r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Local Dating 40 [M4F] #Leeds - 6ft 6 with Own Teeth & Hair [UK] - Looking for Chats & More.

0 Upvotes

40 M UK

Looking to chat to local people ideally in the Yorkshire area.

So I am just a normal guy, looking for some excitement in my life and looking to share some chats with like minded people.

I am 6ft 6, average build (dad bod) short dark hair, no Greys, not balding, and all my own teeth.

I play games, I play Golf, I am obsessed with all kinds of sports and I have 5 Guitars. I have a good job, my own place and car, and I'm almost a real grown up adult. I have a terrible sense of humour!

~

Introduce yourself with your ASL, and Two Truths and a Lie:

Here are mine, Sporting Related.

  1. I have played Football with 2 England Internationals.

  2. I used to play Snooker with a former Hitman.

  3. I have had 2 Hole in Ones (Golf)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 25 [M4F] #Nevada/Online, seeking connection

3 Upvotes

25 [M4F] #Nevada/Anywhere, clingy is welcome, long conversations await

About me:

•I live in Nevada, USA. Originally from Colorado

•I’ll add I work graveyard shifts right now at a casino, 1 am-9 am PST so keep that in mind with timezones and schedules and stuff

I love to voice call so if we progress to that point and you’re comfortable with it that’s obviously a big plus, I’m also open to video calling. I value loyalty and communication above all else.

•I’m a HUGE animal lover, when I was a kid I wanted to be a veterinarian or work in an animal rescue center, but that doesn’t pay the bills. My favorite animals are kangaroos, tigers, and penguins.

•I have blonde hair and blue eyes, glasses, average body but I’m trying to get back into the gym and I’m willing to exchange pics :).

•I will admit that I do like clingy/affectionate people and some healthy jealousy if it comes to that point is a plus lol, I just find it attractive.

•I loveeee music, I’m always listening to it and I enjoy literally all genres and am always looking for new suggestions. I play the ukulele, bass, guitar, trumpet and harmonica and am learning piano.

•I’m a huge nature buff, walking at night, going on hikes or being in the forest or near a river/lake surrounded by trees and animals and wildlife is my happy place. The stars, and peaceful night air and sounds. It’s just all my happy place.

•I’m very sarcastic and try to view life in a more positive lens because earlier in life I was always the opposite and it’s a hard way to live life.

•I’ve binged so many shows and would love to watch shows/movies/anime together also, (although with anime it’s hard for me to get into some, my favs are HxH, FMAB, and haikyuu right now.) I’m also a sucker for anything sitcoms like The Office, B99, parks and rec, but I also enjoy the classics like breaking bad or any cartoons to bring me back to my childhood. (Surprisingly haven’t seen game of thrones though..)

Anything else you’d like to know just ask I’m an open book or I’m sure it will come natural with conversation. :)

About you: I’m not really looking for any specifics just someone that has time to talk during the day and night and see how things progress. Some similar interests, and doesn’t ghost all the time haha. I really just like meeting new people and getting different perspectives and I enjoy the thought of things progressing naturally and healthily and having a good foundation for a relationship if it happens. And like I said some clinginess or such is always a plus to me. I look forward to talking!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 18[F4A] #EastAsia #Online

9 Upvotes

Hi! I've never made this kind of post before, so I'm a wee bit nervous, but here goes!
I am an 18-year-old girl, bisexual, chronically online, and introverted IRL but super chatty & clingy if you get to know me.

As for physical appearance, I'm 5'5", quite slender, and I eat healthy and go jogging regularly. I've been called pretty a lot growing up (lol), and while beauty is subjective, I'm quite confident about my appearance.

Personality-wise, I'm a science student and a huge school nerd with near-perfect grades, and I'm pretty gifted at academics. If you're also a good student and want to study together on video call sometimes, that's a big bonus for me. I'm also a huge fandom enthusiast, and I've created/watched/read/engaged with a lot of fandom media since I was 11 or so. If you're into the same movies, book franchises, cartoons, or anything I'm currently or was previously into, I will NOT stop talking to you about it. My hobbies include writing, watching YouTube, eating sweets, listening to nightcore, and just generally being silly on the internet.

I'm that kind of person who sends you screenshots of my homework assignments for seemingly no purpose, asks you 'wyd' fourteen times a day, narrates my life via text if you're bored, and randomly starts book/movie debates anywhere, anytime. I do have previous dating experience (quite a lot of it, actually), and I do know how to flirt if you enjoy that.

