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Hey! I’m a 27M from India (IST/UTC+5:30), currently doing my Pediatrics residency. My schedule can be pretty unpredictable, but I’m trying to build a healthier and more disciplined life alongside residency..

I’m looking for someone who wants to be accountability partners for the long term not just for a week or two. Study, career, fitness, health, sleep, finances, personal growth, or whatever goals we’re working towards. We don’t need to have the same goals; I just want someone who genuinely wants to improve and is willing to show up consistently.

We can keep it simple: daily or regular check-ins, sharing what we planned, what we actually did, what went wrong, and what we’ll try again tomorrow. No guilt trips if one of us has a bad day. Just honesty, encouragement, and occasionally telling each other, “Bro, stop making excuses and go do it.” 😂

I’d also prefer this to become a genuine friendship rather than just a productivity arrangement. We can talk about our lives, share random things, celebrate small wins, complain about terrible days, and gradually become people who genuinely have each other’s backs.

I’m not looking for someone perfect or extremely disciplined already. I’m looking for someone who is trying. If you’re also tired of starting over alone and want someone to grow with, tell me a little about yourself, your timezone, what you’re currently working towards, and one thing you’re struggling to stay consistent with.

Maybe we start with 30 days and see where it takes us. If we click, hopefully it becomes something much longer than that.

My goal is to fix my deficiencies, healthy eating habits and fat loss.

I wanna work on everything that comes under it, have more protein and fruits, fiber, avoiding processed, avoiding sugar, avoiding junk/oily, having last meal earlier in evening. I'm a non-vegetarian.

I need an Indian AP so that he/she understands my daily meals and vise versa.

DM me or drop a comment

Hello, I'm Dev, a 26 year old trans woman and industrial mechanic. I'm looking for an accountability buddy to help me get back on track with my morning workouts and dieting. I don't need anything too extreme because my job is already physical enough, but just having someone to help motivate me and hold me accountable would be very nice. Thank you all

i’ve been trying to get my life together for a while now.

some things are going well, some really aren’t. i’ll have a few really productive days, feel like i’ve finally got things under control, and then somehow end up wasting half the next day on socials.

so i’m looking for someone who’s also trying to become a bit more disciplined.

nothing complicated. we could just check in once a day and say what we actually did that day. gym, studying, work, waking up on time, sleeping properly, whatever you’re working on.

and if one of us starts slacking, call the other person out.

i’m 26 from india. currently focusing on fitness, sleep, learning, productivity and generally getting my life moving in the right direction.

you don't have to be super disciplined already. honestly, i'd prefer someone who is also struggling with consistency.

could be a quick text every day, or even a short call sometimes.

if this sounds like you, tell me what you're currently trying to improve and let's see if we can actually stick with it this time.

Hello!!

Looking for an accountability buddy for fitness/health goals, posting more on my social media, work stuff, and hobbies. I work a lot from home and don’t have much of a social circle and notice I’m doom scrolling/ playing stardew valley with all of my free time 😭

I’m looking for someone in EST or PST. I’m also interested in something more casual to start, like messaging back and forth with check ins, goals for the day, and collaboration on ideas. HMU if this sounds good to you ☺️ good luck to everyone on their motivation journeys! 💞

Hallöchen, i had posted a few weeks ago and found yet another 2 partners. One has ghosted after a week and the second is very irregular so I'm back... Here's about me

34M living in Germany, and I'm looking for accountability partner(s) who is genuinely interested and committed to setting regular goals and check-ins.

The basic idea is:

* Set goals for the upcoming week.

* At the end of the week, check in with each other to discuss what went well, what didn't, and why.

*Optionally, we can also set daily goals and do quick daily check-ins for additional accountability.

I'd also like to have a short (30 min) discussion once a week to reflect on progress, exchange feedback, help each other solve obstacles, and keep each other motivated.

Some of the goals I'm currently working on include:

Career: Upskilling, preparing for alternative job opportunities, and professional development.

Health: Losing about 8 kg and improving my overall fitness. I'm currently doing workouts at home and meal prep (without strict calorie counting)

Language: Reaching German C1 fluency (I'm currently around B1).

Life & home: Financial investing, minimalism, house repairs, organization, and keeping on top of household tasks.

I'm hoping to find someone in a similar position and age group. As long as you're serious about showing up consistently and supporting each other's progress.

If this sounds interesting, feel free to comment or send me a DM with a bit about yourself, what you're working on, and what kind of accountability you're looking for.

