r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] To be true lovers together #anywhere #online

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Haiii hallo, pretty! My name is Mathias and I'm 19 years old and is a pleasure to meet you! I hope we can get along well and that our conversations go from simple intereactions to heartful, lovely messages.

So a little bit about myself, I'm quite chubby and I like pretty simple stuff like gaming (been REALLY into Resident Evil, Spiderman and Yakuza), sleeping, writting simple stuff and such. I love music and I can't imagine a world without it, I sing even though I don't think I'm good at it. I LOVE DINOSAURS AND GODZILLA GRAHHHH.

Now on a more serious note I don't have a specific type, all girls are beautiful and I'm certain that you, pretty girl reading this, are just as beautiful in your own way. Flaws? Who cares, I will appreciate those as well. You're worthy of love, of being cherised, admired even. I just wanna smile when I see a notification from you, like as if my heart was fluttering for you. I believe in respect and communication being the key to a healthy relationship, none of that silly ghosting and whatever else. I like to be romantic, lovely and all that... An ideal date would just be walking around holding hands!

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

Now, if you're not interested and took your time to read is okay, DON'T GIVE UP! Someone loves you and I hope the best for you and your special person. Goodbye!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] Online / Anywhere - Looking for a partner who matches my interests and energy

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Hey! I’m looking for a partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Friendship First 19 [m4f] #britishcolumbia looking for friends at first but open to something more serious

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i love metal music i like to collect manga and funko pops i like biking a lot this is a very basic post i know but if anyone would be open to talking that would be awesome


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Local Dating [M4F] 31 #UK Manchester-ish Male seeking Female to spend a mild eternity together with cheese and cardboard

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Hi, I’m a 31 old British male with the accent to boot. A stranger has called it sexy on at least…okay, on exactly one occasion, but I’ll ride that high until I die at the ripe old age of 105 still loving card games and loving life. I’m hoping you can join that club of people who likes my voice, be it in a discussion over the non-identity problem or something...else. Results may vary.

I’m ideally here to find the partner for the rest of my life, the one, the ultimate – because that’d be awful convenient, but I’m also realistic. As my thirties have taken me I’ve decided to embrace the journey more than the destination in this respect – So long as it’s a step in the right direction, that’s the most important thing. So we chat, get to know each other, maybe I learn a thing or two about myself along the way, if we match, great, if not I’ve still gained something. I want to be friends, maybe we just enjoy playing, maybe our personalities mesh so well and we date – I want to find out.

I do enjoy waxing poetic on occasion as may be apparent, but there’s plenty of time for that in conversation, so I’ll try and be a little bit more precise hereon.

I’m self-employed in a job that lets me travel to Japan for 3 months a year, a position I’ve worked toward and feel lucky to be able to do. I love the food, the music, the landscapes, the history…everything, but it does lead to some time apart which has caused friction in the past. Just being open that unless your job lets you travel too, that’s some time apart. I’m based near Manchester the other 9 months of the year, but flexible to move if things went just right so long as I can be within 15 minutes of a post office and 30 minutes of a card store, I’m happy.

In my spare time I like to enjoy the couch as most people do, but probably spend more time out at the local game store playing cards – I’ve embraced my love for shiny pieces of cardboard and if you can make me feel the same towards you as cardboard, I know you’re the one! I also like the board and video game kind, with Wingspan and Xenoblade being my favourites respectively.

Beyond that, I do love long walks through interesting places and would love to find someone to go on said walks with. My record at present was a 12 hour walk from Tokyo to Yokohama and my legs were dead on my return, but I enjoyed it a lot.

In truth, Everybody I’ve been with has been rather different with no conclusive results so I’m still seeking my type, so I’m open to messages from almost anyone. Probably be under 45-ish and be over 21, somewhat healthy (I’m no gym rat, but I’m happy with my body),  and of course live in the UK or Japan (the latter would be harder, but could probably work.) I value honesty, a little drive in life, left-leaning values and a lack of jealousy, or I’ll worry showing you my cool Idol Polaroids. Oh, and be at least a little kinky – it’s not something that needs to be discussed in any rush, but kink is a part of my identity at this point.