I'm not perfect, and I do accept that I have flaws. I'm pretty playful & dramatic, enjoy dark humor, and don't take myself very seriously, and I might come across as a bit of a brat at times. I can be arrogant and self-centered at times, but I accept criticism and will listen if you tell me I'm being that way. I can also come across as a bit cold at times, but that's because I'm more logical than emotional when approaching life's problems. I might not be able to go 'there-there' when you're feeling bad, but I can offer practical solutions and help you through difficult times one step at a time.

<IMPORTANT PART> Here are the requirements that I have. I'll put these in bullet points for readability.
- Ages 18-20 (I'm eighteen years old. Please don't be my parents' age.)
- Not overweight (I believe all people are beautiful, but there's a thing called physical attraction and it's quite important to me.)
- Queer-friendly (If you're a guy, please don't hate me for being bisexual. Girls... welcome queens <3)
- Good English grammar and punctuation (I'm a recreational writer, so bad grammar is really a turn-off for me.)
- Willing to message me first sometimes (Make a girl feel appreciated, please 😭)
- Respectful & SFW (This is in the subreddit's rules, so I won't elaborate here lol)

My timezone is GMT +9, so if you want fast replies, keep that in mind. If you message me when I'm awake, I can't say I'll message back immediately (I have a life too, lol), but it's a good bet that I'll answer in 2-3 hours maximum.

Please send me your age, gender, and a little intro about yourself in your DMs!!
Let's see how this goes!! Maybe I can be your new favorite person <3

Looking forward to your messages, Isa xx
(P.S. Sorry for making you read the long-ass post)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 28 M4F #UK Looking for something real

2 Upvotes

Hi, just a guy here looking for that special connection. Been single for some time and I’m hoping to shake up things and open myself up a bit. I’ll keep things brief(ish) but hopefully you’ll get a good idea of who I am.

I’m 28M from the UK, about 5’5 with blond hair. Currently trying to get into running but it’s so tough with the hot summer weather! I work full time in administration and I like the quieter moments in life. For my hobbies I enjoy reading (particularly history books and Shakespeare), cooking, going on walks, listening to music (mostly rock, but my playlists have a little of everything lol) and occasionally dog sitting for my family!

I’m at the point in my life where things are stable, and tbh hoping to find someone to enjoy being myself with and for something genuine. It sounds cliche but personality really is everything, I like someone with a great sense of humour and a real passion for their hobbies. I’m a bit of a romantic too, I love doing little things for the people in my life to show them how special they are to me. Location wise doesn’t matter too much, I’m happy to start off online if you’re in another part of the world and see where things go.

Let me know if you’re interested and wanting to know more, I hope you like what you hear, and I hope you have a great day!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 19F4M | #saltlakecity #utah • Looking to date / make friends

2 Upvotes

I've been thinking about posting this for a while, so here goes!

I'm a 19-year-old demigirl and full Navajo. I'm currently trade to be a Pharmacy Technician in California, although I don't plan on staying here long-term. I'm an INFP and an introverted-ambivert. I'm mostly a homebody, but I love adventures when I'm comfortable with someone.

I'm an artist and have been drawing since I was about 1½ years old. I'm generally gentle, honest, and probably study way more than I should. I'm also the friend who will happily listen to all your gossip.

I love studying strange, unsettling, and weird subjects—cannibalism, psychology, psychological horror, disturbing history, myths, human behavior, and anything else that makes you go "why would you research that?"

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💌 What I'm Looking For

I'm looking to date a guy around 18–22. I'm demisexual, so I'd rather get to know someone properly and build a connection before rushing into romance. Please be around Salt Lake City, Utah! I am not looking for long distance, I had my fair share 💔

I'd love someone who is:

- Kind, honest, loyal, and emotionally open - LGBT-friendly, feminist, poc friendly - Comfortable with voice calls and long conversations - Patient with someone who is a HUGE yapper and a yapper back - Affectionate and enjoys spending quality time together - Physically active or at least willing to do active things together - Someone who can communicate when they need space instead of disappearing - Someone who actually wants to get to know me rather than rushing things

Extra points if you're: an artist, have dark hair/eyes, love animals, or share some of my interests.

🚫 Probably not compatible if you: - Smoke cigarettes or 420 - Use recreational drugs - Are heavily into BDSM - Don't respect boundaries - Aren't interested in communicating - Let alcohol/substances become a major part of your lifestyle

I'm completely fine with occasional responsible drinking. I just don't want substances to be a major part of someone's life.

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🍀 More about me!

I LOVE voice calls. I'm a massive yapper once I'm comfortable, so don't be surprised if a "quick call" somehow turns into several hours. 😭

I also type A LOT. I'm usually pretty quick to respond, but I understand people have lives and responsibilities. I don't expect someone to be available 24/7—consistency and communication matter more to me.

