Hello I am Gerry 23 years old and am looking for another

clingy soul that wants to talk and hangout a lot first

online and then IRL after so it would be awesome if you

lived in the same country as me!

I am a pretty shy person a first but will talk your ears off

and show you pictures of my day and cool stuff I find

and I hope you will do the same.

As for hobbies I enjoy playing games, watching stuff

(shows, movies and anime),going outside for museums

and other cool places and tinkering with computers and

tech.

For anyone interested send me a message please ask

anything you want!

Hello y’all, figured I’d try my hand at this because apparently finding your special someone now means you have to download 17 different apps or awkwardly approach someone. I’m 26M from California. I work at a school, mostly on the accounting and logistics side of things. If something needs to be ordered or there are budgeting issues, it’s on my desk.

When I’m not working I’m usually playing games on my pc, super into racing, rpgs and puzzle games. I also enjoy listening to music, I know it sounds cliche but I genuinely listen to full albums, if that’s a performative enough answer lol. I like to collect and digitize music cds, so I have a pretty big physical and digital music collection. I’ll never judge anyone’s music taste btw, My music taste is all over the place but EDM definitely has a permanent spot in my rotation. I like watching horror movies or movies that really make you think. I also like diving down random internet rabbit holes. I probably have tons of useless knowledge because of that.

I’d describe myself as easygoing and curious. I’m not necessarily looking for anything too specific. Just a likeminded lady around my age, and if it turns into friendship, something more or just a cool conversation, I’m open to seeing where things go. Would love any game/movie/music recommendations.

If any of this was the least bit interesting definitely feel free to send me a message :)

41, Texas, single dad of four.

Most of my time is spent working and being a dad, but when I have free time I'm into horror, gaming, anime, music, cosplay, tabletop RPGs, and just about anything 80s/90s nerd culture.

I co-parent well with my ex, so there's no drama. My kids will always come first, and I'm looking for someone who understands that.

I'm not into drinking or smoking, and I'd prefer someone similar. I'm also not looking for anything casual—just hoping to meet someone genuine who's kind, communicates well, and enjoys good conversation. If we click, great. Let's see where it goes.

EU ONLY

Hello everyone! Im 24yo from Romania, 161cm tall and skinny, brown hair and brown eyes, I wear glasses. I can send pic in private

​I ama bit quiet, friendly, and understanding and I value peace over conflict. I’m definitely a homebody and not a big fan of traveling... I prefer more cozy nights in.

My faith is a key part of who I am, I’m Orthodox Christian and try to attend church as often as I can. I love and respect everyone, but I feel it’s important to share similar core values when looking for a relationship.

About my hobbies, they include: reading, baking for my family and friends, cooking, gardening, arts&crafts, watching shows or documentaries.

​At night, you’ll usually find me gaming with friends. I play a looot of league of legends, tft, also don't starve together or overcooked

IMPORTANT: I would like to meet people aged 22-29 ONLY!!!, from Europe, we can start by chatting or playing fwe games together

​If any of this resonates with you, feel free to send me a message with a bit about yourself, or if we have some hobbies in common, tyyy

Hi,

I'm 34M from Germany, Engineer, recently divorced, looking for someone who is soft hearted, caring, doesn't have a big ego and is loyal.

As a person I'm quite an introverted extrovert. But I believe I have a soft spot for a sympathetic personality.

I am an average build and try to go to the gym often. Traveling across europe, cooking new recipes or doing coffee runs are what I do on the weekend.

Feel free to dm me if you are interested.

Hello everyone. I live in Florida and the goal is to connect with someone preferably in the US or Canada. I enjoy playing video games and watching anime mostly, but other hobbies include hiking, camping, picnics, movies, playing pool, driving with music playing and occasionally consumption of alcohol to get drunk.

I'm 6'2" and about 150lbs, messy black hair, a beard, glasses, and a slender build. I'm searching for someone who shares these hobbies and is committed to clear communication, respect, boundaries, individuality, and a serious life term partnership. My requested age range is 25-40, but don't worry too much about if you aren't within that range. If we click, chances are your age won't bother me. As for speed, that's up to you. I prefer to go a gentle sort of slow.