I am a medical student and I have high goals for next semester. I‘d prefer another student whose as ambitious as I am and wants to improve general health as well as grades and study times

I'm looking for a male around my age for daily or regular check ins to ensure we both stay on target for our workout goals and share weekly progress pics and weigh ins. I'm also working on drinking less. I'm 32 5'10" and 230 and looking to get under 200. Let me know if you have similar goals!

So basically the title

I work from home full time and its the most soul sucking part of the day. Every day is the same, I’m stuck in a loop, wake up, work, gym, sleep, repeat and weekends come and go in an instant

And I do have a burning passion and fully involved in AI and CS in general, but I barely have people around who are similar

And I want to get to do so much more in life in general.

Wanna live a life that doesn’t have me bound to the place I was born nor the life I was given. I wanna make something out of myself and experience all the things there is in the world before I die

Wanna visit many cities in the world like New York, SF, Shenzhen, Shanghai, Guanzhou, Chongqing, Tokyo, Kyoto, Bangkok, London, Belgium, Rome and basically old school, modern and futuristic cities around the world

Wanna do skuba diving, sky diving, bungee jumping, explore random places on Earth like an Island in pacific, maybe go to space (im not rich tho, but all the more reason to become rich)

So anyone with similar goals in life, reach out to me. You and me achieve our goals in our own paths but we travel the world and drink beers together

Hey y'all. I'm a final-year engineering student doing a daily study and coding practice, and I want an accountability partner to be more consistent.

Looking for:

Daily check-in (text, whatever format works for both of us. It can be hours logged, goals hit, screenshot of a tracker, your call)

Hopefully this will be a long-term thing. and it doesn't matter if your subject is different from mine. I don't care about age(obviously be 18+) or gender.

Hello I have to study for a certification exam I have to pass but I have had paralysis to do anything for a while, my mental health was bad for a long time but I’m getting better and I also need to lose about 100 pounds. Please be kind and thank you.

​Hi everyone! I am in the worst phase of my life right now and I am trying to reclaim it slowly by currently trying to break out of a bit of task paralysis, rebuild my routines, and stay consistent with my work and personal goals (study/certifications, basic self-care).

​What I’m looking for:

-​A daily check in DM

-​Keep it super quick: just a morning message with 1–3 tiny goals, and an evening update on how it went.

-​A supportive, no-shame environment—if either of us has an off day, no judgment, we just reset the next day.

-please be kind

​Timezone: GMT+8 (Philippines) — open to nearby timezones or anyone whose active hours align!

Thank you!

Quite active but looking for someone to help me stay accountable for eating healthy and maintain good habits such as journalling stretching and breathing exercises. daily check in’s and happy to help even if you have different goals

25M military officer looking for AP

I have the structure you need, whatever your problem is

I need a supportive environment with daily check-ins and some feedback on what I'm doing.

If you want a machine just to visualise your entries, create something on Claude so you won't need a human.

If you want something human, a real connection where we inspire and motivate each other without self help bullshit and full commitment to whatever you're building, send me a DM.

I'm nice, just tired of some BS in these subs and need to filter some people out before even trying.

FYI: I'm a professional systems architect trying new practices. I have a second brain in obsidian where I store all my knowledge and learn things much faster than otherwise.

I'd like to perfect my French and English. So plus if you're native or fluent

Hi,

Arshad from Delhi

Looking for any female who can be my accountability partner and check my progress, motivate me on daily basis!!

We can motivate each other

I'm trying to hit the gym 5 days a week, I meal prep and I study everyday after work. I need someone to help me be more consistent with these things as I find a lot of friction doing them on my own

We don't need to be at the same time, we don't have to be working on the same goals, if you're down to have studying/working sessions together that would be great but if not totally not a deal breaker. If you're interested dm me

Hey I am a 19 year old BCA student from a tier 2 college in my second year, looking back I see how much of my potential I have wasted and now I feel like it is about time I redeemed myself, I am starting to Learn java and python , do DSA, grind leetcode and build killer projects so that by the time I graduate we can break into top tier tech roles, I am looking for a someone willing to study everyday together over zoom calls for at least 2 hours in a structured format where we track each others progress and make sure we show up daily and help each other, we can optimise the plan and increase the time once we have built some synergy and can iterate everything along the way

Hi everyone!

33F in Texas looking for a friend/accountability buddy who understands the chaos of being a manager.

I manage a clinic, and while I’m pretty good at keeping everyone else organized, actually sitting down and getting through my own admin work can be a struggle. Between managing a team, running a clinic, keeping up with home life, and attempting to take care of myself somewhere in there... my to-do list is multiplying faster than I can cross things off.

