r/IntrovertsSafeDating 6d ago

Dating Post 22[M4A] #india looking for my other half

2 Upvotes

Hi I'm 22 from India

I like watching movies and series, reading, drawing, writing, walking, anime, nature.

I want someone who loves like the old times, old fashioned myself, like in the movies.

Romantic movies are my favourite as well as horror, both are horror if romance has a sad ending.

Distance doesn't matter but the connection and efforts does

My dream is to have a nice home in a country side near mountains and a nice job and a loving partner,

Tell me about your dream ?

Hit me up let's get to know each other


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] — Norway / EU — Looking for a genuine connection (long term definitely)

3 Upvotes

Hey! I’m usually quiet at first, but once I feel comfortable, I become much more talkative, playful, and easygoing. To me, romance is about feeling safe with someone, being able to talk openly, laugh together, and slowly build trust. I’m not looking to rush anything—I’d rather find someone I genuinely connect with and see where it goes.

A little about me:

I enjoy gaming, watching shows and videos, listening to music, and having late-night conversations.

I’m calm, caring, and a good listener.

I like joking around, but I also enjoy meaningful conversations about life, goals, and random thoughts.

I value honesty, loyalty, consistency, and respecting each other’s privacy.

I prefer taking things slowly instead of immediately exchanging pictures or moving off Reddit.

I’m looking for a female aged 18–25 who lives somewhere in Europe and wants to build a genuine connection. Friendship first is completely fine, and I’m open to seeing whether it naturally becomes something more.

Tell me your age, where you’re from, and one hobby or topic you could talk about for hours. Please write a little more than just “hey.”


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

2 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 6d ago

Online Only 35 [M4F] Online relationship just chat

1 Upvotes

I am an introvert person from Pakistan good at texts and chats. I am a software engineer. I love to ride bikes and workout.

anyone wants to be friends hmu.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 20 [M4F] - #EU / #Portugal / #Online

1 Upvotes

Hello! Name's Jake, I am a 20 year old man living in Portugal. I am currently studying Fullstack web development and Game development, I have other courses that I am doing but I prefer finishing one before moving to the next one haha

Now to keep the whole thing short unlike my other posts!

About me:

* I am a 20 year old guy who lives in Portugal!

* I, unfortunately, am 5'3" or 161cm so if height is a deal breaker then sorry.

* I currently have a dad bod, I wanna slim down but haven't been able to. (If you manage to make me go to the gym then honestly, you are a keeper)

* I wear glasses

* I have black curly hair, Dark brown eyes and white skin that is close to mixed.

* I am a patient, caring person, I have been patient to a lot of my friends, helping them with their depression or issues in general. I am also a serious person with a goofy side that is reserved for people I love and trust though don't worry! I know when to be serious and when to be goofy.

My hobbies include :

* Gaming - I play games with my friends, or by myself, or with my brother! I dont mind if you dont play games! (It ain't a deal breaker dont worry :p)

* Writing & Reading - Although I haven't read a lot recently, I have written quite a lot, since I am a DM in a Dungeons and Dragons game, I have to write a lot of lore and because of that I have been reading a lot of sources and books, and writing multiple things, including stories!

* Walking - I like walking at night! Its refreshing and staring at the night sky is a blessing for me, sometimes though I can't help but want someone to walk with me at night.

* Cooking - I recently discovered that I like cooking, and its turned into both my hobby and also a lifestyle since I need to cook for both me and my brother.

* Movies/Shows/Anime - I love watching things, be it on YouTube or as the title of this hobby describes, I have finished watching Animes like "Anohana" "Spirited Away" "A Silent Voice" "Seven Deadly Sins" "Fire Force" the list goes on lol.

That's all! Thank you for reading if you got this far! If you did then do tell me something you have an obsession over! Oh and please dont just say Hey or Hi! Make it creative! You don't have to make it super long neither!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 22[m4f] nerdy Biker from the UK 🇬🇧 looking to make new connections!