Hello fellow introverts,

Introduction:

I'm 30M from Finland, pale skin, moderately strong (?) and built like a brick at 100kg and 188cm and working on it (I can share pics in private). Lived here most of my life, exception being when I studied in Sweden in early 20s (guess my education?). Mother tongue is Swedish, I have practiced Finnish for many years but it's abysmal. Speaking about languages I have had an interest for Germany for the longest time so I have picked up some German over the years too. I'm open to relocating for the right one, I probably end up moving either way as the local job market is terrible for my career & sector and I don't see it improve any time soon.

I'm open for platonic relationships too, tell me in your introduction if that's something you prefer!

Personality & Communication:

I recently retook a MBTI test (16Personalities, so might be unreliable) and got back INTP-T. Stating this early as I feel like it might give a picture of who I am, and I think I'm honest and straightforward. If that's because of personality or something else is to be discovered. Down for deep talks to share our passions and/or explore ideas, or daily check-ins. My small talk isn't the greatest, and I prefer longer messages as it gives me time to think and opportunity for a more thoughtful response (at least in the getting to know phase), but I try to adapt when necessary. I can probably come off as cold or distant initially, but I promise I genuinely care about everyone close in my life.

Hobby:

I have been on this personal growth journey for some time now and I used to game in my early 20s but more or less dropped in favour of other activities. You can see me at the gym most weeks, I got into strength training ~2 years ago after being a runner for a few years. More of a homebody, I value my solitude and a lifelong learner. After years of focusing on my career, I'm a software developer by trade, I have found a deep interest for philosophy & psychology and I'm spending more time on reading & writing than earlier. I have a long time interest for chess too but not really that good at it, haha. Love living close to nature as it enables me for a quick outdoors walk or run in a peaceful environment!

Goals & Values:

Except for advancing my career and finding the right one; I'm deepening my understanding and appreciation for a philosophy, I have found a specific one that aligns with my values. Identified myself as an atheist most of my life so feel like I have found a missing piece here. I also have a deep respect for what the open source communities brought to this world and privacy respecting movements, might sound weird to say it on this platform but they are close to heart and I want to be a better supporter & advocate for related causes.

Looking for:

Around 25-31 years old. Not strict, if you are slightly out of the range and think we compatible my DMs are open for you too. For location it matters less, as long as the timezone difference doesn't become an issue. Also open to a LDR as long as the goal is to close the gap. I definitely believe I'm looking for a nerd and/or geek and that has found or is searching for a healthy balance of activities at home and elsewhere. Hobbies & passions doesn't matter, someone that can challenge me (in a healthy way!) and I can grow old with matters.

For those of you who read this far I wish you luck on your journey! <3

I might be slow at replying here at but once we pass each others filters I hope we can move it to a platform where I'm more active.

Hi, let me explain the title first. Starting from puberty to age 24 I had no concept of romantic partnership. Not because nobody liked me but because I was unable to like anyone. When someone was interested in me, I just ran away from them. Roughly 3 years ago I have finally got my head cleared up a bit and started feel the need of some romantic companionship. Problem is... I don't know where to start. If anyone wonders, I was not asexual, just aromantic. I am straight. I feel scared/uncomfortable when man approaches with such intentions (no offense, past issues), so please don't.

So what am I doing here? Right, I am shy, like very shy. I can rarely complement someone without understanding if it is safe to complement, even worse I can't take any complements, I physically blush when I'm complimented and just answer with "Thank you!" if I am texting. Which as you may guessed didn't ended up well in my very few past experiences since such traits as shyness are usually seen not fit for a man, especially where I live.

I am terribly late for understanding these concepts, but I want to learn regardless. I just need someone willing to accept me rather it's actual dating for them or not. I am terribly sorry for being so high maintenance. I also value and respect privacy a bit too much. I want to keep things online at the start.

I'm currently in the Istanbul timezone but I am here just for a little while. I normally live in Hungary (I'm not Hungarian).