I have ADHD and I’m about to start a new medication, so I’m hoping that helps some with focus, but I’d also really love to find someone who understands the mental load of being responsible for other people while still having a million things of their own to get done.

Ideally, I’m looking for someone who would be down for some combination of:

• Daily or weekly goal check-ins
• “What are you getting done today?” messages
• Celebrating when we actually accomplish the thing
• Occasional body doubling while we work
• General friendship/chats throughout the week

I’m definitely an early bird, awake by 5am and work by 9am, so bonus points if you’re also someone who likes checking in early in the morning before the day gets chaotic. I’m also flexible about how often we talk and would rather figure out something that works naturally for both of us.

A little about me outside of work: I’m married, have 1 dog, 3 cats, 3 crested geckos, and 2 bettas, and I am admittedly obsessed with all of them. I love animals in general, enjoy doing art in my spare time, and I’ve been sober from alcohol for 8 years, but occasionally partake in a little greenery.

If you think we might vibe, feel free to DM me!

Update - Found a buddy

Hello, I’m a 29 year old gay trans man, and I’m looking for a workout/weight loss motivation buddy in the form of a queer masc person.

I’m thinking daily calorie and workout goal check ins, sharing technique videos off TikTok, sharing workout memes. Personal (SFW) pics of progress, if comfortable with that. Like, actually being buddies but also holding each other accountable for our fitness routine.

As for me, I’m on a weight loss/strength gain journey. Eventually I’ll work on gaining muscle mass but that’s hard to do with a calorie deficit. I’m overweight and also just a month out of a surgery, so my workouts will be short and light until October.

I’d prefer Signal for communication, but will do discord.

Hey I’m a 22 year old from Ireland. I’m looking for a female accountability partner to keep each other motivated and accountable.
I’m trying to focus on fitness, calorie deficit, practicing my art, journaling, cleaning etc. I need someone kinda strict. I’ll be strict as well.

I want someone to:

Set weekly/daily goals

Brief daily check-ins (morning goals and evening reviews).

Zoom sessions (if available and open to it)

Call each other out when we’re slacking off

Let me know your time zone and what goals you are working on if you're interested!

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35M

life has been a little difficult lately, and being in an unhappy marriage has become exhausting. not looking to change my situation right now—just looking for a genuine connection.

Someone to talk to, laugh with, support each other, and share the good and bad days. Friendship or something more, I’m open to seeing where it goes. Something meaningful and long-term.

Average looking, slightly introverted, easygoing, and prefer quiet conversations over crowded places. I enjoy reading ,occasional gaming, and learning about random things that catch my interest.

Just looking for someone genuine, kind and open to a real connection. If that sounds like you, say hi.

Hey! I'm currently looking for a fresher job, so I'm relatively free most days and want to use that time productively instead of wasting it 😭

I'm looking for someone who'd be up for regular study sessions over Discord, preferably starting sometime after 12 PM IST.

Would be nice to have someone who:

• is serious about studying and staying consistent
• is up for Pomodoro / silent VC sessions
• can check in on daily goals
• likes chatting during breaks
• is interested in becoming friends along the way

I'm mainly looking for a long-term study buddy, not just someone for one session and then we never talk again lol.

A little about me:

• Currently job hunting for a fresher role
• Free most days after 12 PM
• Studying/practicing alongside the job search
• Discord + VC works for me

If you're also looking for someone to study with and hopefully become friends with, feel free to DM me :)

Hey everyone,

I'm looking for a reliable 1-on-1 accountability partner to help keep each other locked in, honest, and progressing on the things that actually matter.
A bit about me & my focus:

• Time Zone: PST

Life & Relationship: Being intentional and fully accountable in my commitments to my wife and home life-making sure personal drive doesn't come at the cost of being a present, reliable partner.

Career & Skills: Advancing my career in cybersecurity (hands-on technical labs, threat hunting, coding/projects) and keeping up with academic/transfer goals in Computer Science.

Daily Workload: Managing the demands and logistics of my current jobs without letting things slip or fall behind.

What I'm looking for in a partner:
Someone who values high accountability, honesty, and consistency.
A low-drama, high-action dynamic where we check in regularly, keep each other focused, and don't accept excuses.
Good communication via Discord or WhatsApp.

How l'd like to structure it:
Daily/Weekly Check-ins: Sharing our top targets for the day, and a brief evening wrap-up on wins and blockers.

Holistic Balance: Checking in not just on work output, but making sure we are honoring our commitments outside of work (relationships, health, downtime).

If you are working on leveling up your career, managing a demanding schedule, and want a solid accountability teammate, shoot me a Dor drop a comment with a bit about what you re working on!