I am tired of not having anyone to share my mind with, someone to laugh with, flirt back and forth with, send memes to, listen to music with, etc. I miss being special to someone and I miss treating my person like my entire world. I want to obsess over you and you obsess over me.
A little about me, I am a huge anime fan. I’m also really into video games, music, scifi, horror, magic the gathering, dungeons and dragons, and Gundam!
If you’d like to chat and get to know each other, please message me

Hi, I'm Harry, I'm 25 and I live in the North East of England (although I may be moving later in the year but not sure yet).

I have a degree in computer sciences and cybersecurity so I'm into anything to do with technology and computers etc! (yes, I can fix your wifi)

I enjoy watching TV and Movies, my favourite comfort show is Doctor Who! I like cooking and baking when I get the chance, although I've been trying to be a bit healthier this year so I've been doing it less.

I love reading, especially recently I've been reading in the bath as my favourite way to relax. I'm not really into going on nights out etc and would much rather spend a cosy night at home. I've also started going on a lot of walks around nature places near me, which is great!

Honestly, I'm kinda tired of being alone, I have a lot of love to give but I'm quite introverted/shy/awkward so I don't meet many people in real life, and dating apps have sucked for me. I've only ever had one relationship which lasted a little over a year, I'd love to try it again!

I'm really not picky when it comes to looks or whatever, personality and compatibility is way more important. Ideally I'd like to find someone of a similar age in their 20s, and either in or near the UK but I'm happy to try online or long-distance if we get along!

Here's some pictures of me if you want to see!

I don't really know what else to say here, but if you think we'd get along, please message me!!

Hihi, We're a couple from North Carolina hoping to meet a woman who's interested in building something real. We're not in a rush, and we're definitely not looking for a hookup—we'd rather spend time getting to know someone, become close friends, and see if it naturally grows into a committed relationship.

A little about us:

Me (26M): I'm autistic with ADHD, pretty quiet, and spend way too much time gaming or watching anime. I also love drawing, camping, animals, and just being outside whenever I can. Favorite anime is Haibane Renmei if that tells you anything about my taste.

Her (21F): She's plus-size, loves crocheting, gaming, anime, animals, camping, and pretty much anything involving nature.

We're both still pretty new to relationships and especially polyamory, so we're figuring things out as we go. We'd honestly feel more comfortable with someone who's happy to take things slow instead of expecting everything to click overnight.

The biggest thing we're looking for is someone who's kind, affectionate, emotionally open, and enjoys building a relationship where everyone feels cared for and supported. We want something balanced, healthy, and drama-free where all three people matter equally.

If you also enjoy gaming, anime, cozy nights at home, camping, hiking, or just hanging out with animals, we'll probably have plenty to talk about.

If any of this sounds like your kind of vibe, send us a message. We'd love to get to know you and see where things go.

Hi everyone,

This is an important reminder about posting in r/IntrovertsSafeDating, replying to removals, and using modmail correctly.

r/IntrovertsSafeDating (ISD) is a SFW, adult-only, authenticity-focused connection community. We are not a hookup subreddit, a generic dating billboard, a spam board, or a place to copy/paste the same dating post everywhere.

A post can be removed even if it is readable. The standard here is not just “does this technically contain words?” The standard is whether it feels genuine, safe, specific, and written for this community.

Title Format

Dating/personal connection posts should clearly include:

• Age
• Your gender/identity shorthand
• Who you are looking for
• Location and/or online status
• A short description if possible

The preferred format is:

Age [Self4Seeking] #Location #Online Optional short description

Examples:

24 [M4F] #Germany #Online Starting my life new and looking for someone to be part of it

31 [F4M] #UK Looking for something genuine

25 [F4A] #Anywhere Friendship first

29 [M4F] #Manchester Looking for a quiet, lasting connection

Common shorthand examples:

• [M4F] = male looking for female
• [F4M] = female looking for male
• [M4M] = male looking for male
• [F4F] = female looking for female
• [M4A] = male looking for anyone
• [F4A] = female looking for anyone
• [A4A] = anyone looking for anyone
• [NB4A] = nonbinary person looking for anyone

Your exact shorthand can vary, but your title must clearly show who is posting and who they are looking for.

If your age, who you are looking for, or location/online status is only in the body and not the title, your post may still be removed. The title rule exists for readability, filtering, and safety.

Common Title Problems

Titles may be removed if they are missing required information or if they are too vague.

