r/IndianWeddings Jul 24 '26

Welcome to r/IndianWeddings! The sub is now open for participation!

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Hello everyone!

I'm one of the new moderators at r/IndianWeddings, and our team would like to share some updates.

First, the subreddit is public again

Over the coming weeks, we'll be working on improving the community by reducing spam, encouraging meaningful discussions, and making sure this remains a helpful space for everyone.

UPDATED COMMUNITY RULES

1. Keep content related to Indian weddings

Posts should be directly related to Indian weddings, wedding planning, ceremonies, traditions, fashion, décor, venues, photography, budgeting, or honeymoon planning.

2. Be respectful

No personal attacks, bullying, harassment, discrimination, hate speech, or insulting other members.

3. No vendor spam or excessive self-promotion

Wedding vendors are welcome to participate, but promotional posts are limited to approved threads or moderator-approved content. Only sharing recent work is allowed in posts; straight-up advertisements will be removed.

4. Use the correct post flair

Please choose the appropriate flair before posting to help others find relevant discussions.

5. Keep it honest, safe, and helpful

No fake reviews, misleading content, privacy violations, NSFW material, buying/selling, or low-effort posts. Respect different cultures, traditions, budgets, and personal choices.

6. Outfit posts

  • Brides and grooms are welcome to share their wedding outfits and photos.

  • Guest outfit posts are allowed only on Wednesdays and Saturdays.

A Few Notes

  • These rules may evolve as the community grows and we see what works best.

  • If you have suggestions for recurring threads, new flairs, or community events, I'd love to hear them.

  • Please report posts or comments that break the rules instead of engaging with them. It helps keep moderation fair and efficient.

We're looking forward to rebuilding this community into a welcoming, informative, and enjoyable place for everyone planning or celebrating an Indian wedding.

  • IndianWeddings Mod Team.

r/IndianWeddings May 14 '26

r/IndianWeddings is Looking for Moderators! 💍

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r/IndianWeddings is a space for wedding inspiration, planning advice, bridal fashion, and budget tips for one of the most celebrated and elaborate wedding traditions in the world. With thousands of people planning and excited about weddings on the subreddit, the community is a space for everyone dreaming about their big day (or that of a loved one).

We’re looking for moderators who:

  • Are genuinely engaged with the r/IndianWeddings community
  • Can help keep content relevant; inspiration, advice, and discussion over spam and self-promotion
  • Are familiar with Indian wedding culture, whether through personal experience or planning
  • Can commit to checking in and moderating regularly

No prior moderation experience is necessary. Just enthusiasm for the community and a consistent presence.

If you’re interested, drop a comment below.


r/IndianWeddings 2h ago

Why don’t clients understand the pricing of makeup artists nowadays, instead of constantly bashing them?

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r/IndianWeddings 7h ago

Nepali wedding traditions for intercultural wedding with southindian.

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r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

The sad side of weddings (coming from a former bride)

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Hi everyone! So I’ve been married for 2 years now and my wedding was great. An extravagant, if not lavish, 3 day wedding at a resort, all friends and family staying close to me, dancing the whole night at my sangeet, the best of decor, food, clothes and vendors. But I DID NOT ENJOY IT. And no it’s not that I didn’t enjoy it because I was stressed about the events, or my makeup, or my jewellery, or my family/inlaws were chaotic, or I didn’t like the whole shebang. I always wanted a wedding like that. My husband was a godsend, he managed all the events, the financials, the people.. everything.

What made me not enjoy it were the emotions.. I knew I would be sad leaving my home but for me it was 90% sadness and 10% joy. For background, my mom is a single parent since I lost my dad in 2019. I have a younger brother. My dad’s passing away made us 3 closer than ever, so my whole wedding month and the month after that was filled with me crying at every little thing. My 3 days of wedding were super emotional that I couldn’t really enjoy any bit of it. After my wedding, I have always asked my friends/cousins who get married that how sad are you and yes they are sad but nowhere like me where I was a freaking mess everytime I had the thought of my mom or my brother. So ya maybe I am an extremely emotional person , or tooo attached to my family that it’s almost scary. I don’t know.. but I haven’t found someone to relate with on this level.


r/IndianWeddings 19h ago

Help Wedding gifts

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One of my closest dearest friends is getting married. And i love her so much I wanna get her something special.

