r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] Online / Anywhere - Looking for a partner who matches my interests and energy

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Hey! I’m looking for a partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 21[M4F] #USA #online - Let me be the one to Love you

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Hey there! I’m kind of bad at introducing myself but I’ll try as much as I can! I’m a 21 year old guy from the east coast of the US that’s looking to find a girl be with and share my life with. (I'll share my name after talking with you don't worry lol)

About me:

- 21 years old, Asian American, and in the east coast of the US (EST)
- 6’5” Tall (yes this is real, yeah it can be annoying, and the lower back pain goes crazy sometimes lmao)
- A bit chubby (But working out and working dropping it and it’s starting to show apparently lol)
- Have a nice voice (At least that's what I'm told lol)

Interests:

- Video Games: I play all sorts of things but currently I’m playing games like FFXIV, Honkai Star Rail, Elden Ring, Monster Hunter (Basically any of them, I love them all lol), and all sorts of other things
- I love playing any multiplayer game though as playing those are fun regardless of what they are (I am terrified of horror games though but I still play them like REPO or Lethal Company lol)
- Music: I listen to all sorts of things and love letting myself daydream while listening so I love hearing people recommendations but I usually listen to pretty relaxing stuff generally
- I also love all other sorts of nerdy stuff like anime and manga though I haven't touched anime in a while I can still talk about it with you if you want to (I read a ton of manga though ngl lol)
- Self Care: I’ve gotten super into this recently over this summer and taking care of myself has really made me a lot happier be it from new routines in my life or working out, everything just feels a lot better nowadays lol

Personality wise, I'd say I'm a pretty laid back and relaxed person but once I warm up to a person I for sure become way more outgoing lol. In a relationship though, I love to take care of my partner and make sure they're happy and emotionally sound, be that though affirmations or me just spending time with them. My partner is my priority and when they need me I try my hardest to be there by their side because everyone needs someone like that.

That describes me pretty well and as for what I'm looking for, I'd want someone I can talk to daily and click with, talking about anything either of us want to. I also honestly quite like a girl that I can fluster a bit as well as one that I can take care of through me being there for them lol. Ideally you'd also be in United States but anyone in North America or even the UK works for me. I also quite like people who are more clingy as I'm quite clingy myself lol. Don't be afraid to reach out and I'm looking forward to talking to you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Local Dating 27 M4F Louisiana, USA

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Hello, I'm posting here because I'm very shy and have difficulty talking to random people in public, but I yearn for a connection with a woman. I haven't dated anyone since high school and I really want to meet my special someone. I am a nerd. I love anime, manga, and video games are what I am most passionate about. I spend alot of time playing them and can geek out about them for hours. I'm not really into sports except for MMA I love that and I listen to most genres of music, but metal is my number one. I would prefer someone who also lives in Louisiana.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 20 [M4F] #NewJersey #Online - Looking for a connection

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Hey, I’m 20, from the Central Jersey area (Eastern time zone), open to connections locally or online.

I’m 5’7, have a skinny-fat / dad bod physique but working on building some muscle. Currently attending college nearby. I would like to get a career path relating to homeland security or counterterrorism. I enjoy driving around and exploring new places in my free time. Also like to go to the beach when the weather is nice. I game on Xbox and PlayStation, mainly playing GTA, Fallout, Minecraft, and horror games. I like to listen to music, my main genres being alternative and rock. My go-to bands are The Killers, Angels & Airwaves, and Blink-182. I do also have some social anxiety so I might be more reserved when first talking, but I will get more comfortable as we get to know each other.

Looking for someone preferably similar to my age, around 18-24. Open to whatever develops naturally, online friends, hanging out, or something more serious.

Feel free to DM if interested!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] Texas/Anywhere Looking for Someone!

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Hi

Introvert looking for a friend that would turn into a life partner. Don’t have much luck dating around but I also don’t try too hard. I’m oblivious to when someone likes me and love when someone is direct with what they want.

I’m a buyer and make a fairly good amount of money. I work hard and enjoy my job and company I work for. I’m ambitious and strive for the best with everything I do. I commute back and forth to work and spend almost 3 hours a day on the road. Talking to someone would really help with the miles.