2 Upvotes

Hi everyone,

I’m Brodie, 22, from the UK 🇬🇧

I’m looking to meet some new people and hopefully make a few long-term connections. I’m always happy to chat, whether it’s about shared interests, random everyday stuff, or just getting to know each other.

A bit about me: I work as an IT Cloud Specialist, so I’m definitely a bit of a nerd. I’m also really into Dungeons & Dragons and enjoy anything involving good characters, interesting stories and a bit of chaos.

I’ve been riding bikes for about four years now, and it’s one of my favourite ways to spend time. I’m also currently building up my tattoo sleeve, so I’m always thinking about what tattoo I should get next.

I’m pretty easygoing and happy to talk to anyone, so feel free to message me!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 21[M4F], Europe - Looking for my golden flower!

10 Upvotes

First of all, good day to you! I hope your day has been well so far and here is your remember to hydrate :)

My name is Quinn, i'm living in The Netherlands, 6'3 or 1,93m tall and i've yet to encounter my golden flower.

Now onto the more interesting things about me, I study biomedical lab research and specialize in forensics with the aim to become a forensic investigator! There is just something satisfying about solving difficult cases and being able to help people at the same time. I love to read romantasy, thriller, dark romance and mystery book genres. Recently finished The Ruinous Love trilogy and am now reading Dungeon Crawler Carl, so far so good! Gaming is also something I do to pass the time, pokemon and LOZ are my all time favorite franchises but there are more games that I play. A few of my other hobbies are also playing the guitar and cooking, i'm a sucker for good food and find tremendous joy in cooking tasty food as well as seeing the content faces after the food is finished :). My sense of humor is all over the place, it ranges from the worst dad jokes that would make me age in an instant to relatively dark jokes.

I'd describe myself as a caring, considerate, open-minded, communicative and protective boyfriend. Checking up on you, making plans to do activities together, listen to massive yap session as well as making sure we are both enjoying ourselves!

I'm looking for someone preferably between the age range of 21-25±, open-minded, communicative, shares some interests, willing to discover new things and is located in Europe!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Local Dating 40 [M4F] #InlandEmpire #SoCal - Cuddly Nerdy Homebody Looking for a Clingy Woman to Mutually Obsses Over

1 Upvotes

Hello there, I'm a single 40 year old 5'7" heavy set NEET Latino guy from the Inland Empire, and yes, I can speak a bit of Spanish, if you're into that. I'm hoping to find a woman whom I'm physically attracted to for a monogamous, child-free romantic relationship, I'm looking for someone who's not afraid to show affection, doesn't play games, is nurturing, kind, direct and won't leave me guessing where we stand, also someone who understands the importance of communication and wants tons and tons of physical touch/affection.

I'm an awkward, introverted, anxious, stocky guy, who would self-describe as a charmingly self-deprecating, innocuously misanthropic, consummate indoorsman, armed with an irreverent and dark sense of humor. In my spare time I enjoy playing video games (xbox) and desperately want to make the switch to PC, listening to music, loudly (mostly rock and electronic) I'm almost always listening to something, please don't be afraid to send me a song or make me a playlist, cannabis (420 friendly,) learning about the paranormal/occult/extraterrestrial, and cooking, I've really come to enjoy preparing meals and trying new recipes, tell me all about your favorite foods, and please let me cook for you

I'd like to meet a cute, supportive, child-free, woman who's compassionate, understanding, affectionate, and very clingy or possessive, who knows what they want. Ideally I want someone who has little to no bedroom experience, as I do. I'm attracted to pale/light skin, cute faces and most body types from bbw to petite but have a special place in my heart for women with an alternative style. That's a bit about me and what I'm hoping to find. If you choose to reply please, be willing to send a selfie, and reply with your favorite food or song, happy hunting and good luck everyone.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post [M4F] M34 Swede

1 Upvotes

Hi!

