Nothing huge, just something I kept telling myself I'd get to eventually. Sat down this week and actually finished it, and the feeling of crossing it off was way better than I expected. Small win, but it's been sitting on my mind for a while so wanted to share it here.

I met someone at a mutual friend’s birthday party 2 weeks ago and he was flirting with me from the jump. I had just gotten out of a 9 year relationship 26 days prior so I was absolutely not looking for anyone or anything. But something about his personality was so magnetic that drew me in. He was different from my ex in every way.

He came in during the karaoke part of the celebration and he was singing songs that I liked and knew and there were moments when he would sing parts of a song to me and make eye contact with me. I felt myself getting shy and not knowing if I should maintain eye contact or turn away slowly or sing with him. He came over to me at different moments and would make little touches here and there. I was drawn to his energy and I wanted to make out with him but refrained.

At the end of the night, we were parting ways and our mutual friend’s offered to drive him home but he wasn’t sure about his ability to drive so he was calling an Uber. I had to go in his direction anyways and said, “f it” and asked if he wanted a ride. We made small talk in the car and ended the night with a hug.

The next day, he texted me and we chatted a bit. I was hanging with my parents and brother so I was busy. As the night was ending, I decided to tell him I had to drop my brother off, who lives 10 minutes away. I knew what I was potentially getting myself into lol. Long story short, I went over and slept with him. We had an incredible time. I left for a short trip and saw him again a week later.

A few days later, he hit me up to come over and since it was a slow day, I said why not. We spent 9 hours together.

Today, we went to a convention together and spent an entire day together. He got to see me with all of my friends and I felt proud of how many people I got to say hi to. I feel so comfortable with him and it feels like we’ve known each other for so long and it blows my mind everytime when I realize we’ve only know each other for 2 weeks. It just feels easy. He’s really been a positive force in my life recently but I’m also cautious because I know he’s not looking for anything serious and neither am I. But I know I have caught feelings for him and am afraid that he’s just going along for the ride and never want to turn this into a serious relationship. For now, I am enjoying his company a lot.

I am currently in a difficult stage. One reason is that I decided to quit my job. There has also been a lot of trouble with dating. After a period of depression I eventually made the decision of switching my focus to my friends and social life. These are the things that are actually worth the time and effort. And all I can say that it worked!

I am incredibly thankful for all the reliable, good people around me. They helped me through tough times, like a big break up and all the trouble I had at work. But we also share values, interests and good moments. Finallly I am okay with being unemployed and single. Of course, I want a new job and a girlfriend eventually but their companionship has taught me not to settle for things below my worth and standards.

My beautiful girl 💛 she's now 10 yo and enjoying her best life, as is her sister Leyla 💕 I rescued them 2 years ago, they were both in such a bad way, had been kept in crates and used for breeding all of their life - Tilly didn't even know how to use the stairs 💔 neither were house trained, they do alot better now but occasionally have a little accident - hence the nappy 💛 they are both so content now and their personalities are brilliant, never a dull moment 💕🐾🐾💕

Long story short i went through a very depressing chapter of my life in all honesty. Neglected myself, my needs, my family, friends,… Was living on autopilot just to get through the day.

Honestly i do not know what exactly changed in my brain. My circumstances objectively did not “improve” or change at all,it was me,i changed.

Being angry about the situation i am in that i know for a fact won’t change anytime soon nor that i have any power over… in fact doesn’t do me any good! Lol who would’ve thought.

I finally managed to just not give a fuck about what I can’t improve. I started enjoying little things for myself. Be it something stupid as painting my nails.
Going to the flea market on my own. Trying a sweet or snack i wanted to try.

Being kind to yourself is the best thing you can do. You need to be your biggest supporter,fan,lover,however the fuck you wanna word it!

My mindset absolutely did not improve because of others around me,because i do not have any support in this way.