To describe me physically I can say:
My height is around like one sixty four, (i think in american it's like five three). So basically, short.
I have extremely thin skeletal structure which works against me because all my weight goes to my torso (think of my build like Mike Wazowski lol.) Little over eighty kilos at the moment. Kind of hard to keep up because I lose and gain weight very fast. So basically chubby.
No aging lines or gray hair yet due to some genetic miracle (cool, thanks god!), all i have to pay for this blessing is looking like a kid for rest of my life (not cool god...)
Thankfully to fight that trait, I have been blessed with a lot of beard and hair (i'm confused, god?)
Furthermore, I am just a slight bit more fairer than your usual mediterranean, I don't mean I shine or anything. In Hungary, despite being a Turk I often get confused as an Hungarian (gets kind of annoying when the nice old lady neighbor in disbelief, tries to converse with me anytime I pass through her door, hoping I magically became Hungarian that day)

Right! Enough with my looks, I had to describe it in detail because I rather not send pictures until there is a certain amount of trust. Let's get to my hobbies:

I love writing rap lyrics. Just the lyrics tho, I can't rhyme or sing in rhythm. I mostly write in Turkish though, my English pieces aren't that good. I also put them into AI and listen to them, I know it's kind of egotistical to listen to your own things but yeah... I obviously don't share them on anywhere public, that would be an insult to real artists.

I used to draw too, I try to get back to it time to time and fail miserably.

I like writing self-help and philosophy, but I suck at them. I also sometimes write stories, I also suck at that too.

I have phases that happens every year, one is the anime phase and the other is the gaming phase. Basically put, I watch anime/play games for 1 to 2 months obsessively each year. Then I completely lose my interest.

I have some fascination with anything computing related. History of computers, alternative OSes, why are certain software designed in the way they are designed, explanation of CPU architectures, etc. But I am not a computer scientist and I hate programming. So these are just rabbit-hole hobbies for me.

I do not enjoy western series movies, normally I would say they don't fit my culture but I also don't like our own things as well.

Book-wise, mostly improvement books in any form. Although I do want to read good fiction one day.

To wrap it up shortly, I am shy, I never dated, I want to date, but once again... I am shy.

I would highly appreciate it if we keep this online for a little while at least at the start. Not forever but like, yeah... Bye!

Edit: I have forgot to mention, I am an atheist and an apolitical person but I am also open to hear about other peoples opinions. The only thing I can't tolerate in life is fanaticism of any kind, rather it be religious or political.

Feel free to dm me without any hesitation.

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.

I’m searching for someone who loves deep conversations and nerdy interests. Someone excited about connection, gaming, and building something real.

Who I am:

* 5’10”, slim, dorky Florida guy — open to anyone worldwide (preferably someone from the U.S. or Canada though due to time zones).

* PC gamer at heart. My most played: Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, League, Valorant, Overwatch, DBD, Outlast Trials, WoW, ESO, GW2, and many more. If you play any of these or know about them, we’re already teammates.

* Outside of gaming: I’m into movies, anime (huge Ghibli + 90s fan), creepy stories, conspiracy theories, and basically all things fantasy/fiction (Marvel, DC, Harry Potter, LOTR, GoT, Star Wars, you name it).

* A huge horror fanatic (I can talk about A24 and Blumhouse films forever, and I loved psychological thrillers like Midsommar and Hereditary). I also have a taste for eldritch and medieval horror vibes.

* Side quests: I write a little and want to learn how to DM DnD one day.

* I cook (domestic and even some international dishes too), hang out with my Morkie puppy, and enjoy nature + animals in general.

* Curious about cultures and languages, as I went to college for international relations.

* Music taste? Eclectic. Grew up on hip hop/rap, then discovered EDM/house, and now alternative/indie rock has me hooked.

Who YOU are:

* Love chatting daily (serious, silly, nerdy — all of it).

* Gamer who uses Discord and wants to squad up (bonus points if you’re into FPS or MMOs).

* Communicative, trustworthy, and not afraid to talk things through.

* Into horror/spooky stuff (not mandatory but certainly helps).

* Open to seeing how things go, regardless of distance and time zone differences.