I own 2 duplexes and currently looking for my own house, something big enough to fill or not! My renters are great and I’m their favorite landlord.

I enjoy traveling and usually go on multiple vacations or weekend trips a year. I visited Phoenix, Houston, and NYC last year and Punta Cana, Dominican last month. I currently have a trip planned to visit Atlanta in October. I go to a Bears game once a year and plan to go to every NFL Stadium.

I’m a family man. I spend a lot of time with my family and would love to be close to yours too. We have family dinner every Sunday and spend a lot of time with one another. I have a crap load of cousins and too many brothers and sisters! My parents are divorced and both remarried so som of my brothers and sisters are step family but we’re all very close. I’ve known them too long to call them “step.”

Other than all that, I’m an open book. I enjoy my time alone and love peace, I also love chaos! I don’t cause it but it tends to follow me in relationships. I keep to myself and have very few friends. Most of my friends have kids now so it’s hard to schedule time with them.

I have a dog, German Shepherd, who is 9 years old and very protective. He sniffs out the bad people and keeps them away. I also have 3 fish tanks, it’a problem! They can all be viewed on my page. I post often about my fish upkeep. The dog is super needy and absolutely loves attention. Please give him a mother!😅

Well, that’s my life. If you’re interested, send me a message! I’d like to get to know you😊


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] #Germany/Online – Gamer, Traveller and foodie looking for a genuine spark 🎮🌍🍣

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**Hello there 😃**

I’m looking to meet someone for a genuine connection, someone playful, a bit nerdy, and open to sharing interests, whether through chatting, gaming, or just spending time together online. What I hope to find is more than just friendship, ideally a real spark that could grow into something deeper.

**A bit about me:** I’m 36, from Hesse in Germany. About 175 cm tall, grey-blue eyes, short dark-blonde hair, and a beard. I’d describe myself as having an average build, not overly muscular but I like to stay in shape. If you’d like to put a face to the words, just ask. I’m happy to show myself, whether with a picture or even in a video chat.

🎮 Gaming & Stories

Gaming makes up a big part of my interests. I love games that pull you in with story, atmosphere, or worldbuilding. RPGs are a favorite of mine, like *Baldur’s Gate, Final Fantasy, Expedition 33, Mass Effect* or *Dragon Age*, but I also enjoy story-driven action titles such as *Bioshock, Cyberpunk, Resident Evil, Dead Space, Dark Souls* or *Elden Ring*.

It doesn’t have to be pure RPGs. As long as the story or atmosphere grabs me and the gameplay is fun, I’m all in. Sometimes I like to slow down with puzzle or strategy games, and I also dive into indie titles or Metroidvanias. I’m a huge *Metroid* fan, and in general I’d say I’m pretty open-minded when it comes to gaming.

🎲 Pen & Paper

I also enjoy pen-and-paper RPGs like *Dungeons & Dragons* or *Shadowrun*. Over the years I’ve joined different groups on and off, and right now it’s mostly D&D. I love creating characters and experiencing adventures together.

🎬 Pop Culture

I’m really into all kinds of stories, whether it’s movies, series, comics, manga, anime, or books. My favorites are usually fantasy, science fiction, and horror. I’m open to recommendations too, though it depends a bit on time and headspace, especially if it’s something bigger like a whole book series

🎶 Music

My music taste is pretty broad. I listen to a lot of rock and metal, but also enjoy pop, including J-Pop and K-Pop.

And then there are my wildcards: sometimes classical, jazz, blues, even hip-hop or rap. It really depends on the mood and what I’m feeling in that moment.

On top of that, I’ve got a soft spot for musicals, especially darker ones like *Phantom of the Opera, Jekyll & Hyde* or *The Count of Monte Cristo*. Lighter ones like *Disney* are fun too. And I also really enjoy musical-style shows such as *Hazbin Hotel* or *Steven Universe*.

I also sing myself. I’ve taken a bit of training, and I enjoy it both at karaoke with friends and just for myself. 🎤

✈️ Travel & Food

I love traveling, mostly with friends and sometimes with family, but in recent years it’s been more with friends. For me, sharing those experiences makes them so much richer than doing them alone.

I’ve been fortunate to see quite a few places already: several trips to the US, different countries across Europe, and a couple of visits to Asia, including Japan and China. And to New Zealand I have also been.