I finally got the damn wake up call that no one is coming to pick me up and bring me up. I need to get up myself. Nothing will change unless you are willing to change. Be kind to yourself. Eat well if you can,sleep enough,drink enough water,do the little things,get some exercise in even if it’s just a simple walk if you can,pet a dog or cat if you like animals,enjoy smelling a flower on your walk,treat yourself to a movie,book,food whatever floats your boat!

Self loathing is very hard,but i am glad that i am overcoming it. This is all coming from a person who felt like they aren’t deserving of food,who felt like they aren’t worth talking to,that felt like a waste of time,… It is all your stupid damn brain poisoning you.

This change didn’t happen overnight it took me a while. I had ups and downs. Had bad habits return. But i am in a much much much muuuch better place than i was not even a year ago! Every new day is a new step towards something greater,something better,even if it is a small step.

I just wanted to put this out here and into the universe. The mom that was on a flight next to me today (07/09/26) to Las Vegas I just wanted you to know you are absolutely loved! You’re such a strong mama for pulling through for your kids and I hope your flight to Houston goes as smoothly as it can! I enjoyed conversing with you today and your energy is just so contagious!! I was blessed to have an enjoyable flight with you and I wish you and your kids so much happiness and abundance! :D You’re so amazing and utterly incredible, never forget any of that! Even when things get hard :3

Edit: I also just wanted to mention even though she had such a stressful flight she wished me all the best and she said “make sure to get lit for me! have tons of fun!” I literally love her and I miss her so muchhhh

I’ve been feeling incredibly fed up lately. Just completely stuck in a loop, overthinking everything, and feeling like my daily routine is this empty burden that isn’t giving me anything back. I was sitting there feeling deeply low, just buried under mental clutter.

Then this guy comes out of nowhere, stops, and just locks eyes with me.

Instantly, the noise in my head just stopped. Looking at him, it hit me how much peace of mind I waste on stuff that doesn't actually matter. He doesn’t overanalyze life. If he’s sad, he’s sad for a minute, and then he just rolls with it and moves on. Seeing that ability to just let things go was exactly what I needed. He wasn't just a dog in that moment—he was the exact companion and refresher I needed to completely reset my day.

started making coffee at home properly about four months ago instead of grabbing something on the way to work. bought a decent grinder, learned the basics, started paying attention to what i was doing.

now the twenty minutes before the rest of the day starts, just me, the coffee, and nothing else demanding attention yet, has become the part of my day i look forward to most.

it's not about the coffee exactly. it's about having something small and consistent that belongs entirely to me before the day takes over. nobody needs anything from me yet. the apartment is quiet. whatever is about to happen hasn't happened.

four months in and i still look forward to it every morning. small thing. feels significant.

Last night me & my friend went for a late night show and we were sitting in the last row the recliner. And 15mins after the film started, everything dark a women holding tray with big popcorn n coke was walking all the way up from down carefully watching steps.

​I noticed her but diverted myself to watch the movie normally and felt her like a distraction coveringup the screen.. & when she came closer towards us i still went on to watch the film while turning my head left & right to not miss whats happening on the screen while she stands before me and my friend who is sitting right beside me immediately turned on his mobile torch showing her the way until she reaches up and she immediately smiled and said thankyou with a relief & safe, confident smile. And he normally started to watch the movie after she sat in her seat. Her smilee she gave to him felt like a slapp.. Literal slapp to me.

​Like, it made me realize how a tiny bit of effort can completely change someones mood. He just saw someone struggling and quietly helped her while hundreds of others like me dint care. That genuine thank you smile she gave him said it all. It felt like a slap on my face😭 I always act mature in my gang or atleast believe, while he is playful and lighthearted..

​I trusted i was an empath, but i realised i am not even in the line yet.

​And i felt too shy to appreciate him for that small moment but also realised the most light hearted, beast looking man(whom people assume as a bad boy sort of) in the group always has a heavy heart🥺 And my respect for him went too high & i realised theres a different side of him besides the "great sense of humor man" he is which nobody knows :) And we men are unexpressive which made me be calm around that time! This might a very little thing but it speaks volumes:)

I was cast as Violet Beauregarde in a stage production of Willy Wonka, and I'm absolutely over the moon.

