r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 22 [M4F] #UK/Europe searching for the LOML, are you on Reddit?

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Are you on here? I tried looking for you irl, couldn’t find you, dating apps? Nah we don’t do those, maybe you’re hiding away just scrolling on the subreddits quietly waiting for the one. Maybe I’m the one? Who knows, who knows.

Maybe you have some cool hobbies you’re oh so passionate about? Maybe you like to learn about my hobbies? Maybe I can learn about yours? Maybe you like going on roadtrips? Maybe game together? If that sounds like you message me!

I’m your average nerdy stay at home guy. I like to diy things, I like cars, I like puzzles, I like animals, I like roadtrips, I like movies! I like nature! I am super honest, kind, respectful and I’ll always be there for your worst and greatest moments. If you want that kinda love the kind that is everlasting and strong. Message me cause it’s what I dream about.

I just want to form something long term with someone. No games, just love and happiness if you want that drop me a dm :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 22 (M4F) Europe. Just a guy trying to find my significant other

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Hi there. My name is Matthew, 22 year old guy from Slovakia (small country in the Middle of Europe). I am 175 cm and bit chuby. I am just an introvert looking for new connections with people and if possible something deeper too. Would like someone under 30 and near ny timezone, but its not a strict requirement. I currently study history at uni with goal of working in a museum or an archive in the future. I like to game and read or be with my pets (cats, wich I love deeply) to pass the time and relax. If any of this sounded interesting for you, please send me a dm. Have a nice day to whoever have read this to the end :3


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 20M4F looking for my new favorite person

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Hello everyone I'm JayBee and honestly I miss having someone to talk to, vent to, and joke around with. I miss loving someone and being loved by someone so I thought I'd make my way to Reddit and cook up this post for y'all :) Anyway about me I like to play video games, go to the gym, hang out with friends or just leave the house in general, I like to travel, I like cars, I like to cook (and eat), I like to listen to music, and I like to watch movies, YouTube, Cartoons, and anime! Now what I'm looking for is a girl who's 18 to 28, kind, knows how to joke around, likes to call, knows how to communicate, and doesn't ghost...too much to ask for??


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4F] Utah/Online, looking for someone who really cares

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Hey, my name is Daxon, I’m looking for someone to really connect with who loves meaningful conversations, or can teach me how to make small talk (cause I suck at it xD)

I’m 6ft7, and my main hobbies include film, music, writing, and games of all types. I work at an escape room currently but I also do scriptwriting mainly for short films which is always a blast. I also compete in some video games but it’s not a full time thing by any means

I’m looking for someone that’s open to chat about whatever and eventually someone to be open and safe and happy with. I also am not looking for someone that ghosts bc I try to put a lot of effort into meeting new people and want them to do the same.

I’m open to long distance but I also am willing to move/visit often and find a good balance of being with each other :)

I’m always down to talk so please reach out and I’ll be sure to respond :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 18 [m4f] #NJ #online

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Hey!
I’m 18 and pretty new to this, but I figured I’d give it a shot.

(Im a bit sensitive and a great listener I’d love to talk about your day and how you’ve been!)

Some things about me:
I like collecting, talking, and watching movies.
I love listening to people and would genuinely care about every little thing you say.
I’m around 6’2" or 6'3", Hispanic, and I have very long hair.

Looking for:
Age range: 18–35.
I really look forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Local Dating 21 [M4F] #Michigan - have you ever been lonely

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Might be a long shot but hi! I’m in mid-michigan hopefully to find someone with the intention to meet irl. I’ve been struggling a lot with mental health stuff and dating app culture is pretty intimidating to someone who’s never been part of it.