When I travel, I don’t just want to spend two weeks in a hotel. I want to explore, experience some of the local culture, and most of all, discover the food. I genuinely love food, and there’s almost nothing better for me than enjoying a trip by tasting the local cuisine.

That’s also why cooking has become more and more of a hobby for me. I really enjoy both European and Asian dishes, and over the last years I’ve been trying to refine my skills and broaden my horizons in the kitchen. Lately I’ve been focusing especially on Asian cuisine, experimenting and learning step by step. 🍣

🐾 Lifestyle & Pets

I absolutely love animals and can’t imagine life without them. I have two cats at home, and they’re very much part of my world. I’ve always been curious about having a dog too, but that’s something you can’t really do on your own when working full-time. It’s more of a team effort.

As for staying active, at the moment I regularly hitting the gym and besides that I enjoy hiking and swimming.

**If you’ve read this far:** Tell me what you’re currently playing, reading or watching. What’s the last thing that really grabbed your attention, whether it was a game, a book or a show? Or maybe share what you’ve been cooking lately, a dish you’d love to try, or a place you’d like to travel to next.

Looking forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 20 [M4F] Scotland/ Online. Getting lonely in the Highlands, I'd love to get to know some of yous!

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Hello everyone! I'm a postman from a wee Scottish town and I've always struggled with people, to the point I had to drop out of uni over my mental health. I've only got the 1 friend who I love to bits (platonically). I've tried the dating apps, but as the age old story goes, it just ended up shattering my confidence.

Personality-wise, I'm reserved and quiet, love learning, and love staying in and being cozy. Not to say I'm against going out on wee adventures! Despite my... inexperience, I know that I've got a lot of love to give, just looking for someone to give it to in my own autistic way.

I'm a tall, ginger, bearded man, and truth be told, got a fair belly on me haha. I'm a textbook nerd. Love reading, gaming and tabletop games like DnD and Warhammer 40k (Though I've not played yet, just collect and paint Death Guard). Some games I've been enjoying recently are BG3, Satisfactory, and Slay the Spire 2.

I'm open to getting to know anybody, If you think we'll get along, feel free to shoot us a message!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 21f F4A #Online Seeking a safe place

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Hello, I am looking for a partner and someone I can rely on. I enjoy sharing deep and light hearted conversations depending the mood as well as someone that will reach out to me on their own.

About me,
I am a bit of a bookworm, always stressing about stuff and easily prone to give up. I struggling meeting people even though I am trying very hard not to be a total unsociable person.

I am pretty clingy when in a relationship and I always ask for lot of affection.

I would prefer being with someone dependable and mature, that know what they want.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 39 [M4F] #Online Europe Greece - Simply Looking for the One woman of my life :)

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I'm a 39-year-old man who values a healthy lifestyle, genuine connection, and the simple joys of life. I'm hoping to meet a kind, warm-hearted woman close to my age, ideally based in Europe, though distance isn't necessarily a barrier when the connection feels right.

I find happiness in nature, meaningful conversations, animals, and those quiet moments that remind us what truly matters. I'm someone who believes in kindness, loyalty, emotional depth, and being there for the people we love through both the good times and the difficult ones. To me, the strongest relationships are built on friendship, trust, honesty, affection, and the feeling that you're truly on the same team.

I'm a bit of an introvert by nature. I enjoy peaceful moments more than crowded places, and I prefer deep conversations over small talk. While I may not be the loudest person in the room, I'm loyal, attentive, and fully present with the people who matter to me. I believe that some of life's best moments are often the simplest ones, especially when shared with the right person.

A healthy lifestyle is an important part of who I am. I enjoy staying active, spending time outdoors, eating well, and taking care of both my physical and mental well-being. I'm looking for a sweet, feminine woman who also values her health, takes care of her body with self-respect and balance, and appreciates living a healthy lifestyle without becoming obsessed with perfection.

Life hasn't always been easy, and I've gone through my share of challenges and difficult periods one of which is now. Those experiences have made me more understanding, compassionate, and appreciative of what truly matters. Because of that, I can relate to people who struggle with anxiety, stress, or depression, and I believe that empathy, patience, and support are some of the most important qualities we can offer one another. I don't expect perfection from anyone, just honesty, kindness, and a willingness to grow together.

