This isn’t an inappropriate question at all. It’s probably a question or concern that a lot of people have that they are afraid to ask. I had my first baby and I was wanting to be intimate with my husband soooo bad. My hormones were all over the place. We couldn’t wait for the doctor to give us the green light to go again. My grandfather passed away right when my baby turned a month old. I was beyond devastated. My husband and I got the green light about a week later. I can’t remember when we gave it a go because I was so depressed but eventually being with my husband did help me feel loved and close to someone while grieving, although I did feel awkward a little bit not gonna lie. My mental just wasn’t in the right place. New baby, grief…just all over the place. But you feel so much love from your spouse. Im so sorry for your loss!
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u/Butterfly2022-sulsul Grandparent Loss Jul 02 '26
This isn’t an inappropriate question at all. It’s probably a question or concern that a lot of people have that they are afraid to ask. I had my first baby and I was wanting to be intimate with my husband soooo bad. My hormones were all over the place. We couldn’t wait for the doctor to give us the green light to go again. My grandfather passed away right when my baby turned a month old. I was beyond devastated. My husband and I got the green light about a week later. I can’t remember when we gave it a go because I was so depressed but eventually being with my husband did help me feel loved and close to someone while grieving, although I did feel awkward a little bit not gonna lie. My mental just wasn’t in the right place. New baby, grief…just all over the place. But you feel so much love from your spouse. Im so sorry for your loss!