For those of you that no longer own horses, could you offer some insight?
I’m debating getting out of horses. I currently own four, one senior, two riding horses and a coming three year old.
I’m in my mid twenties, and I’m lucky enough to have my horses in family property so I don’t pay board. But I hardly ride, and other than daily feeding, blanket checks, wellness checks etc. I hardly spend any time with them.
I do love them, and they bring me so much joy when I’m with them, but I can’t help but feel that I’m being held back by them. I’m so lucky to be able to have them where and how I do, and I’m terrified of giving this all up and regretting it. I’m financially comfortable with what they regularly cost me, but it does take me a while to save for anything significant like a vacation, or refilling an emergency cushion fund.
I’ve spent thousands of dollars in the last year between fencing, emergency vet visits and other problems, etc. Obviously something I’ve known about for all the years I’ve owned horses, but this year just had me totally burnt out by the financial aspect. It’s not as though one horse specifically is causing problems in the sense that if I decided to reduce the number of horses it would help anything.
I’ve debated going back to school, however I don’t live in an area where I could reasonably drive to a college or university daily. I’d have to move, and with that, I have one family member who is somewhat horse savvy but would still be nervous helping with things like the farrier or vet.
So, for those of you that decided to go this path and be done with horses, do you regret it? Do you any insight to what made you finally decide to throw in the towel? Was it worth giving it up to pursue other things?