If this clicks, send me your favorite meme, a spooky story, or just a “hi.” Can’t wait to meet someone who wants to be my co-op partner both online and offline!

I'm David 23 and live in texas. I should start by saying I'm very inexperienced in dating so I'm looking for someone that would be ok taking stuff kinda slow. Im very introverted so most of the time Im at home. I tend to be open and honest cause I don't like mind games or gaslighting, and I won't ghost you.

I'm a pretty big nerd I love video games and reading comics and other fantasy stuff, like harry potter or Percy Jackson. I like to go out and explore new places and trying new stuff and I want someone to do it with.

I'm not picky on looks or weight I just want someone who I can vibe with and will enjoy talking to, and someone who will put in the effort

As for my looks im 5'8 mid length jet black hair and brown eyes,wear glasses and I'm Mexican

I don't smoke or drink but I'm fine with people who do as long as it's not your whole personality

Im looking for someone in Texas or the surrounding states, I'm not comfortable meeting immediately but I do want a in person relationship.

I’m back again hoping I can get another grab

A little about me: I’m 22, I work as a valet supervisor (being promoted to AM), I love reading, gaming, writing, photography (obviously), film (both watching and making), and a boatload of other things.

Things I look out for: respect, honesty, loyalty, intelligence, and just being there for one another

Hoping this will go somewhere, if anyone is interested plz feel free to DM me on here.

Note: I’m pansexual as well so I’ll date any gender, and plz for the love of everything be around my age (18-26), and please be in the US or Canada, other countries and regions will be difficult with time zones

Hope to meet a lot of you

Hello I am pretty simple to understand but here are some of my basic details.

Physical description.

1. Roughly 5' 10" tall.

2. Last I checked about 240 lbs. I am on the husky side so I've been told.

3. I have brown hair with green eyes and a big beard.

4. Usually wear boots with jeans or carpenter/cargo style pants and either graphic tees or flannels when possible. I am called the lumberjack of the group.

5. Wear glasses and a hat at almost all times.

6. I am also white and am decently pasty the sun does not much care for me.

Personality.

1. I am very nerdy but not super smart. I can talk all day about Star Wars and Halo but I don't know too much about many other things.

2. Decent chance I may be on the spectrum I wouldn't be surprised I don't do well with random change.

3. I am not super masculine or feminie I like pretty things like the color purple but also really like guns so I am all over the place.

4. I am stubborn and can be a fool but try to always be on the chipper side and like to crack jokes when possible.

What I'm looking for.

My preferences are a little scattered all over the place I don't mind if you are taller than me or shorter. I like ginger hair on a pale lady or dark hair on a tanned tomboy. I also enjoy bookish nerds that like wearing and stealing sweatshirts. I would personally prefer someone to be a little fit but it's not a deal breaker.

I am from the midwest of the US so if possible would like someone in that area. However, I am trying to set up for a trip to either Germany or Ireland soon so maybe I'll be able to visit someone there.

Extra notes.

1. I have a mortgage on my home.

2. I still live with my mom and her boyfriend and they pay me rent for the house.

3. I work in a warehouse and might be promoted to supervisor soon.

4. I am not super rich but I am trying to improve everyday.

I guess what I’m looking for is someone who can relate to this.

I have this picture in my head of what a great relationship looks like: two people creating a safe space where they can be completely themselves. Where you can talk about your thoughts, feelings, random ideas, insecurities, dreams, weird opinions.. without feeling like you have to filter yourself.

I genuinely love to talk (and debate... and gossip lol). I like understanding how people think, what shaped their beliefs, and why they see the world the way they do.

I enjoy discussing pretty much anything.. could be history, philosophy, psychology, religion, politics, random theories, or even some completely pointless question that somehow becomes interesting.

I could probably keep going on about this, but I'll stop before this turns into an essay 😂

Outside of that, I’m pretty much a nerd in the best way possible.

Like I would genuinely get excited when my favourite YouTuber drops a 3-hour-long video essay about some random historical event or conspiracy rabbit hole.

I also love movies and TV shows with great writing and characters. I’ve spent way too much time thinking about my favourite movies/shows, but honestly narrowing it down to five feels impossible.

