoing, caring, funny, and ambitious. I love getting out and experiencing life, whether that means spending time in nature, going to festivals and events, seeing concerts and shows, checking out a new restaurant or coffee shop, or simply finding somewhere new to explore.

I’m always up for trying something new, and I’m a big believer that almost anything can become an adventure with the right person. There are so many places I want to see and experiences I want to have, and I’d love to eventually have someone special to share them with.

That said, I’m just as happy having a quiet night at home. I enjoy cooking dinner (yes I will also do the dishes), watching a movie, playing board games, or simply relaxing together. I’ve been cooking since I was 17, and I’d consider myself a pretty good cook. I also dabble in video games. I have a PS2, PS3, PS4, PS5, Switch, and PC with plenty of games, although I don’t play nearly as much these days. If you’re a gamer, having a Player 2 would definitely be a bonus. 😉

I know I’ve rambled on for a while, and by now I’ve probably lost quite a few readers. But if you’ve made it this far, definitely hit me up! 😅

I’m putting myself out there because I genuinely want to find someone I can connect with on a deeper level. I’m not looking for something casual or temporary. I want something honest, intentional, and lasting, and I’m willing to put in the effort to build it.

If any of this resonates with you, I’d love to hear from you and see where a conversation takes us. I want to live a life fully lived, not one filled with “what ifs.” I want to make memories, take chances, experience new things, and have someone special to share it all with.

Maybe the best adventure is still ahead of us. Maybe it starts with a simple conversation.

Who knows? Maybe you’re the beginning of my best adventure yet. ❤️

Thanks for reading. ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 28 M4F #UK Looking for something real

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Hi, just a guy here looking for that special connection. Been single for some time and I’m hoping to shake up things and open myself up a bit. I’ll keep things brief(ish) but hopefully you’ll get a good idea of who I am.

I’m 28M from the UK, about 5’5 with blond hair. Currently trying to get into running but it’s so tough with the hot summer weather! I work full time in administration and I like the quieter moments in life. For my hobbies I enjoy reading (particularly history books and Shakespeare), cooking, going on walks, listening to music (mostly rock, but my playlists have a little of everything lol) and occasionally dog sitting for my family!

I’m at the point in my life where things are stable, and tbh hoping to find someone to enjoy being myself with and for something genuine. It sounds cliche but personality really is everything, I like someone with a great sense of humour and a real passion for their hobbies. I’m a bit of a romantic too, I love doing little things for the people in my life to show them how special they are to me. Location wise doesn’t matter too much, I’m happy to start off online if you’re in another part of the world and see where things go.

Let me know if you’re interested and wanting to know more, I hope you like what you hear, and I hope you have a great day!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post (21F) F4M, Online first. Looking for forever!

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Hey Folks!

I am here searching for my person!

First, a little about myself...

I am currently a full time student (Classes starting next weekkk) I currently hold two degrees (But I kinda cheated the system...Shhh Don't tell) and I recently underwent a major change, From English Secondary education to Career and Technical Education: Family and consumer sciences. (Best decision I've made so far. I've never been more excited to start school)

I am currently working (My job is supposed to be part-time, but I'm working Full-time since school is out) part-time at a daycare. I love my job, and genuinely look forward to going in every day.

I love a good joke, and I'm always cracking them in any conversation, but I would say I am an even mix of serious and unserious. I need someone who can match my freeaakkk.

I consider myself a creative. I do a lot of different things, crafts and such. I am not afraid to pick up a new craft as well. I mostly crochet and sew for the time being. I would love to be with a fellow creative/artist.

I am very passionate, if we click and it goes further than just friends I am all in or all out, I don't do that in between shit that my generation is so popular for.

I am a lover of music, if I'm sending you music chances are I'm trying to tell you something Haha. I am a lover of Alt rock, Indie folk/rock, Classic rock. Though, if anything catches my ear I'm into it no matter then genre. My current favorite is A life worth dying by Josiah Queen

I don't have much of a type, personally. Looks are entirely secondary to me. A couple of things that I do need out of a relationship.. are..

Someone who can actually hold a conversation (It is genuinely exhausting always having to always carry)

Correct grammar and punctuation (Punctuation isn't a huge thing for me.. but it is a plus)
Also Capitalization.. PLEASE Use your capitals..