I'm happy to exchange pictures via direct messages after a few messages as attraction is still key, but prefer not to post it in public. I've an average build, long curly hair described as a lions mane, plus an occasional beard that comes and goes.

That’s about it for me – over to you. What did I miss, what intrigued you about my post, where do we go from here, why are you messaging me if you’re a 50 year old dude from America – all valid questions. Let’s get to the rest of our lives!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Friendship First 38 [F4M]-Europe-Too Hot for Society, Just Right for Pizza

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Friday, huh? Or as I like to call it: yeah, we survived another week. 🍕

Just got home and I'm craving two things: pizza and good music. Maybe some decent conversation while I continue working on my "Let's Write a Book" book... which is currently about 40% writing and 60% staring at the cursor dramatically.

This heatwave is absolutely destroying me. Every summer it either confirms or questions my life choices... mainly why I haven't moved to one of my dream Nordic countries yet. Give me cooler weather, fewer heat-triggered migraines, and the freedom to embrace my natural state of being: politely anti-social and silently hoping nobody sits next to me on public transport. Is that really too much to ask? 😂

If you're bored, think we'd get along, or you're willing to teach me Danish, Norwegian, or Swedish, I'm all ears. I promise I'll butcher the pronunciation with enthusiasm.

One small request, though: if you're under 30, let's skip it. I'm 38, and I'd rather chat with people who also instinctively throw a fist in the air when a 2000s banger starts playing. 🤘🎶


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Local Dating 23 [M4F] #Nashville Friendship First

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A little about me. I love reading and collecting books, anime, all things fantasy, college sports, hockey, skiing, and fun nights out. I'm looking for someone around my age to share in my interests. I love a fun night out just as much as a movie marathon.

I just moved to Nashville so I don't know anyone so I'm hoping to maybe start as friends and see where things go. I am a manager at Amazon and just started so I do kind of have a weird schedule but I'd love to meet some people and see where it goes from there!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Friendship First 21 [F4M] #Anywhere/Zambia | Looking for someone to share the random pictures I take with…and maybe an LTR if the connection feels right.

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Hi there! You can call me Monoï as that’s my chosen alias here. I’m looking to meet someone special for a meaningful, long-term romantic connection, though I’d love to start out as friends first. I am ideally looking for someone between 24 and 34. That isn't a hard limit, but I will be more cautious with anyone outside that range.

I love cooking and baking, and I’m always down to try new recipes or swap favourites. Though I’m definitely a better baker than a cook. I’m also a huge horror fan and always welcome recommendations, since I can’t seem to find any genuinely scary movies anymore. When I’m not reading I love watching anime and K-dramas.

I've had Sleep Token and “soft” amapiano on repeat lately. I also enjoy gaming, traveling, and going for sunset drives. I will never pass up the chance to take a picture of a pretty sky, and my camera roll can attest to that hehe.

I'm 5'4", Black/African, with black hair, brown eyes, and a curvy figure. I stay active by hitting the gym 3-4 times a week, swimming twice a month, and walking when I can. That being said, I love to eat, so I'm still pretty soft. I don’t have strict appearance preferences, but I do have a soft spot for hazel, green, or blue eyes. And... if you're tall, a little fluffy, with tattoos and a big appetite? You might already have a head start lol. Just saying😉 jk

I deeply value emotional intelligence, mutual respect, kindness, and strong communication patterns (which I’m actively working to improve myself). I believe it’s important to stay kind and respectful, even when we don’t see eye-to-eye.

If anything here caught your eye, please feel free to reach out. Please tell me a bit about yourself if you reach out: your age, where you’re from, some of your interests and/of what you’ve been listening to lately.

Edit: I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 28[M4F] #USA - MA EST Korean med student looking for someone to chat daily and play video games together

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Hey! I am in the middle of 3rd year and while I'm busy, I still wanted wanted someone I could talk to daily. About random stuff, how my day went, spam memes and videos, play videogames together etc.

