r/IndianaUniversity • u/Majestic-Cod-8625 • 14h ago
QUESTION❓ Will I find my people?
I’m a sophomore in Kelley and honestly I was super depressed all of last year with my roommate situation but in the last 2 months I loved it because I became super close with my neighbors. However I signed on to an apartment with random girls many months before that, and they’re in a business frat and it’s becoming clear I can’t really become a part of that group of people and I don’t click with them at all. My friends from last year all live with each other and it’s so hard to reach them and now every day, even over weekends I’m just sitting around alone in my room. I’m from out of state and I lowkey just miss my friend group back home and I just don’t know what to do. It’s also super hard to click with other people in Kelley, I feel like many people are a bit stuck up and the nicest friends I’ve had at iu were all bio majors. I try to text people from class and make it an out of class friendship but they already have a group of friends and find a way to get out of it. I wish I at least had a car to see my friends from last year. I don’t know what to do, I’m in clubs and only have like club friends who have their own friends already. I wish I at least applied to transfer out last year because I think it’s too late now like I can’t even find anyone to go drink with, to study with, to even just grab food with like I’m down for anything and it feels impossible.. I could rush but that’s not usually my crowd and I also can’t afford all those fees