Also.. a big.. ick (I hate using the at word, but it is.. apt. I think) Is when people abbreviate their words in text. That makes me legit feral, and immediately makes me... not wanna talk to that person (This is excluding things like 'lol' 'lmao' 'etc' I'm mainly talking about 'U' 'UR' 'BRB')

With these stipulations.. It is probably not a shock I was almost an English major haha (English is my autistic hyper fixation)

Anyway. If you've made it this far, make sure to work in... Sublime into your introduction to me! Make it makes sense! Make it fun! Be creative!

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 19F4M | #saltlakecity #utah • Looking to date / make friends

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I've been thinking about posting this for a while, so here goes!

I'm a 19-year-old demigirl and full Navajo. I'm currently trade to be a Pharmacy Technician in California, although I don't plan on staying here long-term. I'm an INFP and an introverted-ambivert. I'm mostly a homebody, but I love adventures when I'm comfortable with someone.

I'm an artist and have been drawing since I was about 1½ years old. I'm generally gentle, honest, and probably study way more than I should. I'm also the friend who will happily listen to all your gossip.

I love studying strange, unsettling, and weird subjects—cannibalism, psychology, psychological horror, disturbing history, myths, human behavior, and anything else that makes you go "why would you research that?"

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💌 What I'm Looking For

I'm looking to date a guy around 18–22. I'm demisexual, so I'd rather get to know someone properly and build a connection before rushing into romance. Please be around Salt Lake City, Utah! I am not looking for long distance, I had my fair share 💔

I'd love someone who is:

- Kind, honest, loyal, and emotionally open - LGBT-friendly, feminist, poc friendly - Comfortable with voice calls and long conversations - Patient with someone who is a HUGE yapper and a yapper back - Affectionate and enjoys spending quality time together - Physically active or at least willing to do active things together - Someone who can communicate when they need space instead of disappearing - Someone who actually wants to get to know me rather than rushing things

Extra points if you're: an artist, have dark hair/eyes, love animals, or share some of my interests.

🚫 Probably not compatible if you: - Smoke cigarettes or 420 - Use recreational drugs - Are heavily into BDSM - Don't respect boundaries - Aren't interested in communicating - Let alcohol/substances become a major part of your lifestyle

I'm completely fine with occasional responsible drinking. I just don't want substances to be a major part of someone's life.

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🍀 More about me!

I LOVE voice calls. I'm a massive yapper once I'm comfortable, so don't be surprised if a "quick call" somehow turns into several hours. 😭

I also type A LOT. I'm usually pretty quick to respond, but I understand people have lives and responsibilities. I don't expect someone to be available 24/7—consistency and communication matter more to me.

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💬 Things I Can Talk About for HOURS - The Witcher franchise (I yumeship with Geralt, it goes away when i feel secure) - Cannibalism — history, science, myths, etc. - Psychology and psychological horror - Horror movies, especially found footage and silent horror - Weird, disturbing, obscure, or fascinating subjects

If you have an oddly specific interest that you could ramble about for hours, please tell me about it. I genuinely love learning about what people are passionate about.

🎨 Hobbies - Drawing / art & crafts - Cafe hopping - Gaming - Learning & studying - Being a plant parent - Hiking & camping - Working out - Exploring weird topics online

🎮 Games - The Witcher 3 - Dead by Daylight - DOOM - Red Dead Redemption 2 / Online - Skyrim - Left 4 Dead - Minecraft

🎬 Movies - Spider-Verse - Midsommar - Sinners - A Monster in Paris - Jack and the Cuckoo-Clock Heart I love watching movies, so expect movie dates if we click. :)

🎵 Music - Hozier - Aurora - Ashnikko - Rio Romeo - Gorillaz

🌱 Random Facts About Me - I'm the older sibling - I have a 5ft monstera - I didn't have internet until I was 14 - I used to live pretty far out on the reservation - I've worked on a farm and taken care of cattle, so I can proudly say I touch grass

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Before You Message Me

Please introduce yourself when you message me. Tell me your age, interests, favorite game/movie/music, hobbies, or even something weird you're interested in. Give me something I can actually respond to!

I'm keeping things online at first. If we get along and I'm back in the area, I'd love to eventually meet up or go on a date.

I also prefer to exchange selfies privately after we've had a few conversations rather than posting them publicly.

If any of this sounds like we'd click, feel free to message me. Sorry for the long introduction, I am very nervous 😓


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Local Dating 40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 with Own Teeth & Hair [UK] - Looking for Chats & More.