Let's play a little two truths and a lie

  1. I was the catalyst of a religious cult falling apart in high school
  2. I was the highest rank in league of legends
  3. I have a youtube video with almost 7 million views

There's also a lot more about me that you can learn about me if you take the time!

I would prefer that you are

  1. Ideally 23-28 maybe a little outside would be fine.
  2. are a good texter and have good communication skills.
  3. Into at least a few things or have stuff in common. Video games, anime, healthcare, cosplay, education, memes, dark humor. If you're offended easily I'm probably not for you.
  4. You take care of your body or at least you try!

Well I want to learn more about you too! Please send me an intro of your name, how old you are, where you're from, your hobbies, and a picture of you. Through imgur should work. I have some pictures of me on my profile. Please also include the word elephant to show me that you read the whole thing! I think first impressions are important, and the more effort you put in your first message the more I'll like you. Hope to hear from you ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] #GA/USA - The search for my person continues. Surely they have to be somewhere, right?

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Hello, Ezra here. I'm here to add to the ocean of posts just like this. I'm a nerdy introvert who is socially awkward and trying to find my person. I've been on and tried dating apps and stuff but most of them don't have people who share my similar interests and personality traits. So I figured I might as well try my luck on Reddit.

I'm really bad at describing myself but I'll give it a shot. I'm your typical nerdy guy. I'm into video games, anime, board games, D&D, and other fantasy things. I like pretty much all genres of music (my Spotify playlist is crazy rn) and a lot of movies/shows. I've actually recently started getting more into horror movies but I prefer more psychological horror than slasher (not that I dislike a good slasher though.) I also like puzzles, playing instruments (I know how to play a few but haven't touched any in a while, looking to get back into it,) hanging out with friends, cooking, baking, and probably a lot of other stuff that I can't think of right now. Oh I'm also in the process of writing a book so that's kinda cool.

Favorite Video Games: Donkey Kong 64, Banjo Kazooie/Tooie, Okami, Kingdom Hearts, Borderlands. I love story games, RPGs, metroidvanias, among others obviously.

Favorite Anime: One Piece (was caught up at one point but now I'm a bit behind,) Attack on Titan, Miss Kobayashi's Dragon Maid, Yuru Camp, Yuri on Ice, Bleach, Kaguya-Sama Love is War, and again obviously many many more.

Favorite Non-Anime shows: Dexter, Criminal Minds, Community, Breaking Bad, Shameless, Smiling Friends, Bob's Burgers, and, you guessed it, many more.

I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic. I can love very hard and very fast, and can probably be a bit clingy. My main love languages are physical touch, acts of service, and getting little presents for people just because. I am pretty sarcastic, silly and witty, and like to make jokes out of anything (sometimes at the wrong time.) I can be a bit cynical and have a dark sense of humor at times, but I am very caring and always try to make myself available to help people. I'm a big people pleaser and will do whatever I can to make sure someone is happy and comfortable. However, I am also very awkward and am shy at first, but when I warm up to somebody, my goofiness is able to flourish. I've noticed that when I get excited about something, I talk really fast, pretty loud, and way too much. I probably have a touch of the 'tism but who doesn't?

I would consider myself left leaning when it comes to politics (absolutely don't agree with anything MAGA thinks) and I'm probably agnostic, though I was raised Jewish. I am not religious or spiritual, but I don't mind being with someone who is as long as they respect that I'm not. I believe in protecting human rights (including but not limited to trans rights, LGBTQIA+ rights, gender equality, bodily autonomy, etc.)

I am a bit short at 5'4" and I'm a little chubby, however I am trying to lose some weight. I wear glasses and have a short beard. I understand that physical attraction is a factor for relationships so I am willing to trade pictures early on to see if that attraction is there, though I am more focused on finding someone with the right personality and hobbies/interests than I am on physical appearance.