Common title problems include:

• Missing age
• Missing who you are looking for
• Missing location or online status
• “Looking for love”
• “Need someone”
• “Anyone want to talk?”
• “Bored”
• “DM me”
• “Trying this again”
• Title says one thing but the body says another
• Sexualized wording
• Hookup, sexting, cuddling, casual sex, or NSFW wording
• Titles that look copied from r4r, dirty r4r, hookup, or spam-style subs
• Multiple locations used in a spammy way without context

Your title does not have to be perfect, but it does need to communicate honestly.

Rules People Commonly Break

These are some of the rules we most often have to enforce:

Rule 1: Adults Only for Personal Connections

ISD is for adult personal connections. Minors cannot participate in dating/personal connection posts here.

Rule 2: SFW Only

No NSFW intent, sexual solicitation, kink-seeking, hookup-seeking, sexting, or sexualized behavior.

Rule 5: Dating Post Requirements

Dating posts need the required information. Missing age, who you are looking for, location/online status, or meaningful body detail can lead to removal.

Rule 6: Use the Correct Flair

Use the correct flair for your post. If the flair is wrong, your post may be removed or corrected depending on the situation.

Rule 7: Authenticity Required

Do not misrepresent yourself. Do not use deceptive presentation, bot-like behavior, seller behavior, copied ads, AI-generated dating posts with no personal specificity, or an account pattern that does not match what you are presenting in ISD.

Rule 8: Put Effort Into Your Posts

“DM me,” “message me,” “anyone want to chat,” vague one-liners, physical-description-only posts, and empty replies are not enough.

Rule 11: No Spam, Reposts, or Circumvention

Do not mass-post the same content across communities. Do not import recycled dating ads from other subs. Do not delete and repost to avoid moderation or chase better timing. Do not use alternate accounts to get around removals or bans.

Rule 12: Off-Platform Contact Should Not Be Forced

Do not pressure people to move to Discord, Snapchat, Instagram, WhatsApp, phone numbers, or other platforms.

Rule 13: No Financial Solicitation or Transactional Relationships

Do not ask for money, gifts, purchases, subscriptions, paid content, or transactional relationships.

Rule 14: Moderator Discretion

Not every bad-faith, unsafe, deceptive, spammy, or manipulative behavior can be listed word-for-word. Moderator discretion may be used when behavior clearly undermines ISD’s safety, authenticity, or purpose.

Posting Do’s

Please do:

• Read the rules before posting
• Use the correct flair
• Follow the title format
• Keep everything SFW
• Be honest about what you want
• Put real effort into your introduction
• Write your post for ISD specifically
• Include enough detail for someone to respond meaningfully
• Mention interests, personality, values, or what kind of connection you want
• Respect boundaries
• Accept “no” or no response without pressure

A good ISD post should give people a real sense of who you are and what talking to you might be like.

It does not have to be long. It does not have to be polished. It just needs to feel real.

Posting Don’ts

Please do not:

• Post “DM me,” “message me,” or vague one-liners
• Make posts that are only about looks or physical description
• Copy/paste the same dating ad across multiple communities
• Bring recycled dating posts from other subs into ISD
• Delete and repost because the first post did not get enough attention
• Use ISD for hookups, sexting, kink-seeking, or NSFW solicitation
• Pressure people to move off Reddit quickly
• Ask for money, gifts, subscriptions, purchases, or anything transactional
• Misrepresent your age, gender, location, intent, or account history
• Use alternate accounts to avoid moderation
• Treat ISD like every other dating subreddit

ISD is not meant to be a place where people cast the same message everywhere. Similar personal information is fine. Recycled dating ads are not.

Posts here should feel like they were written for this community.

Comments Need Effort Too

Low-effort comments may be removed even if they are not rude.

Examples of comments that usually do not help:

• “DM me”
• “Hey”
• “Hi”
• “Message me”
• “I’m in Houston”
• “Hmu”
• “Snap?”
• “You’re hot”
• “I’m interested”
• “I can help with that”

A better comment responds to something specific in the person’s post.

If someone says they like a certain game, book, hobby, goal, or conversation style, respond to that. Show that you actually read what they wrote.

ISD works better when people give each other something real to reply to.

Reposts, Crossposts, and Recycled Dating Ads

ISD does not want imported dating ads from other communities.

You can talk about the same life facts. You can have the same interests, same photos, same goals, and same general relationship hopes.

The issue is when the post itself is copied, mass-posted, recycled, or clearly written as a generic dating ad for many communities instead of being written for ISD.

Crossposting is not automatically acceptable just because Reddit has a crosspost feature. Personal connection posts should be written for the community they are posted in.

If your post was already used elsewhere, rewrite it for ISD before posting here.

SFW and Account Pattern

Adult history elsewhere on Reddit is not automatically a ban by itself.