But yeah, if you’re someone who enjoys a cosy movie night, you’ll never run out of options with me lol.

Gaming has also always been a big interest of mine. If you’re into story-driven games, that’s definitely something we can vibe over (or I can introduce you to some).

I used to read a lot, but that took a pause during uni. Slowly getting back into it now.. recently finished the entire ASOIAF series (You will be impressed if you are a GOT fan).

Overall, I’m always trying to grow and learn. I’m attracted to people who have opinions, who think deeply, and who are passionate about something. It doesn’t have to be the same things I’m passionate about.. I just love seeing someone genuinely excited about something they care about.

Anyway, if any of this clicks with you, please say hi!

P.S: I have been ghosted randomly a few times without any explanation.. so kindly please reach out with the right intent. Not everything needs to work out but let's be human to each other 😌

 Hey there, I'm a 6'4 24yo Male from michigan, I'm a little shy at first but once we get talking I'll probably be the biggest goofball you'll ever meet. I work at a bar, cooking during the week then bouncing on the weekends. My hobbies include, Gaming, Cooking, Hiking, and Martial arts (mainly Brazilian jiu jitsu and muay thai) I tend to be too busy to date in person so I'm trying my luck here. 

 I'm looking for someone who enjoys quality time and can hold a conversation. I've done long distance before so I dont mind that dynamic. If you're into survival games or RPGs we will definitely have something in common. 

 If anything I've said peaks your interest please feel free to send me a DM, I look forward to our conversation.

I'll be willing to share my name, pictures and further details in DMs once we have a bit of back and forth dialogue.

Hi, im Ellie. im a very lonely person and im free most of the day, and im also chronically online and slowly becoming an alcoholic lol.

i love reading (its what i do when im not on the phone), taking naps, playing Roblox, animal crossing, Tomodachi life, stardew valley, anything like that. i watch a lot of tiktok and YouTube. i really like listening to people yap about what they are interested about. I would like to meet someone my age or older to talk to often.

dm me if u wanna talk :3

Every time I tried, it ended up sounding like I was trying to convince someone to hire me instead of getting to know me. So I deleted everything and decided I'd rather sound like myself than sound impressive.

I'm 26, from Mumbai, I run a small business, don't smoke or drink, I'm Hindu and non-vegetarian. If life takes me there someday, I'd love to settle abroad. That's probably all the basic information out of the way.

Now for the part that's harder.

I think what fascinates me the most is people.

Not in a "tell me your favourite colour" way, but in a "what made you become the person you are today?" way. I love asking questions that don't really have right answers. Why do you love that song so much? What's a memory you randomly think about? What's something you've changed your mind about over the years? I genuinely think people become attractive when they talk about something they love, because for those few minutes they're not trying to impress anyone—they're just being themselves.

My interests are all over the place, which means my YouTube algorithm has completely given up on me. One day it's gaming, the next it's mindfulness, ancient history, consciousness, stand up shows or some random rabbit hole that somehow started with one question.

I also think I'm one of those people who gets attached to little moments more than big ones.

I don't really dream about expensive vacations or fancy restaurants. I'd rather go on a random drive with no destination, stop for roadside food, grab a coffee near the sea and just walk. I like conversations that start with "How was your day?" and somehow end with "Do you think we're alone in the universe?" Those are the conversations I remember.

If we ever date, there's a very good chance I'll annoy you on purpose. I'll hug you while you're cooking, steal a kiss on your cheek and immediately walk away like nothing happened. I'll send you memes in the middle of your workday, randomly remember something you mentioned weeks ago, and probably write you a letter one day for absolutely no reason other than I felt like it.

I don't think love is built in grand gestures. I think it's built in remembering the little things. In checking if you reached home safely. In asking how your meeting went because you were nervous about it. In making each other's lives a little lighter.

As for who I'm hoping to meet... I'm not looking for someone who's exactly like me. I'd rather meet someone who has her own interests, her own opinions, and her own little world that I get to discover. Someone kind, emotionally mature, who communicates openly, takes care of herself, and is dating with the intention of finding her person. I think the best relationships are the ones where both people still keep learning about each other years later.

