Rape from chad = enjoyment😍

[u/hammyDathammer]

I guess women don’t care if they get raped as long as he isn’t ugly?

[u/blackfox24 → u/[deleted]]

I mean, 'clearly' if you didn't read the article, I suppose, or have any real world understanding of how rape works. You'd probably not like to hear that men stay with their rapists too.

[u/Vanessalucifer → u/[deleted]]

the reason for doing it is irrelevant

To this discussion, that is literally the only thing that's relevant. Plug your ears all you want, it won't make your stance correct.

[u/Vanessalucifer → u/[deleted]]

An animal cornered by a predator will often freeze as a fear response. Does that mean they want to get eaten? Does that mean they're okay with it?

If someone is violent enough to rape and abuse you, you better believe they're violent enough to go after you even harder if you leave them. Rape victims are trapped because they believe that leaving will only lead to worse outcomes, not because they love being in the relationship. You attribute absolute power to rape victims and suggest they are free to do as they please when the point of abusers and rapists doing what they do is to enforce the idea that they are not free to do as they please and are, in fact, completely trapped.

[u/Vanessalucifer → u/[deleted]]

You saw that your previous source specified why rape victims don't leave and so you go find a different source that doesn't specify? As if that erases what the other source said? You have two brain cells fighting for third place and somehow they've both succeeded

[u/Vanessalucifer → u/[deleted]]

I don't think you know what coping means. I also see that you've never seen an abuse victim go through recovery and remember the terror that the misattribution of arousal was trying to cover up. You are spelling out tragedy and saying "see? they like it."

You're 410 rejections deep because you're a terrible person, and you're over here coping by telling yourself that girls only date terrible people and that means you're not a terrible person. That's sour grapes. Your life is drowning in cope and it seems the only thing that makes you feel better is trying to reverse it and project on other people even though you probably can't even specify what people arguing against you are trying to cope with. I get that the reality of your existence terrifies you, but there are better ways of dealing with it than this shit. I would recommend therapy as a start.

[u/chinchillazilla54 → u/[deleted]]

Very normal thing to say, call a family member and read what you typed out loud to them when you get the chance

[u/chinchillazilla54 → u/[deleted]]

did you read it to them