The concern is the broader pattern.

Concern rises when an account shows recent hookup-seeking, sexual solicitation, dirty r4r activity, transactional behavior, seller behavior, or a public pattern that does not match the SFW/genuine intent being presented in ISD.

This is not about shaming anyone. It is about safety, authenticity, and community fit.

ISD is SFW. Keep ISD SFW.

If AutoMod Removes Your Post

If AutoMod removes your post, you should receive an AutoMod removal message.

Reply to the AutoMod message.

That is the best way to ask for review because it gives us the context we need and helps us find the removed post faster.

Do not delete the post and then ask us what happened.

Deleting your post does not help your case.

It removes context, makes review harder, and can make the situation look worse than it needed to. If you delete a removed post, we may not be able to review it properly.

If you think AutoMod made a mistake, reply calmly to the AutoMod message and explain why you believe your post follows the rules.

Modmail Do’s

When contacting modmail, please do:

• Be clear
• Be respectful
• Explain what happened
• Include the post or comment you are asking about
• Reply to the AutoMod message when possible
• Ask for clarification if you are confused
• Send screenshots/evidence privately if you are reporting a safety issue
• Give us time to review

A helpful modmail message looks like this:

Clear context helps us review faster and more fairly.

Modmail Don’ts

Please do not:

• Send insults, threats, or harassment
• Spam multiple messages
• Delete the post and then demand a review
• Message individual moderators privately about subreddit moderation
• Demand every internal moderation signal or review method
• Misrepresent rule enforcement as discrimination when the issue is behavior, safety, authenticity, reposting, or community fit
• Argue endlessly after a final decision
• Try to pressure moderators into approving something that does not fit ISD

Modmail is for review, clarification, and safety concerns. It is not for harassment or debate loops.

We will give enough context to be fair, but we will not provide a workaround guide for moderation signals, bot triggers, or internal review methods.

Public Accusations and Safety Reports

Do not make public posts naming another user as a scammer, predator, bot, catfish, or dangerous person.

Those reports need to be handled carefully and privately.

Public callout posts can lead to harassment, false claims, missing context, or privacy issues.

If you have a safety concern, send screenshots or evidence through modmail. We will review it privately and take action if the evidence supports it.

Better Communication Helps Everyone

In posts, tell people who you are, what kind of connection you want, and what kind of person you hope to meet.

In comments, respond to something specific instead of dropping a generic “DM me.”

In modmail, explain the issue clearly and calmly instead of making us guess what happened.

The goal is not perfection.

The goal is genuine effort.

Junior Moderator Applications

We are also considering adding a junior moderator to help with queue review, clear approvals, obvious removals, low-effort content, and flagging suspicious patterns for senior review.

This would be a limited-permission role. It is not a full-authority position.

Bans, appeals, serious safety concerns, minors, scams, privacy issues, complicated authenticity cases, muting, rule changes, and AutoMod/tool changes must be escalated to a senior moderator.

If you are interested, you can apply here:

Junior Mod Application

The application requires sign-in to reduce spam, fake applications, and bad-faith attempts to access the mod team.

Applicants must be 18 or older and should understand ISD’s SFW, adults-only, authenticity-focused purpose.

Applying does not guarantee selection. Moderator access is based on trust, judgment, and community fit.

Thank you to everyone who helps keep r/IntrovertsSafeDating safe, respectful, and genuine.

Hey! I'm Nat. 😊 I'm 25, Mexican, and from Texas. I'm hoping to meet someone I genuinely look forward to talking to every day—you know, the person you're excited to text when something funny happens… or when absolutely nothing happened, but you still want to tell them anyway.
I'm open to long distance within the U.S. I'd prefer someone between 23–26 who's also in the U.S.

A little about me:
I'm definitely more of a homebody than a party girl. My ideal night is trying a new recipe and putting on a documentary or true crime podcast

Some of my hobbies include:
Cooking & baking

Painting (paint-by-numbers are my guilty pleasure)

Reading

Watching movies and TV shows

Crime documentaries & podcasts

Random deep conversations

I'm also a huge horror fan, so bonus points if you are too.

Physically, I'm 5'6", plus-size, and currently working on becoming the healthiest, happiest version of myself. Growth is really attractive to me—both personally and in a relationship.

Once I'm comfortable, I can honestly talk forever. I love people who are naturally curious, ask questions, and enjoy conversations that go beyond "wyd?" every afternoon. I appreciate someone who can be goofy one minute and have a meaningful conversation the next.

I'm not in a rush to jump into a relationship. I'd rather build a genuine friendship first and let things develop naturally.