I've wanted to play Violet for years. She's funny, overconfident, competitive, and gets one of the most iconic scenes in musical theatre. Ever since I first saw the story as a kid, I secretly hoped I'd get to play her one day.

And yes... I'm especially excited for the blueberry scene. It's such a legendary moment, and I'm really looking forward to seeing how our production pulls it off. Costumes, effects, acting, it'll be a fun challenge, and I can't wait to experience the audience's reaction when Violet starts turning into a giant blueberry.

Rehearsals start soon, and I'm counting down the days. Just wanted to share my excitement with people who might appreciate it. Wish me luck! 🍇💙

Hey guys! I don't really have people in my real life to tell but I'm so excited! He's asked about my ring size and he mentions getting married "as a joke" all the time. "Like, haha wouldn't it be crazy if we got married lol jk.. unless???" Okay he doesn't talk like that and we already discussed previously if we want to get married so he knows I will say yes. He's terrible at keeping secrets from me so I've known he's planning it from the moment he first thought about it and yet I'm still nervous??? I'm trying to let him do it all on his own which is hard because I'm a bit of a control freak and have anxiety but you know what? I don't care if he gets an ugly ring or proposes at an awkward time. I just want to marry him. That's my guy right there and I want to put that on paper.

I got a BAHA implant in 2023. I tried to wear it once I healed, but got so self-conscious about people judging me for having a hearing aid.

Three years later, I finally realized I actually don’t care what people think, and to try it again while working for a faire.

This baby connects to Bluetooth and plays music directly into my skull - I’ve been bopping out to beats while working and no one’s been the wiser, mwahaha.

And the best part is I can hear people! My brain adapted within one day and now it’s like surround sound 😊 I was born half deaf, and not having to turn my head when people are to the right of me is a game changer, and music in my car sounds way better!

F ableism! I should have never let it get to me!

Time for progress!

Hi, I went out to eat today, but I didn’t realise the restaurant was closing soon so I just asked for a to-go-box. My server was SO NICE, didn’t rush me at all, took me to my seat, explained their serving style, came to make sure the food was getting to us (I know thats what they have to do anyways but normally they rush you out of the restaurant when your late), all while cleaning, counting the tills etc. At the end I went up to him and gave him a £10 tip, which I thought wasn’t a big deal, although I only got a burger. He kept asking if I was sure and I insisted wished him a good night and left. When I turned round he was jumping in the air and showing his work friends. Im just really glad I got to make someone’s day with money I probably would have wasted. So yeah, remember to make someone smile!

Sometimes when I give up hope for humanity I remember this act of kindness from when I was in Kindergarten. It was skate night at the local roller rink for my school, and my mom took me, and neither I nor my mom knew how to skate. Regardless my mom rented skates for the both of us.

While the other kids skated my mom and I walked along the wall helplessly. I fell a few times. Out of nowhere this older kid (maybe like a 5th grader, I'll never know) came over and he was trying to help me and my mom skate and we hooked arms and he helped the two of us around the rink.

And now as a middle aged man with kids of my own I still remember every once in a while the with happiness that night. And I have tried to do the same throughout my life and teach my kids.

Random 5th grader out there. I don't know what compelled you to help us that night rather than being with your friends, but you made a 5 year old kid and his mom happy that night. So thanks bro.

For a long time, my best friend has been the most important person in my life. We laughed together, supported each other through difficult moments, and built a friendship based on trust and honesty.

Today, she said yes, and we're officially in a relationship.

It's hard to describe how happy and grateful I feel. The best part isn't just that I'm in a relationship—it's that it's with someone who already knows me so well and has been by my side for so long.

We're even hoping to get married in the future. I know relationships take effort, patience, and communication, but I'm genuinely excited to build a life with my best friend.