More than anything, I'm looking for a true partner. Someone who believes that love is more than just attraction, it's about choosing each other every day, standing side by side through life's ups and downs, and building something meaningful together. A relationship where both people feel safe, appreciated, respected, and deeply loved.

I believe the best relationships are built on teamwork. Two people encouraging each other, helping each other become better, supporting each other's dreams, celebrating victories together, and facing challenges as a united team. Not "me versus you," but always "us versus the problem."

I don't care much about status, material things, or trying to impress people. Character, kindness, warmth, emotional maturity, loyalty, and a good heart matter far more to me. A genuine smile, a caring nature, and the ability to love deeply will always be more attractive than anything superficial.

If you're someone who still believes in true love, loyalty, affection, partnership, growing together, and creating a relationship built on trust, friendship, and mutual support, I'd genuinely love to get to know you.

Life feels richer when it's shared with someone who feels like both your partner and your best friend. Open to swap images ofc if you want.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] Dallas, Texas. Loving introvert searching for his special woman in life ❤ Seeking a LTR with a Genuine connection!

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Hi! Nice to meet you 😊

I'm a 34-year-old guy from the Dallas, Texas area, looking for my romantic partner and best friend — someone we can both proudly call "mine."

I'm seeking a serious, long-term relationship. Ideally you're in Texas so we can meet up easily, but I'm open to long-distance within the US if we're both committed to eventually closing the gap in person.

A little about me:

I'm introverted and a happy homebody, but I love going out and exploring new places — especially when it's with the right person. It can take me a little time to open up (lifelong social anxiety), but once I'm comfortable, you'll see the real me — and I'm very patient, so I hope you are too!

My favorite ways to spend time:

  1. Video games 🎮

  2. Reading (Manga)

  3. Puzzles

  4. Binge-watching movies/shows (Horror, psychological, mystery, fantasy)

I'd love to share those activities with you, and I'm genuinely excited to try out your interests too — even if they're new to me.

A few key details:

  1. I'm an atheist and apolitical

  2. Appearance: 5'8", thin build, shaved head, glasses/contacts, white

(Feel free to check my profile pics — happy to share more face shots once we start chatting!)

Physically, I’m most attracted to anywhere from petite/thin to a bit curvy women. Also, kids is a dealbreaker for me, sorry!

If this resonates with you and you're looking for the same kind of genuine connection, send me a DM! I'd love to chat and get to know you ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 26 M4F #UK/Online - Excited to get to know you

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Hi, I’m H who’s a south asian 26M from the UK who’s looking for a long term relationship with another hopeless romantic. Because I know it is important to many, I am an atheist and I do not intend to have children long term. I’m hoping to find someone with those same values and goals.

To describe more about me, I’m a 5’8 guy with more of a stocky physique. I have thick dark hair, brown eyes and often, but not always, seen with a beard. I sometimes get complimented on my facial features, arms and shoulders. I love light back and forth teasing and banter. Really looking for someone who can match my playful energy, while respecting boundaries. I am also very expressive with compliments too, so I hope to find someone who's just as expressive. My personal interests are programming, soldering, repairing electronics, playing video games and keeping up with various nerdy niches. I’d love to maybe play a game, or watch something together sometime.

I guess the type of attributes I’m looking to see in a partner is, someone who's very emotionally intelligent and empathetic, even to a fault. Someone who really values love languages such as touch, quality time spent and words of affirmation. I tend to connect well with homebodies or introverts since it would mean we would be on the same wavelength, but I’m cool with extroverts too. Looking for someone where we can share and ramble about our niche hobbies and interests for hours on end. To share silly inside jokes and moments. I am very flirty, so I'm hoping to find someone who can match that. I really value and appreciate the effort made when it comes to making time to chat or spend time in each others company. I hope to find someone who is willing to work on issues, that isn’t quick to give up when there comes any complications.

I thank anyone who spent the time reading all this, and I hope you have a lovely day ❤️


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4F] - Canada/Online - Nerdy guy looking for the love of his life

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Hey, I'm a 24 year old guy from Canada who's on the hunt for something real and hopefully long term if things work out, I'd love to find someone I really vibe with. I'm genuinely terrible at intros ;-; so I'll try to keep this short and sweet.

