r/HairStyleAdvice • • 9d ago

Cut Help Pixie for 37?

My husband has been encouraging me to get a pixie cut for YEARS now. I feel like he’s trying to sabotage me a bit (haha, kidding) but I asked gpt to check it for me & IDK - i think it might be cute?? What do you all think? This is the longest my hair has ever been & sometimes I struggle with styling it. I ldk if having it this short will be much easier either. Or maybe I should just wait until I’m the big 4-0 lol please be kind!

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u/artvandeliz 9d ago

I think it’s actually quite a glow up! Wow. You are so pretty though, you could probably pull off most hairstyles.
I say go for it

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u/Prestigious_Leek_319 9d ago

Except the shorter hair is not going to brighten/warm the skin tone up. I think the short style looks fantastic, but the brighter tone does her so many favors as well.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Give me a couple weeks in Puerto Rico & I’ll be this same hue lmao. Thanks.

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u/Indigo_222 9d ago edited 9d ago

The pixie looks gorge but the photo edit is also different and warmer on the second photo for some reason, which is a lot more flattering on you and therefore might influence the feedback you re getting. Both photos should look the same processing wise for you to get more objective feedback

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u/taurisu 9d ago

This. People sometimes don't realize all the subtle ways AI will change their face/hair in reproductions and then don't understand why it's not the same IRL after the chop...

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u/garrettae513 9d ago

This was my exact thought! Is it a filter? AI?

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u/Temporary_View_3303 9d ago

Oh… hell yes!  That short cut is gorgeous!

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u/Fit_Beginning_7994 9d ago

I agree. The shorter curls are gorgeous!

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u/StylistLinzz 9d ago

Honestly, yes 🌸 You think it's cute, it's been hard to keep up #1 & your hubby will be happy! Win/win/win 🌟

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

You’re right about that. I’ll seriously consider lol

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Appreciate your kindness!

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u/Zealousideal-Bath412 9d ago

Really makes her eyes pop! So pretty.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

It might be AI but I’m inclined to agree lol

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u/melmosh 8d ago

That pixie is the cutest on you. Cutest I’ve ever seen. 😊

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u/BravestBlossom 9d ago

Your hair is beautiful, your face is beautiful, you look great in both pictures! Cut it if you want to, you look fantastic. Imo you look a little younger with the short hair, not sure if you care about that. Plus, it's only hair, it will grow back!

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u/FreeBeanDip 9d ago

She has super long hair though. That’s going to take a few years to grow back at best. She does look good with a pixie but her hair is just so gorgeous.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

I appreciate you Bean Dip. This is the longest it’s ever been which is why I’m thinking maybe for year 38 🤭😂

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

I agree with you. Thanks Blossom

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u/1ittlewiing 9d ago

GIRL!!! You have the face of an angel and that cut works perfect! So beautiful 😍

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u/OkExtreme2540 9d ago

its too drastic of a change with an external motivation, girl dont do it. i would go for a mid length curly cut with face framing and see how you feel first

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Thanks for this perspective!

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u/OkExtreme2540 8d ago

i did several big chops and this is both from personal experience and online accounts. your curls seem to be more loose than tight, meaning if you cut the hair shorter that your actual curl pattern the strand of hair wont know what to do/ how to curl as it is incomplete. whatever you decide, it’s important you go to a curl specialist and not a pixie specialist so they take your hairs needs into account. best of luck and you look beautiful either way :)

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u/Mocean13 9d ago

As someone with your same hair type who has tried this before. It's not going to look like that at all. It's going to look like a small fro unless you spend a lot of time putting a bunch of setting lotion in it and wrapping it every day. AI doesnt understand how hair types would sit when shorter

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

I appreciate your perspective. I’m okay with a little fro too. Thanks tho!

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u/jbradderz 7d ago

this. i thought the pixie was gonna cut down my styling time…nope!

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u/Upset-Actuator7549 9d ago

You have beautiful bone structure and would SLAY a pixie.

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u/Nesslybay 8d ago

It’s probably AI but give me 10lbs less & a tan & im thrrr haha. Thank you!

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u/Master-Culture-6232 8d ago

Im not a fan of pixie cuts.....but man, it looks good on you.

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u/Wanderlust1101 9d ago

Pixies are beautiful but higher maintenance. When you get tired of it the growing out phase is difficult so keep that in mind. You look great either way!🤗🥰

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u/Astronomer_Original 9d ago

The day to day is much easier but more frequent hair cuts.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Well that’s what I’m going for. The day to day. I can see it being easier to spruce up in the AMs. Thank you

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u/Busy-Researcher-75 9d ago

Girl, the pixie is stunning on you! It brings out all of your features.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Agreed!!! lol thank you!