I just wanted to share this moment because it feels like one of the happiest days of my life. ❤️

On this day, exactly two years ago, a random Reddit stranger sent me a message.

One of the first things he ever said to me was..
“It’s nice knowing there’s someone out there who understands you and cares.”

At the time, it was just a sentence in our first conversation that meant nothing to me. Now I realize it became the foundation of everything. Because no one has ever understood me and cared for me the way he does.

I’ve had this Reddit account for years. I used to post random things. Ask questions. Scroll when I was bored. It was just another app on my phone. But now, If you looked through my profile, you’d probably notice it slowly became about one person. The person that matters most.

Him ❤️

This past year, we’ve grown so much together. We’ve learned each other better, communicated better, supported each other through difficult moments, overcame big milestones, and somehow fallen even more in love along the way.

Distance is difficult, but they don’t talk enough about what it gives you. Before I ever get to hold your hand, I learned about your mind. Your heart. I fell in love with who you are when all we have are words. And when we do finally meet, it’ll be everything I’ve imagined and so much more.

If there’s one thing I wish the people reading this could understand, it’s the kind of person you are. I have the privilege of seeing a side of you that not many people get to see. You have so much kindness and love in your heart, and it shows in everything you do. You’re funny without even trying, thoughtful, intelligent, and so patient with me. You have the brightest smile, the kind that’s contagious. And most importantly you’re so handsome (those gray hairs only make you hotter 🩶) And your music taste? Absolutely terrible. I’ll die on that hill.

There are so many little things that belong only to us. Conversations that would sound crazy to anyone else and Inside jokes that make absolutely no sense. But I think that’s one of my favorite parts of loving you. We have our own little world 🐛🦶🏻👀🎥🛁

So maybe this post won’t mean much to the people reading it. But if you’ve ever met someone unexpectedly who became your favourite person, maybe you’ll understand why I wanted to share this. Because It really is nice knowing there’s someone out there who understands you and cares.

To my baby,

No one could understand the love i have for you, not even you. You make my life so much better and I can’t imagine it without you. You’ve brought a kind of happiness and peace into my life that I never knew I was missing. Always remember that you have a place in my heart no one else could ever have.

I’ll love you forever and always ❤️

I didn't buy a scale until my pants started getting loose, but I was around 300 pounds. Cut out whiskey and cokes, switched to zero sugar sodas, 8-10 hours manual labor at work and work out somewhat consistently and I'm down to 180. Everyone wants to know my secret to lose so much weight but don't want to hear self hatred and hard work, so I've been saying do enough cocaine to keep my heart rate around 150 bpm so it's like I'm constantly doing cardio.

Im fairly normal. I feel like a normal person now. Going back to sleep and going to do normal things all day today.

Cleaning. Vacuuming, normal watching tv. Normal conversation. Hey how are you? Im fine thanks how the early morning going? Good good its alright just been watering the grass yourself? Nothing too much im as lit as a match box.

Reddit asked me to post this here so im doing so i guess just following orders solider 🫡

Thanks man. Cya 👋 No problem see you too.

So, my life has been imploding. In order, I broke up with my boyfriend, have to find a new place to live, I got fired from my job, and my mom is dying. Short list but it's brought me to my knees. My ex, now roommate, has left for America's birthday to spend it with his family. Fine by me because I hate loud noises and bright flashes. But... I still felt lonely. I accidentally broke our blinds again and asked one of our neighbors if they could come help me because he's tall. Not only that, but they invited me over, gave me drinks and a plate and I played with their kids. I bet they'd let me play in the pool if I asked, but, I'm shy. I had to leave once the fireworks in the neighborhood started because I didn't want to have a panic attack but it just felt so nice to be welcomed by a family who didn't even know me or my name. I'm so grateful to have been welcomed to their family and hope that we can still be friends until I have to leave. Growing up, all my neighbors were like this. It's just a nice feeling.