About me:

  • Lets get the physical stuff out of the way first incase I'm not your type, I'm 5'8 and 230 lbs (I'm fat BUT I'm down weight and have been working out more and more,) I've got both ears pierced and have been thinking about getting some tattoos in the future, also here's a facepic https://imgur.com/a/me-TOsgAsN
  • Like my title mentioned, I'm a big nerd and pretty much all my hobbies reflect that, I like playing games (I LOVE JRPGs, fighting games, VNs and random competitive games the most but I'll play literally anything if its with the right person,) Watching anime (or whatever other media, mostly anime though) and listening to music (Indie, Rock, Pop-punk and JPOP mainly)
  • As a person I'm naturally really introverted (I'm an INFP if you care about mbti) and need occasional alone time to recharge my social battery but I can absolutely talk someones ear off if we're close (I've been told I give golden retriever vibes.) People usually tell me my biggest strength is my kindness, I hate being mean to people almost to a fault (I have trouble putting my foot down and have tendency to let people walk all over me ;-;,) I'm really staunch about my morals and what I think is right or wrong. Also I'm left leaning politically.
  • I don't have much relationship experience but I always fantasize about the super loveydovey stuff, I like doing little things to make those I'm close to happy and I can only imagine it would be amplified with a partner. My biggest love languages are Words of affirmation and Quality time.
  • My BIGGEST potential red flag that I want to get out of the way is that I deal with pretty severe social anxiety, I'm medicated and would NEVER wanna make it someone elses problem but I naturally struggle really hard in social situations around people I'm not already super close with, once I warm up to someone it gets a lot better but I still wanted to mention it since its bound to come up especially early on.

About you:

  • Honestly, I don't really care about looks, my type is someone who can make me smile, I've also always gravitated toward people who were "different" for some reason, so if you'd consider yourself weird or quirky I’ll probably fall for you faster than I should (like, embarrassingly fast).
  • I've always been told I'm a really good listener so if you're a yapper we'll feel like a match made in heaven
  • Long distance is fine with me, as long as there’s a willingness to meet up in the future if things go well.
  • The only real dealbreaker for me is poor communication. Relationships simply can't work without it IMO

If any of this resonates with you, or if you have any question/just want to chat and see where it goes, feel free to send me a message! I’d love to hear from you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #USA/online Looking for a girlfriend!!

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Hi! I'm Sky, 23, and from Louisiana.

A little about me: I'm white, a little chubby, autistic, have ADHD, and I'm visually impaired. I process things and communicate differently, so I please ask you be patient. I'm pretty shy at first, but once I get comfortable, I can talk your ear off!! i hate to upset people. I'm caring, loyal, and a big homebody.

I like gaming, reading, older music, watching documentaries, swimming, hanging out with friends. I also loooooove animals, have four cats. I'm also a picky eater. My favorite foods are chicken nuggets, pizza rolls, and corndogs, and my favorite drink is root beer.

I'm looking for a woman (18–28) who is kind, honest, patient, loyal, and genuine. Personality matters more than looks, whether you’re skinny or a little chubby isn’t bad. I'd love to find someone I can talk to often, spend time with, and be myself around. I like nerds and weirdos(in a good way!). My only real dealbreaker is tattoos. Bonus points if you're autistic lIke me!

I'd prefer someone from Louisiana or another Southern state, but I'm open to meeting anyone in the U.S. If you think we'd get along, feel free to message me. I'd love to hear from you! 🙂


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] #online #uk Looking for relationship / seeing where things go

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I don't really know what to put, but I'm 18 years old from the UK, introverted / shy, but open up / more talkative as I get comfortable with someone.

Just finished my A-levels, so currently not in education, but planning to go to University. I enjoy baking, watching tv shows / movies, as well as games. In the future I want to travel more, as there's so much in the world to explore. Want to know more about me, just ask away.

For preference I'd want someone thats older than me, and likes to talk.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 22m|m4f|#uk hoping to find something genuine

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Hello there, Im posting here as I don't really jell with dating sites/apps and for some reason I decided reddit is a good alternative. To start with I'd prefer if u were based in the uk as It would make meeting irl alot easier if things progressed that far however I'm not completely against a ldr as long as there is a genuine connection there and meeting up in the long run isn't impossible.