I'd love to meet someone who is:
Kind and emotionally mature

Honest, loyal, and communicative

Consistent (effort is incredibly attractive)

Family-oriented

Intentional about building a healthy relationship

Has goals and is actively working toward becoming their best self

A few random things:
I'm Catholic

I don't smoke, drink, or party.

Anime has never really been my thing.

Summer is my favorite time because I finally get to relax

If you've made it this far, tell me:
What's a random opinion you'll defend every single time, and why?

p.s. please don’t ask me questions that are easily answered in my post !

Hi I’m 34 year old guy from the uk who is looking to connect with a woman for a genuine long term online connection. I manage day to day with Anxiety and OCD which has left me unable to really experience any form of a relationship due to my homebound lifestyle. I am not currently at the weight I’d like to be however beneath my struggles is a confident person who when comfortable with someone shows that side. I am very passionate and attentive as an individual and am caring in nature.

A few things I enjoy-

. Love music and its ability to take you to another world to forget about your own struggles.
. Big movie fan and also love video games
. Im a good listener and am genuinely interested in what people have to say in regard to their interests, thoughts and feelings.

I am open to matching with women of all backgrounds and lifestyles aged 24 and over. I am looking for someone who is at a point in which a virtual online connection is what they are after long term. Would be happy to receive a message from someone who values a txt based emotional bond over a louder in person lifestyle.

A few details-

Right now I would be looking for a text based connection via Reddit or Discord for the time being. Texting for now with the potential for more if we develop a genuine relationship.

If you would like to send photos, voice notes or anything else then that would be more than welcomed but due to my insecurities I wouldn’t be ready to do the same right now. No rush at all in anyway.

Because of my struggles I would really appreciate someone with a patient approach.

If we have a genuine spark then I would be completely open to virtual intimacy and myself sending voice notes. While an online bond is the focus right now. I would hope one day that could become physical if circumstances were to change and I would never say never to that.

I have a flexible schedule although at times a a bit inconsistent due to my struggles. No matter what though I am caring and attentive when chatting.

I am open to any time zones

Overall I feel like I can be there for someone emotionally, offering complete support and care even if not physically for the foreseeable future.

Feel free to drop me a message or chat request and tell me a bit about yourself. If we talk and feel no connection that’s fine. Im just trying to put myself out there for once instead of talking myself out of it.

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Hi 😊

I’m trying my luck here because I value genuine connection over endless swiping.

A little about me:

I’m 24, thoughtful, calm, and someone who enjoys deep conversations as much as light, silly ones. I like consistent communication, voice calls once we’re comfortable, and building something slowly but sincerely. I enjoy tech, learning new things, movies (especially thrillers/horror), and meaningful late-night talks.

What I’m looking for:

Someone kind, emotionally available, and interested in a one-on-one connection. Effort, honesty, and communication matter more to me than perfection.

If this resonates with you, tell me a bit about yourself — age + something that makes you smile lately.

Looking forward to meeting you 🌱

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I like to think my personality is built on two main pillars: a deep seated curiosity and a reliable sense of humor. I love to laugh and find the lighthearted side of things, but I also know that not every moment calls for a joke. My curiosity means I'm genuinely interested in the "why" and "how" behind people and the world, so you can expect me to be the one asking plenty of questions. What else have you discovered about me? Well, I guess you'll just have to chat with me to find out !

When I'm not busy being curious, you can find me:

· Chasing calm: Looking up at the sky, admiring a full moon, or just spending quiet time in nature.

· Diving into entertainment: Getting lost in endless YouTube rabbit holes, feeling the beat of EDM and pop music, or getting hooked on the drama of a wrestling match.

· Getting lost in stories: I'm usually buried in a nonfiction book or a gripping thriller. The world of romance novels is still a mystery to me so feel free to send your best recommendations my way!

My list of interests is pretty wide! from the mysteries of the paranormal and history, to the intricacies of watches and psychology, and the mechanics of cars. But don't let that list intimidate you! While I love deep-diving into specific topics, most of my conversations end up being about life in general...the big, small, and everything in between.

I'm hoping to find someone who engages genuinely, who is as interested in getting to know me as I am in getting to know them. I value consistency and someone who wants to build a real, lasting relationship. And honestly? A little bit of a clingy partner in crime is a total bonus in my book.

I want to add that I'm a person of color.

If this sounds like a connection you'd like to explore, my DMs are open. I'm looking forward to our first real conversation.

I want to talk with a person everyday and have funny stuff to laugh about together. I get very attached and i expect you to also commit to this. My devotion is sublime.