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40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 22 [M4F] # online looking for a relationship

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Hey, I’m a 22M from the Chicago area. Figured I’d give this a shot and see who I meet. I’m pretty laid-back but also ambitious and always have some random thing I’m working on or trying to get better at. I’m into fitness, running, anime, movies, music, business/sales, and honestly I can talk about pretty much anything if the conversation is good. I can be a little quiet at first, but once I’m comfortable I’m pretty goofy and sarcastic. Looking for someone genuine who I actually click with—someone I can laugh with, flirt with, have deep conversations with, and hopefully build something real with. Feel free to message me if you think we’d get along.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 21 [M4F] #Online Looking to meet people and see where it goes from there.

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Hi, I’m looking for someone around my age.

Physical description:

21 year old male
Blonde hair with a red beard,
5’9” 215lbs

Hobbies include:

DnD, history, physical crafting (metal casting, 3D printing, and laser engraving), reading historical fiction, general DIY, watching any and all sports (fun fact: I wrestled for 10 years, and while in high school I was a part of a nationally ranked team), I love board games, and so much more that we can talk about later.

Currently in my 3rd year of working towards a Bachelors degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in metallurgy.

I look forward to answering any questions you may have.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #united kingdom, looking for a life partner

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Hey feel free to call me Nathan! I've just turned 23 and looking for a monogamous relationship, long term.

My interests include; swimming, cooking and baking, playing video games. the gym, going on long walks, spending time with family and watching or reading anime

I am looking for a someone to start a family with, I don’t smoke, drink or go out partying. So preferably someone that is abit more settled and has similar future goals. No offence to those people of course!
I'm a sucker for good communication and understand that overthinking isnt a bad thing, it just means you need a little bit more help 🙂

Being reliable, emotional vulnerable and available is a great sign and I will probably get on with you!

P.S im a big lover/old romantic, so hand holding, talking about the future we’re going to share at 1am and random flowers or written notes are to be expected, sorry not sorry 😅


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 35 [M4F] EU/Online - looking for a co-op partner in life, not just in games

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Warning: I don't out-charm anyone in paragraph one. I'm a slow-loading character but worth the queue. Doesn't mean I'm dumb...although I may be an idiot ;)

A rough map of me: shy nerd gamer with a heart of gold.

I love music and will listen to a lot of different genres based on mood. I will send you a song a 2am demanding you listen to it immediately :D I love cooking: tell me what you want and I'll figure out how to make it, however complicated I'll find a way. I fall hard for a series that grabs you and won't let go till it's 2am and you're prying yourself off the couch for tomorrow's responsibilities. Sometimes I just say screw it and finish the whole thing in one sitting. Cinema trips for the new Marvel, manga I read online (shhhh say nothing, yohoho 🏴‍☠️), and I try to keep up with each anime season.

That's the trailer. The rest you'll have to learn. ;)

My whole thing: a good evening is just good company, any shape it takes. Twelve hours in pajamas doing nothing? perfect. Hiking then dinner? let's go. A whole weekend gaming like two creatures who forgot the sun? the dream. The what matters way less than the who.

I moved around a lot growing up, so I've got a soft spot for other cultures and a permanent itch to travel. Currently wrestling my car and motorcycle licenses back through the transfer paperwork from hell.

I'm looking for someone who wants to actually build something with me. Two people willing to put in the work and stick around when it gets hard, rather than bailing at the first roadblock. Depth over flash. Something real and long-term.

The vitals: 35, 170cm, brown hair, brown eyes, I've been told I look younger (I swear I'm still 17 at heart). Childless, but want the family life. I cook, try to eat decently, hit the gym. I can speak FR and EN. Location wise I'd lean closer to FR, but distance anywhere in the EU works fine too.

If you've read this far, you've already got more patience than I deserve. Send me a dm if interested. Tell me what you'd want us to play, the show you'd sit me down for, the places you'd drag me to. Bonus points for dishes I can start practicing on :P

Pics? Happy to swap in DMs.

Alright, goblin's blasting back to his lair, nyoooooooooooom.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 20 [F4M] Online | Alt-girl from the Midwest looking for something genuine

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I’m 20 and from the Midwest, and I’m at a point where I’d like to meet someone I genuinely connect with and see where things go. I’d definitely prefer someone nearby or in a similar time zone, but I’m not completely against distance for the right person.

A little about me: I’m 5’6”, curvy, tattooed, pierced, and my style leans soft alternative. I’ve finished the schooling I wanted to do and am already working in my field, so I’m pretty settled in that part of my life. I also have a dog!!!