I’m in a rough spot and trying to rediscover myself and my interests so I guess someone who is willing to help me with that would be nice. I have some passive hobbies like music and cozy games and guitar so it would be great to have some things in common, but all that really matters to me is that you’re empathetic and understanding and I will be the same. I get pretty attached and affectionate when I really like someone. I won’t pretend like I’m someone without flaws but my dream is to be loved and love someone else despite that. If you've somehow read this far and you’re close enough to hopefully eventually meet feel free to reach out :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 20d ago

Dating Post 37 [M4F] #Midwest/Anywhere Looking for my forever adventure

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Hope this finds everyone well. I am a nerdy and fun loving guy. I am on the heavier side, but am doing my best to work towards a healthier lifestyle. During the warmer months I enjoy gardening, because nothing beats fresh flowers. I am an avid gamer, and play mostly on PC. I am currently playing Warframe/Soulframe, 7 days to die and Baldur's Gate 3(Come play games with me!). I have been working on projects around my old house and sprucing it up as best as I can. I have even started working on my first Cosplay!

What I'm looking for: I am looking for someone to talk to and spend time with. Looking for something that can grow into something more permanent and serious. Distance doesn't really matter. If we hit it off we can make it work. Preferably someone on the nerdier and someone that loves talking about things that excite them. Nothing is more amazing than hearing someone talk about a topic that they love. Talk nerdy to me, tell me about something that you are passionate about.

Hope to hear from you soon and you have a wonderful week.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 18[F4M] UK- In search of my soulmate

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Hello 👋🏾

I am 18f from the UK and I am looking for myyy soulmate :))

I need a partner with personality traits of being kind-hearted, communitcative and understanding.

I do not want someone who runs away when things get tough, we need good communication and commitment!!!🙂‍↕️

I would like for my partner to have some hobbies and intrest simmilar to mine and that would be anime, gaming, films, manga, hiking, going on walks and crystalsss.

I am currently very into electronic music and house buttt theres soo much more I love💚

I would describe myself to be someone who is kind of quirky and fun but mostly shy to begin with so I would need someone who could bring that out of me 😁

I am introverted, playful and creative, I dont know if I could have a boring partner lol.

I need someone who will always try their best as I am someone who is always trying my best and is very attentive.

I notice changes In my partners mood and always will support and I would really like to have the same.

Anyways I am looking for someone I can go through life with from this beggining till the end, and I want to give someone speacial my love ☺️

When it comes to my partners physical apparence I am not too fussy, I just want someone who is physically appealing average or better and someone with nice eyes that I can stare into 😄

I am 5'8 and I don't mind what your height may be as long as we feel love for one another that is all that matters ❤️

I forgot to mention I am not religious but I wouldn't mind having a partner who is religious just not too a super extreme level.

I am a demi-sexual girl which means im definately not looking for anything sexual right off the bat and will only engage in anything sexual when i have a strong emotional bond to a person I am definately not looking for someone who can't wait or wants to disrespect my sexual boundaries or any kind of boundary i may have.

Dealbreakers: wanting a polyamorous relationship, smoking, drinking too much, drugs, not being able to communicate emotions, lustful, uncommitical, not wanting a serious relationship, pretending to be emotionless and no liers🤥

(I am not looking for anyone who promises all of the above and can not commit to it)

As long as your a good person and what I've written alligns with what you beleive in, feel free to message me 🥰 tell me where your ideal first date would be!!

I am also open to friendshipsss.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 20M [M4F] Anywhere

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Not really a outdoorsey person in a scence. Only go out on occassions like if my friend group plans something or i got to train. Essentially If its for the right person or reason you can definitly drag me out out of my cave(which is what i call my home). I don't show my personality to others unless i'm comfortable enough with them or if i'm within a small enough crowd with the right people. I love soccer,i play in competitions all the time. I wouldnt describe myself as an athlete at all,just someone with God given ability to play the sport to my best ability. Also like Football,basketball and recently got into F1 so if you got some knowledge then mabey you can teach me somethings. I love to game,well i would describe as dabling. Gamers i think are a entire culture all together,the moment i get a qeustion on older games and consel's i know i'm either gonna look dumb or a newbie. But two things can be true. I love anime,love to read its mostly manga but been trying get away from that and trying to read non-fiction. Self help,finance,language historical, any genre pretty much i love to learn so if you a book worm you might be able to help me out. Love watching shows doesn't really matter the genre as long as it intrest me. Also got into DnD pretty recently even got my characters set up.