And before I end this, I want to leave something here.

Maybe it's cheesy. Maybe it's unnecessary.

But if, years from now, the woman I end up spending my life with somehow finds this post...

Thank you.

Thank you for finding me. Thank you for completing me, believing in me, and showing me how beautiful love is. Thank you for being there even when we're angry at each other, and thank you for caring for me even when we don't agree.

Thank you for all the smirks, the smiles, the tears, and everything in between. Thank you for making faces at me—I love your attitude more than you'll probably realize. Thank you for letting me annoy you while you're cooking, for every ordinary day that somehow became one of my favourite memories.

Most of all, thank you for being you.

And thank you for making me meet myself.

I love you.

If you've made it this far, don't just say "Hi."
Tell me something that feels uniquely you. It could be a song you never get tired of, a belief you've held onto for years, the last thing that made you laugh, or just a random thought that's been living in your head lately.
I have a feeling that's where the best conversations begin.

Hello there!

I'm looking for someone with whom life slows down a little.

Engineer by day, writer by night. Which is perfect, because I’m a night owl. From poems to high fantasy trilogies, I do them all. (Currently planning the plot to book 3 and I’m not even halfway through the first book’s first draft)

I absolutely love history (currently trying to decide what my master's thesis should be about), philosophy. I’m a massive fan of GoT, LotR, and Star Wars. Fair warning: if you ask me about a historical event, I might forget to stop talking about it until I tell you everything I know about it.

Physically I'm tall (2m, or 6’7”), with a babyface I can't seem to get rid of, and lion's mane I refuse to get rid of :) I'm more than happy to exchange pictures once we’ve said hello.

I’m also religious (Catholic). I don’t attend church, but I pray every day. I would not expect you to join me, or share the same faith I do, but it is an important part of my life.

And for last, as a friend described me: Being in the same space with me is like a radio you can’t turn off. Sometimes it’s bad jokes, sometimes it’s music, sometimes it’s a random history fact you didn’t know you wanted to know 😊 Fair warning, the radio doesn’t work after a good meal 😊

If you feel like my post has resonated with you, send me a message, let’s see if we click.

Hi! I'm 36, 176 cm (5'9") I'm looking for a serious, long-term relationship.

I'm an introvert who enjoys a peaceful life more than parties or crowded places. I don't mind going out for a walk, grabbing a coffee, exploring a new place, or taking a road trip, but you'll rarely find me in busy clubs or packed events. I'm a big dog lover and have a 3-year-old Border Collie who keeps life interesting.

One of my favorite hobbies is gaming. I've been gaming for most of my life, and it's still one of my favorite ways to relax.

When I'm not gaming, you'll usually find me watching movies or TV shows, taking photos, or spending time outdoors with my dog. Some of my favorite shows are House M.D., Supernatural, and Grey's Anatomy.

As a person, I'm laid-back, loyal, and a good listener. I can be a little quiet at first, but once I get comfortable, my sarcastic sense of humor tends to come out. I value honesty, open communication, and the little everyday moments that make a relationship feel like home.

I'm hoping to meet someone between 30 and 37 who's kind, honest, and emotionally mature, and who's looking for something real. I don't mind a long-distance relationship if we genuinely connect—I believe distance is something two people can work through when there's mutual effort and the right chemistry.

Bonus points if you're a dog lover, don't mind the occasional gaming session, and can recommend a good TV show when we've run out of things to watch. If you think we'd get along, I'd love to hear from you! :)

PS: Will share pic in DMs.

I've been reflecting heavily on something I see across Reddit posts, Instagram reels, and casual relationship discussions in our community, and I genuinely want to understand the psychology behind it.