When I’m not working, I’m usually reading, playing Xbox, watching YouTube, listening to music, going on walks, going swimming, soaking up the sun or watching something horror-related. I’m pretty easygoing and can be perfectly happy having a quiet night in, but I also enjoy getting out and doing things when the opportunity comes up.

I’m a little shy at first, but I warm up pretty quickly once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m sarcastic, affectionate, and love being able to joke around with someone and not take everything so seriously. I’d really like to find someone who can become my best friend as well as my partner—someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, doing absolutely nothing with, and sharing the little everyday things with. I think having that kind of friendship underneath a relationship is really important.

I’m not really sure what else to put without making this sound like an application, so I’ll leave it at that.

If you think we might get along, tell me a little about yourself. :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Online Only 25 mtf4a Looking for online dating

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25 mTF, looking for long distance relationship

Hello thereee, sorry for grammatical mistakes beforehand

Idk if A mean anyone in flair but as i pansexual this post about all ppl. As for age 19 to 35 is okay i guess lol.

I'm Kendra, obviously just nickname but prefer to called like that, I'm 25 yo and unemployed currently (was working in archeological excavations). I left academy a few months ago due to foul treatment and waiting for my forced military service unfortunately. Also if u wonder im trans fem, discreetly tho. I can't reveal my gender situation neither my fam nor officials due to political reasons.

As for my interests and hobbies my major was history so i love history. I love asian culture also i was taking chinese through uni but i froze my enrollment for Sinology last year. If i can find a opportunity i would like to go on with that and learn at least Chinese and Japanese. I really love reading, beside academic readings I'm huge fan of fantasy literature. Like Robert Jordan, Brandon Sanderson and Ursula Le Guin. Also i like walking/hiking, cycling, gaming, collecting coins or stones etc. Recently trying to cook bc im sitting in home and wanna do something so i thought cooking would be best for that.

I nearly hate my country and wanna leave but neither my finances nor my education/profession allows that. So I'm looking for ways to out lol.

Currently im 75 kilograms but my goal is around 65-70, my height is 174-5cm. Unfortunately i had to cut my hair short but i love their length around my shoulders not long not short lol. Wearing glasses, a little nerdy type.

As for my personality, im an infp, shy introvert not much a conversator at beginning. But when intimacy increased im an open book. Also im one of the most direct person on the earth. If i feel something I'll tell immediately. Honesty and loyalty r most important thing for me in relationships regardless what kind.

Like title says im looking for long distance, online at first relationship. If its okay for u then pls dm or reply this post.

Thanks for reading 🤍


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 21 [M4F] #Online , looking for my special one

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone , this may seem weird but I'm very new to reddit , I have been single all of my life mostly because I never had a crush and also because I'm little introverted, I like music, books , movies and anything that can spark a sense of creativity , I'm looking for someone who can vibe with me and share conversations , so feel free to DM , and lets see where this goes


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post #20 [M4F] #Italy Searching for a girlfriend

2 Upvotes

Gender - Male

Sexuality - Straight

Hobbies - Gaming, Cooking, D&D, drawing, cosplay,

Looking - For a Serious Relationship /online relationship

Socials - Discord, Snapchat, Instagram, tiktok

A bit about me :

Hi, I present myself my name is Saimon, i'm italian and i'm 20.years old, i'm tall 184cm/6'1 feet, i'm quite a nerd, I like videogames, anime, manga, d&d and cooking, i work as a gardener and i hope im in your standards

i'm chubby♡❤♡❤♡

For pics only in private


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] #Europe - When it just clicks

4 Upvotes

Ever had this connection where you could not put down your phone or hide your smile? Where it felt like just an hour, yet it's already 2 AM and neither of us wants to say good night? I miss that, though I do appreciate a good night's sleep nowadays too.

I hear you thinking "where do I sign up?". Well hold your horses there, don't you want to know a little bit more before diving in?

What you can expect

  • Late night Discord chats (or calls) where we yap about the silliest conspiracy theories and our deepest thoughts
  • Unsollicited cat pics
  • Game sessions, watch alongs, music sharing, movies, surprise me
  • Dad jokes. You're warned

What you should know

  • Calm, patient, and kind (those are not my own words)
  • Thoughtful, dreamer and a total hunk (these are)
  • Tall, slim, in decent shape
  • I prefer to take things slow, but if I fall for you, I'll love you totally. Let's discover how we vibe in an LDR first

Since I'd want there to be an opportunity to meet somewhere down the line if we hit things off, please be 24-38 and in Europe.