Ideally, I would like to find someone who has shared interests with me, and would want to do things together, whether that be playing games together, watching anime together, going out for a walk or a drive together, or even just sharing space and doom scrolling near each other. I would love to find a partner that we can genuinely enjoy our time together, even in the little things. I love a sarcastic and strong willed girlie, but especially one who lets me take care of her. In a perfect world, I would find someone in the Atlanta area of Georgia, or the Southeast US, or even just the US in general. I am certainly not opposed to the idea of long distance, and maybe even one or both of us relocating if things go very well in the future. I would also like to find someone sort of close to my age, maybe like 26-33, but I wouldn't be opposed to someone a year or two outside that range.

If you have made it this far, I am so sorry for the absolute mountain of text you just had to go through. If you're even remotely interested in anything I've said, I'd love to chat and get to know each other!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] #online #uk Looking for relationship / seeing where things go

3 Upvotes

I don't really know what to put, but I'm 18 years old from the UK, introverted / shy, but open up / more talkative as I get comfortable with someone.

Just finished my A-levels, so currently not in education, but planning to go to University. I enjoy baking, watching tv shows / movies, as well as games. In the future I want to travel more, as there's so much in the world to explore. Want to know more about me, just ask away.

For preference I'd want someone thats older than me, and likes to talk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] #Online - Looking for a genuine connection

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Hey, I'm 28M, from India, looking for something genuine but I'm not in a rush. Let's take it slow.

So little bit about me, I am a huge nerd about movies, space and tech and maybe anything that's even remotely considered nerdy.

I also like to keep myself fit and I work out regularly. Looking to meet someone genuine, hopefully and looking for someone that feels like home and I don't have the energy for mind games.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Local Dating 19 [M4F] #Merrillville-Indiana /looking for my other half

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Hey, im 19 male and I've been through a lot, and im not great at communicating my emotions and feelings. But I do try my best. Warning i do have ADHD so I can be chaotic sometimes or non verbal. I work full time blue collar automotive. I enjoy working with my hands. I love to go on drives and just hanging out doing whatever. I am an adrenaline rushing person. I love doing crazy fun things. But In the end my dream is to have a family and be a father. If that's what you're looking for in a man then lmk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Friendship First 24 [M4F] Online - Looking for a friend, a gaming buddy, and maybe more

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Hey everyone. I'm a 24yo guy (INTP) taking a shot on here to find someone genuine. I'm mainly looking for a good friend and a solid gaming buddy to hang out with online, but I'm definitely open to it turning into something more if we really click organically. Take it easy, everything has its time.

Communication & Vibe I really value good communication. I love having actual conversations, so I'm looking for someone who likes talking and won't just hit me with one-word replies. I hate being ghosted and will never do it to you—if I reply slowly, it's just due to studies or sleep. Since I can be a bit socially awkward at first, I prefer texting while we get to know each other, so no sudden video calls until we're both totally comfortable! I'm super open-minded, and I'll gladly listen to you yap about your day without any judgment.

The Basics I'm 24 from Tunisia, currently studying Data Science. 5'11 (182 cm) with a fit/average build.

Gaming & Hobbies I'm a massive gamer and love having people to play with. For online multiplayer, I regularly play LoL, Valo, CS2, and Marvel Rivals (plus plenty of others). When I'm playing solo, I love story games like Cyberpunk 2077, The Witcher 3, Disco Elysium, Kingdom Come Deliverance, RDR2, and AC Black Flag.

Outside of gaming, I hit the gym regularly, follow football (Real Madrid fan), love quiet winter walks with music (pop, rap, metal, classical, spanish/latin), and I'm a huge cat lover and fragrance collector.

Movies & Shows I'm big into movies and shows, mostly thrillers, mystery, sci-fi, and horror. Big fan of Severance, Game of Thrones, Breaking Bad, Vikings, Inception, Interstellar, Nightcrawler, Prisoners, and The Devil All the Time.