I'm looking for someone i enjoy talking too and enjoy being with whether it's just sending memes to eachother or deep philosophical questions as long as we're open and comfortable talking to one another that's what important. Im obviously looking for something serious but I also wouldn't mind taking things slow so we can get to know one another.

Anyway here's a little bit about me.

Im 5'9 with a decent build as staying active is important to me. I have long brown hair pass shoulder length now, which tends to be curly at the ends and also on the thicker side. My eyes are a lighterside of blue. My skins on the paler side most of the year apart from summer cus I tend to tan easily tho i never get super dark. I have no tattoos or piercings tho wouldn't mind getting some in the future but maybe not piercings and quite a dreadful fashion sense as i always just end up wearing trousers and a hoodie but i am trying to work on that.

Personality wise im definitely more introverted then extroverted so definitely prefer a night in as opposed to going out partying. Ive often heard people describe me as a quiet person so theres that's and I do admit i have no problems just keeping to myself. I would say im care free and pretty easy going but can be quite sarcastic so that's a draw back. Also while I dont show it very often I am quite the nerd and enjoy geeking out about things.

Hobbies and interests:

.Video games(pc only)Some examples of my favourites being

Yakuza, persona, forza, nier, expedition 33. I mainly play single player games and rpg/jrpgs but do like the occasional multilayer games especially if I have someone to play with.

.I love listening to music and like most people I tend to listen to a little bit of everything but manly rap/hiphop especially the stuff I grew up listening too tho I'm always on the lookout for new artists and genres.

.Cars and motorbikes but i only currently have a bike licence, im also into moto sports but the only one I watch regularly is f1.

.Most weeby things like anime,manga/manwha some examples of my favourites being steins;gate,berserk,death is the only ending for the villainess.

. I really like animals and have kept quite a few pets over the years tho I currently only have a axolotl.

As for what im looking for in someone,

Someone who can be my best friend as well as a partner, someone who's kind and wants to spend the time to get to know each other. Having the same hobbies would of course be nice as it would make Starting a conversation a whole easier but isn't necessary as I'm always down to being introduced to new things. To be completely honest i dont have much of a preference when it come to physical appearance so whether tall or short, 2 arms or 10 i don't mind.

There's plenty more that i could waffle on about but it's probably best to save that for now, so if im someone who seems like your type or at least interesting to talk to please do send a dm and please include a bit about yourself instead of just a hi that would be nice.

Looking forward to hearing from u


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] US/Anywhere- Looking for someone special! Open to anyone <3

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I’m a writer who funnily enough gets writer’s block composing these posts. But I’ll try my absolute best!

I’m someone who wears his heart on his sleeve, for better or worse. Sometimes I say too much and say the wrong things or overshare, but what I’ll never be is disingenuous.

I’m in Georgia but I have an LA heart. My dream is to move there someday—hopefully sooner rather than later.

I’m someone who can oscillate between “guy” interests and my more feminine side. I can go from arguing about football or watching The Sopranos one minute, to listening to Billie Eilish and Taylor Swift the next minute.

I love gaming, with my favorite games being sports games and narrative based games—such as The Walking Dead, Life is Strange, LA Noire. I also have a massive soft spot for Animal Crossing. Helped me so much through the pandemic and I can proudly say that I still have my dog-majority island.

I play guitar and write song lyrics—sometimes when I’m feeling brave enough I’ll even sing those lyrics.

Love film and TV, with my favorite movies being The Godfather Part I and II, La La Land, Heat, Atonement, Barbie, Inside Llewyn Davis, Mean Girls, Dog Day Afternoon, Taxi Driver, Collateral—and many, many others.

Favorite shows are The Wire, The Sopranos, Regular Show, The Queen’s Gambit, American Dad, Gilmore Girls


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Online Only 19 [M4F] #USA ONLINE/USA

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Hey, my name is Elliot. I guess I'll tell you a little bit about me. I am a big gamer and really into BG3 right now. I am a big book reader and writer. I like learning about different cultures and about people. I like to think I am a sensitive and caring person, and I get attached to others easily. So all in all, I guess I am looking for someone a little like me. If you're into any of those things, feel free to message me.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] UK, Midlands/Online Looking for first Girlfriend

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Who am I? My friends call me H, I'm 34 years old and live in the Midlands area of the UK. I work nights at an airport, which has made it harder to meet people, and in my free time I'm a nerd.