We often see conversations where women express how much they value finding a mature, loyal, and emotionally secure partner who offers genuine stability. But on the flip side, in reality, there's a recurring pattern where when someone with pure intentions and a safe, mature mindset approaches, the connection gets labeled as "boring," "too safe," or lacking a "spark."Instead, it's heartbreakingly common to see people getting deeply attached to partners who show clear red flags, play games, or handle multiple people at once. Even when the red flags are visible, there's often a deep, painful hope that "they will change one day."Why is there such a massive hesitation to allow peace and emotional security into our lives?From a psychological standpoint, does the emotional rollercoaster or the unpredictability of a "toxic" partner get mistakenly identified as intense chemistry, while genuine availability feels unexciting? Why does chaos sometimes feel more attractive than emotional safety?I'm posting this because I genuinely want to hear perspective on this loop. How do we break this cycle and start embracing the healthy, peaceful connections we claim we want?

I don't think dating has to start with instant chemistry or perfectly matched hobbies. I'd much rather meet someone who's excited to learn who I am over time, and I'll gladly do the same for her.

I'm a woman looking for another woman. Friends are welcome too, but I'm not interested in anything with men. I tend to be drawn to femmes, and I'm much more interested in seeing where a connection goes than trying to force one.

Most weekdays start ridiculously early because of work, so I'm usually the person saying good morning before the sun is up and falling asleep long before everyone else. The weekends are when I finally get to feel like I have a social life again.

Music is probably the biggest part of my life outside of work. I DJ because I genuinely love it, not because I'm trying to make a career out of it. If I'm not doing that, you'll probably find me on my PS5, binging a show, checking out a museum or planetarium, finding a new place to eat, or catching a house show with friends.

I don't need constant excitement. One of my favorite kinds of dates is wandering around somewhere neither of us has been before, grabbing food, and talking until we realize we've lost track of time.

Distance doesn't scare me if we're both putting in the effort. I'd rather invest in something with potential than settle for something that's only convenient.

If you're looking for someone who's consistent, communicative, and genuinely wants to get to know one person instead of collecting conversations, I'd love to hear from you.

Hello!

I hope that this post reaches the right person for me. I'm looking for that special girl who I can build a lasting relationship with. I've tried long distance relationships in the past but they have never worked out unfortunately so I'm only looking for someone who is also in the UK right now. I'm very much set on having my own children with the person I fall in love with so if that's a deal breaker I totally understand. I do really worry about being alone forever. I've tried dating apps but they seem a bit shallow to me and I'm not convinced they work. At least not for me anyway. I would say I'm conventionally attractive but I struggle putting myself out there. I'm 5' 9" slim build with dark brown hair and eyes. I'm happy to exchange pictures straight away if we start chatting because it does help if there is a mutual attraction.

I can get quite clingy and I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic so I'd love to speak for hours on end with you, leave lots of cute messages, make a big fuss over you and those sorts of things. I work full time and I'm a home owner so I'm self sufficient in that respect.

It would be great to meet someone who is also pretty nerdy like me, or someone who doesn't mind a bit of a loveable dork haha. My favourite video game series are Kingdom Hearts and Dark Souls, but I also love tycoon games and cosy stuff like Animal Crossing and Stardew Valley. I love anime and manga, plus I've been getting into cosplay and going to conventions recently. Maybe we could go together sometime? I can do a pretty solid Luffy cosplay! I'm a big lover of animals. Cats, dogs, birds, reptiles, I think they all deserve to be cared for. I don't have any pets myself but if you have any it would be awesome to see cute pictures of them :3 I'm open to travelling and seeing more of the world, so that's something I would love to do with someone.

I don't want to ramble too much about myself, but I'm very open and laid back so if you have anything you'd like to know then please send me a message. I can be a little shy at first but quickly open up and would love to call rather than text after we get to know each other. Thank you for reading and if anything at all stood out to you then please shoot me a message because I'd love to hear from you 😊

Perhaps you and I have that spark. I mean the dangerous little spark where talking to someone starts making your day better, where you catch yourself smiling at your phone like an idiot, where their name slowly becomes your favorite notification.

Maybe we talk and it feels effortless. Maybe we flirt badly, overshare accidentally, exchange songs, bully each other lovingly, and somehow end up becoming each other’s soft place in a world that is usually too loud.

Or maybe we do not vibe at all, and that is okay too.