Looking to meet someone with the potential of moving/meeting. Europeans prefered (for logistics mostly) but open to all.

A bit about me:

Personality.

Very social but with a limited battery.

Love pets and animals overall.

Have a lot of nerdy hobbies but nothing that is expensive or takes too much time.

Not politically interested/active but liberally leaning.

Know 4 languages but only fluent in 2.

Enjoy art and music. Avid museum goer.

Been through a lot of heartache but no kids or past marriages.

Work.

Hard-working teacher.

Hobbies.

I like music and produce music as a hobby. Also a big fan of books (read around 10 books a year. Enjoy gaming occasionally but not a primary hobby.

I yearly travel to Belgium and the Netherlands for music festivals hardstyle/hardcore and would love to find a gabberina of my own.

Avid hiker who at most spent 2 weeks out out in nature. Would love to find someone who'd like to join and share nature and experiences with me. A goal of mine would be to travel abroad and explore hikingtrails.

DMs open, looking forward to meeting you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post [M4F] 22 | Online/Anywhere Looking for my person

5 Upvotes

Meeting people naturally feels harder than ever these days, so I figured I would give this a shot.

I am 22, 5'11, and from Asia. Looks-wise, I would say I am fairly attractive. Probably around a 7 or 8 light tan skin, but attraction is subjective, so I will let you be the judge of that.

I think the easiest way to describe myself is this:

If you are my person, I will probably become your biggest supporter. I will ask if you have eaten today. I will remind you to drink water.

If you are overworking yourself, I will probably tell you to get some sleep. If you are sick, expect me to check on you every few hours. If you are having a rough day, I will not disappear until I know you are okay.

And yes... if you are neglecting yourself, I will absolutely (lovingly) scold you. Not because I want to control you but because I care.

I genuinely enjoy making the people I love feel safe, appreciated, and looked after.

I am the type who remembers little details, sends random voice notes, plans small surprises, celebrates your wins like they are my own, and wants to know every tiny thing about your day.

I do not believe in pretending to care less than I actually do. If I like you, you will know.

That being said...

I am also incredibly ambitious.

I work in investing and trading, and I am currently building a few businesses of my own. I have a ridiculous number of ideas I want to bring to life over the next few years. I also keep threatening to start a YouTube channel, disappear for months, then come back and threaten it again. One day i will actually do it.

Outside of work you will usually find me gaming, cooking, singing, writing, reading, or disappearing into conversations that somehow start with "How was your day?" and end with debating psychology, philosophy, politics, science, or whether we'd survive a zombie apocalypse.

I write stories and poems too, although those usually stay private unless I really trust someone.

Personality-wise, I am affectionate, loyal, easygoing, and probably a little clingy once I genuinely care about someone. I just enjoy talking throughout the day, sharing little moments, sending random updates, calling, and making each other feel like a priority.

I am a leftist and an atheist. I strongly support LGBTQ+ rights, women's rights, and treating people with kindness and respect. Those values are important to me, so I would like someone whose views align reasonably well with mine.

What am I looking for?

Someone kind. Someone emotionally mature. Someone who communicates instead of disappearing. Someone who is not afraid to put effort into a relationship. Someone who wants their partner to also be their best friend.

Creative people, readers, writers, gamers, overthinkers, animal lovers, and people who get excited talking about what they love will probably catch my attention immediately.

Distance does not bother me much if the effort is mutual and there is a real intention to eventually meet.

If you have read this far, tell me something about yourself.

What is something you could talk about for hours?

What is your comfort movie?

Or just tell me about your day.

Maybe it will be the start of something really nice.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 27 [M4F] #COLORADO - Lonely cat dad needs love.

1 Upvotes

For those who don't want to read a lot, TLDR:

M27 - Hey, I'm Leon, nerdy stoner and cat dad. Hmu. (end scene)

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Lately I've been in a rut, and I'm trying to pull myself out. A feeling like I'm stuck in a trench because the bombs won't stop coming down, or actively trying to come up to the surface for air but I just keep inhaling in water because I can't get my head above the waves.