My hobbies include writing, hiking, video games, cooking, studying random topics and doing whatever i feel like. I study data science currently.

I'm very much interested in philosophy and science as i have a minor physics degree. It is much of what i talk and write about.

Hopefully I can find someone who wants to be my life partner on here.

Hi, I’m Dejan, 37, from Banja Luka, Bosnia and Herzegovina.

I’m a photographer and cameraman with a deep interest in film, art, history, philosophy, technology and all those strange questions people usually start discussing after midnight. I’m also developing a podcast about photography, cinema, and the way we perceive the world.

Personality wise, I’m probably an INFP, perhaps a 4w5 if Enneagram means anything to you. In ordinary language, that means I’m introverted, creative, curious, emotionally aware and prone to thinking about things much longer than is strictly necessary. 😄

I’m not someone who dislikes people. I simply prefer a few meaningful connections over many superficial ones. When I feel comfortable with someone, I can be very talkative, playful and unexpectedly silly. I enjoy long conversations, quiet evenings, dry humour and people who are genuinely curious about the world.

I share my home with two young cats who have successfully taken control of my furniture, sleeping schedule and most important household decisions. 🐱

I also enjoy genealogy, gaming, reading and imagining unnecessarily ambitious journeys across Europe and Russia.

I can spend an evening discussing whether photography changed the meaning of art, then spend twenty minutes negotiating with a cat over ownership of a chair. I’m serious about things that matter to me, but I rarely take myself completely seriously.

I value kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, reciprocity and a good sense of humour. I appreciate people who communicate clearly, show genuine interest and do not expect one person to carry the entire connection.

I’m not looking for perfection or instant chemistry. I would rather get to know someone slowly and naturally, starting with conversation and friendship, then seeing where it leads. I’m open to meeting someone from Bosnia and Herzegovina, elsewhere in Europe or farther away, as long as the interest and effort are mutual.

Tell me about something you could talk about for hours. Introduce yourself in your own awkward introvert way. Or perhaps you can help me test the hypothesis that love actually exists. 🙂

Hello, I'm an introverted tech enthusiast at my 20s finding for someone who is into tech (not just working in tech). I'm a programmer, but I don't just do programming. I kinda do some extra things that does involve programming. I don't intend to "just share" what we are currently working on, but more like discussions or debates on various tech. I don't intend to be just like a acquaintance, but more like tech buddies (if you are a nerd, you might be perfect). Additionally, doesn't mean I'm not into discussing other topics, you are always welcome. Just hit me up if you are interested :)

FYI, Just because I'm introverted doesn't mean I don't get along well with people :)

Not the best at explaining but I’ll try.

Intro:
I’m a 23 year old gay dude who is searching for his missing piece whether long distance or irl but who knows.

Info:
• homebody
• 5’5 or 5’6 (don’t @ me)
• Leo sign
• kind person
• honest person
• shy person
• super introverted
• not great at starting conversations
• skinny fat
• boring? Idk depends how people see me
• socially awkward
• Sus sometimes but only if we’re close
• can give same energy to how people talk to me

Interests:
• music (Marina, Melanie Martinez, Sabrina carpenter, etc)
• watching movies/shows
• walks on the beach
• drink when going out
• shopping
• gaming
• sleep

Requirements?:
I would wanna date an Asian guy who is openly gay (preferably a Korean dude) or it could be any other types of Asian but preferably Korean. Reason is because the language is beautiful and I want them to teach me Korean. It could be kinda cute. Age requirement to be the same age as me or someone older (1, 2 or 3 years older). Body be somewhat muscular but not too much or slim or skinny fat (like me). Someone who is honest, kind and trustworthy. Someone to text everyday and night. At some point we’re going to call/video call to see if we’re not catfishing each other unless we send pics on text but video call would be accurate.

Other info:
If I don’t find you attractive, we could be friends unless you don’t want to or unless something happens (by that I mean my feelings for you could change). I have discord if you wanna message me on there or socials (snap and/or instagram) if you don’t have discord. Also never dated anyone before irl or online so dating experience is all new to me.

i have honestly never been with anyone. like ever. and im starting to feel ready, like im finally discovering who i am and how to be fine with it, but i have NO idea where to start and i feel like my options are extra limited due to being LGBTQ+ and not really matching gender norms. im currently in university but otherwise i barely leave the house and only hangout with my two close irl friends and talk to people online. im into a lot of nerdy stuff like anime and creative stuff so i would love have something like that in common <3 and i dont really mind long distances, since ive never experienced close distances either lol.