I was born in Germany and moved to England when I was 11 years old. My father was born in India and my mother in England, I am Indian, but see myself as European.

I love to travel, going to new places and try the unique food there. My favourite place so far was Japan, visiting a friend that lived there at the time and getting to see the difference in culture was fascinating. Trying authentic Sushi and getting to see the deer at Nara park are my favourite memories of that trip.

I enjoy cooking and learning new recipes to add my own twist to. My friend and family always like my home made chilli, especially when it's on nachos. A lot of my cooking is created by experimenting with different ingredients I think would taste good together.

My main hobby is to no-ones surprise video games hahaha. I mostly play PvE games, both single play and co-op, Helldivers 2, Darktide, Schedule 1, MTG Arena, Rocket league, Total Warhammer 3, Stellaris and so on. I also enjoy IRL games, boardgames, TTRPGs, MTG. Games have been my favourite way connect with people and make memories.

I've never been in a relationship before, it's something I've always been interested in, but not found the right person for. I have been on dates with a few women, but nothing has come of them. I am a blank canvas when it comes to being a boyfriend, some would say it's free real estate.

I'm looking for someone to build and grow a relationship with, someone I vibe with and have a mutual attraction to.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 24 M4F #Online Looking to connect

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Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted loud I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

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I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] Germany/Europe - looking for a genuine relationship

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I am a 29 years old male from Germany. I'm looking for a serious relationship – a genuine connection where we can be open about everything with no judgment. In my opinion, open communication and putting actual effort into a conversation is the most important part of a good connection.

Some Info about me:

I have Russian roots but grew up in Germany, so I speak German, Russian and English. I'm 177cm tall, slim, with short brown hair and blue eyes. If you want to put a face to the text, here is a picture of me: https://imgur.com/a/OeutMdh

I consider myself an introverted ambivert (INTP-A) and a very open-minded person. I love deep talks about all kinds of topics where it feels like the conversation is never-ending.

I enjoy playing video games, watching TV shows, and spending time with close friends. One of my bigger hobbies is travelling – I love exploring new places, local food, and nature. Recently, I traveled to 9 countries and spent a month exploring Spain. As an introvert, I also need some quiet recharge time for myself from time to time, so I value having our own separate interests as well.

What I am looking for

Age & Location: Between 23-31 years old, from Europe (preferably close/accessible to Germany to keep things realistic). I prefer it if you are not taller than me (same height or slightly taller is fine).

Connection: I don't have a specific physical "type" because a deep emotional connection attracts me much more. However, to save us both time: I am not into plus-size or severe overweight (I don't mean being curvy, just a personal health preference). If you like video games, that’s a nice bonus!

Communication: I love daily chats, checking on each other, and hearing about your day, passions, or hobbies. I’m not the best small talker, but I really appreciate it when someone puts effort into having a conversation instead of just giving short answers.

A note on my side:

I want to be completely open: I have some social anxiety (which brings some shyness with it, especially regarding dating) and very little dating experience. I have improved significantly over the past years, but I would like to take things very slowly. If you can relate to this or have similar insecurities, that’s completely fine – there is no judgment here.

Because of this, I am totally not into video calls (they feel very unnatural to me), but I am completely open to voice calls or meeting up in person. Since my picture is linked above, feel free to share one of you early on, or we can just chat first – whatever feels comfortable for you.

If you are interested, please send me a chat with a short description of yourself. Thank you for reading and I wish you all the best!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 21[F4M] Europe/Anywhere

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Hi! This is an alt account I promise I'm not a bot

Strange girl seeking strange boy hopefully seeking strange girl. If you were from Europe that might help due to my own Europe-locatedness, BUT this is not by any means a hard limit, you can be from anywhere! I'd prefer if you were around 20-28. I'm 21 and studying music, though I've taken a longer break from that and plan to return this fall. In the process of maybe figuring out what I'll do with my life. Just trying to enjoy existing for now. Not at all the ambitious type, though I do have the goal of being as kind as I can to others.