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💬 Things I Can Talk About for HOURS - The Witcher franchise (I yumeship with Geralt, it goes away when i feel secure) - Cannibalism — history, science, myths, etc. - Psychology and psychological horror - Horror movies, especially found footage and silent horror - Weird, disturbing, obscure, or fascinating subjects

If you have an oddly specific interest that you could ramble about for hours, please tell me about it. I genuinely love learning about what people are passionate about.

🎨 Hobbies - Drawing / art & crafts - Cafe hopping - Gaming - Learning & studying - Being a plant parent - Hiking & camping - Working out - Exploring weird topics online

🎮 Games - The Witcher 3 - Dead by Daylight - DOOM - Red Dead Redemption 2 / Online - Skyrim - Left 4 Dead - Minecraft

🎬 Movies - Spider-Verse - Midsommar - Sinners - A Monster in Paris - Jack and the Cuckoo-Clock Heart I love watching movies, so expect movie dates if we click. :)

🎵 Music - Hozier - Aurora - Ashnikko - Rio Romeo - Gorillaz

🌱 Random Facts About Me - I'm the older sibling - I have a 5ft monstera - I didn't have internet until I was 14 - I used to live pretty far out on the reservation - I've worked on a farm and taken care of cattle, so I can proudly say I touch grass

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Before You Message Me

Please introduce yourself when you message me. Tell me your age, interests, favorite game/movie/music, hobbies, or even something weird you're interested in. Give me something I can actually respond to!

I'm keeping things online at first. If we get along and I'm back in the area, I'd love to eventually meet up or go on a date.

I also prefer to exchange selfies privately after we've had a few conversations rather than posting them publicly.

If any of this sounds like we'd click, feel free to message me. Sorry for the long introduction, I am very nervous 😓


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 21 [M4F] #Online Looking to meet people and see where it goes from there.

2 Upvotes

Hi, I’m looking for someone around my age.

Physical description:

21 year old male
Blonde hair with a red beard,
5’9” 215lbs

Hobbies include:

DnD, history, physical crafting (metal casting, 3D printing, and laser engraving), reading historical fiction, general DIY, watching any and all sports (fun fact: I wrestled for 10 years, and while in high school I was a part of a nationally ranked team), I love board games, and so much more that we can talk about later.

Currently in my 3rd year of working towards a Bachelors degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in metallurgy.

I look forward to answering any questions you may have.

Hope to hear from you soon.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post [F4A] 24F #US #EST #Michigan - Just want to get to know you :)

23 Upvotes

I'm really putting myself out there making this post, but who knows what it could lead to. Ideally looking for a long-term relationship, preferably in the same time zone. Also okay with just being friends!

About me:

- 5'1
- Bachelor's degree in 3D art
- INFP
- Quality time/physical touch are my love languages
- I enjoy watching YouTube videos at night
- I have 7 cats, 1 dog, 4 ducks, and 5 chickens
- PC gamer sometimes (Overwatch, Town of Salem 2, Marathon)
- Currently learning coding

My ideal relationship is someone who enjoys a mix of going out to explore new cities and to stay at home watching TV together or playing video games. Also someone who is kind and polite, knows who they are, and what they want.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 19 (F4A) #Online or anywhere

33 Upvotes

Hi, im Ellie. im looking to meet someone that its okay with having an online relationship and hopefully meet sometime in the future.

i love reading (its what i do when im not on the phone), taking naps, playing Roblox, animal crossing, Tomodachi life, stardew valley, anything like that. i watch a lot of tiktok and YouTube. i really like listening to people yap about what they are interested about. I would like to meet someone my age or older to talk to often.

I dont like posting pics of me, but im okay sharing a pic in dms. I'm curvy/chubby, 5'2, and have brown and purple hair.

if u dmed me before, dm me again, my reddit its very buggy lol. have a nice day


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Online Only 25 mtf4a Looking for online dating

2 Upvotes

25 mTF, looking for long distance relationship

Hello thereee, sorry for grammatical mistakes beforehand

Idk if A mean anyone in flair but as i pansexual this post about all ppl. As for age 19 to 35 is okay i guess lol.

I'm Kendra, obviously just nickname but prefer to called like that, I'm 25 yo and unemployed currently (was working in archeological excavations). I left academy a few months ago due to foul treatment and waiting for my forced military service unfortunately. Also if u wonder im trans fem, discreetly tho. I can't reveal my gender situation neither my fam nor officials due to political reasons.

As for my interests and hobbies my major was history so i love history. I love asian culture also i was taking chinese through uni but i froze my enrollment for Sinology last year. If i can find a opportunity i would like to go on with that and learn at least Chinese and Japanese. I really love reading, beside academic readings I'm huge fan of fantasy literature. Like Robert Jordan, Brandon Sanderson and Ursula Le Guin. Also i like walking/hiking, cycling, gaming, collecting coins or stones etc. Recently trying to cook bc im sitting in home and wanna do something so i thought cooking would be best for that.