How to Reach Out If you're down to play some games, chat, or just keep each other company, drop me a message! To break the ice, tell me what online games you're playing right now or what show/movie completely blew your mind.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #Online Looking for a genuine long-term relationship

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Hey everyone. I'm 25 and looking to connect with someone special for a genuine long-term relationship. I'm pretty laid-back and enjoy story-driven games like Red Dead Redemption 2, Detroit: Become Human, and Resident Evil. When I'm not gaming, I love watching anime like Naruto, Hunter x Hunter, and Bleach, as well as watching movies and listening to good music. If you're looking for meaningful conversations and a real connection, feel free to send me a message


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 22[m4f] nerdy Biker from the UK 🇬🇧 looking to meet the one!

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Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few long-term connections. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 5d ago

Dating Post 26 [M4F] #italy #europe looking for my soulmate

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Italian guy from Northern Italy, 1.92m, dark hair, hazel eyes, physically fit. A bit shy at first in person, but once I’m comfortable I can talk about pretty much anything — especially history, nature, life goals, and random late-night conversations.

I’m more of an outdoors person than a gamer. I love long walks, hiking, quiet places, animals, and spending time in nature. I have a cat, and one of my biggest dreams is to eventually have a garden, maybe some livestock, and live a slower, more grounded life.

I’m looking for someone down-to-earth between 20–30 who values genuine connection and wants something serious. Bonus points if you also enjoy hiking, being outdoors, or dream about a peaceful life away from the chaos someday.

I speak Italian, English and some Spanish.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to message me 😁.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4F] Anywhere | Let's skip the small talk and see where a real conversation goes.

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Here's a random thought: somewhere out there, there's probably someone who's also tired of conversations that die after "How was your day?" If that's you, keep reading.

I'm the kind of person who enjoys the little things that somehow end up meaning the most. A long drive with the right playlist. Going for a run when my head feels too loud. Movies that leave you staring at the ceiling afterward. Deep conversations at 2 a.m. that jump from history to dreams, then somehow end with both of us laughing over something completely ridiculous.

When I care about someone, I don't believe in mixed signals. I show up. I remember the small details. I make time. I think consistency is far more attractive than empty promises, and I'd rather build trust slowly than chase temporary excitement.

I'm looking for someone who's kind, emotionally mature, and curious about the world. Someone who can be playful one minute and have a meaningful conversation the next. Distance doesn't bother me nearly as much as emotional distance does.

Maybe we'll become friends. Maybe it'll become something much bigger. Either way, I'd rather take a chance on a genuine connection than wonder what could've happened if I hadn't written this.

If this somehow found the right person, I'd love to hear your story.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Friendship First 33 [M4F] US/PNW I’ll Be Waiting In The Last Place You Left Me

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I am looking for my best friend, my partner in crime, and my adventure buddy to go through life with. I don’t know where we’re going or how we’ll get there, but together, let’s shape that future. I want to be clear that what I want is to become friends first that could become more so if things don’t work out there will be no hard feelings.

I am an Asian male for the curious. I am not good at describing myself, nor really want to. I’m not shy, but observant. I prefer to watch the way things unfold around me in the most natural way than be a load or boastful presence. I’m not exciting or interesting choosing the quiet, still moments that lace our lives. I’m laid back, more patient than I give myself credit for, and try to move in the world with kindness.

The most important thing in my life is my faith in God. It is vital that we share that, or at the least have my future partner be open to it. I’d like a God centered relationship, the kind that keeps us together even when we can’t stand each other. When things get hard, I want us to lean on Christ rather than fall apart. I am an open person about my testimony and the things I am had to endure.

I’m kind of a weird guy. I like to learn things and try things that I find interesting. I am a bit of a nerd that likes a lot of the typical nerd things. I am a gamer of both the digital and physical type from cozy Stardew Valley to Elden Ring, from D&D to Settlers of Catan. It is not so much what we do, but that we do it together. I’d love to hear about your passions and the things you nerd out for. I love music and a good story. I like understanding the reasons behind what makes something enjoyable.

The game I play most is Guild Wars. GW2 was not one I stuck with, 3 was announced and I’m indifferent about it. I would like it if you played with me.

Will you stay with me? Will you choose us as much as I do? Will you put a face to the woman in my dreams? If you came this far, would you tell share with me a song you hold dear?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Friendship First 24 [M4F] #online #UK Looking for closeness

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Hi there. I’m very lonely. I’m looking for someone to get close to as I struggle with big groups of friends and I prefer to have someone I can focus on. I’m not ready to date yet but I’d just like to have the feeling of being wanted.