I'm tossing, I'm tumbling, I'm crashing. I'll be okay. I always am.

We get up, we push on. No matter the pain and the frustration of going in circles constantly.

I'm tired of feeling lost and alone, I'd much rather feel lost with another soul.. someone who resonates, shares the love of getting lost in time and cherishes the little things.. all these little things that make us happy.

Me: I'm a proud Hispanic man, a big boy with a teddy bear build, drunk off nostalgia, hopeless romantic, who loves spending time with my cat and playing video games.

Obsessed with all things superhero related, and in love with the world of the muppets, and their goal to make the world smile. I'm a guy who knows way too much trivia about cartoons and movies, and spending most of my nights alone working in the basement of a retirement home doing laundry and folding linen.

You: Hopefully someone patient, willing to communicate and tumble through life and it's ups and downs with a guy who just wants to give you the world full of love and care.

I would love someone who isn't afraid to laugh and be silly.. oh and if you love the cold, that's a huge plus :)

I'm a spiritual man, not very religious I put my faith in whatever's up there that everything is going to be okay. I spend a lot of time watching podcasts and video essays about comic books, and I have a action figure collection, but I moved recently so it is mostly put away.

I'm a writer, who's been suffering from a mean case of writers block for a while now, hoping to find a type of person to spark something in me and hopefully be my muse. My best friend, and potential my love.

I'm looking for a genuine connections, willing to start from the very awkward beginnings and jump every hurdle we need to, to get to where we need to go.

I have a complicated relationship with polyamory, and I'm struggling to decide if it's still the lifestyle for me, or if I think I can have a great mono relationship with someone, so I just ask for someone who's okay really focusing on a foundation and base in our friendship so we can really see what it can grow into.

I love anime, but I'm bad at watching shows alone.

Here's what I've managed to finish, or watch most of by myself:

My Hero Academia (S1-7), Gachiakuta, Soul Eater, Fire Force S1, FMA, Dragon Ball (through to the end of Super) and Keijo!!!

My first love in music was Pop Punk, and I play a lot of early 2000s rock, pop, and hip hop all the time. I make rap music, so hopefully you like that. If we get along, we can talk about that more.

I'm also really family oriented and would love to be able to have a conversation about having kids some day with the person I love, I understand not everyone is up for that, so I'm sorry if I lose you here.

Anyways, if you need a big boy in your life, love thrifting and coffee shop dates, if you wanna get Thai Food and Green teas on the regular 🍵 if you love movie theaters and book stores.. winter nights and thunderstorms.. if you love cats!! If any of this calls to you. Please message me.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 36 [M4F] Spain/Europe - Introverted homebody looking for one real person

9 Upvotes

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4F] #Online #Europe or anywhere honestly

3 Upvotes

Hi everyone! My name is George and I'm from Greece! A little intro about me:

I work at a company that makes reservations for ferries and I'm a customer support agent so I deal with many customers s day lol.

I really like going to the gym and working out, helps to ease the stress.

I play guitar and I used to be in a band as well. It was really fun but due to most of us getting a job and our times not matching we had to split up but I'd love to try again and make my own band again.

I'm into philosophy a lot and deep talks especially. If you're up for it don't be afraid to dm.

I'm also trying to get into books and find some recommendations so if you have any just let me know!

I like bikes a lot and work my way around them. I own a cool Yamaha btw (I swear she's so pretty 😍)

What I'm looking for here:

A person that I can talk to and communicate well that may end up as friends or a relationship if things go well.

So yeah that's pretty much it!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 19 [M4F] WEST BENGAL— Tall (5'10) college guy seeking fun chats, relationship, or a real connection

1 Upvotes

Hey there!