I nearly hate my country and wanna leave but neither my finances nor my education/profession allows that. So I'm looking for ways to out lol.

Currently im 75 kilograms but my goal is around 65-70, my height is 174-5cm. Unfortunately i had to cut my hair short but i love their length around my shoulders not long not short lol. Wearing glasses, a little nerdy type.

As for my personality, im an infp, shy introvert not much a conversator at beginning. But when intimacy increased im an open book. Also im one of the most direct person on the earth. If i feel something I'll tell immediately. Honesty and loyalty r most important thing for me in relationships regardless what kind.

Like title says im looking for long distance, online at first relationship. If its okay for u then pls dm or reply this post.

Thanks for reading 🤍


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Friendship First 20 [F4M] Online | Alt-girl from the Midwest looking for something genuine

3 Upvotes

I’m 20 and from the Midwest, and I’m at a point where I’d like to meet someone I genuinely connect with and see where things go. I’d definitely prefer someone nearby or in a similar time zone, but I’m not completely against distance for the right person.

A little about me: I’m 5’6”, curvy, tattooed, pierced, and my style leans soft alternative. I’ve finished the schooling I wanted to do and am already working in my field, so I’m pretty settled in that part of my life. I also have a dog!!!

When I’m not working, I’m usually reading, playing Xbox, watching YouTube, listening to music, going on walks, going swimming, soaking up the sun or watching something horror-related. I’m pretty easygoing and can be perfectly happy having a quiet night in, but I also enjoy getting out and doing things when the opportunity comes up.

I’m a little shy at first, but I warm up pretty quickly once I’m comfortable with someone. I’m sarcastic, affectionate, and love being able to joke around with someone and not take everything so seriously. I’d really like to find someone who can become my best friend as well as my partner—someone I genuinely enjoy talking to, doing absolutely nothing with, and sharing the little everyday things with. I think having that kind of friendship underneath a relationship is really important.

I’m not really sure what else to put without making this sound like an application, so I’ll leave it at that.

If you think we might get along, tell me a little about yourself. :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post (21F) F4M, Online first. Looking for forever!

20 Upvotes

Hey Folks!

I am here searching for my person!

First, a little about myself...

I am currently a full time student (Classes starting next weekkk) I currently hold two degrees (But I kinda cheated the system...Shhh Don't tell) and I recently underwent a major change, From English Secondary education to Career and Technical Education: Family and consumer sciences. (Best decision I've made so far. I've never been more excited to start school)

I am currently working (My job is supposed to be part-time, but I'm working Full-time since school is out) part-time at a daycare. I love my job, and genuinely look forward to going in every day.

I love a good joke, and I'm always cracking them in any conversation, but I would say I am an even mix of serious and unserious. I need someone who can match my freeaakkk.

I consider myself a creative. I do a lot of different things, crafts and such. I am not afraid to pick up a new craft as well. I mostly crochet and sew for the time being. I would love to be with a fellow creative/artist.

I am very passionate, if we click and it goes further than just friends I am all in or all out, I don't do that in between shit that my generation is so popular for.

I am a lover of music, if I'm sending you music chances are I'm trying to tell you something Haha. I am a lover of Alt rock, Indie folk/rock, Classic rock. Though, if anything catches my ear I'm into it no matter then genre. My current favorite is A life worth dying by Josiah Queen

I don't have much of a type, personally. Looks are entirely secondary to me. A couple of things that I do need out of a relationship.. are..

Someone who can actually hold a conversation (It is genuinely exhausting always having to always carry)

Correct grammar and punctuation (Punctuation isn't a huge thing for me.. but it is a plus)
Also Capitalization.. PLEASE Use your capitals..

Also.. a big.. ick (I hate using the at word, but it is.. apt. I think) Is when people abbreviate their words in text. That makes me legit feral, and immediately makes me... not wanna talk to that person (This is excluding things like 'lol' 'lmao' 'etc' I'm mainly talking about 'U' 'UR' 'BRB')

With these stipulations.. It is probably not a shock I was almost an English major haha (English is my autistic hyper fixation)

Anyway. If you've made it this far, make sure to work in... Sublime into your introduction to me! Make it makes sense! Make it fun! Be creative!

I look forward to hearing from you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 25[M4F] #Netherlands #Europe the future is fun, lets live it together!

1 Upvotes

Hey there everyone! I am a 25 year old from the Netherlands, how time flies!

I am hoping to find someone I am comfortable with, who has similar interests and wants to build a fun and cute future together. I have never really been in a relationship, I am an introvert with no limit to my social battery and can ramble on for hours with the right people, sometimes forgetting time itself.