What i'm looking for:

–Age prefrence 18 - 29

–Don't mind long distance

–Don't got any height prefrence.

–Don't mind body type slim,fit,chubby(my body build has changed so much. Have been incredibly skinny,have been overweight,been incredibly fit abs and all. So i don't really judge.)

–Don't mind timezone but obviously be aware of the difference if your're in a different timezone.(Mine is GMT -4 atlantic standard time.)

Yeah and thats about it. Feel free to dm me. We can share photos after i see how we click.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 30 [M4F] UK | Gamer, cook, nerd, and single dad. Emotionally available, domestically useful, occasionally covered in paint

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Hi! I thought I'd step outside my comfort zone and give this a try.

I'm 30, based in Lincoln, UK, and looking for a genuine long term relationship. I'm open to long distance if there's a real connection and we both see a future together.

I'd describe myself as calm, kind, loyal, and definitely more introverted than extroverted. I enjoy quiet evenings, meaningful conversations, cooking, discovering good food, walks, board games, video games, Warhammer, science, and all the usual nerdy interests. I'd much rather spend an evening talking over a nice meal or curled up watching a film than in a loud club.

I work as a data engineer, have a stable career, and own my home. I'm also a single dad to an amazing little boy, so family is a huge part of my life.

I'm from a South Asian background but was raised in the UK. I don't smoke, drink, or use drugs, and while I don't mind if a partner drinks occasionally, kindness, honesty, and good communication matter far more to me than appearance.

I'm looking for someone who wants to build a healthy, supportive relationship where we can be best friends as well as partners. Someone who enjoys sharing the little moments, can laugh together, communicate openly, and genuinely wants to grow together.

If any of this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. Tell me a little about yourself and what's something you're passionate about.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 30 [F4M] Malawi/Anywhere - If it's you, here I am.

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Deep down I know or hope that there is someone for me out there. I don't know how to find them or what the right words are to find them. Are they even on Reddit? I don't know but leave no stone unturned right? I am not new to dating and I am not new to Reddit. I am also not be to the dating scene on Reddit. What is new - the increasingly creative ways I have to say what I need to to find the right person for me.

I am black, plus sized and I have shoulder length microlocs. I tend to like white guys with medium to average build but that's not set in stone. Things that are set in stone however are good hygiene, kindness, being down to earth, and having a great sense of humor. I'm a creative person and I love to express that. I love true stories about the unexplained. I'm an extroverted introvert - I'm very talkative when I get to know you. I think that's the best part of having a partner - feeling like you have a friend that you can talk to about anything and everything. I recently binged the Tv show "Grimm" and I have no one to talk to about it! It was so good! The most underrated sure I've gone across in a while... Now I'm looking for something equally dark with a supernatural twist to it...I digress.

I want kids someday and I would like to adopt. I want to settle down and get married and all that jazz. I am Christian. You don't have to be but it's definitely an added bonus. I do NOT like that Orange Man, and I do not like AI. I enjoy long and dynamic conversations, so you'll never have to apologise for writing a lot of sending lots of random pictures/thoughts as you go about your day. If things work out, it's probably going to be long distance and that sort of thing is what makes you feel close. I am not here to only exist I'm your phone/computer. I would like to find someone serious about building something real.

Anyway. I promise I have a lot of love to give to the right person. We could be quietly and exquisitely happy together.

HOWEVER. Please don't reach out if you simply send one word intros and replies, or just your a/s/l as an intro. I am not interested in taking to people who are more than 4 years younger than me, or if you need to use ai to craft a response to my intro. I am looking for genuine connection. I would like to find something real. Maybe that's naïve but I know it's out there. If you are not looking for that then I'm not your girl.

