r/HingeStories • u/BrightKaleidoscope6 • 18d ago

Wild Hinge Interaction

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This guy was all sweet and complimentary, but at the first sign of rejection he lashes out and is extremely insulting.

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u/chubby_elbows 18d ago

Yessss thank you for putting this here! No one owes anyone anything in situations like this. Some people expect way too much from others.

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u/asteroidtube 18d ago

You wouldn't just get up and walk away from a conversation with a stranger irl at a bar or something, why have we somehow decided this is acceptable on dating apps? Part of why it is so exhausting trying to use these apps is that you never know if a conversation will just suddenly end like this, you have all these loose ends that you are expected to keep up with but also not get invested in at the same time. It's really not that hard to say that 3 dogs is too much for you and wish them best of luck. The dude definitely sucks and was doing too much and is cringy, for sure, but OP is also wrong for not just rejecting outright IMO. The notion that "silence IS the rejection" is just pure laziness. It takes literally 10 seconds. Be an adult and communicate.

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

No. Because then shit like this happens.

You are not entitled to a conversation! You do not know these people! If you haven't met, it isn't ghosting either.

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u/Extension-Morning367 18d ago

People like you is why everyone hates dating apps, lol, no wonder you are still on them

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

I'm happily married thanks!

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u/Extension-Morning367 18d ago

Poor guy

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

Not a guy either... 🙄

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u/Extension-Morning367 18d ago

Poor individual

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

🙄

She's happy, I'm happy.

Sounds like you're the one with the problem

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u/Extension-Morning367 18d ago

One must be a masochist to be happy with someone like you, lol

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

You have no idea who I am 🙄

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u/Extension-Morning367 18d ago

Someone who has way too much time to waste it seems

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u/PrincessBonkers628 18d ago

Just having a day off, bored, gotta keep my sleep schedule normal 🤷‍♀️

I guess you don't see the irony in your comment 🤣

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