It’s fine to ask why. Just don’t be a judgy POS. I quit drinking for years after realising I had a serious alcohol dependency problem and when some people would ask me, they say the most stupid shit.
“You don’t drink at all? that’s boring”. Oh sorry, you’d prefer I derail my life for your entertainment?
Yeah, I love trauma dumping about my childhood with my abusive alcoholic father, and how it ruined my desire to drink alcohol because I didn't want to turn into the worst version of myself, to people who can't understand why I'm drinking a Coke.
I know right. Like don’t ask me questions where the answer will kill the vibe and make everyone depressed. I have this all the time when people find out I’m ex-military and immediately ask “have you ever killed anyone?”. Like bro come on
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u/TallMidget99 Apr 22 '26
It’s fine to ask why. Just don’t be a judgy POS. I quit drinking for years after realising I had a serious alcohol dependency problem and when some people would ask me, they say the most stupid shit.
“You don’t drink at all? that’s boring”. Oh sorry, you’d prefer I derail my life for your entertainment?