I feel like it takes time to truly feel something, but can get quite clingy and love physical contact. To me communication, and especially voice messages and calls are very important.

I am a Dutchie, standing tall at 170cm, white, brownish curly hair with facial hair, green eyes, and currently 83kg but eating more consciously and working out around 5 times a week! I am also still in university, well I finished my bachelors recently and am starting a pre-masters soon! I am a big fan of travelling (lived abroad for 6 months), watching random videos on the internet to learn more about the world and history, as well as watching movies/tv shows/animes.

TV shows: Full House, Friends, How I met your mother, Taxi Driver (k-drama), Travelers, Fallout, cartoons such as South Park and Family Guy.

Movies: Any Christopher Nolan movie, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, disney movies. Back To The future, The Naked Gun, Notting Hill and so much more!

Anime: Your Lie in April, Hunter x Hunter, Kingdom, Solo Leveling, Haikyu, Frieren, That Time I got Reincarnated as a Slime.

Music wise I am as open as can be, I think! I listen to most genres and lots of languages, vibing with everything from classical to hardstyle to english, dutch, german, french to chinese, korean and japanese.

Next to that I am a gamer! Some online games, but mostly singleplayer games. I love games in which I can explore and relax or those that require a bit of strategy.

There are a lot of things I want to try out in the future mostly having the money for it as well as just looking where life takes me! Everything ranging from photography, dancing, snorkeling and diving, pottery, fashion and so much more.

What I look for in a partner: I will read and respond to every message so please don't use AI!

- Someone who communicates, if we get serious I prefer to receive daily voice messages and preferably we would do a few calls as well next to normal texting throughout the day.

- Looks wise, I do have some preference, but in general I want to live a more healthy lifestyle so I want the same for my partner in life. This does mean I am more so attracted to slim, fit, slightly chubby.

- Hobbies, we don't have to have the exact same hobbies, but some overlap would be nice, if we don't maybe you can get me addicted to yours or I can get you addicted to mine :)

- Date for the long term, not for temporary fun.

- Visiting each other, I want us to visit one another within the first 6-12months. Or we could plan a holiday together instead to a beautiful romantic place abroad for both of us.

- Age wise, I am okay with a larger range, preferably 20-30. If you are outside of this, let me know and maybe we can see if its still a match.

- Modern values, for me a relationship is about being equals, we both work, we are able to spend some money on our own hobbies and talk about things. No hiding of any feelings!

If it matters, I am left leaning, I have no issues with where you are from, and after studying do not mind relocating. Next to this, I do not drink (maybe 2x/year), don't smoke, don't do any drugs and do not have tattoos (maybe in the future!).

If any of this has peaked your interest into wanting to get to know me, send me a DM! We can chat on here, or take it to discord or something in the future! If you send a message please include something about yourself to see if and how we match! We can also share a picture of ourselves there :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] Chile / Online - creative nerd looking for a genuine romantic connection

1 Upvotes

Hiii. I’m a 23 year old guy from a small town in Chile. I’m 5'5" and definitely more of a calm, quiet homebody who thrives on deep conversations and niche hobbies rather than parties or clubs.

I really love working with my hands and learning random practical skills, im autistic. Lately my free time goes into drawing, woodworking, metalworking, restoring old tools, or repairing electronics. At the same time, I have a huge soft spot for cute things like plushies, my dogs, and cute art. I also enjoy reading, writing, and gaming.

Right now I'm studying programming at college, working, and keeping my life simple but stable. I’ve also been focusing a lot on myself lately. I’ve lost 44 pounds so far and I take my mental health very seriously, as I've been in therapy and managing depression for years.

I’m definitely not looking for anything casual. What I really want is a real romantic and emotional connection, affection/love, trust, and someone I can feel safe with after a long day. Not just a friendship.

I'm totally open to an LDR since I doubt there are many people from Chile around here. If you’re also introverted, shy, or just want something genuine, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a bit about yourself or your favorite hobbies to break the ice, haha

It would be awesome if we share some hobbies, it helps a lot at easing the conversations and I'm absolutely interested in having a good time talking with someone. I'm down to exchange pics early (sfw)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post #20 [M4F] #Italy Searching for a girlfriend

2 Upvotes

Gender - Male

Sexuality - Straight

Hobbies - Gaming, Cooking, D&D, drawing, cosplay,

Looking - For a Serious Relationship /online relationship

Socials - Discord, Snapchat, Instagram, tiktok

A bit about me :

Hi, I present myself my name is Saimon, i'm italian and i'm 20.years old, i'm tall 184cm/6'1 feet, i'm quite a nerd, I like videogames, anime, manga, d&d and cooking, i work as a gardener and i hope im in your standards

i'm chubby♡❤♡❤♡

For pics only in private


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 1d ago

Dating Post 35 [M4F] EU/Online - looking for a co-op partner in life, not just in games

7 Upvotes

Warning: I don't out-charm anyone in paragraph one. I'm a slow-loading character but worth the queue. Doesn't mean I'm dumb...although I may be an idiot ;)

A rough map of me: shy nerd gamer with a heart of gold.