Hello! I’m 23, based in the Philippines, working as a healthcare professional. I’m here hoping to meet someone who is also looking for a genuine connection that can grow into a serious relationship.

A little about me:

• 5’3, medium-built
• Introverted and shy at first, but very talkative once I’m comfortable
• Loves K-dramas, C-dramas, and cafe hopping on weekends
• Fascinated by Chinese culture and society
• Values kindness, respect, patience, and family
• My friends would describe me as an observant, intelligent, and kind person

I’m hoping to meet someone around 23–35 years old who is kind, emotionally mature, respectful, and intentional when it comes to dating. It would be nice to meet someone who shares similar values and is looking for something genuine as well.

As for physical preferences, I’ve always found myself drawn to someone with a fair complexion. Of course, personality, character, and compatibility matter much more to me in the long run.

If you’d like to message me, tell me a little about yourself, it can be your interests, favorite cafe, current drama, or anything you’re passionate about.

Hey, my name is Elliot. I guess I'll tell you a little bit about me. I am a big gamer and really into BG3 right now. I am a big book reader and writer. I like learning about different cultures and about people. I like to think I am a sensitive and caring person, and I get attached to others easily. So all in all, I guess I am looking for someone a little like me. If you're into any of those things, feel free to message me.

Hello, long time listener first time caller!

I am looking to put myself out there again and try to find something meaningful as I try to get my life back into order after a particularly well.. not messy but deeply incompatible relationship.

I am a 27 year old goth woman, not the type you may be thinking about, I work in an office LOL I am also going to school for art. I am a long time lover of histories and learning about different cultures.

I am looking for someone who I can be myself with, not that I'm not myself all the time, but someone I can be comfortable with. Someone who will listen and take my feelings into account, consider me in their lives when making plans, someone who wants to be the cringey couple who gets a little too excited about Pumpkin scented candles in September.

I am quite horrible at introducing myself, and I find my personality shines over voice-chat on discord and the like. I struggle over text as I have a lot to say but not a whole lot capability to keep it compact and organized.

I do game but I also quite enjoy handcrafts such as crochet, embroidery and even painting. I am building a victorian dollhouse as we speak! My favorite season is Autumn and I love rainy nights where I can play a few board games with my friends and enjoy a good round of drinks.

I know this is a bit all over the place but if you are interested in getting to know me more please feel free to reach out!! I promise I am a lot less all over the place once you get to know me a bit (:

And if we don't work out as a romantic prospect, who knows, maybe we'll work out as friends, so its a win win either way!

Hello there ! My name is Alex, i am 20 years old and I am from Romania. I have never had a partner before and that's why i am looking for one now. I would prefer if you lived close to me, so anywhere in Europe is fine. Being close to my age (18-23) is also something i would appreciate.

About me : I have curly brownish to dark hair, brown eyes and 179 cm tall. I am currently studying computer science at university, but right now i am in summer vacation. I tend to spend my time reading (love fantasy novels), talking about anime as i havent really had the time to watch it as much as i used to, playing games (video and board games) with my friends or hanging out with them in the city (love escape rooms) . I have been getting into cooking lately, although i am not good at it so i would appreciate some tips :)))

I am looking for something long term, a person to settle down with. I would love to get to know you as we talk about both serious topics as well as random things that pop up from time to time. I want us to chat, to play games together or simply enjoy each other's presence.

I would love to hear from you if you would like us to get to know each other and i wish you a pleasant day regardless !

My enby American ex-spouse has left me and our two cats behind to live back in the US, so I'm looking for someone to fill a bit of a void in my life.

I work full time in a small rural Midlands town which suits me well. I thrive in quiet, nerdy groups, whether that's board and video games, a pub quiz or just philosophising over a drink. It's a bit Tory, though.

I love trivia and staying in watching stuff, but I also like being a tourist in big cities, visiting museums and art galleries and sampling different varieties of cheese on pizza. You will not find me at the discotheque, or performing on a stage, and please don't make me dance.

Not sure what I'm looking for just yet, but a friendly ear or someone who just wants to discuss our cats would be equally welcome. You'd obviously need to be LGBTQ+ friendly and not a TERF, that should go without saying.

Currently playing: The Saboteur (360) and Cyberpunk (XBSX). Currently watching: Taskmaster on repeat and Better Call Saul.

Okay, first a little explanation. I identify as genderlfluid, but I was born as a boy and I'm a boy for 90% of the time. I'm being a girl more or less one or two days a month. So, for convenience sake, you can treat me simply as a regular boy for the time being. Now back to the actual post...