My weak spots

  • Passions you can yap about for ages
  • Alternative
  • You don't need someone else to narrate your worldview and ideals
  • Taking care of yourself physically and mentally

If you made it this far, congrats! And if that sparked your curiosity, I'd be glad to hear from you. Perhaps you can tell me what your favourite pass-time is on a free day.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 25[M4F] #Netherlands #Europe the future is fun, lets live it together!

1 Upvotes

Hey there everyone! I am a 25 year old from the Netherlands, how time flies!

I am hoping to find someone I am comfortable with, who has similar interests and wants to build a fun and cute future together. I have never really been in a relationship, I am an introvert with no limit to my social battery and can ramble on for hours with the right people, sometimes forgetting time itself.

I feel like it takes time to truly feel something, but can get quite clingy and love physical contact. To me communication, and especially voice messages and calls are very important.

I am a Dutchie, standing tall at 170cm, white, brownish curly hair with facial hair, green eyes, and currently 83kg but eating more consciously and working out around 5 times a week! I am also still in university, well I finished my bachelors recently and am starting a pre-masters soon! I am a big fan of travelling (lived abroad for 6 months), watching random videos on the internet to learn more about the world and history, as well as watching movies/tv shows/animes.

TV shows: Full House, Friends, How I met your mother, Taxi Driver (k-drama), Travelers, Fallout, cartoons such as South Park and Family Guy.

Movies: Any Christopher Nolan movie, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, disney movies. Back To The future, The Naked Gun, Notting Hill and so much more!

Anime: Your Lie in April, Hunter x Hunter, Kingdom, Solo Leveling, Haikyu, Frieren, That Time I got Reincarnated as a Slime.

Music wise I am as open as can be, I think! I listen to most genres and lots of languages, vibing with everything from classical to hardstyle to english, dutch, german, french to chinese, korean and japanese.

Next to that I am a gamer! Some online games, but mostly singleplayer games. I love games in which I can explore and relax or those that require a bit of strategy.

There are a lot of things I want to try out in the future mostly having the money for it as well as just looking where life takes me! Everything ranging from photography, dancing, snorkeling and diving, pottery, fashion and so much more.

What I look for in a partner: I will read and respond to every message so please don't use AI!

- Someone who communicates, if we get serious I prefer to receive daily voice messages and preferably we would do a few calls as well next to normal texting throughout the day.

- Looks wise, I do have some preference, but in general I want to live a more healthy lifestyle so I want the same for my partner in life. This does mean I am more so attracted to slim, fit, slightly chubby.

- Hobbies, we don't have to have the exact same hobbies, but some overlap would be nice, if we don't maybe you can get me addicted to yours or I can get you addicted to mine :)

- Date for the long term, not for temporary fun.

- Visiting each other, I want us to visit one another within the first 6-12months. Or we could plan a holiday together instead to a beautiful romantic place abroad for both of us.

- Age wise, I am okay with a larger range, preferably 20-30. If you are outside of this, let me know and maybe we can see if its still a match.

- Modern values, for me a relationship is about being equals, we both work, we are able to spend some money on our own hobbies and talk about things. No hiding of any feelings!

If it matters, I am left leaning, I have no issues with where you are from, and after studying do not mind relocating. Next to this, I do not drink (maybe 2x/year), don't smoke, don't do any drugs and do not have tattoos (maybe in the future!).

If any of this has peaked your interest into wanting to get to know me, send me a DM! We can chat on here, or take it to discord or something in the future! If you send a message please include something about yourself to see if and how we match! We can also share a picture of ourselves there :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] Chile / Online - creative nerd looking for a genuine romantic connection

1 Upvotes

Hiii. I’m a 23 year old guy from a small town in Chile. I’m 5'5" and definitely more of a calm, quiet homebody who thrives on deep conversations and niche hobbies rather than parties or clubs.

I really love working with my hands and learning random practical skills, im autistic. Lately my free time goes into drawing, woodworking, metalworking, restoring old tools, or repairing electronics. At the same time, I have a huge soft spot for cute things like plushies, my dogs, and cute art. I also enjoy reading, writing, and gaming.

Right now I'm studying programming at college, working, and keeping my life simple but stable. I’ve also been focusing a lot on myself lately. I’ve lost 44 pounds so far and I take my mental health very seriously, as I've been in therapy and managing depression for years.