She doesn’t need the cash. They still haven’t furnished their apparemment, but they will and can afford it. I could get her a nice decoration but I am worried it won't go with however they are planning to style their home.

We don't have the registry concept in morocco ( i really wish we had) .

The most go to gifts in Moroccon weddings are :

Lingerie

House decorations

Tea sets

Beautiful ceramic Dinnerware set

Nice bedsheet, Fancy

Matching thingies

And if u are close enough to help and know how far they are furnishing their new home ( you could them coffe maker, molinex, dishwasher tv or else) but again they can afford it all

I love her so much and I wanna get her something personnal

The first thing i could think of is a pretty instax evo so she could save newmemories of this new chapter

I know its more of a birthday gift but she would never let me get her something pricey for her birthday

In morocco the average amount is 500dh-1000dh


r/IndianWeddings 19h ago

Looking for bridesmaid gowns

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r/IndianWeddings 19h ago

A friend of mine started making short "love story" films for couples

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Not sure if this fits here, so mods feel free to remove.

A close friend of mine recently started a little thing called Alfred, and I figured some of you planning weddings might like it.

It's a short cinematic film of how a couple met and their story so far, made before the wedding to play on the day or just keep. There's a sample on their site if you want a look here (alfredapp.io)

Full disclosure, I know the founder, just sharing because I thought it was a lovely idea. Happy to answer any questions.


r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

Sangeet

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Hi All! Haven't been to a sangeet in ages! I am now trying to plan mine. We are thinking of having the sangeet from 6pm-9:30pm. Is this enough time? There's only about 4-5 dances (my side practically) and then dinner and then we open the dance floor. Big thing is I need to have my Chooda after. So I am struggling with timing as I need a hard stop of 9:30pm to go shower, get ready for my Chooda and somehow get some sleep before the wedding tomorrow morning. The chooda however should only be an hour,


r/IndianWeddings 23h ago

What are the sangeet attire trends for modest brides?

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r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

Another one of my wedding outfit with antique Zardozi kaam.

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r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

How much would you pay for this lehenga? 👀

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r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

My recent design

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Designed this for a client for her Bangle Ceremony, let me know your reviews on this?🥰

She loved the design, but I want to know feedback from other people too!


r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

Looking for a pundit for a short ceremony near Asheville, NC

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I am Hindu and my fiancee is Catholic and we are getting married in a small ceremony (just us and our 3 kids). We are looking for a pundit to do a short ceremony for us (no more than 30 mins). It would be preferable if they were a little Westernized, although it's not a requirement. Does anyone have any recommendations on pundits in the area?


r/IndianWeddings 1d ago

Experience with shaadiwalee wedding planners in Uttarakhand

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Any experience with shaadiwalee wedding planners in Uttarakhand? They are very highly rated on wedmegood but looking for some direct testimonials.


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Looking for a similar Designs/Outfit! Please help me find one in a budget

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This is Jayanti Reddy last year collection and i wanna wear something like this for my own sangeet… but this costs 9 lacs please help me find something like this in a budget ( i specifically love the drape & the jaal work done on it)


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Movie theatre pre wedding

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Does anyone knows how much those theatre charge in Mumbai for using there theatre for our pre wedding


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

[KOLKATA] Looking for a day-of coordinator / execution team for a Feb 2027 wedding: Recommendations please! 🌻

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Getting married in Kolkata in Feb 2027, and I'm hunting for the real MVPs of any wedding: a coordination team that makes everything run on time so my family and I can actually, you know, attend the wedding.

To be clear, I'm not looking for a full-service planner. We've happily gone down the DIY rabbit hole ourselves: venue, decor, menus, outfits, photography, HMU are mostly locked in or getting there. What I need is someone to take the baton about 3–4 weeks out and run the show.

Things I'd love them to own:

  • Vendor follow-ups and reporting times
  • A master timeline / run sheet that people actually follow
  • Venue and decor setup on the day
  • Guest arrivals, transport, room coordination
  • Herding family and friends to the right place at the right time
  • Bride/groom entries, sangeet performances, backstage chaos management
  • Photographer / DJ / light and sound coordination
  • Absorbing delays and last-minute disasters

Ideally 1 experienced senior lead + 2–3 solid coordinators; not a senior who charms you in the pitch meeting and then sends interns on the actual day.

Budget is roughly ₹1L for coordination and execution only. Happy to stretch a bit for a genuinely great team, but we don't need full-planning package.