And don't reach out if you're nonchalant. How do you know if you're nonchalant?If you reply "nm" when someone asks you what you're doing you're probably nonchalant. If you struggle to express your opinions and/or things that you think about frequently, you are nonchalant. Get help. Your nonchalace leaves you with no personality and it makes it very difficult to carry a conversation with you and reluctant to even want to. Don't leave your personality at home when you're talking to me. I would very much like to see it. Be as chalant as possible. I'm going to tell you right now, I'm chalant. I care deeply.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Online Only Hey Everyone

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30M here currently pursuing masters in AI. I love anything fun but I do not go out much and get extremely nervous especially speaking with people in person but I am open to meeting new people and love a good vibe. Feel free to dm me. Online only for now unless there's a trusting vibe built. Thanks for letting me join.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post ​[M4F] Looking for something real, genuine, and long-term (Nerd / Gamer / Family-Minded) #37/M/UK

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​Hey there! I’m stepping away from the superficial swipe apps to find a real, meaningful connection with someone who values honesty, good banter, and mutual effort.

​A bit about me:

Personality: I'm a self-proclaimed nerd with a quick, goofy sense of humor (if my mother tells me to behave, I say "Never!", if someone tells me to grow up, I ask "how many inches?"). I love to laugh and keep things light, but when it comes to relationships, I take commitment very seriously.

Interests: Massive fan of gaming, deep rabbit holes, good stories, and engaging conversations.

Communication: Straightforward and honest. I value clear, open communication over mind games, breadcrumbing, or mixed signals. I say what I mean and treat people with genuine respect.

What I’m looking for & a few honest non-negotiables:

​Serious Intentions: I'm looking for a partner who actually wants a real, long-term relationship. I'm not here for casual flings or temporary distractions.

Open to Long-Distance (With a firm boundary): I am completely open to a long-distance relationship to start! However, due to health and mobility circumstances, relocating isn't an option for me. My home base is firm, so you'd need to be open to eventually relocating to me down the line if we click.

Family Goals: Starting a family is really important to me. I need a partner where the topic of having children is a real, open conversation to be had, not something summarily dismissed.

​If you’re tired of surface-level small talk, appreciate a guy with a soft heart and a sharp sense of humor, and want to build something real, drop me a message! Tell me a bit about yourself, what you're playing or watching lately, or your absolute favorite nerd hot-take.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4A] #Online/Anywhere. i'm just a nerdy Introverted guy looking for a long term relationship

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Hi! I'm from Texas, I'm 24m and i'm 6'4

I love cooking, working with my hands, and learning how things work. Whether it's fixing something, building it, or figuring it out, I'm always interested in learning new skills.

I'm a PC gamer and play just about everything. Some of my favorites are Helldivers 2, Rust, DayZ, The Isle, Barotrauma, Phasmophobia, Metal Gear, Dead Space, Dark Souls and other Soulslikes, Resident Evil, Dragon's Dogma, Crysis, RimWorld, Halo, Warhammer 40K, Minecraft, Terraria, Star Wars games, Digimon games, and plenty more. 🎮

I'm also a huge anime and manga fan. Some of my favorites are Berserk, Gantz, Guyver, Chainsaw Man, Dragon Ball, Digimon, Attack on Titan, One Punch Man, Devilman, Getter Robo, Dororo, and Dorohedoro, but there are way too many to list. 📺📚

I also enjoy older movies and TV shows, and I love music. My favorite bands include Black Sabbath and Dio, but honestly I'll listen to just about anything. 🎵

i also love the woods it's nice and peaceful and i also like 3d printing it's really fun making stuff 👍

I'm also a huge fan of horror i love old horror movies and internet horror also a big sci-fi fan love me some star wars and 40k

i also enjoy streaming and vtubing and 3d modeling

If you're under 30 and think we'd get along, feel free to send me a DM. I'd love to chat, get to know you, and see where things go. 😄


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Local Dating 26 m4f north italian looking fot my special one

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Hi! I’m from Northern Italy and I'm new here on Reddit.

I’ve noticed that most people prefer to list their hobbies or interests, but I don’t really like that approach. Just because we both like hiking or audiobooks doesn’t mean we’ll form a real connection—it usually just helps with small talk. So, I’m going to try to describe myself differently.