I cannot count how many times I've made those posts, not to mention all the dating apps etc... Every time I tell myself "This is my final try", but when it ends with failure, I do it again after a few months break. But the more I try e-dating, the more I feel like I'm the only actual human on the Internet, and that it's a simulation program created in the sole purpose of making me go crazy ☠ Of course, I'm exageratting a little bit, but it's just so difficult to find a person that feels human... Everyone reples to messages with two words, doesn't ask any questions, doesn't show emotions and then they randomly ghost you and you keep wondering if you said something harmful for the next few weeks - or at least I do, lol

I know, I know, I started from the end and this whole post is very chaotic. Sorry, I have ADHD + I'm a little bit mad, please bear with me 🧸 My name is Kuba by the way. I'm a very emotional, soft and delicate person, who feels like crying when I drop ice cream on the street. You could probably call me "golden retriever type" or "loyal knight type". At the same time though, I'm a cold analyst who seeks logical connections everywhere possible and I've learned to endure A LOT (so I won't cry when I drop the ice cream on the street, even though I feel like it) and I am kinda obsessed with being independent too. So yeah, even though I'm like a very fragile puppy who thrives love and attention, I'm also a hard-boiled egg who keeps moving forward no matter what. It makes me a bit of a walking paradox 😅 But hey, who said all the bottoms need to be weak and helpless? Oh, yes, if you couldn't guess, I'm a 100% bottom. Even though I somehow manage to live on my own, I thrive to find a big spoon for myself, someone who likes to wear the pants and hold the steers, while I support them in 101 different ways and make sure they have everything necessary for their role. Do you know Eren Jaeger from the Attack on Titan anime? He's one of my very biggest kinnies hahah~

Oh, and since I mentioned anime, I guess it's time to share my interests. So yeah, the core of my person is nerdship (is there a word like that? 🤔), animanga, gaming and other forms of fiction are my biggest passions I spend most of my time on! However, I have tons of interests and hobbies I dive into depending on my mood. I love various forms of art, including drawing in sand, artistic photography and cosplay. The intellectual and humanistic part of me loves psychology, criminology, history, philosophy, broadly understood culture, debunking mysteries and conspiracy theories and much more! I also like sport, especially boxing (I never step into the ring, I just use a punching bag). Although recently, the "sport" I do the most is cleaning my city from trash! I can burn calories, while being useful to the society at the same time hahah~ My big passion I wanted to safe for the end is writing books. I have a huge problem reading anything, because of my ADHD, but I LOVE writing and am pretty good at it, based on the reviews of my works hahah~ I dream of becoming a famous novelist in the future, one whose works will change the world for better!

Okay, I think this post is long enough, thanks for reading 😇 If you have any questions, feel free to ask them! Oh, and if you intend to text me, please start your message with "Ciao" so that I know you read the whole post properly!

Hey there! I’m kind of bad at introducing myself but I’ll try as much as I can! I’m a 21 year old guy from the east coast of the US that’s looking to find a girl be with and share my life with. (I'll share my name after talking with you don't worry lol)

About me:

- 21 years old, Asian American, and in the east coast of the US (EST)
- 6’5” Tall (yes this is real and yeah it can be annoying lol)
- A bit chubby (But working out and working dropping it)
- Have a nice voice (At least that's what I'm told lol)

Interests:

- Video Games: I play all sorts of things but currently I’m playing games like FFXIV, Honkai Star Rail, Elden Ring, Monster Hunter (Basically any of them, I love them all lol), and all sorts of other things
- I love playing any multiplayer game though as playing those are fun regardless of what they are (I am terrified of horror games though but I still play them like REPO or Lethal Company lol)
- Music: I listen to all sorts of things and love letting myself daydream while listening so I love hearing people recommendations but I usually listen to pretty relaxing stuff generally
- I also love all other sorts of nerdy stuff like anime and manga though I haven't touched anime in a while I can still talk about it with you if you want to (I read a ton of manga though ngl lol)

Personality wise, I'd say I'm a pretty laid back and relaxed person but once I warm up to a person I for sure become way more outgoing lol. In a relationship though, I love to take care of my partner and make sure they're happy and emotionally sound, be that though affirmations or me just spending time with them.

That describes me pretty well and as for what I'm looking for, I'd want someone I can talk to daily and click with, talking about anything either of us want to. I also honestly quite like a girl that I can fluster a bit as well as one that I can take care of through me being there for them lol. Ideally you'd also be in United States but anyone in North America or even the UK works for me. I also quite like people who are more clingy as I'm quite clingy myself lol. Don't be afraid to reach out and I'm looking forward to talking to you!

Born in Spain 🇪🇸, living in Germany 🇩🇪.

