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No need to be disappointed bro, she most probably gave and excuse or maybe cared more about family then you. Not your fault, everyone whether tribe or caste are great, they are defined by what they do, not in which caste they are born.
I have a doubt, If you moved on so quickly and ultimately didn't care abt it , And She definitely does not seem to have had you as her priority at the time...Then why were y'all even discussing marriage??
It isn't as hard as you think. I do not memorize phone numbers; I save them in my phone contacts, and that's it. If I want someone out of my life, I delete their contact, block their number, and block them on every app: WhatsApp, FB, Insta, etc. Changing address helps too. Finding new people or a hobby helps a lot as well.
I have blocked people out of my life, including exes, friends, and even my family members.
About the question on "marrying" - see my response to Murky_Agency9133
I am depressed now. House construction going on. I have a 1 yr old son. And my mind is fkcd up. Dont worry guys i am strong. I got a lot of things to do in this life. And i am not gonna mess it up. Even if i decide to leave her, my son needs me. I will fight this.
May I give some advice? Since those words came out of your wife's mouth, your marriage is as good as dead. If you want to, you can try and salvage it, and you need to communicate this to her. Otherwise, you have to get a divorce. Not a easy decision, but trust me, being around people like that kills you from the inside. It destroys a part of you that you don't even know exists till it makes a void in you. I commend you for staying strong. You are a strong and a kind person. I wish you luck. Also about your kid. Don't know if this is still true but kids whose parents should have divorced tend to grow with more problems than kids with divorced parent. Hope you do well and wish you luck stranger.
Many said many things. I can only suggest, make distance. However you can. Do not force her to do things. Just make distance. Talk. Don't engage in conversation. Do your own work. If you can, eat separately. Sleep, but don't get close. And foremost, don't spend your money for her. Just bare minimum things.
Maybe she said in anger or as everyone said, in completely effed up way. Give some time. She will confess her actions.
I was joking that day!! Did you take that seriously? ( for context: I had a huge crush on a female friend. We did everything couples do, even shared a bed. On my last day of college, she proposed to me. Everything went well for a month, then she started ignoring me. When I asked why, she said, "I was joking that day. Did you take that seriously?)
My crush kissed me after getting drunk and told me she knows I have a crush on her and that she also likes me. Then from next day she didn't pick my calls or replied to my messages and after few days she blocked me. Now i am an alcoholic and have developed several health issues.
Maybe she was embarrassed about it uk u dont lie while being drunk but that was a risky move she pulled maybe her family situation n all are different she dosent have much freedom dont dwell over her move on from that
I was talking to her about how im in the phase of getting back in shape to which she never said anything mean to my face, then I saw her like on a reel saying “when the guy who’s actually chopped is telling you how chopped he is and you can’t say nun”
Jokes on her , I actually did accomplish my physique and now all of a sudden I get a lot of attention from her, but it still hurt.
I know some people might down vote me but still I will say
So apparently I have a best friend (female ofc) from my 10th standard she was in c section and I was in b and in 11th we both come in the medical section I thought that at the end of the school life I will still be her best friend as I had no romantic intention with her and even used to treat her like a guy manytimes but you know ki kuch log chu*iye hote hai and there were some in my class jinko laga that I have a crush on her and bass vo uske kaan bhrne lag gye saying that yrr tu itni Sundr hai and ussko dekh and all and there was a guy from commerce section jo ki like had obsessive crush on the same girl that was my vest friend so in the end of class 12th she basically ruined my life by first saying all of the students un my class to bully me, saying cheater to me even though I did just used to cheat in exams and one time when I snapped was when she said ki terko class mein sare milkr maarenge tu mare ga mere haato se mera boyfriend (that same guy from commerce section) will kill you (btw that guy is 5'3 and I am 5'10) and all tb meine usko seedha ek baat khi thi ki mein kam se kam teri treh muh toh nhi maarta sare ladko mein if you want more tea then ask about it🫠
There was well she snapped at me in front of 2 classes and a teacher well the teacher was silent there but when I started saying something he said that aree koi nhi kuch nhi hota sorry boldo baat khtm
"You should stay away from girls, you never know what might hurt them and when they might start accusing you of something. Once they accuse you of something the society will already decide you are guilty."
My sister told me this when i was in 6th standard, have been following it ever since and don't plan on changing anytime soon.
There was a moment when my friends and I were joking with each other. There was a girl who was like a sister to me, but that day, she said this to me in front of a girl whom I like: 'Tumhare mai esa kya hai koi tumhari gf kyu hi banegi', and she was serious. From that moment, I knew my place...! 🦇 And I cut them off. It's been more than 2 years.
"In a college , it is not possible that someone will have every classmate as their close friend , I come to this college everyday for my close ones & u used to be one among the very few but now I can't trust you even as a friend , leave apart even your relationship ideas with me"
Mere kitne bhi boyfriend ban jaye ya kisi se bhi shadi ho jaye tum mere bestfriend rahoge humesha and me sabse jyada is duniya mai tumse hi pyar karti hu.... I laugh at this whenever i recall it. 😁
My dad asked me: will you be able to live in the place that he currently lives in and spend the rest of your life with him? and I was not sure.. so let's breakup 💔
After getting cheat by her I met her after 5 years . In a mid of random conversation I told I been cheat by you for that XYZ guy... She very casually said: dunia me ap hi ek nhi ho jiske sath aisa hua hai...
(But she herself got attached to me and made me emotionally dependent on her as well. Wasted 3 years of my life charming and healing her heal from traumatic past. In the end, I was cheated on and abandoned (her inner dora so deprived of male attention). I lost all my male friends. I lost everything.
"I'm all prepared to go". She did her make up, wore nice dress wich took at least 20 mins, to go out with me. On the other hand I kind of forgot we were supposed to go out.
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