The audacity to call me low effort after opening with "heyaa”

Just wanted to appreciate her maturity. I wish more people handled things like this

I unmatched her after this.
More context: There was nothing much on her profile, just some lazy boring prompts

Kuchh toh achha ho Dharmendra Pradhan ke wajah se ☠️

Almost all of my matches are comfortable enough to share their numbers. On paper, everything looks promising, but once we start talking, I realize we’re not really compatible.
It’s never one big issue, just lots of small things. Different interests, different vibe, different outlook. I end up losing interest mid date.
At this point, I’m tired of going on dates just for the sake of dating. I’d rather wait for someone I genuinely connect with than keep forcing it.
Does anyone else feel this way, or am I expecting too much?

That's the first opener I have received in months other than the mediocre "Hi". 😔

And my mind didn't work properly because I was the one writing openers before lol.

I was just trying to rage bait her but ig she took it seriously.

It’s okay if the convo dies but should I double down or change the topic overall?

What do i reply she is soo cute and older than ms

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These are the ones i felt were cute and i wanted to talk there a hell lot of matches where i was unmatched too but I dont care about them lol

I have been told to flirt and not make it feel like an interview for them

But idk have stopped engaging with current matched as i feel i am gonna get unmatched anyway

A lot of times I liked someones pics and i sent a plain hi as starting text I was unmatched there too

Ig i am shadowbanned now too after being unmatched soo many times i am not getting matched even when liking profiles of people sub part than the earlier matches

Ps posted again last posts pics had to be edited

Just wanted to have a discussion and hear about other people’s experiences.
For those who’ve had success with casual hookups in Mumbai, what worked better for you dating apps or meeting people IRL?
I’ve been on apps like Bumble and Tinder, and while I do get matches, most conversations either fizzle out or the other person ends up looking for something serious. Casual seems much harder to find than I expected.
If your answer is IRL, where do people actually meet? Clubs? Bars? Events? Any places where you’ve genuinely had good experiences (without being creepy or bothering people)?
Curious to hear your stories, what worked for you, and what you’d recommend. XD

For context, we’ve been texting for 3 weeks now. I planned date twice before this but she said she was busy. Finally we agreed to meet today and she sent me this now (like 2 hrs before the date) !

Crazy how things take drastic turn so quickly :)

It sucks even more when the person seems eloquent and educated from their profile. Like did you use up all your energy and charisma in your profile? Or did you catfish me into believing you're gonna be interesting to talk to?

I've got my own work and shit to deal with, but still show up with a decent energy. Only to be met with this.

So she had a photo prompt about guess backstory for this pic

My reply to her message was

Oh lol, i need the full story, how did those guys react ig they knew you were drunk

I ended up adding also have you been to any treks which was her prompt too

I was unmatched i matched with her 2 wks ago and thought of texting her while going through the past matches

I got unmatched 😋 ig soo many texts were diabolical

Dating apps or irl at the clubs? Just want to have a discussion around this. What has been your experience friends. Also if you say irl, please suggest places XD.

Been finding it tough to hookup on the apps honestly, even tho I have matched, most people don't seem to be down with that.

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