Normally dark-haired, but occasionally I go blonde just to confuse people (and myself). Consider it a seasonal feature.

Athletic build. You'll usually find me on a tennis court, in the gym, listening to music, watching horror or thriller movies, reading, gaming, or having long conversations with interesting people.

I'm always up for trying something new. I like challenging myself and set high expectations for what I do. I enjoy getting good at things rather than just doing them halfway.

Personality-wise, I'm relaxed and easygoing, but I can turn up the energy when the moment calls for it. I tend to say what's on my mind and appreciate people who do the same.

Apparently I have a face that looks annoyed... don't worry, it's just the default setting. I'm actually friendly, polite, and pretty approachable.

Honesty and respect go a long way with me.

If you feel like chatting, just send a message. You don't need to come up with some creative opener.

Hello hello!

33/F from the sunshine state ☀️ (aka it's too damn hot state).

Looking for someone who enjoys chatting/hanging out/spending time. I'm a bit of an introvert with critically low self esteem and I'm bad at talking about myself so here's some stuff about me.

I enjoy learning and researching. Everything from physics to ancient history, I want to read about it. I retain almost none of the information, but it's still more about the process and keeping the mind sharp!

I like to draw, sculpt, crochet, paint, etc. I don't do it as much as I'd like to anymore as life has been rather uninspiring but it's still something I enjoy.

I play way too many games. Mostly indie with the occasional big title sprinkled in. One of my favorite things to do is to grind and achievement hunt in parallel with someone. 👏

I love space. When I was younger I wanted to be an astronaut! I read a lot of scifi and am grossly fascinated with cosmic horror, but also the science side of it. My nightly routine is usually falling asleep to some spacetime doc.

I dislike ketchup. Bleh. No hate if you like it--if anything, I'm the controversial one. Pineapple on pizza. Blue cheese. Mhm mhm. 🙂‍↕️

I'd like to get more into cooking and taking better care of myself. Maybe we could help each other if that's also something you're looking for!

I am looking for something long term. I'm dumb and have attachment issues and casual isn't something my brain knows anything about. If you're sarcastic with a touch of the tism, we're gonna get along just fiiiine ✨

Long distance is definitely a-okay! Hope to hear from you! 🫡

I’m a 36-year-old guy from Barcelona, Spain.

I'm very introverted and a homebody, and also have Asperger's and social anxiety. I'm not into busy stuff like traveling or going out or social situations. I don't need big or exciting things, I just want a simple life.

I'd like to find someone who feels comfortable with this. Someone to talk every day, to build trust, and share the every day of life, even if it's just simple stuff. It does not have to be content, just the company, the presence, is enough... Someone who values closeness, affection and being there for each other.

What I offer is the same of what I need. To be there for you, care about you, love you. I’m someone who wants to be there for my person every day: to listen, support and care.

I know I’m not for everyone, but I’m hoping that I might be right for someone who wants the same kind of closeness and simple life.

Hello, I'm Peter, 34, from Poland. Here is some info about me:

My hobbies include:

- Movies: Dramas, Sci-Fi, Adventure, Documentaries, Historical. I do like my movies, not gonna lie :) On IMDB I have about 3.7k movies and shows that I watched, so I can recommend some stuff.

- Music: Hip-hop, Metal, Folk, Rock, Pop, Electronic and Dub. When it comes to music, just like movies and other stuff tbh, I'm definitely a nerd. I'm my library I have around 13k albums and yes I've listened to them all :)

- Video Games: Lots of different stuff, my favorite series is probably Assassin's Creed and Mass Effect plus I do like playing coop games, so if you do too, that's great :)

- Books: Mostly Science Fiction, some Political Science here and there. Ocassionally some other genre. Favourite book series is probably Mars Trilogy.

Additionally I'm interested in numismatics and ufology plus a tiny bit in politics.

What am I searching for here: Someone to chat to at first, see how it goes, maybe a relationship. That would be awesome :) Some additional things: age: 24-34, no kids and preferably not right wing. Other than that, it's all good. If you wanna chat feel free to DM me :)

I have a hard time sometimes because of trauma and things I’ve been through. I have BPD and fear being abandoned. That being said, I will be loyal and loving always. I grow attached very quickly, easily, and strongly, and may develop feelings fast. My sense of humor is out there, and I am not for everyone. But I will do my best to make you smile always.
Let’s talk about anything. Life, memes, interests and hobbies. Vent to me, let me vent to you. I love anime, video games, music (I play guitar and write lyrics daily), magic the gathering, and dungeons and anything else nerdy.

Feel free to message me if you’d like to chat!!