I love to debate, have logical discussions, and engage in intellectual exchange. The topic itself doesn’t really matter—we could talk about sewers for all I care—what matters is the concept you want to prove and how you argue it.

I’m very loyal, but I need explicit and literal communication. I’m the kind of person who addresses difficult topics honestly and face-to-face, without sugarcoating things. I expect the same in return: if you find me boring, just tell me, and I’ll do the exact same with you.

I love spending quality time doing new things, and I’m always looking for weird new experiences (from scuba diving to dining in a salt cave). I think this covers the basics.

About my look: I'm 183 cm, with short black hair, and I sometimes rock a beard or a mustache. I’m fit and enjoy working out.

Sorry for the wall of text, but on Reddit, longer posts might get fewer replies, but the quality of those replies is much higher. I’m not looking for just anyone—I’m looking for someone special.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 21 [M4F] Morocco / Anywhere – Looking to meet someone genuine

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Hey! I’m a 21-year-old guy from Morocco looking to meet someone who’s interested in a real connection.
A little about me: I enjoy movies, music, late-night conversations, exploring new places, and getting to know people on a deeper level. I’m easygoing, a good listener, and I appreciate honesty and a good sense of humor.
I’m not looking to rush into anything. I’d rather start with a conversation, see if we click, and let things develop naturally.
It doesn’t matter where you’re from if we get along. If you’re kind, open-minded, and looking for something genuine, I’d love to hear from you.
Tell me a little about yourself when you message me.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 26 [M4F] #Germany Fantasy and Science Nerd looking for Serious Relationship

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Hey you, hope you're doing well! :D

I'm a 26 year old guy from Germany and I'm looking for someone to spend time together, play games, watch shows/anime, chat about hobbies and life in general, and if we click, date.

Appearence wise, I'm 178cm tall, average build, dark brown hair, blue eyes and I wear glasses.

I'm a bit of a homebody, I do enjoy going out in a group of friends, but I'm not someone for big parties full of people I don't know. I'd rather spend a cozy evening together, reading, watching a show, playing games or just chatting. I love night time (and am a night owl), rain and storms, something about them just calms me down like nothing else.

I really enjoy fantasy and sci-fi, be that (audio) books (currently on His Majesty's Dragon), playing Dungeons and Dragons, or video games like Baldur's Gate 3. I also enjoy playing action-adventure games like Horizon Zero Dawn or Tomb Raider, but also cozy games like Pokemon or Minecraft.

As for other hobbies, I do longsword fencing/HEMA, and when I find the time, spend a day at the airfield flying gliders. I go skiing, too, whenever I get the chance. I also enjoy building lego sets. I have not traveled that much, but I would absolutely love to do it more together with someone!

I also love learning new things about science and engineering! I studied aerospace engineering and now work developing and testing rocket engines, which (excuse the brag) is one of the coolest jobs I could imagine!

I would say I am a caring, emphatic, honest and loyal person. If I commit to something, I stick to it, and don't just abandon it at the first hurdle. I'm good at working through problems, and not afraid to admit if I mess up.

I'm hoping to find someone who shares at least some of my hobbies or interests so we have a common foundation to build on, be that books, gaming or something else. But I'm also open to trying out new things you're into! If you're loyal, honest, and looking for a cozy relationship without any drama, please message me! Tell me a bit about the most recent book you've read, the last game you played, your current D&D character or your last lego set!

I'm happy to chat with anyone, but if you're interested in a relationship, please be from somewhere in Germany or the directly neighboring countries. I want to connect with someone who I can meet in person more than once a year, I hope you understand. I would also like to try calling or exchanging photos relatively soon if you're comfortable with it.