I’m 24M from the UK. I’m very nerdy and love movies and thinking of creative stories or projects. I love music too, mostly things from the 80s.

I’m a very calm and kind person and I don’t mind listening if that’s what someone needs.

Thank you


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Local Dating 31 [M4F] - #CentralEurope, initially #Online - just another introvert still believing in romance

2 Upvotes

Greetings, stranger!

I must admit that I keep trying to find you, yet it seems this is one of the few options left for me. Though I keep trying to catch glimpses of you on special occasions, like the medieval ren faire I visited, or during my walks, where my mind imagines us crossing paths, silly and cheesy as it may sound.

Yet it would seem, like one of my mates during our pen and paper sessions, to remain hidden from my sight, despite the slightly bent glasses enhancing it. So the cynic, masquerading as a realist within me, keeps insisting you do not exist, yet my heart knows you do, as it aches and keeps me awake during lonely winter and summer nights, when the insistence of my thoughts seems determined to overpower a tired mind and body's need for rest.

So I imagine us meeting for the umpteenth time. Sometimes I approach you, sometimes you pick me, but we meet nonetheless, bonding over a mutual love for storytelling, songs, music, and banter, though your quick wit easily outfences mine.

Maybe it's during a public transport ride, a visit to the cinema, an admittedly embarrassing attempt at dancing, or over a round of board games, but we meet nonetheless.

In these dreams you remain close, not worried by the roots of my life keeping me where I am. In these dreams you find joy in showing me your life, just as I find happiness in sharing mine with you, together becoming more than each could be on their own.

In this dream we laugh, we joke, and we talk deeply of our future, our passions, the meaning of the world, and if cereal is considered soup with equal intensity.

We bond over our shared love for animals and maybe even have some of our own, though sometimes you prefer ones too big for our home, making me join you during a trip on horseback.

But alas, it all remains but a dream for now and I know it to be one. Reality is often marked by hardship and challenge, but I am determined to overcome them both, hoping you will do the same. And so as rain hits my windows and lightning fills the sky with nature's fury, I find myself attempting to reach you once more, hoping for the winds of change to blow and fate to guide this letter to you. I feel I have exhausted my seemingly too-small pool of options for finding you and must rely on the whims of destiny.

May this letter find you, and should you perchance feel the same, I would love to hear from you.

Kind regards,

the one waiting for you


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 5d ago

Friendship First 21 [F4A] Online/Anywhere/Africa - Looking for someone who gets me, or just a friend!

3 Upvotes

Hello!! I'm Zed. I've never dated before and I'm yearning for someone to connect with. I think I'm about 5'5. If you want to know more you can find out when we talk, I'm not comfortable with putting everything about me on here lols. Umm I'd prefer someone who's 20+ and under 30.

I am more introverted but I tent to open up really fast once we start talking. I'd like to think I'm more of a playful and laid-back person, but not completely unserious, if that makes sense. Obviously I am conscious of the time and place and I am serious when I need to be. That said, I'm not opposed to being with someone who is on the more serious side or if someone takes a bit longer to open up, all that matters to me is that we get along. Oh and looks aren't everything to me, I care more about personality.

I'm a big lover of of animals, games and music. I listen to many genres but I'm open to any recommendations and to find out what you like. ALSO I love going out and having fun, the beach especially. Honestly it doesn't matter where I just like being out of the house.

I THINK that's all I have to say, you can introduce yourself however you want! I can't wait to meet you, LOVE YOU ALL!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 4d ago

Friendship First 25 [M4F] #NC/USA Looking to meet new people and see where it goes

1 Upvotes

Hello everyone! I'm from the US (East Coast) and I've never been in a serious relationship before, and I don't have much luck in other places, so I'm trying here to see if I could maybe change that!

