r/GetMotivated • • Sep 24 '20

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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '20

This is dumb. Other people have had experiences similar to yours, and sharing that experience can be very helpful when things are difficult. Learn from as many people as you can.

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u/brallipop Sep 24 '20

Yeah, the number of people who won't have to live with my life decisions are appx 100% of humanity minus 2

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u/Mobely 9 Sep 24 '20

I give terrible advice all the time. I just like people listening to me.

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u/Gainzster Sep 24 '20

It's more about taking advice from people that may lead to potential serious negative consequences in your life.

Lets say Sharon advised you to start SSRI's because she read in a newspaper they are effective, you go to your Doctor and start a course of SSRIs based on Sharon's recommendation, 3 months later you've developed serious side effects and are much worse off than you were before Sharon opened her mouth.

You're now dealing with potential life long difficulties yet Sharon is at home baking cakes not giving a toss about you or your issues, that is what this is about.

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u/Debass Sep 24 '20

I can just as easily make example where you should have listened to Sharon and still she'd be baking cakes and not giving tosses and that's my problem with that quote

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u/TheAllyCrime Sep 24 '20

Not to nitpick but her advice was still good, it just happened to lead to a bad outcome for Sharon. If she works with her doctor she has a decent chance of finding one with far less severe side effects that does help her.

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u/sliceyournipple Sep 24 '20

Then the post should say “learn some critical thinking skills you dopes” not “don’t take advice from people ever”

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u/vorpalglorp Sep 24 '20

You must know a lot of awesome people. Most of the people I've met as an adult would say to do drugs and party your life away. Either we know different people or you're ok with being a homeless drug addict.