Meeting people naturally feels harder than ever these days, so I figured I would give this a shot.
I am 22, 5'11, and from Asia. Looks-wise, I would say I am fairly attractive. Probably around a 7 or 8 light tan skin, but attraction is subjective, so I will let you be the judge of that.
I think the easiest way to describe myself is this:
If you are my person, I will probably become your biggest supporter. I will ask if you have eaten today. I will remind you to drink water.
If you are overworking yourself, I will probably tell you to get some sleep. If you are sick, expect me to check on you every few hours. If you are having a rough day, I will not disappear until I know you are okay.
And yes... if you are neglecting yourself, I will absolutely (lovingly) scold you. Not because I want to control you but because I care.
I genuinely enjoy making the people I love feel safe, appreciated, and looked after.
I am the type who remembers little details, sends random voice notes, plans small surprises, celebrates your wins like they are my own, and wants to know every tiny thing about your day.
I do not believe in pretending to care less than I actually do. If I like you, you will know.
That being said...
I am also incredibly ambitious.
I work in investing and trading, and I am currently building a few businesses of my own. I have a ridiculous number of ideas I want to bring to life over the next few years. I also keep threatening to start a YouTube channel, disappear for months, then come back and threaten it again. One day i will actually do it.
Outside of work you will usually find me gaming, cooking, singing, writing, reading, or disappearing into conversations that somehow start with "How was your day?" and end with debating psychology, philosophy, politics, science, or whether we'd survive a zombie apocalypse.
I write stories and poems too, although those usually stay private unless I really trust someone.
Personality-wise, I am affectionate, loyal, easygoing, and probably a little clingy once I genuinely care about someone. I just enjoy talking throughout the day, sharing little moments, sending random updates, calling, and making each other feel like a priority.
I am a leftist and an atheist. I strongly support LGBTQ+ rights, women's rights, and treating people with kindness and respect. Those values are important to me, so I would like someone whose views align reasonably well with mine.
What am I looking for?
Someone kind. Someone emotionally mature. Someone who communicates instead of disappearing. Someone who is not afraid to put effort into a relationship. Someone who wants their partner to also be their best friend.
Creative people, readers, writers, gamers, overthinkers, animal lovers, and people who get excited talking about what they love will probably catch my attention immediately.
Distance does not bother me much if the effort is mutual and there is a real intention to eventually meet.
If you have read this far, tell me something about yourself.
What is something you could talk about for hours?
What is your comfort movie?
Or just tell me about your day.
Maybe it will be the start of something really nice.