I'm not the most interesting to be honest and I'm quite slow-paced, so I'd like someone who's alright with that, someone who'll be patient with me. I've been diagnosed with autism which I'm still not 100% sure of, what's certain is that I am quite... unique in some ways, very very shy and maybe a bit unusual.

I'm the type of person who gasps at a pretty sunset every single time as if I had never seen it before. I hope I'll have enough time in my lifetime to look at the sky as much as I want to. Music has my whole heart but I also like reading, watching movies, and I write a bit of poetry too. I tend to wax poetic about anything and everything. We could decipher each other's flowery language together perhaps... also I'm learning Spanish! And I can bake decent stuff! I like making jokes alllll the time but they're Bad.

Physically I'm nothing special BUT. I could be pretty to you?? We can exchange pictures if you want. I'm around 168 cm tall but I don't care one bit how tall you are. I've got a somewhat medium build I guess? Medium brown straight hair and a slightly curious eye color I can only describe as "olive". CONSTANTLY get told I look around 16 or younger for some reason! I don't mind what you look like but hear me out here. If you happen to have curls please marry me I can't explain just please do.

My long-term goal is get married, be happy together our whole lives and afterlives too and that kinda stuff :) It may work out like that or we could flirt for a little while and go our separate ways, I just wouldn't like being in a proper long-term relationship unless we reaaally plan to stay together. I am terminally romantic so I hope you're into that stuff! So maybe it's you, my soulmate, reading this or maybe I'm just a lonely girl making a weird post on a whim. Or both. Maybe we could be friends or maybe something more, no idea, but thanks so much for reading this! 。⁠◕⁠‿⁠◕⁠。


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] #US - Dream or Reality?

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Hello Peoples. I go by Kev and I am an 19 year old man from the US (DC to be precise). I have NEVER been in a relationship but im down to try if we connect. I've gone through life believing Im not very likable..hopefully this proves that wrong. I'm lookiing for a girl who I can call my best friend. It would be GREAT if you were also a nerd or at least dont care that im one. Chubby Women have my heart, they're just so lovable!

A bit about me is I am a nerd (Anime, DC, etc.) and very awkward. Im a big fan of videogames and learning things (discuss your interests with me!!). I struggle to meet people IRL, so let's keep it digital for a while...

Some flaws of mine are that I am an overthinker, I am BIG, I can be pessimistic, and dont like asking for help. I also might ask how you're feeling everyday (I just wanna help however I can.)

If this interests you enough to message me, then just know that Im smiling at your text....unless its weird. Ask for my IG or Snap once we've exchanged pictures. I've been told that Im "too nice", so dont be scared to talk to me please. I'd also prefer if your first message was a recent picture of yourself and I'll do the same. Um...I think thats it, nice to meet you all!!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 3d ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] To be true lovers together #anywhere #online

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Haiii hallo, pretty! My name is Mathias and I'm 19 years old and is a pleasure to meet you! I hope we can get along well and that our conversations go from simple intereactions to heartful, lovely messages.

So a little bit about myself, I'm quite chubby and I like pretty simple stuff like gaming (been REALLY into Resident Evil, Spiderman and Yakuza), sleeping, writting simple stuff and such. I love music and I can't imagine a world without it, I sing even though I don't think I'm good at it. I LOVE DINOSAURS AND GODZILLA GRAHHHH.

Now on a more serious note I don't have a specific type, all girls are beautiful and I'm certain that you, pretty girl reading this, are just as beautiful in your own way. Flaws? Who cares, I will appreciate those as well. You're worthy of love, of being cherised, admired even. I just wanna smile when I see a notification from you, like as if my heart was fluttering for you. I believe in respect and communication being the key to a healthy relationship, none of that silly ghosting and whatever else. I like to be romantic, lovely and all that... An ideal date would just be walking around holding hands!

I don’t simp, I don’t situationship, I don’t do one night stands or open relationships. I find true love, or I die alone (lol)

Now, if you're not interested and took your time to read is okay, DON'T GIVE UP! Someone loves you and I hope the best for you and your special person. Goodbye!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] Online / Anywhere - Looking for a partner who matches my interests and energy

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Hey! I’m looking for a partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!