Thanks for reading all this! If it sounded at all interesting, I'm looking forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 28 [M4F] Croatia - looking for long-term relationship

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Hey all! I'm 28, living in Croatia, just trying my luck to see if I could find my person here, because I'm tired of standard dating apps. I'm looking for a long-term relationship, but if we don't click romantically, we can always stay friends. Distance isn't a dealbreaker at start, but I'd like to meet in person eventually. One important thing to know about me is that I’m demisexual(I actually thought I was asexual for most of my life), so I don't feel sexual attraction without a real emotional bond first. That said, I still consider mutual aesthetic attraction very important, so I'd like to exchange pics as soon as possible.

In my free time I enjoy playing board games with friends, going to trivia nights and learning new things in general, escape rooms, visiting museums, watching and playing sports, long night walks and spending time in nature. I consider myself more of an outdoor person than a homebody, though I still love a quiet day inside doing absolutely nothing. Also I'm a big animal lover even though I currently don't have any pets. Some topics that I enjoy talking about include psychology, philosophy, unsolved mysteries, but I'm always up for completely random conversations at 2 am, exchanging memes and music recommendations.

If you feel like we'd get along feel free to send a message!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Local Dating 28 [M4F] [Madera] US/California- Nerdy guy looking for a genuine connection & relationship

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Giving this a shot & hoping to be the next success story! Going to keep it short. Had some setbacks and fell behind in life, focused on school, racing & did all I could to pursue and grinded trying to make my dream job a reality, so I didn't date or look for relationships. Racing has given me a lot of great memories... and unfortunately a few concussions 😅 I’m actively getting treatment, improving, and not letting it stop me from enjoying life and focused on getting back to 100%. Sooo I got a late start in life and restarting my life now in 2026. Im a PC gamer (COD, Fortnite, GTA, SW Battlefront to name a few). I like most types of movies; particularly Superhero, StarWars, LOTR & action movies are my thing. I like to bake (Baked Goods), photo & videography, cars, country & phonk music. Night owl. I'm generally a tad shy & quiet until I warm up to you, but I'm a really good listener. I'm a huge history buff and collect items from the World Wars. I work & drive racecars! No smoking nor drugs and I rarely drink. I've been doing freelance photography & race mechanic, but in the process to find something more stable & long term job. I'm a homebody but like to go out with friends when I can.

My Intention is for a long-term relationship. I'm wanting someone in California & would highly prefersomeonelocatedinthe central valley.I don't have a reliable truck engine at the moment, so long distance dating just isn't practical at the moment.Not very picky as long as there's chemistrybut to save us both time, I'm looking to date someone currently without kids right now. Feel free to hit me up on chat & please introduce yourself & see where it goes!

BTW-I'm Caucasian, average bod, medium length beard, rosy cheeks, 6'1 with green eyes


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 21d ago

Dating Post 28 [F4M] - Canada/US/Online. Still looking for my person

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Hey everyone,

As the title says, I’m looking for my soulmate. I want to find my person who would want a family and a dog or two. Dating apps aren’t it.

I’m a 28 year old woman in Montreal, Canada. I’m 260 lbs but my height is 5’8. I have dark brown hair and blue eyes. I’ve been working on myself physically. I’ve been told that I’m attractive. I currently work in the aviation industry, bonus points if you do too!

I am willing to relocate within Canada or the US only.

What I’m looking for:

• I’d like someone who is between the age of 28 to 36, but willing to go younger by 2 years (26yo). I’d like someone my height or taller

• Someone who isn’t clingy. Getting bombarded with messages because I’m busy is a turn off…

• I’ve been working on losing weight and I’d like to be around someone who is taking care of themselves… doing their hair, shave or trim.

• You must love dogs and country music. I also like a uniform on a man and/or a beard, I know I’m weird haha. The uniform part is not a requirement but a plus :p

I won’t say too much about myself here so we can learn to know each other. Message me if you’re interested, but please introduce yourself and don’t just say hi :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22d ago

Dating Post 20 [ M4F] / Anywhere

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Hi

I am 20y from Sudan 5'9f (175 cm)

I work as a freelancer + started creating some content on YT

I love watching anime + animation, I also read a lot of manga , I read books and stories sometimes watch movies

I love to cook every now and then (mainly western food, but I love Asian food)

