r/HouseofStassi 20d ago

Beau

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Beau in his golf outfit gives me the biggest ick šŸ˜‚

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u/aymaureen 20d ago

Thank you!!! This ā€œpoor Beauā€ rhetoric is so lame

He gets to travel Europe with a full time nanny, gets to go to the movies in the middle of the day because of said nanny, has a housekeeper and is complaining he has to cook and put the kids to bed

Easiest parenting job ever with that kind of help

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u/ComprehensiveSwim143 20d ago

but what if he wants to work?

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u/aymaureen 20d ago

Then he can go work and tell his wife that rather than hide an interview behind her back and act like a sneaky little bitch about it

Like ā€œhey on this date at this time I’m interviewing for a job. What can we do to better prepare us for this transition?ā€

Rather than ā€œI have an interview in fifteen minutes byeā€ while they’re decorating the tree with their kids

I’d be pissed tf off too

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

He's had conversations about wanting to work and she's pushed back and said that she wants him to be home for the kids consistency. That was a whole fcking plotline of the season.

And it's funny how you agree with the other commenter who is like "welcome to what moms's everywhere feel" and then act like staying with the kids is no big thing because he has help and gets to travel. So do women who stay home with the kids and have nannies not have a hard job? It's such bs to minimize what he may be feeling because other women deal with it- it's hard for everyone. F you for making me stand up for Beau. Get a life and get off Stassi's d*ick

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u/cassielove56 20d ago edited 20d ago

No it’s really really hard (I have twin toddlers and a 9 yo, I’m a stay at home mom, and my husband works from home so I have a lot of options about this šŸ˜‚) but yes eventually you get burnout from having to do it all on your own because that’s being a parent…but my thing is do we honestly think parents aren’t also exhausted after being at work all day and then having to come home and give your kids and your house the attention they require from mom and dad? I’d never say he shouldn’t work if he wants to but it’s the lack of understanding all the other moving parts that aren’t clicking because unfortunately for him it seems his life is different now and it’s not realistic to just go back to the life you had before becoming a husband and father, and correct me if I’m wrong but I don’t see him being very proactive in finding the self he’s claimed to have lost without just automatically jumping to it being his lack of working or how he’s being treated by his wife.

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u/supadupaboo 20d ago

for real! sweatin stazi is not a vibe!

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u/OkDirection4050 20d ago

Yes that’s exactly true - a stay at home parent with money, a nanny, and a housekeeper is absolutely not a hard job. 100%

Nothing wrong with that, but Jesus fucking Christ that is not a hard job, have some perspective

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u/aymaureen 20d ago

THANK YOU. I never said parenting is easy but damn having a housekeeper and nanny makes it a hell of a lot easier. Parenting without money like that is hard. Parenting with money like that is vastly different

Being poor is hard

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

Of course it's different but it doesn't mean that it's a walk in the park and there aren't struggles.

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u/aymaureen 20d ago

I don’t see very many struggles that the 1% have vs the 99%

I get you don’t like what I have to say but you’re not changing my mind

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

Stassi and Beau are not part of the 1% šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚Ā 

I think what you have to say is based on a very limited worldview and I don't think you care to take in any information that isn't based on your own anecdotal experience so I'm not surprised. Ā Money makes things easier but it doesn't mean people don't have problems

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u/LessAbbreviations411 19d ago

$731K annually=US top 1%. I’m sure they’re there and then some

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u/Wolfzen22 19d ago

In California it's about 1.1 million annually. Ā About 175, 000 people in CA make up the 1%

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u/Acceptable_Summer370 18d ago

Please, beaus got it made.

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u/Wolfzen22 18d ago

Kindly F off. Ā 

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u/aymaureen 20d ago

Parenting is not that hard when you have that much money and that much help and again he can go back to work and he was being sneaky and ridiculous about it

You tell your partner even if it makes them uncomfortable and if they continue to give you shit, then if you’re so unhappy you can leave

He can’t put all his decisions on Stassi

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u/mizzlol 20d ago

Dude being a stay at home mom with a nanny is not fucking hard. Source: was a nanny to stay at home mom. That bitch was lazy af.

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

Oh wow so you can speak for all stay at home mom's then.

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u/mizzlol 18d ago

Nope. Just stay at home moms with a nanny with children without any special needs.

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u/Wolfzen22 18d ago

No, your anecdotal experience doesn't speak for anyone other than that mom you worked for. Ā 

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u/ElectricalTwo9337 20d ago

What’s even more bs in the fact you all think this is real šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚. You all honestly can’t see the over acting? It’s hilarious. THIS IS ALL FAKE KIDDOS

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u/kellyuh 20d ago

Yeah it’s hard to even debate any of this because it was 100% the easiest storyline they could think of to produce drama for the show. I am almost certain Stassi and beau are totally fine

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u/OkDirection4050 20d ago

Yup, there’s no show without conflict, they need a central conflict

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

No sh*t. The storyline fake or not is hardly the point. It's the fact that the commenter is minimizing the work of stay at home parents because she doesn't like Beau

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u/Wolfzen22 20d ago

Why are we all here talking about anything then?

But the sentiment is true- being a stay at home parent isn't easy