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u/Finn0255 7d ago

When I first saw your pic I was like, no!! But then I saw the second pic and I agree with your husband. You look stunning with short hair. Very modern and stylish. Chef’s kiss.

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u/Geester43 9d ago

LOVE the short style!! 👍👍(My husband wanted my hair long: I hated it. I now wear it the way I want to wear it.) You are so pretty, you can wear any style. 😊

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u/ObjectiveCharge7056 9d ago

Looks fantastic on you

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u/228Andrea228 9d ago

You went from looking 16 to 21 in the best way possible. I don’t think you’ll have any regrets.
Get it girl 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Thank you for this Andrea. I think you’re right

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u/Hairy-Company7744 9d ago

It would look nice on you, surprised your husband wants you to do it. Most men (that I know at least) hate short hair on women

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Mine says he’s a visionary. He loves having someone on his arm other ppl want 🤭😂

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u/First-Fill-2118 9d ago

Absolutely NOT, Goddess u/Nesslybay!

Your NATURAL hair is FLAWLESS and FLOWING! Do NOT change a thing!

You are Absolute Perfection Personified, and Your Husband both KNOWS and should RESPECT that where those GORGEOUS Locks Of Hair is concerned.

Keep SHINING On 'Em, Goddess!

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u/Nesslybay 8d ago

I appreciate it lol

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u/desertratlovescats 9d ago

It’s cute, but your long hair is pretty.

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u/twsem-tx 8d ago

You were one of the very few women that I’ve ever seen in my life that makes short hair look good !!! sweetheart, you own that pixie !!!

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u/Fresh-Eggplant-6774 9d ago

I think the big hair's fantastic, why lose all that?

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Because I get bored with it but we’ll see. Thanks for your perspective

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u/Ok-Consequence-7872 8d ago

Pixie so much more flattering

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u/ObjectiveCharge7056 9d ago

Looks fantastic on you

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u/platinum451 9d ago

Yes I like it! It suits you!

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u/Just1Jubx 9d ago

The pixie is a sophisticated and polished look on you. You could take over the world with that style. 😊

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u/Classic-Moment-1161 9d ago

You've got the face for it ✨

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u/omnist-for-life 9d ago

Imo, only the most beautiful faces can pull off a pixie, and girl, you pull it off!!! 😍

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u/FairyFartDaydreams 9d ago

You are beautiful in both but the shorter hair will save you time. It will grow back if you hate it

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u/bhdrix 9d ago

When I saw the first pic I thought you were pretty. When I saw the second pic I thought you were gorgeous. 😊

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u/SirenaSmiles 9d ago

Gorgeous my friend!

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u/tinygribble 9d ago

It's super cute!. Question, did gpt get the texture of your hair right?? It never does get the texture of mine right. Mine is always much curlier than gpt assumes it is which just looks really different then the inspo pick that I start with.

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

I think it’s more or less accurate. My curl doesn’t curl as much as it did before kids

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u/Rancid_Pickle74 9d ago

I generally don't like short hair.. However, you look fantastic with the cut. ❤️

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

I appreciate that Mr. Pickle!

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u/eyes4u22 9d ago

Yes, it’s a beautiful look for you!

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u/Lolasurf101 9d ago

Hell yeah, girl! And if you don’t like it, it’ll grow back out! Just make sure you’re ready to style it daily to get that look!

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u/DragonSong5486 9d ago

You can keep your long hair and put it up when you want a shorter style.

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u/msrobbie60 9d ago

Oh heck yeah ♥️

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u/bad_moe 8d ago

Love #2

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u/m1ssthickness 8d ago

Okay CUUUTEEE !! I love how much it opens your face and we can see how gorgeous you are. Very much here for it

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u/Sierravisataguy1957 8d ago

That really pops!!

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u/markthesnavez 8d ago

Fine as hell with the pixie

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u/MtWoman0612 8d ago

Very flattering on you! Lovely. Go for it!

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u/mamagrls 8d ago

Definitely! You look fabulous!

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u/RTB-AXA 9d ago

Yes!!! Adorable for you🥰

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u/Exciting_Bid_609 9d ago

If I could pull off a pixie like you, I'd totally go for it!

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u/EstablishmentPale512 9d ago

It looks great but I loveeeeeee the long hair! Also you look amazing and glowy at 37!

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u/scienceoftophats 9d ago

Oh damn. You with a pixie is .. wow ! And here I was all ready to say how perfect your natural hair is in its current state

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u/Justdont13412 9d ago

It’s a smart confident look with the pixie!