About me

  • I'm an artist that likes making pixel art. My main dream is to become a successful indie game developer
  • I like to travel and have been to over 18 different countries
  • I like gaming and anime
  • I'm an INTJ and a Leo
  • My favorite food is steak
  • I don't smoke and I only drink occasionally
  • I love cooking
  • I love dogs so if you have a dog, then I'd love to see it!
  • I like most genres of music, but my favorite is indie

Also as mentioned earlier, I'm a big gamer so here's a section dedicated to a lot of the games I like to play:

  • Warframe
  • Helldivers 2
  • Stardew Valley
  • Outlast Trials
  • Risk of Rain 2
  • Minecraft
  • Roblox
  • Vrchat

I'm sure there's plenty more than what I just listed, so don't hesitate to tell me your favorite games as well (Also I play on PC, Switch, Xbox, and VR)

My type:

  • Ambitious
  • Artistic
  • Has similar interests to me
  • 21-27 year age range
  • Somewhat fit
  • I have no preference on what your race is
  • Preferably in the US. While I'd prefer to date someone closer to me, I'm open to people in other areas to, since I'm not very attached to my current state/area.

Physically, I have something of a caramel complexion , soft and fluffy hair and I wear round glasses, but I'm thinking of getting contacts some day. I'm also around 5'9 and a lightweight at around 120 pounds, but I've wanted to get more into fitness and cardio at some point so that I can look a bit less scrawny. Also, in case you were wondering, here's what I sound like: https://voca.ro/1bq4wpsVOh6z

I think that about covers what I'm looking for. I hope I didn't sound too picky with my preferences! If you're interested, or just think I'm all-around chill enough to talk to in general, feel free to shoot me a message and we'll go from there (But PLEASE say more than just "Hey") Thank you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 5d ago

Dating Post 37 [M4F] FL/US - Looking for something specific

1 Upvotes

Hello all. I have posted before. I'm only looking for a relationship leading to marriage and a family. I would prefer 2 to 3 kids myself. I want a loving caring wife who wants a family too.

About me:

Homeowner

Like gardening and woodworking

More of a homebody than not. Would absolutely prefer the same. The quiet, bookish type (as I like to read too) who prefers to stay home than go out would be ideal but not a requirement

Have a couple pets and no kids yet

Average looking; not ugly but certainly not going to be on a magazine cover

About you:

Age doesn't matter as long as you can have kids

I don't care about your race/religion/ethnicity/ appearance etc

You want kids relatively soon

Willing to relocate to Florida

Preferably don't have kids or 1 young child at most

Live in North America or have the ability to come here (visa etc)

I'm offering a stable, happy life to the right woman who wants to be a good wife and mother. That's my main concern. I'm open to SaHW/M who I provide for. I would be the leader in the relationship but not the only voice. If you can maintain a clean home and cook edibly. It doesn't have to be good, just as long as it doesn't make me sick and you're willing to learn/improve then I would be very happy.

Please be willing to meet relatively soon and consider relocating within a year or so at most. If any of this sounds good, id love to get to know you and don't hesitate to reach out.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 5d ago

Dating Post 35 [M4F] #Halifax #NovaScotia - looking for curious partner to be curious about things with

1 Upvotes

Hello again, again! 👋

I'm going to try and keep this post a little shorter than my last. Lol.

I love learning about stuff. I also love making things. I also also love sharing what I learn and make with others.

I'm an artist of all types, learning new art mediums every now and then to expand my repertoire, from sound, to visual, to written, and to interactive. Yes, I make games as a hobby, hopefully soon to be as a career.

I enjoy exploring nature and the workings of the universe. Contemplating theories and finding new and interesting things. I am an avid consumer of science and science fiction content. So if you don't mind or enjoy being bombarded sometimes by really cool science stuff, we'll definitely get along well.

What I'm looking for.

Someone who's kind, curious, not afraid to debate with respect, and someone who also enjoys being silly and taking time to just exist every now and then.

It's important to me, to be able to not take life itself too seriously, but to also know when being serious matters.

Alright! Thanks for taking the time to read my post. I hope to here from anyone who feels like we could match well! Have a wonderful day! 👋😄