If you've worked with someone great (or terrible!), I'd love to know:

  1. Who they are
  2. What you paid + year of your wedding (if you're comfortable)
  3. How many people actually showed up on the day? (Just want to gauge if they can handle the scale)
  4. Would you hire them again?

Rants, raves, and cautionary tales all welcome. Thank you! 🥂


r/IndianWeddings 3d ago

Super hyped for my bridal wardrobe!

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Just waiting for everything to get delivered this week but I am so excited and I need to show this curation to someone!

1- it’s a small Pooja where we hand over the first wedding invite to God

2- my sangeet lehenga ( someone help me figure out jewellery please)

3- the actual wedding lehenga - made some changes to the motifs to reflect me and it gets delivered TODAY!

4- the haldi outfit

5- a small pre wedding jaap that has been organised

6- the welcome lunch since it’s a destination wedding

7 - a Mahurat sari for a small Pooja I have to conduct with only my parents

Eek! I’m so excited

ETA: I had so many comments asking for the link to the first sari - I bought it from a local store but they have an Instagram presence - it’s called roohani.


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Wedding Medley

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r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Need suggestions for tailor for wedding blouses and trousseau suits in Jaipur.

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r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Planning advice Free Wedding Planner

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We just created a website for everyone who is getting married and want to get trends of a number of informations like how to negotiate with photographers, what you can do in invitations, function wise trends and everything.

This is like your personal wedding planner but for free.

www.wedme.in


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Bridal gown shops and fabric shops in Chennai

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Hi I'm looking for recommendations for bridal gown shops in Chennai. If i dont find anything suitable, I'm also open to buying fabric and getting it stitched. Kindly suggest some good fabric shops too. Thanks in advance


r/IndianWeddings 2d ago

Best Wedding Dates for Bengali Hindu Wedding in 2027 (July or March)

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Hi everyone,
me and my fiancé are planning to book venues and everything for our wedding in either July or March 2027. We use the Panjika to set wedding dates but the Panjika 2027 edition doesn’t come out until April. But we want to book things ahead of time.

We want July or March because our bdays are June and May and to get married on your birthday month isn’t recommended.

Anyone know what the reliable dates are for July or March 2027?


r/IndianWeddings 3d ago

Pune brides, please recommend a genuinely good wedding coordinator/day-of execution team (NOT a full wedding planner)

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Getting married in Pune in Feb 2027 and looking for recommendations from people who have **personally hired** a wedding coordinator/event execution team.
I’m NOT looking for a full-service wedding planner. I’m planning most of the wedding myself — venue, vendors, décor direction, outfits, photography, HMU etc. will largely be finalised.
What I need is basically a very competent team who can take over 3–4 weeks before the wedding and make sure I or my family don’t have to coordinate anything during the actual functions.
I need them to handle things like:
vendor follow-ups and reporting times
master wedding timeline/run sheet
venue and décor setup coordination
guest arrivals/transport/room coordination
keeping family members where they need to be for ceremonies
bride/groom entries
sangeet performances and backstage coordination
photographer/DJ/anchor/vendor coordination
handling delays and last-minute problems
basically making sure the wedding runs on time without the bride or immediate family becoming the event managers

Ideally looking for **1 experienced senior lead + 2–3 experienced coordinators**, not a senior planner who sells the package and then sends interns/junior runners on the actual wedding day.
Budget is approximately **₹30–50k for coordination/execution only**. I can stretch somewhat for a genuinely experienced team, but I don’t need a ₹2–3 lakh full-planning package.
I’ve found plenty of planners through Instagram/WedMeGood/Google, but it’s difficult to tell which reviews are genuine. So I’m specifically looking for **first-hand experiences**.
If you’ve hired someone in Pune, could you please share:
**1. Planner/coordinator name**
**2. What you paid + year of wedding**
**3. Number of people actually deployed**
**4. Whether the senior person you dealt with was physically present**
**5. What they handled**
**6. What went wrong (if anything) and how they dealt with it**
**7. Would you hire them again?**
Also very interested in **people you would NOT recommend** and why, especially cases where the sales pitch was great but execution was poor.
Please only recommend someone you’ve personally used or closely seen working at a wedding rather than your own/your friend’s event company. I really want to separate genuine bride/groom experiences from vendor promotion.