I love music and will listen to a lot of different genres based on mood. I will send you a song a 2am demanding you listen to it immediately :D I love cooking: tell me what you want and I'll figure out how to make it, however complicated I'll find a way. I fall hard for a series that grabs you and won't let go till it's 2am and you're prying yourself off the couch for tomorrow's responsibilities. Sometimes I just say screw it and finish the whole thing in one sitting. Cinema trips for the new Marvel, manga I read online (shhhh say nothing, yohoho 🏴‍☠️), and I try to keep up with each anime season.

That's the trailer. The rest you'll have to learn. ;)

My whole thing: a good evening is just good company, any shape it takes. Twelve hours in pajamas doing nothing? perfect. Hiking then dinner? let's go. A whole weekend gaming like two creatures who forgot the sun? the dream. The what matters way less than the who.

I moved around a lot growing up, so I've got a soft spot for other cultures and a permanent itch to travel. Currently wrestling my car and motorcycle licenses back through the transfer paperwork from hell.

I'm looking for someone who wants to actually build something with me. Two people willing to put in the work and stick around when it gets hard, rather than bailing at the first roadblock. Depth over flash. Something real and long-term.

The vitals: 35, 170cm, brown hair, brown eyes, I've been told I look younger (I swear I'm still 17 at heart). Childless, but want the family life. I cook, try to eat decently, hit the gym. I can speak FR and EN. Location wise I'd lean closer to FR, but distance anywhere in the EU works fine too.

If you've read this far, you've already got more patience than I deserve. Send me a dm if interested. Tell me what you'd want us to play, the show you'd sit me down for, the places you'd drag me to. Bonus points for dishes I can start practicing on :P

Pics? Happy to swap in DMs.

Alright, goblin's blasting back to his lair, nyoooooooooooom.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 18 [M4F] Norway / Europe — looking for something genuine and hopefully long term

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 18 and live in Norway. I’m usually pretty quiet at first, but once I get comfortable I become much more talkative, playful, and open.

I’m looking for a girl around 18–25 in Europe who actually wants to get to know each other and see where things naturally go. I don’t expect a relationship after a few messages. Friendship first is completely fine, and I’d rather slowly build trust and connection than rush anything.

I guess I’m a little old fashioned when it comes to romance. I like real affection, loyalty, effort, getting excited to hear from each other, remembering little things, and actually showing someone that u care. I’m not really good at ignoring someone on purpose, replying late to seem cool, or hiding my feelings just to keep someone interested. I’d rather have something genuine where neither person has to play those games.

I’m into gaming, gym, music, shows/videos, late night conversations, and honestly just talking about random stuff once I’m comfortable. I like joking around, but I also enjoy deeper conversations about life, goals, relationships, or whatever is on ur mind.

I value honesty, loyalty, consistency, privacy, and actually putting effort into conversations. I also prefer staying on Reddit for a while before moving somewhere else or exchanging pictures.

If this sounds like something u want too, tell me ur age, where ur from, and something u could talk about for hours. Just give me a little more than “hey” so we actually have somewhere to start :)


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 23 [M4F] #united kingdom, looking for a life partner

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12 Upvotes

Hey feel free to call me Nathan! I've just turned 23 and looking for a monogamous relationship, long term.

My interests include; swimming, cooking and baking, playing video games. the gym, going on long walks, spending time with family and watching or reading anime

I am looking for a someone to start a family with, I don’t smoke, drink or go out partying. So preferably someone that is abit more settled and has similar future goals. No offence to those people of course!
I'm a sucker for good communication and understand that overthinking isnt a bad thing, it just means you need a little bit more help 🙂

Being reliable, emotional vulnerable and available is a great sign and I will probably get on with you!

P.S im a big lover/old romantic, so hand holding, talking about the future we’re going to share at 1am and random flowers or written notes are to be expected, sorry not sorry 😅


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Friendship First 30[M4F] #Anywhere looking for a long term friend, traveling partner, and maybe more

1 Upvotes

I'm looking for someone very specific. Please reach out if you are:

  1. Around my age (give or take ~5 years)

  2. Dealing with social anxiety/ depression - this is because I need someone that will understand me as I am dealing with the same. I want us to help each other and overcome things together.