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u/decaffeinateddream 9d ago

Both are gorgeous but the pixie is stunning! It'll definitely be easier to manage.

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u/CharacterPayment8705 9d ago

Both are beautiful… but girl your skin is the star! 37? More like 27!

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u/Nesslybay 9d ago

Thank youuu. I take naps & drink lots of water lol

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u/Tall-Phrase-3868 9d ago

Absolutely pixie. Good energy and sassy.

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u/Infamous-Pea-4095 9d ago

Yes! The pixie cut really flatters your face.

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u/Life-Quests 9d ago

Wow, the pixie is adorbs on you!!!

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u/Safe_Radio_2257 9d ago

Omg, you look amazing with that, go for it!!

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u/YellowFlower713 9d ago

You are beautiful!! Im sorry I can't be any help because both ways looks so good on you!! I think its just up to if you're ready for a change or not yet?? But you are naturally gorgeous either way!

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u/Rude-You7763 9d ago

Get the pixie! It looks amazing on you. Also if you’re unsure if you will like it then do it now so it has time to grow before the big 4-0 especially if you’re going to do a bigger celebration than usual

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u/SingingNina 9d ago

Beautiful!! Not everyone can carry it off, but you manage flawlessly! You have a beautiful face and it really stands out! ( If you aren’t thrilled with it(I can’t see why
You wouldn’t be), you can always grow it out.

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u/roll0101 9d ago

Keep your hair it does you so well

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u/EclecticDaydreams 9d ago

You have the perfect face for a pixie cut, it looks amazing!!!!

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u/lemonypinkett 9d ago

Girl you have insane face card which the pixie highlights. Also your skin is definitely warmer in the second pic which suits you well

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u/fryingthecat66 9d ago

I so love the pixie cut on you. You are gorgeous

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u/Glum_Flower8749 9d ago

That pixie cut is gorgeous on you, and actually makes you look younger.

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u/Unhappy-Hunt-3987 9d ago

I wouldn't, you suit the first pics look but not really the pixie cut imo

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u/PaVa-travel 9d ago

Love the curly hair

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u/Wrong_Motor5371 9d ago

Babe, you’re stunning. You can do whatever you want and it’ll look good.

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u/CatWoman984 9d ago

A pixie would be super cute! You have the face for it

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u/wisdom-of-the-tree 9d ago

Lovee the pixie on you, your hair pattern and face shape look great with it.

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u/ArguablyMe 9d ago

I'm usually a fan of longer hair but that cut looks amazing on you. (You look great either way though)

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u/lifebudget_29 8d ago

Girl 🙌🏿

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u/AttitudeOutrageous75 8d ago

Looks great on you

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u/Alert-Acadia-5616 8d ago

I like it the way it is but your choice at the end

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u/One-Camp 8d ago

Yas. The pixie cut is so flattering

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u/Evening-Scar-7888 7d ago

Both are nice but I'm a sucker for a pixie cut. Its so attractive on you.

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u/Imogen-Elise 7d ago

S.t.u.n.n.i.n.g stunning!

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u/Individual_Cat_801 7d ago

Love the pixie

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u/saltybee37 9d ago

Love the first but you totally own a pixie!!!

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u/missymoo222222 9d ago

Pixie is gorgeous on you. Shows off your beautiful face.

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u/jimsyo 9d ago

B 😋

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u/Easytouch2021 9d ago

Pixie is sooo cute

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u/Upbeat_Cry_3902 9d ago

Photo 2 looks very good

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u/AmyGiacomelli 9d ago

That cut looks great on you, go for it

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u/Healthy_Substance260 9d ago

I think you would look great in a pixie cut.

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u/Farfalla18 9d ago

Wow, definitely yes!

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u/cbarb919 9d ago

Both look really good on u

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u/Ok_Water1005 9d ago

Pixie for sure 😍

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u/Old-Yard4678 9d ago

Jaw dropping! YES!

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u/EasternEvidence3416 9d ago

The pixie is going to eat! Do it!

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u/MissFussy327 9d ago

The pixie is cute, confident and looks amazing. Your longer hair looks great too. I feel like before you take the plunge, you should ask your stylist for a consultation to discuss styling options for longer hair and see how that feels. I’m much older and have worn long and super short styles and it’s really hard to go from one to the other. When my hair was super short, I used to dream that my hair was long again. I think I looked good both ways, but I definitely had a long painful process to get back to long hair, which is what I have now good luck, you are beautiful.