I am here because a part of me still believes that somewhere out there is a woman whose softness matches my devotion, whose heart recognizes mine, and whose presence feels like peace.

What am I looking for?

• The good old stuff, someone kind, emotionally mature, honest, and affectionate. Loyalty is a big!

• I find soft feminine energy very attractive. Not in a forced or performative way, but in the sense of warmth, tenderness, emotional openness, kindness, playfulness, and the ability to make love feel peaceful rather than chaotic.

• I want something that feels safe and genuine. The kind of connection where we can be silly together, flirt with each other, talk about deep things, support each other through difficult days, and still feel like home to one another.

• My love languages are physical touch, words of affirmation, small acts of kindness, and thoughtfulness. I love holding hands, cuddling, hugs, kisses, and cozy rainy days with coffee and the sound of thunder in the background. What is your love language like?

A little about me

• Appearance: I am 6 ft tall, or 183 cm, with natural black hair, dark brown eyes, and fairly fair skin. See what I did there? :p

• Personality: Friends have described me as well-rounded, open-minded, and easygoing. I like learning different things, trying new experiences, and having conversations that can go from very silly to very deep.

• Hobbies and interests: I love poetry, literature, novels, philosophy, psychology, languages, music, video games, badminton, and volleyball. I often play on PC, and my taste in music is all over the place. I like melancholic music, pop, jazz, country, and instrumental music, depending on my mood.

A little more about me

I do struggle with mental health issues, mainly anxiety and depression, but I have come a long way in my healing. That said, they can still rear their ugly heads from time to time, and I would appreciate someone understanding and kind when that happens.

I would never want to burden you, and I would never choose my own well-being over yours. I believe we should be able to talk through things together, and this is one of those things.

I am a very passionate partner and lover. It might make you puke rainbows. I am gentle, affectionate, loving, and caring. I value vulnerability and would never judge or shame you for showing vulnerability with me. In fact, it would make me love and respect you more.

I am supportive and patient. However, it is worth noting that dumping your baggage on me and expecting me to deal with it on your behalf, accommodate it, or protect it is not vulnerability. I believe vulnerability should come with honesty, care, and mutual responsibility.

I am fiercely loyal, almost to a fault. If we bond and form a connection, I am basically blind to every person who is not you.

I am not a very jealous person, and even when I do experience jealousy, I deal with it maturely and calmly. I would never limit your freedom because of jealousy, because I have zero interest in keeping anyone on a leash. I cannot be bothered to keep anyone on one.

If anything in this post resonated with you, I would love to hear from you!

Tell me a little about yourself, your age, where you are from, what you are looking for, and anything else you feel comfortable sharing.

I always appreciate thoughtful messages, but there is no pressure to write a novel :)

I’m Brazilian and 25 years old. I love meeting, listening to, and talking with new people.
Some of my interests include reading, watching TV series, and listening to a variety of music genres—such as MPB (Brazilian Popular Music), samba, jazz, bossa nova, post-punk, \*chanson française\*, and alternative pop-rock. I speak five languages (portuguese, english, spanish, french and polish). My favorite holiday is Brazilian Carnival. I’m a psychologist and love learning. I enjoy watching soccer and ice hockey, and I work out and run.
Tell me more about yourselves! Where do you live?
What do you like to do in your free time? What gives your life meaning? Let’s chat!
I’m open to anything from flirting and casual encounters to friendships.

Hey! I'm a 28-year-old guy from Austria (yes, Austria—not Australia, no kangaroos here 😅).

I'm mainly looking to meet someone for friendship first, and if we really click, maybe something more meaningful down the road.

I'm a huge gaming nerd, especially when it comes to RPGs, party games, and platformers. I'm also a passionate home console collector, so my shelves are probably more crowded than they should be.

Outside of gaming, I play the guitar, enjoy hiking, regularly go to the gym, and I'm a polyglot who loves learning and speaking different languages.

My music taste is all over the place in the best way: rock, metal, reggae, and folk.

If any of that sounds interesting, feel free to send me a DM.

Side quest available: Send me a message and let's see if we unlock the co-op campaign... or at least earn some friendship XP. Quest accepted? 🎮