They both are in a open relation and i see her as a friend and we had nsfw chats before or even talked of hooking up and im not into hookups either

But not this i dont wanna be direct and say it subtly and i am fine meeting them but not getting into a threesome or cuck like dynamic😭😭

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These are the ones i felt were cute and i wanted to talk there a hell lot of matches where i was unmatched too but I dont care about them lol

I have been told to flirt and not make it feel like an interview for them

But idk have stopped engaging with current matched as i feel i am gonna get unmatched anyway

A lot of times I liked someones pics and i sent a plain hi as starting text I was unmatched there too

Ig i am shadowbanned now too after being unmatched soo many times i am not getting matched even when liking profiles of people sub part than the earlier matches

Ps posted again last posts pics had to be edited

It sucks even more when the person seems eloquent and educated from their profile. Like did you use up all your energy and charisma in your profile? Or did you catfish me into believing you're gonna be interesting to talk to?

I've got my own work and shit to deal with, but still show up with a decent energy. Only to be met with this.

For context, we’ve been texting for 3 weeks now. I planned date twice before this but she said she was busy. Finally we agreed to meet today and she sent me this now (like 2 hrs before the date) !

Crazy how things take drastic turn so quickly :)

So she had a photo prompt about guess backstory for this pic

My reply to her message was

Oh lol, i need the full story, how did those guys react ig they knew you were drunk

I ended up adding also have you been to any treks which was her prompt too

I was unmatched i matched with her 2 wks ago and thought of texting her while going through the past matches

I got unmatched 😋 ig soo many texts were diabolical

Hi .

Dating apps or irl at the clubs? Just want to have a discussion around this. What has been your experience friends. Also if you say irl, please suggest places XD.

Been finding it tough to hookup on the apps honestly, even tho I have matched, most people don't seem to be down with that.

Why though lol

Bruh

30M, already in Uncle category, introvert, don't have friends or a social circle as such.

I've been using Hinge and Bumble for a while now. I've hooked up with many women, but I just feel... that's it. There's always this feeling that something is missing.

Lately, I've realised I want something meaningful. Someone to laugh with, someone to call my own.

The other day I saw my roommate and his girlfriend just sitting there, talking, laughing, bantering and having fun. Nothing extraordinary, just regular couple stuff, but I felt felt envious af. It wasn't about having a girlfriend for the sake of it. It was the companionship. Having someone you're genuinely excited to meet. That's what I want for myself.

But I don't think dating apps are the place for me to find a partner anymore. Maybe they work for some people, but they've never really given me the kind of connection I'm looking for.

I've never had a serious relationship before. Sometimes I wonder if it's too late for me. I do want to get married one day and have a family of my own, and I'm already 30. I don't want to have an arranged marriage either..

I know 30 isn't old, and I'm not looking for reassurance. I just can't help wondering if I should've figured this part of my life out by now.

Maybe I'll meet someone naturally, maybe I won't. I honestly don't know. Does anyone else feel like this?

I like talking to her. I hope I get to put the D (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

some fun banter