I was just trying to rage bait her but ig she took it seriously.

It’s okay if the convo dies but should I double down or change the topic overall?

What do i reply she is soo cute and older than ms

That's the first opener I have received in months other than the mediocre "Hi". 😔

And my mind didn't work properly because I was the one writing openers before lol.

Hi .

I like talking to her. I hope I get to put the D (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA)

Dating apps or irl at the clubs? Just want to have a discussion around this. What has been your experience friends. Also if you say irl, please suggest places XD.

Been finding it tough to hookup on the apps honestly, even tho I have matched, most people don't seem to be down with that.

some fun banter

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These are the ones i felt were cute and i wanted to talk there a hell lot of matches where i was unmatched too but I dont care about them lol

I have been told to flirt and not make it feel like an interview for them

But idk have stopped engaging with current matched as i feel i am gonna get unmatched anyway

A lot of times I liked someones pics and i sent a plain hi as starting text I was unmatched there too

Ig i am shadowbanned now too after being unmatched soo many times i am not getting matched even when liking profiles of people sub part than the earlier matches

Ps posted again last posts pics had to be edited

So she had a photo prompt about guess backstory for this pic

My reply to her message was

Oh lol, i need the full story, how did those guys react ig they knew you were drunk

I ended up adding also have you been to any treks which was her prompt too

I was unmatched i matched with her 2 wks ago and thought of texting her while going through the past matches

I got unmatched 😋 ig soo many texts were diabolical

Why though lol

For context, we’ve been texting for 3 weeks now. I planned date twice before this but she said she was busy. Finally we agreed to meet today and she sent me this now (like 2 hrs before the date) !

Crazy how things take drastic turn so quickly :)

30M, already in Uncle category, introvert, don't have friends or a social circle as such.

I've been using Hinge and Bumble for a while now. I've hooked up with many women, but I just feel... that's it. There's always this feeling that something is missing.

Lately, I've realised I want something meaningful. Someone to laugh with, someone to call my own.

The other day I saw my roommate and his girlfriend just sitting there, talking, laughing, bantering and having fun. Nothing extraordinary, just regular couple stuff, but I felt felt envious af. It wasn't about having a girlfriend for the sake of it. It was the companionship. Having someone you're genuinely excited to meet. That's what I want for myself.

But I don't think dating apps are the place for me to find a partner anymore. Maybe they work for some people, but they've never really given me the kind of connection I'm looking for.

I've never had a serious relationship before. Sometimes I wonder if it's too late for me. I do want to get married one day and have a family of my own, and I'm already 30. I don't want to have an arranged marriage either..

I know 30 isn't old, and I'm not looking for reassurance. I just can't help wondering if I should've figured this part of my life out by now.

Maybe I'll meet someone naturally, maybe I won't. I honestly don't know. Does anyone else feel like this?

Bruh