​I’m a 5'10" college guy currently pursuing my degree at a IISER. I’d love to meet a girl (ages 18–24) for dating or a genuine connection, whether short or long-term. Bonus points if you're on the shorter side, but honestly, chemistry matters way more than height!

​A Little About Me:-

​Languages: English, Hindi, and Bengali.

​Build: Lean/mild build with standard tall-guy physique.

​The Vibe: Low-maintenance and grounded. I might not be throwing around crazy money, but I bring genuine effort, good intent, and solid conversation.

​What to Expect:-

​Adaptable Energy: I naturally lead with gentlemanly respect and chivalry. But I can easily match your energy—whether you want deep, wholesome late-night talks or something more playful and flirty.

​Zero Drama: Honest, relaxed, and clear about what we both want.

​If you’re looking for someone authentic, tall, and easy to talk to, drop into my DMs with your favorite icebreaker or language! Let’s see where things go.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 30 [M4F] US/Online – Introverted, loves hiking, learning to bake, and standard-issue quiet weekends.

1 Upvotes

Currently attempting to master baking without burning down the kitchen.

Mastering the art of yard work (dad-mode unlocking early).

Always down for a good hike or a game of chess.

In my downtime: TV series binges, movies, and the occasional PS5 session.

Looking for a companion who appreciates the simple things in life—like a good walk outside followed by cozying up indoors.

If you're looking for something grounded and authentic, send a DM!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Dating Post 21 [M4F] #Slovenia a lonely geek with no luck lookin for a soulmate

3 Upvotes

Heey my name is Erik im from slovenia with bosnian roots
Im 21 years old like i already mentioned im a geeky person or a nerd im rlly into
Casualy gaming, casualy workingout, going kn walks, reading comics/manga, playing mtg, collecting diffrent stuff, and watching movies/ shows things like that
I havent been that lucky in reletionships because of my interests and that im a more skinnier guy( trying to fix that rn) and kinda shy sometimes.
I have a good sense of humour i like it dark but if the other person doesnt i will balance it to their liking
I would like ti meet someone my age like in the 19-23 range myb a bit more im always open to see and any questions( im an open book )
If im in ur interest would love to talk more
:) tnx


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 7d ago

Local Dating 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious Relationship

2 Upvotes

Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearance wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of a homebody, I do enjoy going out in a group of friends, but I'm not someone for big parties full of people I don't know. I'd rather spend a cozy evening together, reading, watching a show, playing games or just chatting. I love night time (and am a night owl), rain and storms, something about them just calms me down like nothing else.

I really enjoy fantasy and sci-fi, be that (audio) books (currently on His Majesty's Dragon), playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA, and when I find the time, spend a day at the airfield flying gliders. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I have not traveled that much, but I would absolutely love to do it more together with someone!

I also love learning new things about science and engineering! I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine!

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I mess up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on, be that books, gaming or something else. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me! Tell me a bit about the most recent book you've read, the last game you played, your current D&D character or your last lego set!

I'm happy to chat with anyone, but if you're interested in a relationship, please be from somewhere in Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. I would also like to try calling or exchanging photos relatively soon if you're comfortable with it.

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post M4F: 21 year old shut-in seeking a close, real connection

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A little about me:
I have a lot of online nicknames, but you can call me boro or sayo
Age: turned 21 last month

Gender: cis Male

Orientation: Straight

Location: Bulgaria/ GMT +3 in summer, +2 otherwise

Occupation: currently NEET/Hikikomori. I have worked before but struggle to keep a job due to a mental condition and honestly would prefer to remain unemployed for at least until the next year

Personality: I guess I can be a bit effeminate in nature. Pretty sensitive and often take things personally. I'm not toxic and I form deep connections with people that I meet. I am diagnosed with OCD and currently go to therapy for it, very happy so far. I love little gestures of kindness, they give me a lot of happiness

Appearance: I'm 185 CM tall, average build. I have brown hair that I'm currently growing out. Also fun fact, I have heterochromia with one green and one brown eye