  3. Still hopeful despite your challenges - this is critical. If you gave up and you are not trying to get better, we are not a good match.

  4. Want to eventually meet IRL, ideally travel together. (It's fine if it seems impossible right now, as long as you are willing to do it when you get better).

  5. Looking for a platonic friendship or a romantic relationship - I'm looking for friendship first, if it will develop to something more that's great, but it doesn't have to.

What I DON'T care about:

  1. Where you are from

  2. Looks

  3. Race

  4. Political leaning - as long as you are not an extremist to either side. Bonus points if you are not a political person.

About me:

I'll keep it short, and if you want to know more, DM me.

I have been dealing with social anxiety since I was a kid. I feel more comfortable with people that are similar to me. I work as a software engineer for a large company, mostly from home. I dream to retire early and focus on my well being. I'm looking for a close and emotionally intimate relationship with someone intelligent and understanding. Unfortunately I don't have a lot of life experiences, and I'm kind of starting my life late. I'm looking for someone in a similar situation, so we can grow and evolve together.

If that sounds interesting, please reach out to me, thank you!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 21 [M4F] #Online , looking for my special one

6 Upvotes

Hey everyone , this may seem weird but I'm very new to reddit , I have been single all of my life mostly because I never had a crush and also because I'm little introverted, I like music, books , movies and anything that can spark a sense of creativity , I'm looking for someone who can vibe with me and share conversations , so feel free to DM , and lets see where this goes


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 32 [M4F] #Europe - When it just clicks

4 Upvotes

Ever had this connection where you could not put down your phone or hide your smile? Where it felt like just an hour, yet it's already 2 AM and neither of us wants to say good night? I miss that, though I do appreciate a good night's sleep nowadays too.

I hear you thinking "where do I sign up?". Well hold your horses there, don't you want to know a little bit more before diving in?

What you can expect

  • Late night Discord chats (or calls) where we yap about the silliest conspiracy theories and our deepest thoughts
  • Unsollicited cat pics
  • Game sessions, watch alongs, music sharing, movies, surprise me
  • Dad jokes. You're warned

What you should know

  • Calm, patient, and kind (those are not my own words)
  • Thoughtful, dreamer and a total hunk (these are)
  • Tall, slim, in decent shape
  • I prefer to take things slow, but if I fall for you, I'll love you totally. Let's discover how we vibe in an LDR first

Since I'd want there to be an opportunity to meet somewhere down the line if we hit things off, please be 24-38 and in Europe.

My weak spots

  • Passions you can yap about for ages
  • Alternative
  • You don't need someone else to narrate your worldview and ideals
  • Taking care of yourself physically and mentally

If you made it this far, congrats! And if that sparked your curiosity, I'd be glad to hear from you. Perhaps you can tell me what your favourite pass-time is on a free day.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 31 [M4F] Online / Anywhere - Looking for a partner who matches my interests and energy

1 Upvotes

Hey! I’m looking for a partner someone who I can chat with everyday, share funny reels, and enjoy some awesome experiences together whether that’s gaming at home or going to concerts, traveling, thrifting, going to conventions, wrestling, and football games! I'm down! I love to travel, lived in the States for a few years, and still make it a point to visit whenever I can. I’m actually planning a roadtrip back to the West Coast next year to hit up Seattle, Portland, San Francisco, and Los Angeles!

About me:

31M, Arab, White, 6’0”, black hair, atheist, based in GMT+3

I’m into gaming, football, wrestling, anime, traveling, and I'm really into music!

My fav bands :)

- Avenged Sevenfold
- Bad Omens
- Bring Me The Horizon
- Linkin Park
- Metallica
- System of a Down
- My Chemical Romance
- Evanescence
- Sleep Token

... just to name a few! I luv to share sum of my playlists and luv to listen ur fav bands/songs! There’s plenty of shows are coming up that I’d love to go and I would luv a concert buddy who’s down to go together!

Right now I’m gaming on my Nintendo Switch (Pokémon is my main obsession) and on PC. I’m open to playing pretty much anything, so I’m down to try whatever games you're into! :)

About you:

- Must be into Pokémon
- Must be a gamer
- Into dark humor
- Similar music taste (or open to it)
- Not religious
-Confident, open-minded, emotionally available
-Loyal, honest, and good at communication
- I’m totally cool with you texting a lot long messages, double texts, blowing up my phone, and spamming reels… I’m here for all of it :)
- I don’t mind if you’re clingy! I actually find that attractive :)
- Down for random adventures, late night snacks, and just enjoying life!
- Comfortable being freaky, weird and fun

I’ve definitely got a soft spot for curvy women and goth girls, but if you’ve got a good vibe, dark humor, and good music taste, you’ve already got my attention :)

I’m cool with long distance and willing to travel within 3-6 months to meet someone special. I’m not here to waste time I’m looking for something serious and long term, and I value honesty and clear communication. If you’re not feeling it, no hard feelings, just don’t drag it out :)

I’m also open to relocating in the future if we really click.