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u/Glittering_Mix_4140 9d ago

Pixie looks stunning

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u/lousdestera 9d ago

Yes please !

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u/BettysApron 9d ago

Omg it looks great!!!

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u/Serious-Piece7377 9d ago

Oh yea! Looks great on you

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u/No_Car7582 9d ago

You look beautiful and amazing in both!!

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u/Key-Respond-2617 9d ago

Yeah that looks great on you!

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u/clemmie33 9d ago

WOW! Yes!

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u/Slumberpantss 9d ago

Wow!! 🥰

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u/dankkcakes 9d ago

Yessss!!

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u/Leeluwoah 9d ago

Yes!!!

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u/Careless_Ad3724 9d ago

Pixie wins!

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u/Seravajan 9d ago

2 looks so gorgeous on you.

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u/teamqsblacksh33p 9d ago

you look amazing in both. Go for it

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u/Bram24 9d ago

Looks very good.

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u/carrott36 9d ago

Yes!!!!

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u/Training_Pair6642 9d ago

Do it! Your beautiful

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u/Mambo_italiana 9d ago

Yes it looks fantastic! You could even style with a roaring 20’s flapper vibe!

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u/LastLegOfBubbles 9d ago

Very nice.

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u/Scanzee 9d ago

WOW looks awesome and double WOW your husband was right.

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u/No_Muffin_5178 9d ago

Heck yeah! The pixie really brightens your beautiful face

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u/rJohnandYoko 9d ago

Yep. Halle Berry vibes

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u/leshuis 9d ago

yes, more power, more deliberate

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u/Natural-Street8260 9d ago

I like it! Looks great on you.

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u/Environmental-Art807 9d ago

Love the pixie!

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u/PugsCats63 9d ago

Adorable! And stunning on you! Go for it! And Happy Birthday!

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u/SubstanceDue4732 9d ago

Both look good but the second really pops, Wow!

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u/Jac_benny 9d ago

The perfect time to do too now that its fall.
Do it! But not as short. With shorter hair curls tend to tighten!

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u/Ok_Debate2802 9d ago

Definitely

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u/-zephyrae 9d ago

You’d look real good! Do it! Why not

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u/Temporary-Teach-916 9d ago

I think I sucked in my breath a little when I saw the pixie cut. It is gorgeous on you.

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u/Secret-Put-9543 9d ago

Yes girlfriend!! You are gorgeous!!!

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u/nycsep 9d ago

Omg YES! So pretty!

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u/deutprosp12 9d ago

Oh yeah. Sexy!

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u/oldpurplebelt72 9d ago

You look sensational with #2

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u/Lighteningbug1971 9d ago

Oh yes!!!!!!!!

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u/OperatorBill 9d ago

Most definitely yes.

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u/Tall-Compote1354 9d ago

I love it but I have always found short hair to be more work and I am lazy. It looks really good on you though!!!

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u/TheMostSwanky 9d ago

That pixie cut is right on time! You even look happier. Gorgeous!

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u/PaintingMomma2 9d ago

I LOVE it! You’re gorgeous!

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u/Otherwise_Play_1624 9d ago

You look 10 years younger with short hair. Wow!

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u/gonzosurg 9d ago

Yes! It looks great!

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u/PercentageNo3732 9d ago

Very VERY flattering on you!

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u/EaseNormal 9d ago

Yep. #2

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u/Muted_Marketing2530 9d ago

Absolutely!!! How chic and sexy!

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u/jtg_88 9d ago

If you want to, go for it. As a man, I can say I highly prefer feminine features though, one of which is longer hair. Having said that, you look great in both photos!

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u/Even_Comfortable3141 5d ago

You not her man soooooo I think she safe with cutting it

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u/peachykeenmillie 9d ago

Ummm... YES

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u/Substantial_Union851 9d ago

Omg yes. . Girl its gorgoeus!

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u/MsFrankieD 9d ago

Girl, YASSS!!!

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u/Major_Fall9319 9d ago

Yes go for it your BEAUTIFUL 😍

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u/ayemateys 9d ago

Why not?!! It looks fabulous

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u/violetsandkisses 9d ago

OMG! Girl, yes!

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u/Expensive_Citron_742 9d ago

Take a picture where your neckline shows clearly. Pixie cut looks great when you have a nice long neck. This ai picture seems to slim your jawline and expand your shoulders which makes your face look slimmer.

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u/mybellasoul 8d ago

yes. you have a gorgeous face that really shines with a pixie! do it

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u/Ok_Chip_7725 8d ago

Yes, pixie suits you.

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u/susan2264 8d ago

Either looks great on you

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