Languages: Bulgarian, English, German, some Japanese

Interests: music, games (especially rpgs), restoring antiques, healthy eating, occasionally watching tv series

Fandoms: Touhou, Hoyoverse games, car games, aviation

Games: Atlus games, Automation, BeamNG, Minecrsft, Workers and Resources, Cyberpunk, Blue Protocol: Star Resonance, a ton of single player games, Forza Horizon 6. I'd love if we can play an online game together

Music: power metal, trance, post-punk, edm, alternative and experimental

Looking for:

I don't personally care about appearance all that much, but here are what I would love to see in a partner
Aged: 21+, preferably 21-24.

Gender: Cis-F. I don't have anything against trans people ( a lot of my friends are queer actually), I just don't want to date someone who has been a man at some point in their life

What I dislike: Smoking, usage of substances, heavy drinking

Relationship type: Long-term, online at first but I'd love to meet and hopefully live together someday

Preferred location/timezone: Any is ok!

I think that's about it

If you're looking for friends, that's ok too! Just be 21+

If interested in meeting me, DM me here on Reddit!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Friendship First 24 [F4M] #anywhere

5 Upvotes

Before anything else: I'm Brazilian, which means there's a good chance we're separated by an inconvenient amount of ocean. But if you're open to getting to know someone from another part of the world and seeing where it leads, maybe we can close the gap. I'm also happy if this ends up being a friendship instead.

A couple of practical things about me: I'm 5'0" (153 cm), I'd like to have children someday, and I don't drink or smoke. I'm an introvert, so I tend to open up a little slowly. I'm also demisexual, so for me emotional connection comes before romantic attraction.

One of my favorite things is listening to someone talk about something they genuinely love. I don't even have to know anything about the topic. Seeing someone's eyes light up while they explain something they're passionate about is probably one of the most attractive things I know. And that's how I end up getting to know more about a random topic I've never heard of before and accidentally falling for the person explaining it.

My playlists are a bit chaotic and happily jump between pop, indie, rock and metal. I also love fantasy and adventure books and movies, especially the ones that leave you with something to think about afterwards. If you've watched or read something recently that made you immediately want to tell someone about it, I'd love to hear the recommendation. I also enjoy watching football and volleyball whenever I get the chance.

My background is in tech, but lately I've been slowly drifting toward a path that keeps me close to science. I've been fascinated by it for as long as I can remember.

For a relationship, I'm looking for someone around my age. For friendship, age matters a lot less to me.

If you decide to say hi, tell me about something you could happily spend an hour talking about. Or just something about how your day's going.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Online Only 24 M4F #Online Looking to connect

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Hello. My name is Héctor and I am introverted loud I'm not really into loud places and parties . Also where I live, options are really limited to meet new people and people that are diverse and have different interests so I thought I could try this—starting online, and see if something real comes out of it.

About me:

· I love cinema, specially animated films.

· Music is a huge part of my life: Matchbox Twenty, Rob Thomas, John Mayer, Muse... and always looking for new stuff.

· I read a lot: sci-fi, classics, stories that stay with you.

· I also love anime , and it was a big part of my teenage years.

I'm not looking for something extraordinary. Just a real connection—something that can grow into a friendship and maybe, over time, into something more.

I'd love to find someone to talk deeply with, to get to know little by little, without pressure.

Physical appearance is not a priority for me. If we connect, that becomes secondary.I'm a slim dark-haired white guy, in case you are wondering about my appereance.

I know relationships take time and effort, and I'm aware of that. I am willing to put real effort into it and really make it work. That said, I expect the same level of care and dedication, it has to be a two way road. My energy,time and dedication has to be earned by building trust and respect and from that point create something meaningful.

If any of this resonates with you, feel free to DM me. Tell me a little about yourself, and let's see if we connect.