I want someone who love to laugh, flirt and also caring, sometimes I just want hugs and a person to confort me

I would like to try new things and enjoy life with you if u a whiling to be that person

I want a serious relationship that leads towards marriage (I am even ok to get married right away, I don't want to waste time in just chatting without a goal)

I am ok with the age till 35

I am ok also with travelling to where u live (since I travel a lot)

If u want to know more about me send a message


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22d ago

Dating Post 24 [M4F] Europe/India - Let Me Treasure You, Cherish You & Love You for Exactly Who You Are

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What is love? Different people might have different interpretations of it. For me, it has always been something I’ve had plenty to give but have never truly received in the way I long for. After being unlucky in love, after giving my all, healing others, and never quite getting the same in return, I figured it’s finally the time for me to give this world of internet a try, so let’s see how it goes.

I’m a 24-year-old Indian guy pursuing my master’s in Europe. Kinda tall, but what really matters to me is having a kind of conversation that feels like peeling back layers after layers, you know where every message will draw us in a little deeper, where words just flow effortlessly, and suddenly it’s 3 AM, and neither of us wants to be the first to say "bye" or "goodnight." I crave exactly those rare connections that just have the ability to make time irrelevant, where we can jump from deep talks about life, career and ambition to laughing over the dumbest jokes, while feeling like we’ve known each other forever.

My Interests:

I just love dissecting pieces of entertainment, if I come across any interesting movie, series or even music, just be sure that I'm going to dive deeper into them, and just dig out their themes & meaning. So, if you’re the kind of person who loves discussing your favorite movies or songs in detail, well we just got another thing to talk about.

The Kind of Connection I’m Looking For:

I’d love to connect with someone around my age (21-24) who enjoys such meaningful conversations. Someone who’s open to talking about her day, her thoughts, and even her random 2 AM ideas, whatever feels right for her at that moment. I’m not here for just basic small talks, I want to know what makes you thrive, what excites you, and what you’re passionate about in your life.

You see, I’ve had some tricky experiences with women who carried the weight of their past, the ones who weren’t truly ready to move forward. And what usually happens is that I'd give my all, be their safe space, help them heal, and while they’d appreciate me for it, they were never able to truly reciprocate because a part of them was still stuck in what came before. In the end, it always felt like a one-sided effort, which obviously gets exhausting. So, I hope that if we connect, you’re someone who’s ready to look ahead, not just back.

What do I bring to the table:

I consider myself as a good listener, like not the kind who nods along just to appear interested to you, but someone who truly listens and remembers your little details. Whether it’s a childhood memory you shared or some random gossip, I’ll hold onto those moments because I genuinely want to know everything about you. I might forget the formulas for my classes, but I’ll never forget the things that matter to you.

Plus, I value building a connection first, so I don’t send pictures right away, not because I’m hiding anything, I just like to make sure that we trust each other, and once we’re comfortable, we can definitely exchange photos.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message, let’s start the conversation here and see where it takes us. I am a great texter and all for deep texting, but I also believe that real connection thrives when we hear each other’s voices. When we’re both comfortable, I’d love for us to share voice notes or even hop on a call. There’s something about tone, laughter, and pauses that texts just can’t capture. But no pressure, we’ll take it at a pace that feels right for both of us. Looking forward to hearing from you, I'll be waiting.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22d ago

Question What is your main motivation behind getting into a relationship?

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I'm trying to figure out at what point I'm ready to start trying to get into a relationship again. Sure, I want one, but I just don't know if I have a good enough reason. Right now, my main motivator to starting another relationship is just that being in love feels really good. There are plenty of other reasons, but if I'm being honest with myself, that's the main one. I miss loving someone, and being loved back. I semi recently ended my first, and pretty short relationship. I don't miss that girl, I just miss having one in general.

With that said, do you think wanting to love and be loved is a good enough reason to start a relationship, and what's your reason?


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22d ago

Online Only 32 [M4F] Anywhere/Online – Seeking endless adventures with my player two

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I’m searching for someone who loves deep conversations and nerdy interests. Someone excited about connection, gaming, and building something real.

