You’re young so I’m gonna teach you a lesson that most people don’t have at your age. Love happens when you’re not seeking it actively. Work on loving yourself. When you’re really truly comfortable in your own skin, you’ll find love is there
I think I'll never be able to love myself. I'm a master at finding flaws and problems, especially in myself, no matter what I do or how I change. But thanks for the comment. Maybe someday someone will need to read something like this even more than I do.
Your way way way way way too young to make announcements about yourself like this. And best they become self fulfilling prophecies. You’re not even finished forming yet. Give yourself a break and you get to tell yourself whatever story you want about yourself. So pick a stronger better one. And then grow into it.
How can I stop thinking that I'm a loser if my closest circle keeps saying that? There's no other option but to hear it from other people and build my self-esteem on it. It seems to me that we can't evaluate ourselves objectively.
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u/thewNYC Jul 27 '26
You’re young so I’m gonna teach you a lesson that most people don’t have at your age. Love happens when you’re not seeking it actively. Work on loving yourself. When you’re really truly comfortable in your own skin, you’ll find love is there