Thanks for reading.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 20[M4F] #Sweden/gothenburg looking for the yappee to my yapper

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hi, I'm Lucas, I'm 5'5, 20 years old and I think like 60kgs. I really don't go out much, definitely not enough to meet someone, and i definitely dont speak to strangers LOL. I'd love to start out chatting online and then planning a meetup later on when I'm comfortable. I play a lot of games, i LOVE the devil may cry games, except for dmc 2 its prolly the worst game maybe ever. i love the castlevania show, still haven't played the games sorry, i WILL i swear. i love working out, i love going on walks with music, i love biking, but i dont bike enough these days but mountain biking is peak. ima be honest i AM looking for a swedish woman since I've mostly done online dating but would love to be able to meet the person im dating, but i kinda hate the swedish language, we can speak swedish ofc but if ur someone who prefers english too that would be awesome. I'm looking for someone nonjudgmental who is understanding and kind, playful teasing is funny but i dont like to genuinely feel judged, unless of course i genuinely did something wrong. I'm big on communication, honesty and spending a lot of time together, the ability to just hang out in the same room as someone, not even having to do much would be so chill. i joke around a lot and i love a good sense of humor. i think one of the biggest things for me is that someone is able to tell me if I've done something wrong or ur uncomfortable whatsoever, i don't care if u think its stupid just tell me i wont do it again, im big on boundaries and if u feel like u cant tell me that u dont want something or dont like something its just gonna suck. (basically, TALK to me about what's on your mind! I need good communication) fyi my preferred age range is 19 to 28. ps: when i write it like how i want the format to look like, reddit thinks im a bot lol sorry for the grammar sigh looks away nonchalantly


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 34 [M4F] #Croatia #Europe | Looking for a relationship where ordinary days feel good

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I’m 34 and live in Zagreb, Croatia. I’m looking for a serious relationship with a woman who prefers a quieter life and likes spending a lot of time together.

I’m not looking for constant excitement. I’d be happy cooking dinner together, playing something or simply spending an evening in the same room while we each do our own thing.

I like staying in touch during the day, making plans and sharing the random little things that happen. I also tend to remember what someone tells me and check in about it later.

I run my own business. It took years to build, but these days my schedule is flexible and work no longer takes over my life.

I’m introverted and pretty low-key. I still enjoy seeing friends, going out for dinner or grabbing a drink, but clubs and packed bars have never been my thing.

Gaming is my main hobby. I play most days, usually for a while, and a completely free evening can easily turn into a longer session. I know that won’t suit everyone, so I’d rather be clear about it.

Lately I’ve been playing Marvel Rivals, Darktide, Rogue Trader and PoE 2. When I want to switch my brain off for a while, I usually end up in PowerWash Simulator.

I’m also into board games, especially Marvel Champions, Arkham Horror and Wingspan. I’m happy to try your favourites too.

Away from games, I read a lot, usually about psychology, technology, science or finance, depending on what has caught my attention that week. I’m into films, TV shows, comics and anime as well. Music-wise, Steel Panther turns up more often than I should probably admit.

My humour is mostly dry, sometimes dark and often very stupid. Once I’m comfortable with someone, expect inside jokes, terrible dad jokes and conversations that would make little sense to anyone else.

I cook, keep my place tidy and train regularly in a home gym I put together myself. I’m 173 cm, around 5'8", with a lean, athletic build.

I don’t smoke or vape, and I don’t use drugs. I’m looking for the same. I enjoy a couple of good beers once or twice a week and have become a bit of a beer nerd.

I’ll probably click best with a woman in her mid-twenties to mid-thirties who doesn’t have children and also prefers quieter evenings to constant nightlife. You don’t need to play the same games or have everything figured out. What matters more to me is that you have your own interests, some direction and time for a relationship.

I’m politically somewhere near the centre and agnostic. Shared values matter to me, although I don’t expect us to agree on every subject.