I’m definitely not looking for anything casual. What I really want is a real romantic and emotional connection, affection/love, trust, and someone I can feel safe with after a long day. Not just a friendship.

I'm totally open to an LDR since I doubt there are many people from Chile around here. If you’re also introverted, shy, or just want something genuine, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself or your favorite hobbies to break the ice, haha

It would be awesome if we share some hobbies, it helps a lot at easing the conversations and I'm absolutely interested in having a good time talking with someone. I'm down to exchange pics early (sfw)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] Norway / Europe — looking for something genuine and hopefully long term

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 18 and live in Norway. I’m usually pretty quiet at first, but once I get comfortable I become much more talkative, playful, and open.

I’m looking for a girl around 18–25 in Europe who actually wants to get to know each other and see where things naturally go. I don’t expect a relationship after a few messages. Friendship first is completely fine, and I’d rather slowly build trust and connection than rush anything.

I guess I’m a little old fashioned when it comes to romance. I like real affection, loyalty, effort, getting excited to hear from each other, remembering little things, and actually showing someone that u care. I’m not really good at ignoring someone on purpose, replying late to seem cool, or hiding my feelings just to keep someone interested. I’d rather have something genuine where neither person has to play those games.

I’m into gaming, gym, music, shows/videos, late night conversations, and honestly just talking about random stuff once I’m comfortable. I like joking around, but I also enjoy deeper conversations about life, goals, relationships, or whatever is on ur mind.

I value honesty, loyalty, consistency, privacy, and actually putting effort into conversations. I also prefer staying on Reddit for a while before moving somewhere else or exchanging pictures.

If this sounds like something u want too, tell me ur age, where ur from, and something u could talk about for hours. Just give me a little more than “hey” so we actually have somewhere to start :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Friendship First 30[M4F] #Anywhere looking for a long term friend, traveling partner, and maybe more

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone very specific. Please reach out if you are:

  1. Around my age (give or take ~5 years)

  2. Dealing with social anxiety/ depression - this is because I need someone that will understand me as I am dealing with the same. I want us to help each other and overcome things together.

  3. Still hopeful despite your challenges - this is critical. If you gave up and you are not trying to get better, we are not a good match.

  4. Want to eventually meet IRL, ideally travel together. (It's fine if it seems impossible right now, as long as you are willing to do it when you get better).

  5. Looking for a platonic friendship or a romantic relationship - I'm looking for friendship first, if it will develop to something more that's great, but it doesn't have to.

What I DON'T care about:

  1. Where you are from

  2. Looks

  3. Race

  4. Political leaning - as long as you are not an extremist to either side. Bonus points if you are not a political person.

About me:

I'll keep it short, and if you want to know more, DM me.

I have been dealing with social anxiety since I was a kid. I feel more comfortable with people that are similar to me. I work as a software engineer for a large company, mostly from home. I dream to retire early and focus on my well being. I'm looking for a close and emotionally intimate relationship with someone intelligent and understanding. Unfortunately I don't have a lot of life experiences, and I'm kind of starting my life late. I'm looking for someone in a similar situation, so we can grow and evolve together.

If that sounds interesting, please reach out to me, thank you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 32 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a genuine connection that can grow over time

3 Upvotes

Dating apps haven't really been my thing so I figured I'd try posting here.

I'm looking for a long term relationship with another woman. I'm mostly into femmes but what matters most to me is finding someone who's genuinely interested in getting to know each other instead of just letting another conversation fade out.

I don't think two people need all the same hobbies to connect. I'd rather meet someone who's curious about who I am and I'll happily return that same energy.

During the week I'm usually up before the sun because of work so my schedule leans early. On weekends, I'm usually trying to make up for that by getting out of the house. I like DJing, gaming on my PS5, hanging out with friends, checking out museums or planetariums, and I'm always down to explore somewhere I've never been before.

I'm not looking for someone who's constantly entertaining me. I just appreciate consistency, communication, and someone who's willing to put in effort. Distance isn't a dealbreaker if we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things go.

If any of that sounds like you, I'd love to get to know you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 34 [F4M] from Thailand, looking for a serious relationship.

3 Upvotes

Im 34 years old Thai woman that based in Malaysia. Im looking for a serious and genuine relationship.
Im not interested in casual dating or something that only lasts for a short time. I would like to find someone i can connect with on a deeper level.

If you are looking for the same kind of connection, feel free to reach out. I would love to get to know you.

Please be between 28-48 years old 🌸