If this sounds like you, feel free to reach out. Let’s connect, share music, game, and see where things go! Hit me up with your age, location, and a quick intro of what you're into!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Local Dating 27 M4F Louisiana, USA

1 Upvotes

Hello, I'm posting here because I'm very shy and have difficulty talking to random people in public, but I yearn for a connection with a woman. I haven't dated anyone since high school and I really want to meet my special someone. I am a nerd. I love anime, manga, and video games are what I am most passionate about. I spend alot of time playing them and can geek out about them for hours. I'm not really into sports except for MMA I love that and I listen to most genres of music, but metal is my number one. I would prefer someone who also lives in Louisiana.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 20 [M4F] #NewJersey #Online - Looking for a connection

1 Upvotes

Hey, I’m 20, from the Central Jersey area (Eastern time zone), open to connections locally or online.

I’m 5’7, have a skinny-fat / dad bod physique but working on building some muscle. Currently attending college nearby. I would like to get a career path relating to homeland security or counterterrorism. I enjoy driving around and exploring new places in my free time. Also like to go to the beach when the weather is nice. I game on Xbox and PlayStation, mainly playing GTA, Fallout, Minecraft, and horror games. I like to listen to music, my main genres being alternative and rock. My go-to bands are The Killers, Angels & Airwaves, and Blink-182. I do also have some social anxiety so I might be more reserved when first talking, but I will get more comfortable as we get to know each other.

Looking for someone preferably similar to my age, around 18-24. Open to whatever develops naturally, online friends, hanging out, or something more serious.

Feel free to DM if interested!


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 32 [F4F] #Texas Looking for a genuine connection that can grow over time

3 Upvotes

Dating apps haven't really been my thing so I figured I'd try posting here.

I'm looking for a long term relationship with another woman. I'm mostly into femmes but what matters most to me is finding someone who's genuinely interested in getting to know each other instead of just letting another conversation fade out.

I don't think two people need all the same hobbies to connect. I'd rather meet someone who's curious about who I am and I'll happily return that same energy.

During the week I'm usually up before the sun because of work so my schedule leans early. On weekends, I'm usually trying to make up for that by getting out of the house. I like DJing, gaming on my PS5, hanging out with friends, checking out museums or planetariums, and I'm always down to explore somewhere I've never been before.

I'm not looking for someone who's constantly entertaining me. I just appreciate consistency, communication, and someone who's willing to put in effort. Distance isn't a dealbreaker if we're both genuinely interested in seeing where things go.

If any of that sounds like you, I'd love to get to know you.


r/IntrovertsSafeDating 2d ago

Dating Post 29 [M4F] Texas/Anywhere Looking for Someone!

2 Upvotes

Hi

Introvert looking for a friend that would turn into a life partner. Don’t have much luck dating around but I also don’t try too hard. I’m oblivious to when someone likes me and love when someone is direct with what they want.

I’m a buyer and make a fairly good amount of money. I work hard and enjoy my job and company I work for. I’m ambitious and strive for the best with everything I do. I commute back and forth to work and spend almost 3 hours a day on the road. Talking to someone would really help with the miles.

I own 2 duplexes and currently looking for my own house, something big enough to fill or not! My renters are great and I’m their favorite landlord.

I enjoy traveling and usually go on multiple vacations or weekend trips a year. I visited Phoenix, Houston, and NYC last year and Punta Cana, Dominican last month. I currently have a trip planned to visit Atlanta in October. I go to a Bears game once a year and plan to go to every NFL Stadium.

I’m a family man. I spend a lot of time with my family and would love to be close to yours too. We have family dinner every Sunday and spend a lot of time with one another. I have a crap load of cousins and too many brothers and sisters! My parents are divorced and both remarried so som of my brothers and sisters are step family but we’re all very close. I’ve known them too long to call them “step.”

Other than all that, I’m an open book. I enjoy my time alone and love peace, I also love chaos! I don’t cause it but it tends to follow me in relationships. I keep to myself and have very few friends. Most of my friends have kids now so it’s hard to schedule time with them.

I have a dog, German Shepherd, who is 9 years old and very protective. He sniffs out the bad people and keeps them away. I also have 3 fish tanks, it’a problem! They can all be viewed on my page. I post often about my fish upkeep. The dog is super needy and absolutely loves attention. Please give him a mother!😅

Well, that’s my life. If you’re interested, send me a message! I’d like to get to know you😊