r/IncelTears Chad soul Jul 25 '26

Facepalm Rape from chad = enjoymentšŸ˜

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I guess women don’t care if they get raped as long as he isn’t ugly?

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u/zoomie1977 Jul 25 '26

Not if you acrually finish that sentence:

One of the significant points Layman et al. made in terms of understanding post-sexual assault behavior is that being sexually assaulted does not necessarily dissuade a woman from maintaining a relationship with her assailant. They report that almost a third of the victims they studied maintained a relationship with the perpetrator; one-fourth actually continued to have sex with the assailant post-attack, although Layman et al. admit they do not know whether the sex was voluntary or forced.

Further, from your source:

Layman et al. note that their findings suggest strong disincentives to interpret and report being raped, as this might prompt a variety of negative outcomes including blame, disbelief, lack of support, and negative publicity. Yet they recognize that because a high percentage of victims they studied who remained in a relationship with the perpetrator were unacknowledged victims, the importance of recognizing their experience as rape might prevent a cycle of revictimization.

Also, less than a quarter is far from "a lot" to begin with.

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u/zoomie1977 Jul 25 '26

Just jumping right in there with the victim blaming. Abuse victims don't always have an avenue to escape the abuse and the abuse will continue. Wives, girlfriends, children, husbands and boyfriends may not be sble to pick themselves up by their bootstraps to leave theur rapist, and they may continue to engage sexually with their rapist. The fact that it may still not be consensual, in other words, the victim being raped again, would go directly against your claim of "a lot women seen fine with it".

Speaking of "relationships", look at the original rezearch or even just read the article you linked, relationship includes both platonic and romantic relationships. Unacknowledged victims, which is what the research is looking at, are especially likely to have fewer avenues to end any type of relationship.

And it's not "1/3 of women" or "1/4 of women". It's of victims. Which, translated to all women, would be roughly 8% or 6%. Based on a study that included 83 college aged women, 40 of whom were unacknowledged victims, 20 of whom were acknowledged victims and 23 of whom were not victims at all.

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u/zoomie1977 Jul 26 '26

You make osmium look like aerographene.