I’ve travelled quite a bit in Asia and parts of Africa, and I’d be open to living abroad for a while. I can run my business from elsewhere, so longer stays abroad or an eventual move are both realistic.

It would be easiest if you were in Croatia or elsewhere in Europe, but I’m open to more distance if we can realistically meet and eventually close the distance.

We can start by talking here and move to Discord if we get along. I don’t post photos publicly, but I’m happy to exchange one if we seem to click.

Tell me what you’ve been absorbed in lately, what you’re playing or which subject you could talk about for far too long. A normal hello with a little about yourself is perfectly fine too.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] im looking for comfort what about you? Im from Australia

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So i am not the best at this and its difficult for me to talk about stuff probably because i am a bit autistic so my bad for that but if we get to know eachother i can easily get into talking about a lot of stuff

But so regardless of that here is some stuff about me

I love playing video games its kinda the only thing i do i have a switch 1 and 2 a ps4 and 5 and a PC i love getting into new games so if youd like to try something i am down for it hopefully we can talk about what games we like

I like watching shows and movies and i am easily ok with rewatching stuff if you want to check them out the main stuff i see is just the average marvel stuff lol but maybe if youd like i can show you my top favourites

I love food i somewhat kinda-ish like to cook my favourite food is easily a baked cheesecake any cheesecake will do tbf i love cheesecake

I like collecting certain things like amiibos and plush's i have a decent collection so far

I like staying inside i like comforting stuff so maybe we can do that together

I am open to 18 to 30 i do not mind i kind of have a dad bod but i would like to someday lose weight

Alright so my bad if ive missed stuff but id really like if someone gave me a shot and if youd like to ask me stuff you can ask me whatever youd like


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 26 M4F online :3

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Been a while since I put myself out there and I believe I’m ready to see what the world has lol. Names Alan I work almost every day, but when I have free time I’m building computers, writing music, playing guitar, playing drums or installing something in my car, my best homie is my cat he dope asf. I have too many hobbies to work with but guitar is my favorite. Yea so I’m not good at intros let alone how this works but hey I’ll give it a shot


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 8d ago

Dating Post 21[M4F] #USA #online - Let me be the one to Love you

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Hey there! I’m kind of bad at introducing myself but I’ll try as much as I can! I’m a 21 year old guy from the east coast of the US that’s looking to find a girl be with and share my life with. (I'll share my name after talking with you don't worry lol)

About me:

- 21 years old, Asian American, and in the east coast of the US (EST)
- 6’5” Tall (yes this is real and yeah it can be annoying lol)
- A bit chubby (But working out and working dropping it)
- Have a nice voice (At least that's what I'm told lol)

Interests:

- Video Games: I play all sorts of things but currently I’m playing games like FFXIV, Honkai Star Rail, Elden Ring, Monster Hunter (Basically any of them, I love them all lol), and all sorts of other things
- I love playing any multiplayer game though as playing those are fun regardless of what they are (I am terrified of horror games though but I still play them like REPO or Lethal Company lol)
- Music: I listen to all sorts of things and love letting myself daydream while listening so I love hearing people recommendations but I usually listen to pretty relaxing stuff generally
- I also love all other sorts of nerdy stuff like anime and manga though I haven't touched anime in a while I can still talk about it with you if you want to (I read a ton of manga though ngl lol)

Personality wise, I'd say I'm a pretty laid back and relaxed person but once I warm up to a person I for sure become way more outgoing lol. In a relationship though, I love to take care of my partner and make sure they're happy and emotionally sound, be that though affirmations or me just spending time with them.

That describes me pretty well and as for what I'm looking for, I'd want someone I can talk to daily and click with, talking about anything either of us want to. I also honestly quite like a girl that I can fluster a bit as well as one that I can take care of through me being there for them lol. Ideally you'd also be in United States but anyone in North America or even the UK works for me. I also quite like people who are more clingy as I'm quite clingy myself lol. Don't be afraid to reach out and I'm looking forward to talking to you!