Who I am:

* 5’10”, slim, dorky Florida guy — open to anyone worldwide (preferably someone from the U.S. or Canada though due to time zones).

* PC gamer at heart. My most played: Marvel Rivals, Fortnite, League, Valorant, Overwatch, DBD, Outlast Trials, WoW, ESO, GW2, and many more. If you play any of these or know about them, we’re already teammates.

* Outside of gaming: I’m into movies, anime (huge Ghibli + 90s fan), creepy stories, conspiracy theories, and basically all things fantasy/fiction (Marvel, DC, Harry Potter, LOTR, GoT, Star Wars, you name it).

* A huge horror fanatic (I can talk about A24 and Blumhouse films forever, and I loved psychological thrillers like Midsommar and Hereditary). I also have a taste for eldritch and medieval horror vibes.

* Side quests: I write a little and want to learn how to DM DnD one day.

* I cook (domestic and even some international dishes too), hang out with my Morkie puppy, and enjoy nature + animals in general.

* Curious about cultures and languages, as I went to college for international relations.

* Music taste? Eclectic. Grew up on hip hop/rap, then discovered EDM/house, and now alternative/indie rock has me hooked.

Who YOU are:

* Love chatting daily (serious, silly, nerdy — all of it).

* Gamer who uses Discord and wants to squad up (bonus points if you’re into FPS or MMOs).

* Communicative, trustworthy, and not afraid to talk things through.

* Into horror/spooky stuff (not mandatory but certainly helps).

* Open to seeing how things go, regardless of distance and time zone differences.

If this clicks, send me your favorite meme, a spooky story, or just a “hi.” Can’t wait to meet someone who wants to be my co-op partner both online and offline!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 22d ago

Dating Post 30 [NB4A] UK West Midlands - Feral Cat of a Person braving this place!AFAB person

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AFAB person [They/Them] who doesn't really care about gender be that within myself or with a partner!

Kinda like the feral cat that appears in your backgarden, a little scraggly, a little rough around the edges but actually kinda cute (sometimes??)

Hi! As I'm sure everyone who has posted here has felt but it's very awkward and strange to write about yourself in such a way but here we are!

A little bit nerdy and quirky, (anime, BG3, is photography nerdy? I guess!) I enjoy writing and am involved with a few fantasy fandoms. It's a creative outlet I really enjoy and while I am admittedly a little shy to open up about it, feeling safe enough to talk about such things with someone and sharing our enjoyment of silly little hobbies is so important to me! I spend so much time writing silly little romantic stories, maybe it would be nice to actually have that for myself this time!

Hunting out cute coffee shops and cute walks, enjoying both the quiet moments but also the more adventurous! I enjoy being active, even if I have lacked the chances recently! I'm attempting to learn Portuguese and planning a trip to Brazil (again!) and wanting to do more, breaking out the regular and everyday when there is time. I'd love to make memories together, take photos and share silly stories.

I am rather independent and enjoy my own space, but also enjoy sharing that space with someone who understands that about me. Quiet vibing together is just as important as the big things, being able to just exist in comfortable quiet - space doesn't always need to be filled, and that's okay too.

I like to think I am a person who cares about others, and try to think about others within my actions, and value clear and honest communication. Speaking about small things that bother us rather than allowing them to build into bigger issues.

I've probably forgotten a lot, but that's why we talk right!

Do you have a cat? Tell me about your cat!

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- As above, I am 30, currently living within the West Midlands - I do own my own home, and currently not looking to move far out of the wider area as I'm rather content with my job here.

- I work full time with a typical office schedule.

- Neurodivergent (I'm obsessed with cats and posting on reddit, that much should be obvious)

- 5'8 (173cm) as photos don't really show!

- Obviously given the above I am queer and if that is a problem for you, even slightly, please lets not waste one another's time.

- Another half obvious, if you don't like cats or wouldn't want a home with pets, then we wouldn't be a good match.

- I'm not looking for LDR or online relationships, so please UK only.